FabSwingers.com forum: What got you started

By *lthomas OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I’m always just interested to see how people got into this side of things, especially couples, who was it that brought it up or did you fall into it by accident?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband offered to me after we were married for 10 years that if I wanted to have sex with another man then I could. Then it was spoken about during sex as a naughty turn on. We had only been with each other until then. I thought about it but that was all. Then one day a guy caught my eye on the underground coming home and he chatted me up. I ended up down the pub for a drink and then back to his flat and he seduced me into his bed. That is how it started.

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By *lthomas OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"My husband offered to me after we were married for 10 years that if I wanted to have sex with another man then I could. Then it was spoken about during sex as a naughty turn on. We had only been with each other until then. I thought about it but that was all. Then one day a guy caught my eye on the underground coming home and he chatted me up. I ended up down the pub for a drink and then back to his flat and he seduced me into his bed. That is how it started."
that’s a very different way to start but a great one. Never knew London Underground could be that interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nor me! Imagine my surprise!

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By *lthomas OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

And lovely pictures you have. Very nice bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks, I grew it myself x

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By *lthomas OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Then congrats, not everyone can grow on that peachy - and no, I don’t mean soft & hairy, but hey. I’m Going off topic here

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By *lthomas OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Fancy a chat about how you got started into swinging.

Always interested in hearing about it

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

A d*unken conversation that I told Luke that I want him to watch me fucking another man. We talked about it the next day and here we are x

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By *ady GoodwitchWoman
over a year ago

Witch from nowhere, but every where

I hadn't had sex with my hubby for 12 years woke up one morning and thought my sex life has been wasted, chatted to a friend about it, and was recommended to join, lol didn't know what it was before that hahaha I do now ??

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By *ady GoodwitchWoman
over a year ago

Witch from nowhere, but every where

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By *ady GoodwitchWoman
over a year ago

Witch from nowhere, but every where

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By *lthomas OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"A d*unken conversation that I told Luke that I want him to watch me fucking another man. We talked about it the next day and here we are x"
I think it’s brave when you just come out with it. You must have had an idea he’d go for it

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By *aunchycouple2410Couple
over a year ago

wakefield

Had a threesome with a friend (MFF) and really enjoyed it was a bit gutted when she got a new relationship. So we thought fuck it let’s have a look for a unicorn and then decided why not have a 4some with another couple and here we are

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By *lthomas OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I hadn't had sex with my hubby for 12 years woke up one morning and thought my sex life has been wasted, chatted to a friend about it, and was recommended to join, lol didn't know what it was before that hahaha I do now ?? oh and left the hubby and single, and so horny "
i I speak to several people who actually started that way, due to a sexless marriage and a partner that had no interest in sex, which transpired to them feeling they had no interest in them. It’s good to know that you’ve embraced it & really enjoying it.

Drop me a line if you fancy a casual chat

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I wrote an account here:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1067833

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine started with hosting / attending sex parties as part of a group of friends. We’d have the parties in each other’s house and mix things up together. When I met my ex I told her about the parties and she said it turned her on a little and asked if she could attend. We were then together for ten years and experimented a lot

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By *lthomas OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Mine started with hosting / attending sex parties as part of a group of friends. We’d have the parties in each other’s house and mix things up together. When I met my ex I told her about the parties and she said it turned her on a little and asked if she could attend. We were then together for ten years and experimented a lot "
It’s so much fun when you’ve got a partner who’s open about how much it turns them on as well, and why they want to experience new things, are you both to be part of that journey

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By *ooking4specificMan
over a year ago

Various

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By *ooking4specificMan
over a year ago

Various

I was seduced by a married lady when I was 17 then a few years later by the couple to join them in a relationship. Then years later craved that same feeling

still looking

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"A d*unken conversation that I told Luke that I want him to watch me fucking another man. We talked about it the next day and here we are xI think it’s brave when you just come out with it. You must have had an idea he’d go for it"

Luke likes me to dress sexy, especially on holidays. He loves when I go topless or naked on the beach. We used to joke about the subject of swinging.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met in a club both wanted a horny eve, 13 years later married and swinging stong

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

"A d*unken conversation that I told Luke that I want him to watch me fucking another man. We talked about it the next day and here we are x"

Very similar here but he asked, not me.

I said I wasn't ready and ten years later...

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

A friend told me about this side and i said to myself sur why not It could be fun

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By *otwifeandcuck123Couple
over a year ago

northfields

D*unken chat where Joe said he had often thought of me with other men . Roll on two weeks and I'm looking him in the eyes as I suck my first bull . .

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

My (very sex-less) marriage of 17 years ended. That very night I realised that I had missed out on so much (not just sexual).

I thought that I don't want to be on my deathbed and hear a Dr. talking about what he'd done the night before and think, "What even is that?"

So, although at the time I had always thought of myself as straight, I slept with a guy that night. And that kinda opened the door to trying pretty much everything I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We talked about it then G sent me a message of her and a friend topless saying it's a shame your not home.

I rushed home and we enjoyed our first MFF and after that we decided this was the way forward x

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By *lthomas OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Some lovely stories here and all different. Really nice to see how many people disgusted before getting into it and making sure you’re both wanted the same thing.

Mine wasn’t like that, we drifted into it when I saw her doing something with another guy but found it horny rather than angry

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We have always enjoyed being naked on the beach, so about ten years ago we tried Cap d'Agde. It was an eye opener. In that week we had sex in public (on the beach), visited our first swinging club (Le Glamour), had my first girl on girl experience, and had a great time watching other couples and groups have sex. There was no turning back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the first time that me and my wife started playing was with our friends and we were all very much younger in our 20s and all very d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Late night surfing on the web got me onto the site lol

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

We have been together for 26 years, in the scene for about 10. I guess it started sharing fantasies then we pursued them to add some spice. Better than cheating on each other and it certainly had the desired effect.

Shaz x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One night while hubby working away, texting him in the evening and let slip that I thought about other men while masturbating. He said he also thought about me fucking other men while he played. Haven’t looked back

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By *lthomas OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

The fantasy chat, especially during sex is still a massive thing and a great way to be on each other’s level.

So nice to read all the different ways that people started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living in Ibiza for two years corrupted me

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By *uzySuzyCouple
over a year ago

Lytham St Annes

Massages (naturist) at home with the masseur turning me on in front of my husband the start of the horny journey x

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

surrey

My gf told me she thinks about watching me with another woman, but not gone beyond that since been with her

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Although if had some bi fun with a mate years ago it was a chance stop off for a piss at local old fashioned toilets. I stood at urinal and there were two blokes to the left of me. (Upstream if you know what I mean... The old China channel type urinals). Anyway out of the corner of my eye I saw some slow hand movements going on and took a peek. The two guys both had hard ons and were stroking their cocks. At that moment the guy nearest to me spunked into the channel and his cum floated passed me. The second guy then left the urinal and went into the middle cubicle behind us. I was intrigued so I went in the one next to him. I could see a peep hole about half inch diameter had been drilled into the wall. I looked through and watched this guy stroke his cock too, slowly pulling his foreskin back and forth until he suddenly turned to face the hole I was looking through.His cock was now less than 2" from my face and he shot his load over the wall and some came through the hole and into my face. Since that evening Ive sought out as many toilets and made cottaging and cruising a daily hobby of mine. I voyeur, I wank cocks I suck, I dress up. I video. I have the fun that I don't get any of at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheryl was going to a gay bar to find a girl to play with and I said I’d go to make sure she was safe from afar.

Then she noticed that Chams did a bi night so we went to there instead (a brave move) and never looked back

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

During sex my hubby told me he would love to see me fucking other men which turned me on even more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with partner many years ago we used to love having fucking outside especially on walsal market playing in normal pubs but with mobile phones ctv ect I don't want to have it all over social media, he said he had been to chams & wants me to be fucked by other men & have sex with others as a couple so decided to start on this wild ride still very new to this & a little shy but I'm sure I've plenty off fun finding me feet

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

I was really attracted to women but never had sex with them before so they search started from there and grew into clubs men couples etc we’ve never looked back 15 years later

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By *lthomas OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Thank you all for sharing. A few common themes and not sure if it's my voyeuristic side that loves to here about how you got started

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By *ccasionalFilthCouple
over a year ago

kent

Some great stories in here. Thanks for sharing!

We’re at the “fantasy talk in the bedroom” stage, but I really do want to see MrsC enjoy herself with another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introduced to it by my fwb who thought I should know exactly what she was into for full transparency

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

When i was 21 after uni, a lady at work much older than me, taught me everything i know, she took me swinging never looked back. We FWB for 12 years until she ended it. But thank you Mrs G....

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

An early gf suggested when d*unk one night and we were with a mate of mine the next day , loved it ! all other ex’s seemed to enjoy it but only occasionally , but by far , for having a bit of fun my partner now is amazing ! She’ll even suggest who she fancies !

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