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By *onnyadt OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Probably going to lose me a few meets but that's life, this is aimed at single guys, single females who play with couoles and those couples (both parties) who play with singles.

Does it put you off, annoy you or kill the vibe when hubby starts directing? Telling the wife/gf what to say, "tell him to fuck you harder" telling the guy what to do, "grab her tits", "fuck her faster", "now do this position", it does my head in, a few phrases go through my mind during those times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I don’t mind it. At the end of the day I’m there for them, for their pleasure but I guess everyone’s different

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By *onnyadt OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Personally, I don’t mind it. At the end of the day I’m there for them, for their pleasure but I guess everyone’s different"

Agree, we're all a little different, I prefer a balanced meet for all involved. I turned down a meet a few days ago, was asked, not to touch the lady during a bj, touching boobs was out, she would not be facing me when on top etc etc...forget that, just too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it helps a lot. If the hubby is directing he gets to see exactly what he wants to see and he helps me give the wife what he knows she likes.

To be fair it becomes a two way street, instead of him telling me to fuck her from behind, it's as likely I'll be asking if he wants me to do things or if she likes them.

Quiet sex is pretty boring. Nothing wrong with getting vocal, it all adds to the fun

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By *ebedy_XMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Probably going to lose me a few meets but that's life, this is aimed at single guys, single females who play with couoles and those couples (both parties) who play with singles.

Does it put you off, annoy you or kill the vibe when hubby starts directing? Telling the wife/gf what to say, "tell him to fuck you harder" telling the guy what to do, "grab her tits", "fuck her faster", "now do this position", it does my head in, a few phrases go through my mind during those times."

I'd like it

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

I have never interjected in this way, I leave Rach and her lover to crack on and do the things that THEY want to do - the last thing they need is somebody barking requests from the other side of the room (it can be stressful enough - especially at the start).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive turn off. We met a couple at a party. My partner fucked her and her man fucked me.

Except he wasn't really fucking me. He was watching them and giving directions.

Fuck her harder!

She loves that!

Yeah do it like that!

I could have been dead and he wouldn't have known or cared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is something we have thought of recently and want to try at some point but would be discussed/agreed beforehand that this is what we want in a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably going to lose me a few meets but that's life, this is aimed at single guys, single females who play with couoles and those couples (both parties) who play with singles.

Does it put you off, annoy you or kill the vibe when hubby starts directing? Telling the wife/gf what to say, "tell him to fuck you harder" telling the guy what to do, "grab her tits", "fuck her faster", "now do this position", it does my head in, a few phrases go through my mind during those times."

My hotwife does exactly what she wants and she isn’t backwards at coming forwards in telling guys what she wants….usually along the lines of “show my Cuck husband how to fuck me properly” lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m with you on that OP it really is off putting

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By *onnyadt OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"I’m with you on that OP it really is off putting "

Phew! I'm not alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate being told what to do, I’m all aspects of life

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Helps you get in the swing of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate being told what to do, I’m all aspects of life "

*in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate being told what to do, I’m all aspects of life

*in"

Sure... Unless it's "here's my gold card, go and spend the fuck out of it!" Lol

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