FabSwingers.com forum: First time

By *oungAtHeartCurvyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

For those of you that have had a 3some for the first time how did it happen,was it planned or just happen? What scenario was it, was it mmf ffm?

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

1st time was mfm with a guy we met on line

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By *aulp4alsMan
over a year ago

Warrington

In a club is the best way as you will have a choice of you you like

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"In a club is the best way as you will have a choice of you you like "

I know the club is the best way and we plan on doing that soon I was just curious about other people's experiences x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my first was mmf after a night out was good

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

My first was on my 26th birthday, my wife arranged for a friend to come over before a party and they both had matching underwear they’d bought earlier that day. Very hot.

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Many years ago ,went out drinking up town with 2 mates ..my one mate got off with this woman, went back to mine and a few drinks later ..1 woman, 3 men

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By *razyjohnMan
over a year ago

derby

First time when I was 18, student. FFM. It’s was fun. Would like to try bi MMF

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Unplanned FMF in a club and happened many times since both FMF and MFM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neighbours wife introduced me to her friend

I was 19 they both late 40s married it was awesome

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

First time MFM I found a ‘masseur’ online! We weren't wasting anyones time if it wasn’t for us. Needless to say, it left us wanting more & we’re still here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged via add in magazine (was early 90s so pre internet) an older couple looking for a younger 3rd....a number of other firsts there too.....met regularly for about 5 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arranged via add in magazine (was early 90s so pre internet) an older couple looking for a younger 3rd....a number of other firsts there too.....met regularly for about 5 years. "

Yes I too remember the contact mag days long winded but very genuine people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was a stranger on a weekend away together x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ours was a stranger on a weekend away together x"

Great always fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mfm, arranged online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First happened naturally was with a few friends had a bit to drink, one fell asleep so was getting it on with her friend before she woke up wanting a fuck too

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

I'm still hoping

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"For those of you that have had a 3some for the first time how did it happen,was it planned or just happen? What scenario was it, was it mmf ffm? "

I was 19 and it kinda just happened, was pretty crap tbh. The 2 guys were part of my friend group but was all very awkward and finished with very quickly. My second 3some was far better, 2 friends of mine that were so in tune with each other there was no awkwardness at all. That one also kinda just happened

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By *oblo696Man
over a year ago

lowestoft

20 odd years ago. On holiday with my (now) wife. Much older guy. Totally unplanned. Pretty much a one off. Still turns me on now!

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

First time was with a neighbour and my gf when we were at Uni, we were early 20s he was late 40s there was a lot of drink involved but she made a move on him and we went with it. It was amazing fun

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By *hilswhore1000Couple
over a year ago

tunstall

Mmf sisters ex. Always flirting with me. Sent him a pic with the “oh god wasn’t meant for you!!!” Hour later he was round rubbing my clit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first MFM was on D's birthday many years ago. We had a friend round at our place, plenty of drinks were flowing. Needless to say, we all had a great night in bed together..

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

First time was, I arranged a full body massage for my wife with a great guy off here, she really enjoyed it, I mostly watched the first time though she did suck my cock as he took her doggy ways, then we went to our hotel for some amazing reclaim sex, (my first verification) wish we had time for more 3sums but life’s getting in the way

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

I was 21 and it just happened.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

It had been discussed and debated but when it did finally happen it certainly hadn't been planned in advance. It was a traditional MFM.

The 3rd party involved HAD been agreed on in advance (a friend of mine who - WHEN ASKED - didn't take much convincing).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeping an eye on this thread! We're keen to experience our first mmf experience. So far I've only been out alone to play

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Always hopeful of a couple needing a 3rd

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

It was planned. My wife and I had been thinking about it a long time and when she had a lover she was confident with, she asked me to join them - what a thrill. MFM as he had no bi feelings.

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By *renchFantasyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We went straight in with 2 other couples, so we skipped the first 3some and straight to 6.

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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Our first time was a couple of years before discovering ‘the scene’ with a good friend (who was later my maid of honour at our wedding) it was after a night out and after at ours. certainly gave us a taste of what it’s like to have someone join us and peaked our interest in swinging

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I was against having 3somes, as I was all about having 1 on 1 time & thought it wouldn't be as intimate.

Wow was I wrong, had one a few weeks ago with a friend & his friend, mfm, amazing & I really look forward to having more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was totally unplanned happened on a weekend away in Manchester. Met a guy in the hotel bar things just fell into place. So I told hubby his fantasy was about to become reality. What a night and never looked back

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By *mma and ChrisCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow

Our first one was debated and discussed forca couple of weeks coz we both wanted it but we’re unsure about the others reaction it transpired !

We arranged it online and I loved it ! Chris did too and for the next year had one almost every week

Still loving it but less often as he works overseas

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By *icks52Man
over a year ago

wigan

My first was totally out of the blue when I was 19. I lived away from home and shared a house with a workmate and a girl had the other room. She was in her late twenties and we'd had some fun one Saturday when my workmate had gone back home. Weeks went by and she came home with a mate having been out all night clubbing. My workmate was back home and once we'd all gone to bed there was a knock on my bedroom door to go and join the pair of them in the double bed. The rest is history as they say!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was about 15 years ago. I was as a male and the rendezvous was arranged online on a site called newbienudes. I went to theirs (a long dive) and we had arranged for me to catch them fucking in their living room. They left the door on the latch and I let myself in to their house. It was very odd to get into a strangers house! I went into the first door on the right to find her -dressed in some very sexy black lingerie - on her knees sucking him. I walked across the carpet taking my clothes off as I did and when I got there joined in and started sucking her large breasts. Things then developed further... she was older and very sexy. It was all pretty straight action but lots of fun.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Tani had been having a FWB relationship for about a year with a girl from work. After a night out together they came back to ours, I was asleep in bed but their noises downstairs woke me up. Tani then brought her upstairs and they climbed in either side of me! Her friend wasted no time in reaching around and grabbing my dick. I still have a healthy attraction to her lol

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By *urnhambiguyMan
over a year ago

Swindon

My first threesome was in the mid 90s with my at the time girlfriend. We were both 22 and spent an evening in the pub with one of my old school mates and we eventually got talking about threesomes so we stopped in a park on the way home. It was the first of several threesomes I had with her

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

Hi,

FMF, two female friends were on holiday and staying with me for the night.

It just seemed to happen - but in retrospect, I think there was some planning on their part.

A lovely experience for which I am eternally grateful!

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By *ibbw2022Woman
over a year ago

Co.Kildare

Mine was mff, planned with a couple I met online at the time. Met them at a hotel for drinks first earlier that night!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We had made friends on here with a very sexy lady and met her once socially. We invited her to our home, which is a long way for her so she stayed overnight.

It hadn't been specified in advance what would happen but we hoped and strongly suspected she was interested. We chatted for a while. I (Luke) could have made the move but didn't want anybody to get the impression it was really about what I wanted, given what I have read on the forums. It was important to me that the ladies got things going.

Hannah didn't feel comfortable making the move. Fortunately, when I went out to get a takeaway for our dinner, the lady made the move on Hannah saying "Now that we've got rid of him...!" and talked directly to her about it. It all kicked off when I got back.

The experience was fantastic. We still talk about it.

The lady is visiting again in August and we can hardly wait! She's a forum lurker and probably reading this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st time was last min meet with mf couple. I would love to try mmf next time. But I think because I met a couple I was like their little toy, it was amazing !

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Mfm with my mate and his wife many years ago b4 I was married we was drinking at there house she went upstairs came bk down naked said she thought I had gone home but turned out they planned it all al I can say is hope it could happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first MMF just happened I all ready had a meet and a friend called in for a cuppa well let's just say he got more than a cuppa. That is when I discovered I enjoy man on man fun xx

My first MFM was arranged through fab which was a lot of fun.

My first FFM was my second meet on fab many years ago, I was to nevers at the time to really enjoy it.

My first FMF was to help someone get over there hang ups about playing, so I was not really part of the fun. It did go well.

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By *orobinCouple
over a year ago

preston

About 15 years ago, my girlfriend and I were staying with a male friend of mine who I’d known for years. Naturist holidays came up in conversation and we were surprised to hear he’d actually been to a couple of nudist resorts, as we had. Next morning, as a joke, my partner got out of bed and walked naked into the kitchen where he was drinking coffee. He was somewhat shocked but amused and certainly excited by it. That evening we all drank a bit and when my girlfriend and I went to bed, we started having sex and after a while we called him in to join us. He came in to the bedroom and watched us for a while and as my girlfriend sat upright astride me, she called him across, unzipped him and put his cock into her mouth. It was a first step into many more evenings of threeways of various kinds with him and then into the whole swinging scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow,love this thread, never had the opportunity, but live in hope. X

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