FabSwingers.com forum: Hi and Bi

By *2vtrdj OP Man
over a year ago

Hartlepool

I have in the last week been approached by four guys with "Straight Profiles" asking if I want to meet for sex.

In the same week, two females said thanks but don't meet Bi guys.

Well, at least I am not lying about my sexuality!

Females you probably already know but males lie it appears especially about their sexuality.

This is in order to meet females who won't meet Bi guys.

Difficult to win either way, but I wish guys would at least be honest regarding their profiles.

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By *ongandthickMan
over a year ago

exmouth

This happens a lot.I think the majority of guys on here are bi or at least bi curious.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I get constant messages from 'straight' guys despite my profile saying 'explain yourself'

Idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My other half woujd never meet another guy. But we did have an erotic message back forth with a dominant older guy that wanted to take us both. We almost met him too!!

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

In the same week, two females said thanks but don't meet Bi guys.

They probably weren't interested and used it as a definite excuse that you couldn't work around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im proud to display that im bisexual on my profile

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By *aveyDipperMan
over a year ago

Teesside

I am listed as straight and have never approached another male on here or reality, and yet I have several men approaching me asking to suck on me, or for me to fuck them.

I rarely find a woman wants to talk let alone meet, which is frustrating as a straight male but Atleast it’s flattering to know I appeal to some even if it’s the same sex

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

I even know some who say dont meet bi guys then check there verifications and see they have met someone you know is bi and they haven't realised. So easy to fool. My profile states it.

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By *ndymanchester1Man
over a year ago

salford

Slightly different take on post, I’m definitely fully bi, but these days put bi curious as a number of people who know me outside of fab are on here and curious is open to interpretation lol hope they don’t spot this post lol

I have enjoyed informing homophobic couples that I have met people off their verification list who are definitely bi, but state straight lol never mention names or out them though that’s their business.

Also had some nice surprise meets where male status is straight, but I find to my enjoyment that they are far from straight ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s such a subjective element of fab.

I get quite a few asking to play together when they claim to get straight.

Perhaps there should be a different classification of person as ‘anything goes’. Im also really picky and there is a general assumption that if you put bi you’ll come running when someone messages you.

Simply not the case for me. Connection is key!

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

I’m happily bi and not afraid to say so on my profile.

There are a lot of bi guys on here who list themselves as straight because so many women and couples won’t meet bi men so they hedge their bets by lying on their profile then approaching people as bi.

Personally I’d rather remain honest and limit my opportunities on here than lie about who I am to increase my odds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only meet bi guys, but I get a lot of guys with straight on their profile, sometimes the profile says straight several times, yet when I tell them I am only interested in people that are bi they try to tell me they are bi, some of their excuses as to why their profile is straight are quite funny, but the majority just repeat almost word for word what the others do.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

It's a fantasy hook up site not an interview for Spymaster General. I'm sure many folks just say stuff to meet up and suit their own wants.

Height, body type, interests, testing, single, couple... Not sure why people seem to be so exercised by folks making stuff up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fantasy hook up site not an interview for Spymaster General. I'm sure many folks just say stuff to meet up and suit their own wants.

Height, body type, interests, testing, single, couple... Not sure why people seem to be so exercised by folks making stuff up. "

It is a swingers site, and would you have sex with someone after they lied to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messaged every day from guys who have straight profiles...

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

I suspect men would be more open to being honest if people weren’t so judgemental.

Some are happy to meet bi women all day long but if a guy says he’s bi he’s given the swerve.

On the plus side it’s an excellent filter for bigots

Sasha

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By *obyorkMan
over a year ago

Keighley

Last week I had meetings with two different guys whose profile said they were straight. They were happy to suck my cock and I ended up with a mouthful of cum and my face covered I’m spunk.

At one time I would have said I wouldn’t meet ‘straight’ guys but now I think, what the hell.

Only disadvantage is not getting a veri from these fellas

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Honestly I think removing the sexuality bit from profiles would help this site a lot. Just say who you'd like to meet and what you'd be interested in doing. Then allow filtered searches to find similar people.

From past threads, there are a huge number of guys who'd like to suck a cock but who don't find other men sexuality attractive. I'm one of those guys so I know how it feels to wrestle with your sexuality.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"It's a fantasy hook up site not an interview for Spymaster General. I'm sure many folks just say stuff to meet up and suit their own wants.

Height, body type, interests, testing, single, couple... Not sure why people seem to be so exercised by folks making stuff up.

It is a swingers site, and would you have sex with someone after they lied to you?"

So "swingers" aren't looking to hook up?

As for if anyone's lied to me.... Over the years it's very possible. I'd make my informed choice when I meet someone and not before. If they chose to lie I have no control over.

People lie and misrepresent all the time.. From car costs to skin creams to diets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fantasy hook up site not an interview for Spymaster General. I'm sure many folks just say stuff to meet up and suit their own wants.

Height, body type, interests, testing, single, couple... Not sure why people seem to be so exercised by folks making stuff up.

It is a swingers site, and would you have sex with someone after they lied to you?

So "swingers" aren't looking to hook up?

As for if anyone's lied to me.... Over the years it's very possible. I'd make my informed choice when I meet someone and not before. If they chose to lie I have no control over.

People lie and misrepresent all the time.. From car costs to skin creams to diets

You used the term "Fantasy Hookup" and I am pretty sure I am not going to meet John Morrison or Kelly Brook on here, so it isn't a fantasy hook-up site.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I much prefer bi guys (ones who are openly bi or at least bi-curious on their profiles), find them much more relaxed not only about their sexuality but life in general. And yes, it is annoying when men lie to get what they want. However, I do make it very clear, while chatting, that I would expect them to come to a bi event with me and at least suck some cocks. That's a good filter.

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

"Im proud to display that im bisexual on my profile "

Me to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I much prefer bi guys (ones who are openly bi or at least bi-curious on their profiles), find them much more relaxed not only about their sexuality but life in general. And yes, it is annoying when men lie to get what they want. However, I do make it very clear, while chatting, that I would expect them to come to a bi event with me and at least suck some cocks. That's a good filter. "

I might have to try something like that.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I might have to try something like that."

Just say to them that you're not looking for 1:1 meets (as that's what they're hoping for) but only group play with at least one other bi man/bi events where they would be expected to at least suck a cock, maybe more. And do stick to your guns.

Another good way of meeting bi guys is going to bi nights that are geared towards bi men, where the host checks they either have "bi" or "bi-curious" on their profile or are verified on Fabguys. I have also started going to bi event at a gay/bi sauna, to try and meet genuinely bi men.

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By *igrating ladMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

What a really great thread OP. This happens to me a lot, when I first joined I put straight but I thought why lie and changed it to bi. I do agree totally though with comments above a lot of women or couples won’t meet bi guys. Women that are into it are far and few between. I think people forget its 2022 and stuck in the past.

As it’s been said it’s all good to meet a bi woman but not a bi guy, that’s a big NO.

Also this has happened to me ‘straight’ guys messaging me or asking for cam fun. Don’t get me wrong had some fun along the way with guys, couples and the few women.

Oh well each to their own

Wish you all love and hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect men would be more open to being honest if people weren’t so judgemental.

Some are happy to meet bi women all day long but if a guy says he’s bi he’s given the swerve.

On the plus side it’s an excellent filter for bigots

Sasha

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