FabSwingers.com forum: Being called " a slut"

By *randmrssubdom OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Iv noticed that this term is used alot by guys I'm 58 and remember that this term was an insult.

Is it me just being old fashioned.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

It can be an insult, depends on the context and whether you have consent to call her that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. I had a young guy message me this week asking..."how many sluts you got lined up". I ended the conversation there.

I would never call a women a slut unless she called it herself first, and she liked the phrase.

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By *illxxMan
over a year ago

motherwell

In an intimate setting with a consenting woman who likes the phrase then yes it’s ok but without the female consent then yes it could be an insult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv noticed that this term is used alot by guys I'm 58 and remember that this term was an insult.

Is it me just being old fashioned."

I think “slag” is an insult, slut is acceptable if it’s ok with the recipient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some cumsluts but no cumslags…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will if you are a slut and love cum it’s fine

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By *ennylewis2016Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Jenny loves being called a slut when we play or are on the scene. Probably because she’s sweetness and light away from it.

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By *randmrssubdom OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I'm not setting my self up as judge here by way. I am a slut lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can be an insult, depends on the context and whether you have consent to call her that. "

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

There’s a time and place for that kind of language to be a turn on

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By *randmrssubdom OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Yes that's true if your in the zone being spoken to in such a derogatory way is horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone called me it in public then I would be offended. But in the height of sexual play it really turns me on

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

i am a slut and proud of it

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Every lady I’ve been with who likes this, then it’s great fun and can have a wonderful effect, along with other naughty chat

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I like it in some sexual play with right people

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Right time, right place, right person/people it's hot as fk x otherwise you're asking for a kick in the balls/fanny lol x

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By *aka12345Couple
over a year ago

close by

I love being called a slut amongst other things during a meet there’s something just wow about it xx mrs k xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Your gallery has pics of you with slut written on your body..

This could be why guys think it's OK to use the term

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By *topthepressMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Wife quite enjoys be called names as she fucks

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Yeah. I’ve noticed it a lot from men, particularly the 55+ crowd.

And…it feels like an insult from men who use it when they don’t know whether I like it or not. It feels like a display of power, that they can call me what they want and don’t care about my feelings. It turns me off and spoils the fun.

Which is sad, because I love it. It’s literally on my FL profile. Just not from strangers.

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

My FB loves being called a slut and not when just in the bedroom. She’s sub and wants it to be used all the time anyway, when it gets used infront of people, people example, in a shop, it really gets her going.

However, when we met a guy who we wanted to share her with said “god you are a slag aren’t you” she stood up and fucked off……. Some people just don’t get it right, some people know when to use an insult and when not to lol

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Not for us, respect is everything. It would kill the meet straight away...

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By *randmrssubdom OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Slag is never a good word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ye in the moment with right person we both love it but outside of that no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the context OP

Erotically calling each other names is/can be a turn on

I am on fabguys site and often get called a slut on there

J xx

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

"Slag is never a good word "

Nope. My FB is very very sub with me, but if I called her a slag I think it would end in a very serious conversation.

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By *mma and ChrisCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow

In the right situation and with the right person it can be ok. Like u it was an insulting term as I grew up coz women weren’t supposed to openly like sex. So if u did you were a slut or u were easy. Unlike men of course who wore their sexual prowess like a badge ! Nothing changes I guess.

In certain situations I do like it (tart is less insulting lol)

But if by using it you mean I love sex then yes I guess I am but if you using it as a form of insult then no u are never going to meet me.

If it’s an opening sentence u woujd he instantly blocked as it shows your view of women and esp women who are on here for sex etc as we all are.

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