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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this can depend on a few factors but generally .....

What brings you to orgasm quicker

Oral

Penetrative sex

Hand

The reason I ask is I'm fine for 'holding back' with oral and sex but as soon as a woman uses her hand I can't control it lol I have to move it away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this can depend on a few factors but generally .....

What brings you to orgasm quicker

Oral

Penetrative sex

Hand

The reason I ask is I'm fine for 'holding back' with oral and sex but as soon as a woman uses her hand I can't control it lol I have to move it away "

I would imagine its different for every guy, I been with guys that orgasm from all three of the examples you listed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that if I'm getting oral from someone it will generally take a looong time for me to cum, despite the fact that I find it enjoyable. Yet other methods of stimulation tend to 'get me there' faster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation and individual really, more often than not it'd be intercourse.

But if someone is particularly skilful with the mouth or hands then I could equally cum that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thread

Penerative sex form me; i really do have a promble cuming when im being sucked; just cant let myself go - that goes for male of female giving me a BJ - where as im told im quiet good the opposite way round and i have a long hard tounge which does/can make women squirt and men cum....so something is right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blow jobs every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mood

If my Mrs is hot like hell and loving whatever it is we're doing, it takes less time than when she's merely warm...

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

not a clue.

breasts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my experience its doggy style, never met a guy yet that can last very long in that possition

If i ever meet anyone and they are boring in bed i always point my arse at them, soon as they start shagging they dont last very long

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"in my experience its doggy style, never met a guy yet that can last very long in that possition

If i ever meet anyone and they are boring in bed i always point my arse at them, soon as they start shagging they dont last very long "

wonders how long is not very long (just for my own peace of mind)

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

It depends on the situ really and the skills/hornyness of the woman and the situ/location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penetrative sex for me, I can honestly say I have never been brought to orgasm by either a womans mouth or hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

penetration for me - and not doggy style, I'm not a big fan as I can't see the woman's face so it seems a bit... detached. I get turned on seeing the woman turned on, so variations on good old missionary do it best for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any of the above - depending on what I and my company are in the mood for!

I can be a bugger for holding back, stopping, starting - alternating between the three - and I find this almost makes my head explode after an hour or two!

For me - its quality over quantity - for my company - both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this can depend on a few factors but generally .....

What brings you to orgasm quicker

Oral

Penetrative sex

Hand

The reason I ask is I'm fine for 'holding back' with oral and sex but as soon as a woman uses her hand I can't control it lol I have to move it away "
That's because the penis is an organ which relies on the pressure of the blood which floods it to give an erection. Apply extra external pressure and it all starts to happen much more quickly. Out of the three options, a hand can apply the most pressure, so you cum more quickly. Simples!

Pork

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know this can depend on a few factors but generally .....

What brings you to orgasm quicker

Oral

Penetrative sex

Hand

The reason I ask is I'm fine for 'holding back' with oral and sex but as soon as a woman uses her hand I can't control it lol I have to move it away That's because the penis is an organ which relies on the pressure of the blood which floods it to give an erection. Apply extra external pressure and it all starts to happen much more quickly. Out of the three options, a hand can apply the most pressure, so you cum more quickly. Simples!

Pork"

Kind of disagree with that concept

A vice like grip would probably have the opposite effect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it depends, but usually oral is 'easier' to hold back.

Unless she really gets off on it in which case it could become a problem again

Nothing wrong with coming fast with hand as it leads to a nice finish no?

Wish I could come fast that way to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never cum from oral. Anyone want to take that as a challenge?

Mr M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's more of a struggle holding back with penetrative, well 4 me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont know which forum to post this on but it ha upset me was chatting to a 28 year old lady exchanged pics then she said know ime gonna put u off coc ime only 15 blocked her and reported it but if she not said that i could have met her its shook me up to say the least wonder wot u folks think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find oral is the easiest to hold back from climax. The mouth & tongue are much softer on the penis, and if the partner is teasing, licking & softly sucking, could pretty much hold back forever. However, hard sucking, or 'wanking' into the mouth, would probably cum quite quickly.

Wanking, by another, not usually great personally. They don't usually 'get it right' for me. Often too rough & fast. Makes me too sensitive, rather than climax.

Probably climax quickest by penetrative sex. Probably why I spend so much time on foreplay first! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It pisses me off that i dont cum from oral!!! Seriously its really annoying. I love blowjobs and my gf gives the best blowjobs. Big fantasy for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since my 30s I have had a real problem ejaculating , find it really hard to let go and relax , some partners have loved this but one in particular took offence at it ,

I find the best is if I am receiving any form of anal stimulation combined with any of the three methods mentioned then I cum like a train , very very vocal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It pisses me off that i dont cum from oral!!! Seriously its really annoying. I love blowjobs and my gf gives the best blowjobs. Big fantasy for me.

"
I know how you feel mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find its the setting if she talking dirty and rams her hand down trousers her hand will do it quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this can depend on a few factors but generally .....

What brings you to orgasm quicker

Oral

Penetrative sex

Hand

The reason I ask is I'm fine for 'holding back' with oral and sex but as soon as a woman uses her hand I can't control it lol I have to move it away That's because the penis is an organ which relies on the pressure of the blood which floods it to give an erection. Apply extra external pressure and it all starts to happen much more quickly. Out of the three options, a hand can apply the most pressure, so you cum more quickly. Simples!

Pork

Kind of disagree with that concept

A vice like grip would probably have the opposite effect?"

Does depend how hard you turn the vice of course..... But that is how male plumbing works. The whole system relies on pressure.... increase the pressure (without ramming the vice jaws tight) and...

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By *rryTMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Penetration. Like many it's slower with oral, but a great trip getting there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle like hell to cum through oral, no matter how hot the giver.

Handjobs are more successful, the best and quickest I used to enjoy was when Trace and her long term girlfriend used to double up on me, that was fantastic.

I always struggle to hold back on doggy style.

The woman just looks so wanton and hot showing off everything she has mmmmmmm! R

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that puts pressure at the base of my cock so if it were a bj and she squeezed my cock quite firmly she would have a mouthful pretty quickly but if done gently then i can last all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me it's all dependant on how the other party is reacting, I feed off that. if she's getting off sucking my cock I'll more than likely cum, but if she's "going thru the motions" I'm not going to get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a womans mind.

sometimes they are full of surprises.

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By *onderlust76Woman
over a year ago

St helens


"Never cum from oral. Anyone want to take that as a challenge?

Mr M"

Ive never failed yet to suck a man dry

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By *un biguyMan
over a year ago

belfast

I find that having my ass fucked makes me orgasm the quickest !! Mmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that having my ass fucked makes me orgasm the quickest !! Mmmmmmmmmm "

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