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Club play vs private meets

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .

Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club

Who else does this

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We definitely prefer going to our local club. We love the social aspect. We love meeting and chatting with other people who share the lifestyle x

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire


"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .

Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club

Who else does this "

Yes very much agree

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .

Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club

Who else does this "

We're the same, we love the whole club experience.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .

Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club

Who else does this "
me completely. I don't arrange meets x

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

There's no pre planning at clubs which for me is better than expectations and or pressure for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us we feel like it's incredibly hard work and almost impossible to network on here we don't receive much mail at all or get much in the way of responses even to meets yet find people more often welcoming, warm and friendly in clubs its almost completely the opposite to online for the last few years?

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"For us we feel like it's incredibly hard work and almost impossible to network on here we don't receive much mail at all or get much in the way of responses even to meets yet find people more often welcoming, warm and friendly in clubs its almost completely the opposite to online for the last few years? "

Hit nail on head. Welcoming and friendly usually at clubs

Definitely I can vouch is better for those who enjoy the club scene.

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"For us we feel like it's incredibly hard work and almost impossible to network on here we don't receive much mail at all or get much in the way of responses even to meets yet find people more often welcoming, warm and friendly in clubs its almost completely the opposite to online for the last few years? "

Just seen where your location is. Lovely part of the country

Axminster Is a lovely little town

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .

Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club

Who else does this "

We do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a private meet you never know what mood your going to be in on the day. Plus all the hassles of arrangement. Where as at a club you can be as naughty as you like or just have a social no pressure

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .

Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club

Who else does this "

This is us exactly. Clubs also help keep our vanilla and swinging lives separate, avoids the problems of no-shows, facilitates moresomes, enables me to have anonymous sex with guys, and is safer. We have also developed (swinging) friendships with some of the people we have met in clubs.

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Totally agree. Ive planned a meet once . That was once too many for me

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Definitely clubs for us, to be able to mingle in person with other swingers rather than message online.

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By *irtygirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Manchester

We’re happy with both, obviously more pros to clubs

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I can’t say Club Play is the least friendly club I’ve visited, but it was certainly no more welcoming than others I’ve visited as a solo guy. I’ll stick with private meets thanks

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .

Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club

Who else does this

This is us exactly. Clubs also help keep our vanilla and swinging lives separate, avoids the problems of no-shows, facilitates moresomes, enables me to have anonymous sex with guys, and is safer. We have also developed (swinging) friendships with some of the people we have met in clubs."
We agree, clubs are so much easier than private meets

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We've never been to a club but it's on the list, I must admit I think this will be my preferred way to meet.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet at clubs other than a few select friends that we meet at ours or theirs. Much simpler and more options plus we use the club as our social life too

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By *inTonic2018Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We'd love to go to a club when we are back in the UK for a couple of weeks this summer. However, with a toddler a club visit from Cardiff is just not an option. We are therefore hoping to be able to arrange at least one meet. Any advice would be appreciated. We haven't been back to the UK since pre-covid.

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

My favourite arrangement is to meet near a club, have a drink, and then go to the club together. That, or a planned hello in the club itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends…love the night out aspect of a club but have anxiety so hate small talk This usually passes after a while when I’ve given my head a wobble!

Have had the best sex of my life in a hotel meet with two men

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Honestly, if there was a club nearby this is what I would do… but the nearest is over 2 hours away

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By *aunchycouple2410Couple
over a year ago

wakefield

We’ve done both, they both have pros and both have cons, in clubs it feels naughtier but enjoyed fucking in another persons house. M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love private meets but clubs are fun too. Greedy J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately we don't have any clubs in Aberdeen, but I found it easier when we were in Glasgow as opposed to meeting from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both totally different but both very enjoyable

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I personally find it so much more everything to mingle with people at clubs rather than arrange meets from here .

Once I've met someone at a club then there's a possible chance of arranging meets outside of a club

Who else does this

This is us exactly. Clubs also help keep our vanilla and swinging lives separate, avoids the problems of no-shows, facilitates moresomes, enables me to have anonymous sex with guys, and is safer. We have also developed (swinging) friendships with some of the people we have met in clubs."

Absolutely spot on! Sadly several of our fav Clubs closed down nearby, so we are going to have to travel further afield which is a bit more complex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started on here with private ones had good and bad choices this put me off after a bad experience, why club only and I enjoy this social and fun never promise just see how we connect no pressure both ways

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

The nice part of club is that it can be spontaneous.

Fully understand why couples go as the amount that tell me they got let down last minute by both single guys & couples.

It’s nice to do the social side and a bit of variety helps

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By *ifi-01Woman
over a year ago

north west

I always feel safer meeting at a club especially if meeting someone for the first time, never feel under pressure in a club and I know I will always have a good social evening if things do not go any further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely clubs, no yo yo messages that leads to nothing.

Turn up, be sociable and maybe you will click with others if not then you've had a nice night out chatting to like minded people.

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By *esbefabfriendsWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

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over a year ago

Leicestershire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets as option to take pics or film.

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