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By *-and-K OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Why send a message to a couple with a view to meeting, then when you read the profile of the messagee it says this....

"I am after a woman to play with me as my husband watches. I have had a couple of experiences now and looking for more!!!!

Sorry, not into swapping. "

Why contact a couple? why not just message the single ladies instead? I would have thought there would be more chance of a contact!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost count of the number of messages I've had off couples looking for couples when I'm definitely a singleton

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I've lost count of the number of messages I've had off couples looking for couples when I'm definitely a singleton "

Maybe they think they know something you don't.

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area


"Why send a message to a couple with a view to meeting, then when you read the profile of the messagee it says this....

"I am after a woman to play with me as my husband watches. I have had a couple of experiences now and looking for more!!!!

Sorry, not into swapping. "

Why contact a couple? why not just message the single ladies instead? I would have thought there would be more chance of a contact!!"
set up your message filters to block those you do not want to hear from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the lady in question just wants a lady to play with and thinks there would be more chance of meeting up with a couple to achive this rather than a single bi female ..after all i have seen many profiles that state the husband will just watch and take no part in any fun ...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why send a message to a couple with a view to meeting, then when you read the profile of the messagee it says this....

"I am after a woman to play with me as my husband watches. I have had a couple of experiences now and looking for more!!!!

Sorry, not into swapping. "

Why contact a couple? why not just message the single ladies instead? I would have thought there would be more chance of a contact!!"

yes we have had the same happen to us, exchanged a few messages, thta went ok,added as friends,then message came to say only ff fun at mo but they said soft swap with couples.

if its just because they dont like the male then would prefer them to be honest and not waste our time

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"Why send a message to a couple with a view to meeting, then when you read the profile of the messagee it says this....

"I am after a woman to play with me as my husband watches. I have had a couple of experiences now and looking for more!!!!

Sorry, not into swapping. "

Why contact a couple? why not just message the single ladies instead? I would have thought there would be more chance of a contact!!

yes we have had the same happen to us, exchanged a few messages, thta went ok,added as friends,then message came to say only ff fun at mo but they said soft swap with couples.

if its just because they dont like the male then would prefer them to be honest and not waste our time "

We have had this a few times and although we have no problem with couples who like soft swing we dont like the girls being expected to "put on a show" for the blokes.Did it once,big turn off and N couldnt watch for more than about 30secs before havibg to join in.4 sum fun,altogether with the girls having fun as part of this seems to us what swinging is about!

We think that sometimes(not always)its to do with the blokes fantasy of seeing two girls together....it can be achieved in other ways with everyone sharing the fun

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

this is not just single ladies who get that, as a single male I get loads of messages from cpls where the hubby just wants to watch and not take part,

never had a problem with that, just give him my camera to take photos

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By *wcple2009Couple
over a year ago

bolton

Got to say that as the male of a couple with a Bi Fem this situation is actually ideal for us as I do just like to watch, whether it's Mrs Nw with a couple or just the Bi Fem of the couple.

However we do openly state this on our profile for everyone to see from the outset!

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