FabSwingers.com forum: Are straight couples a minority on fab?

By *andR Staffs cpl OP Couple
over a year ago

here and there

Asking the above question as being a straight couple seems to count against us meeting couples on here. Yes before it is pointed out we have had successfull meets with another couple but when we have approached some on here, the fact neither of us is bi or curious seems to be a deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a bi fem in a couple but happy to play straight with a same room swap.

Just because someone is bi, it doesnt mean it will be bi play - everything we do in a bedroom is consensual and I certainly dont want to play with someone if they arent into it.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"Im a bi fem in a couple but happy to play straight with a same room swap.

Just because someone is bi, it doesnt mean it will be bi play - everything we do in a bedroom is consensual and I certainly dont want to play with someone if they arent into it."

I agree, scouse is bi but happy to play straight.

But you almost never see couples where both are straight.

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By *andR Staffs cpl OP Couple
over a year ago

here and there

"Im a bi fem in a couple but happy to play straight with a same room swap.

Just because someone is bi, it doesnt mean it will be bi play - everything we do in a bedroom is consensual and I certainly dont want to play with someone if they arent into it.

I agree, scouse is bi but happy to play straight.

But you almost never see couples where both are straight. "

Hence why the question has been asked, are straight couples a minority on here or maybe just us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a bi fem in a couple but happy to play straight with a same room swap.

Just because someone is bi, it doesnt mean it will be bi play - everything we do in a bedroom is consensual and I certainly dont want to play with someone if they arent into it.

I agree, scouse is bi but happy to play straight.

But you almost never see couples where both are straight.

Hence why the question has been asked, are straight couples a minority on here or maybe just us

I think there are many straight couples on here we have never found a problem in finding them. Just go into the search menu and alter the settings

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We're a straight couple. We might suffer from confirmation bias but it does seem that every couples profile we click on the woman at least is bi or curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Asking the above question as being a straight couple seems to count against us meeting couples on here. Yes before it is pointed out we have had successfull meets with another couple but when we have approached some on here, the fact neither of us is bi or curious seems to be a deal breaker."

So true. Hard to find straight couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answer to the question is yes.

I used to be part of a couples profile and both of us were straight and although we did interact with and even sometimes meet lots of other straight couples they were vastly outnumbered whenever we searched.

Most couples on here are straight male & bi female so would to choose to pass us by - as is their absolute prerogative of course.

We found this statistic to be proven especially in clubs where on the Couples Only nights we'd often, more often than that always, be the only 'both straight' couple.

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By *ish you were here!Couple
over a year ago

Kidderminster ...ish

We're both straight and find it difficult to find others, especially as we're in the older age ranges also..

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By *ipi2001Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We are both straight and we can confirm that is not easy.

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We're even more niche as we don't swap.

Voyerism and exhibitionism is our thing.

NB:Nice to see pictures of you both on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It appears there is an assumption that females will be bi, but as Mrs EK isn't we find there are limited amounts of couples who are looking for the same as us. Both straight looking for the same. It's especially hard to find a profile where the man is represented enough to interest her, as thay are mostly set up with 99% female pics.

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re straight but don’t meet couples so no idea how many other straight couples there are.

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By *ire StraightsCouple
9 weeks ago

Dublin

"Im a bi fem in a couple but happy to play straight with a same room swap.

Just because someone is bi, it doesnt mean it will be bi play - everything we do in a bedroom is consensual and I certainly dont want to play with someone if they arent into it.

I agree, scouse is bi but happy to play straight.

But you almost never see couples where both are straight.

Hence why the question has been asked, are straight couples a minority on here or maybe just us

I think there are many straight couples on here we have never found a problem in finding them. Just go into the search menu and alter the settings

If only !! You can't search for straight couples on Fab 🙄

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and straight, it definitely feels like many couples have a bi fem or they're searching for unicorns.

It makes it even harder find meets as a couple.

I've seen threads saying no straighties and ones where bi couples state they won't meet straight couples as it's boring.

My partner can be orally bi, but generally that's if he meets a couple alone, with my full encouragement.

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By *eronikapaulCouple
9 weeks ago

Reading

It is indeed strange that it is impossible to search for straight couples. There are a few of us around though.🤗

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I have a couples profile and although I'm bi, in a couple meet I'd rather play straight, strangely enough I'm not attracted to every woman & I'm not into putting on a show for the guys.

It's just my preference but I can't say it's ever been an issue.

The chances of me finding both attractive enough to fuck is slim to none.

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By *tormchasingCouple
9 weeks ago

Essex

If you find a couple attractive but one (or both) are bi, it's still worth reaching out to them.

Regardless of sexuality, all our meets involve some sort of discussion about boundaries. If your preference is to play straight, that's fine with us (and indeed most meets are just straight play) and you'll find most other people are the same.

Contrary to popular belief on here, bi people aren't horny monsters who can't control their urges 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Yeah it’s very difficult to find a straight couple from what we’ve seen a lot of couples are looking for female play

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By *icecouple561Couple
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9 weeks ago

East Sussex

"If you find a couple attractive but one (or both) are bi, it's still worth reaching out to them.

Contrary to popular belief on here, bi people aren't horny monsters who can't control their urges 🤣 "

I know that bi people in general aren't monsters but we stopped meeting couples with bi women because of their attitude towards me as a straight woman. After a few meets with different couples where the woman got quite aggressive or insistent with me we just found it easier not to meet them.

This is no reflection on you but our experiences tell us that not everyone is as respectful of boundaries as you are even though you laugh at the idea.

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"If you find a couple attractive but one (or both) are bi, it's still worth reaching out to them.

Contrary to popular belief on here, bi people aren't horny monsters who can't control their urges 🤣 "

We know they can or most can, but you do get men and women who overstep boundaries.

On our couple profile we've been told the woman can turn me bi, not gonna happen. Also we've spoken to couples who initially said straight swap is fine, then kept asking things like well you'll still kiss my Mrs or touch her etc.

That puts me off big time and we just stop the chat.

Sometimes it's just easier to choose couples who want the same as you do.

Not everyone, men and women can respect others boundaries unfortunately & I've also seen on many couple profiles that they actively seem ff play. So there would be no point contacting them, as we wouldn't be after the same things.

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