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“No Time Wasters” Hypocrisy!

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By *acandJules OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees

Let’s be honest we have all complained about “time wasters” on here, but how many have then gone onto waste some other couples/peeps time?

We have had messages of interest from 3 couples in the last week that have “No Time Wasters” or words to that effect stated on their profile’s, they have messaged us first asking if we would be interested in a meet, but when you message them back they ignore you!!! Is this something any other peeps have noticed or had done to them?

Totally understand it is not as bad as arranging a meet with somebody who does not turn up or calls the meeting off at the last minute, but it is still annoying and very hypocritical of them in our opinion or are we being to touchy?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

nope i dont think theyve wasted your time by not repling to a message . maybe they didnt like your replie or simply changed there mind. in fact you can look at it another way that in fact theyve SAVED you time . if a person doesnt message back to me i take it as just not interested and use my time and energies looking for people who do message back and arrange meet .

as for you being touchy id have to say yes . why focus on who not contacting you back ,consentrate on those who are

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By *acandJules OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees


"nope i dont think theyve wasted your time by not repling to a message . maybe they didnt like your replie or simply changed there mind. in fact you can look at it another way that in fact theyve SAVED you time . if a person doesnt message back to me i take it as just not interested and use my time and energies looking for people who do message back and arrange meet .

as for you being touchy id have to say yes . why focus on who not contacting you back ,consentrate on those who are "

Thanks for that some fair points you make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never complained about time wasters on here and doubt I would. I've known one on another site but we had a fun time emailing, msning, sexting and exchanging pics, he just bailed when I wanted to meet, so it wasn't that much of a waste of time really and not worth complaining about.

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By *nnebellWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I sometimes read my messages via my phone, but its a pain to reply on it, so I wait till I can sit on my desktop to compose a proper reply. This may take me a week as I dont fire the thing up till the weekend, I spend far to much time on one while at work.

So what Im saying is that some people have lots of differant reasons for not replying.

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral

I, as a single male, don't think you've had your time wasted and am in agreement with the replies that have been posted above. If I considered people timewasters for not replying to messages, even when they have instigated the first message, well there'd be a considerable number of time wasters.

What I do think is a waste of time is the search facility on the site. Not the actual facility itself but incorrectly filled in specifications that mean that a couple will appear in a search result. For example a couple not wanting meets with single guys, simply tick the box that says that, 2 things happen, first you won't appear in a search result and secondly you won't get unwanted messages off single guys rather than wasting your time, then complaining about it and as in the OP's profile stating that any single male who messages gets an instant block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the problem is the fact that just because their profile says they are a couple is is probably the male that is messaging you, his other half comes home and has a gander and says no.

I always make sure, as I am normally on this and other swing sites, more than Mrs J, that she has a look before I message anyone for a meet.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Ive had this chatted to either the man or woman exchanged numbers etc 200+ texts a day.... Then nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the world record holders for being let down we concur

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Im sure that record could be contested by a few on here..... Did Norris confirm it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Norris let us down the chuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had this chatted to either the man or woman exchanged numbers etc 200+ texts a day.... Then nothing "

In my admittedly limited experience, people who like the thrill of exchanging loads of texts tend to be a bit reticent at the old meeting up thing, so I tend to not go down that road.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *acandJules OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees


"Some of the problem is the fact that just because their profile says they are a couple is is probably the male that is messaging you, his other half comes home and has a gander and says no.

I always make sure, as I am normally on this and other swing sites, more than Mrs J, that she has a look before I message anyone for a meet."

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By *acandJules OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees


"Ive had this chatted to either the man or woman exchanged numbers etc 200+ texts a day.... Then nothing "

That's what has happend more then once, 3 weeks of texts "about 120" then jack shit, still we live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let’s be honest we have all complained about “time wasters” on here, but how many have then gone onto waste some other couples/peeps time?

We have had messages of interest from 3 couples in the last week that have “No Time Wasters” or words to that effect stated on their profile’s, they have messaged us first asking if we would be interested in a meet, but when you message them back they ignore you!!! Is this something any other peeps have noticed or had done to them?

Totally understand it is not as bad as arranging a meet with somebody who does not turn up or calls the meeting off at the last minute, but it is still annoying and very hypocritical of them in our opinion or are we being to touchy?

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Well, ive just met one, they were supposed to ring yesterday and didnt, i did tell them that the hotel had a cancellation policy of 2 days before so now im £84 out of pocket, and that was a could, and people talk about single guys being time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should have read couple, gosh im so angry

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By *acandJules OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees


"Let’s be honest we have all complained about “time wasters” on here, but how many have then gone onto waste some other couples/peeps time?

We have had messages of interest from 3 couples in the last week that have “No Time Wasters” or words to that effect stated on their profile’s, they have messaged us first asking if we would be interested in a meet, but when you message them back they ignore you!!! Is this something any other peeps have noticed or had done to them?

Totally understand it is not as bad as arranging a meet with somebody who does not turn up or calls the meeting off at the last minute, but it is still annoying and very hypocritical of them in our opinion or are we being to touchy?

Well, ive just met one, they were supposed to ring yesterday and didnt, i did tell them that the hotel had a cancellation policy of 2 days before so now im £84 out of pocket, and that was a could, and people talk about single guys being time wasters "

Full understand where you are coming from on that, Never had our time wasted were it has cost money.

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