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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance!" Everyone has the right to run their profile the way they want to. | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance!" How do you know they’re pretending ? Or that they have low confidence ? Why should they forget and not learn from those ‘silly experiences’ ? Surely by doing the same thing constantly, means you’ll just repeat those silly experiences ? Is it they don’t find you attractive so you think they’re ‘stuck up’ ? You created a thread moaning about people on the site, maybe you’re the one who should ‘lighten up’  | |||
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"It seems you’ve been triggered by this post for some reason but hey, peace & love to you. "If you click reply+quote under the post you're responding to we'll know who you're talking to | |||
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"It seems you’ve been triggered by this post for some reason but hey, peace & love to you.
If you click reply+quote under the post you're responding to we'll know who you're talking to "“Interesting perspective” was for you hun and thank you for enlightening me | |||
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"I appreciate your response and nice tits btw "Do you ever wonder why after three weeks on the scene you're the victim of "stuck up attitudes" OP? | |||
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"I'm average looking and yes I'm carrying extra weight but I still have the same standards on here as I do in my life outside of fab. I've no intention of meeting anyone that I'm not attracted to just because it's a swing site. My confidence is the same on here as in my life away from fab and I don't fall for the blowing smoke up my ass messages I sometimes get on here. If do find those who give out about others standards,and how it's a swing site so they think everyone should just shag everyone else are usually the ones who go from telling you that you're gorgeous to you're a fat ugly pig when they get told no. It makes me laugh as maybe if they concentrate on their own standards and attitude they might have more luck on here. " I appreciate your response and nice tits btw | |||
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"I appreciate your response and nice tits btw
Do you ever wonder why after three weeks on the scene you're the victim of "stuck up attitudes" OP? "I’m never a victim sir; thanks very much. And I haven’t had this experience myself actually. I have zero issues | |||
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"I appreciate your response and nice tits btw
Do you ever wonder why after three weeks on the scene you're the victim of "stuck up attitudes" OP?
I’m never a victim sir; thanks very much.
And I haven’t had this experience myself actually. I have zero issues "So why start the thread OP if you haven’t had the problem? | |||
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"Meh. I want a quiet life and ignoring idiots gets me that. You can all have a good time elsewhere. " Yeh, they need their own club to hang out in really. I mean, I'm tolerant of idiots and respect their lifestyle choice but I don't think they should be allowed to force it onto others...  | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance!" Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'..... 
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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"Don't let how other run their profile bother you OP "Positive response
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"I appreciate your response and nice tits btw
Do you ever wonder why after three weeks on the scene you're the victim of "stuck up attitudes" OP?
I’m never a victim sir; thanks very much.
And I haven’t had this experience myself actually. I have zero issues
So why start the thread OP if you haven’t had the problem? "To draw out the people that fit he description. Seems to be working marvelously | |||
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"Mostly couples up there own arse I've found" Round of applause for this response | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Don't appreciate bullsh*t one liners maybe? "Wrong assumption in this case. That may be your truth though | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Don't appreciate bullsh*t one liners maybe?
Wrong assumption in this case. That may be your truth though"I'm just putting it out there. Personally I tend to find 98% of the people on here good humoured but hey | |||
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"‘Stuck up’ is an opinion and subjective. I’m clear about what I want on my profile (or try to be). Would rather wait for the right people to come along than change my requirements. Fab is a tool to connect with who I’m looking for, not a desperate attempt to find willing guys." You’re failing to understand but that’s good for you | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Pretenders and time wasters that use other people to build their confidence online"How do you define a 'pretender' or a 'timewaster'? Someone who doesn't reply, or want to meet you? Or something else...... A | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Pretenders and time wasters that use other people to build their confidence online"Why is someone trying to build their confidence a problem for you? | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Pretenders and time wasters that use other people to build their confidence online
Why is someone trying to build their confidence a problem for you?"Seems you have selective reading. Read what I said again and highlight the keywords so it makes more sense to you. It’s obvious that the shoe fits your feet and that’s unfortunate | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Pretenders and time wasters that use other people to build their confidence online
How do you define a 'pretender' or a 'timewaster'?
Someone who doesn't reply, or want to meet you? Or something else......
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Pretenders and time wasters that use other people to build their confidence online
How do you define a 'pretender' or a 'timewaster'?
Someone who doesn't reply, or want to meet you? Or something else......
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Pretenders and time wasters that use other people to build their confidence online
Why is someone trying to build their confidence a problem for you?
Seems you have selective reading.
Read what I said again and highlight the keywords so it makes more sense to you.
It’s obvious that the shoe fits your feet and that’s unfortunate "Ooh, touchy. Verification summary: verified by 126 people 32 fem. 75 men. 13 cpl. 3 tv/ts. 3 ff. By 175 meet. 2 cam. *Shrug* | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Pretenders and time wasters that use other people to build their confidence online
Why is someone trying to build their confidence a problem for you?
Seems you have selective reading.
Read what I said again and highlight the keywords so it makes more sense to you.
It’s obvious that the shoe fits your feet and that’s unfortunate
Ooh, touchy.
Verification summary: verified by 126 people
32 fem. 75 men. 13 cpl. 3 tv/ts. 3 ff. By 175 meet. 2 cam.
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Pretenders and time wasters that use other people to build their confidence online
How do you define a 'pretender' or a 'timewaster'?
Someone who doesn't reply, or want to meet you? Or something else......
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C A T F I S H "Is that a confession? I did suspect........... A | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Pretenders and time wasters that use other people to build their confidence online
Why is someone trying to build their confidence a problem for you?
Seems you have selective reading.
Read what I said again and highlight the keywords so it makes more sense to you.
It’s obvious that the shoe fits your feet and that’s unfortunate
Ooh, touchy.
Verification summary: verified by 126 people
32 fem. 75 men. 13 cpl. 3 tv/ts. 3 ff. By 175 meet. 2 cam.
*Shrug*
You're such a wallflower... "Yeah, I definitely never ever meet  | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Pretenders and time wasters that use other people to build their confidence online
How do you define a 'pretender' or a 'timewaster'?
Someone who doesn't reply, or want to meet you? Or something else......
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C A T F I S H
Is that a confession?
I did suspect...........
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance!" I don't tend to find people are unnecessarily defensive on here. Plenty of people aren't interested in me, but that's not the same thing... | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! Ok. I'll bite. Define 'stuck up' and 'unnecessarily defensive'.....
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Pretenders and time wasters that use other people to build their confidence online
Why is someone trying to build their confidence a problem for you?
Seems you have selective reading.
Read what I said again and highlight the keywords so it makes more sense to you.
It’s obvious that the shoe fits your feet and that’s unfortunate
Ooh, touchy.
Verification summary: verified by 126 people
32 fem. 75 men. 13 cpl. 3 tv/ts. 3 ff. By 175 meet. 2 cam.
*Shrug*
You're such a wallflower...
Yeah, I definitely never ever meet "I can see that you're overwhelmed by a lack of self confidence | |||
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"Mostly couples up there own arse I've found Round of applause for this response "Hello OP. You say earlier in the thread that you’ve not had any of the problems your post describes. If so, why would this reply get a round of applause? Mr TMN | |||
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"Mostly couples up there own arse I've found Round of applause for this response
Hello OP. You say earlier in the thread that you’ve not had any of the problems your post describes. If so, why would this reply get a round of applause?
Mr TMN "I think the op is a bit confused rather stuck up and arrogant himself. | |||
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"all we can hear is clicks its deafening ....block block block is all these type's of post are good for we find" Ah, but then you’ll be accused of being a time waster and fake | |||
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"all we can hear is clicks its deafening ....block block block is all these type's of post are good for we find" | |||
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"all we can hear is clicks its deafening ....block block block is all these type's of post are good for we find" | |||
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"all we can hear is clicks its deafening ....block block block is all these type's of post are good for we find" Like Rambo with a machine gun! | |||
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"all we can hear is clicks its deafening ....block block block is all these type's of post are good for we find" Absolutely | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance!" There seems to be only one common denominator here, if you keep getting knocked back maybe I know I’m going out on a limb. It’s you??????? | |||
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"All of us on here have a shared interest. When you break it down we basically have a more open view on sex. But that's the common denominator only. From there we have our personal objectives regarding what we would like to achieve. Now, the common denominator is something we can all discuss in chat rooms like this or in pm's. The fact we do discuss our chosen lifestyle does not mean that we will take things further. Everyone,even the most submissive has a choice. Even after having fun we still have the choice about how that relationship progresses. It might, and I suspect many do, remain a single encounter. If you spoke to someone in a bar znd you had a shared interest it doesn't entitle you to be their best friend. People make choices, I know it's frustrating if you've invested time. But hey that's life. If I counted how my drinks I'd bought well..... Enjoy our common interests and just get on with it. People can't help who they are attracted to, can they" Your response is appreciated | |||
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"How about you just respect people's boundaries?" Yes ma’am | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! There seems to be only one common denominator here, if you keep getting knocked back maybe I know I’m going out on a limb. It’s you??????? "LOL no this is not the experience I’m having personally. My profile is only frowned upon because of how young my account is which can be annoying of course but I have no issues outside of that | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! There seems to be only one common denominator here, if you keep getting knocked back maybe I know I’m going out on a limb. It’s you???????
LOL no this is not the experience I’m having personally. My profile is only frowned upon because of how young my account is which can be annoying of course but I have no issues outside of that"Can't be doing too bad, on for three weeks and got a veri in your first week, many single men would die for that | |||
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"Why do so many people on here pretend to have the highest of standards and act so stuck up when in reality they have zero confidence in themselves? I understand people have had silly experiences which makes them unnecessarily defensive online but he culture on here needs to lighten up. We’re all here for some fun so be nice and give people a chance! There seems to be only one common denominator here, if you keep getting knocked back maybe I know I’m going out on a limb. It’s you???????
LOL no this is not the experience I’m having personally. My profile is only frowned upon because of how young my account is which can be annoying of course but I have no issues outside of that
Can't be doing too bad, on for three weeks and got a veri in your first week, many single men would die for that "You are right and thanks for being one of the few positive people on this thread | |||
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