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By *ugbyunion OP   Man
over a year ago

good old yorkshire Sheffield

Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol

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By *eedsPeopleCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personal circumstances.

We're not in the mood right now as one of us has recently been made redundant. Hopefully things will change soon hence why we are still here, just not actively looking to meet if that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, personal circumstances - in my case, working abroad...doesn't stop me being a swinger, just means I can't meet right now unless I am back home (a rare occurance) or someone from here, or other site, happen to be where I am...stranger things have happened, but it doesn't mean I have to give up my lifestyle choice or 'owt like that.

Best get used to it - just because YOU are able to meet right now, doesn't make you more or less of a swinger to people who cannot meet right at this moment in time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in the mood for meets but I'm still chatting on the fora so I haven't hidden my profile.

I don't want to delete my profile as not meeting will be a temporary situation.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Personal circumstances.

We're not in the mood right now as one of us has recently been made redundant. Hopefully things will change soon hence why we are still here, just not actively looking to meet if that makes sense?"

When it happened to me - made me want to try and meet people even more (given the extra meeting times available).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We currently have a baby who doesn't sleep so meets are out of the question as we can't get a sitter, we want to use the forums still and like looking around and possibly chatting to people for when we are ready, I don't think just because you're on a swinging site you HAVE to meet, it's nice to talk to like minded people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting right now.

I'm lying on my sofa listening to Earth Wind and Fire and drinking beer!

Hey - everyone needs a break sometimes!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol "

yes it must seem strange on a site for a COMMUNITY for memebers of that community to enjoy chatting to others wthout meeting them for sex....very strange

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

personal circumstances mean i cant meet at the moment but i still enjoy the forums,and i dont want to cancell my profile because its a pain setting it up again

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By *eedsPeopleCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *eedsPeopleCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Personal circumstances.

We're not in the mood right now as one of us has recently been made redundant. Hopefully things will change soon hence why we are still here, just not actively looking to meet if that makes sense?

When it happened to me - made me want to try and meet people even more (given the extra meeting times available)."

That extra time for us is spent applying for jobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not meeting right now.

I'm lying on my sofa listening to Earth Wind and Fire and drinking beer!

Hey - everyone needs a break sometimes!! "
excellent choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol "

Hi guys I'm Sally aged 21,working long hours just here for webcam fun.

I'm naughty

Interests; webcams

Verified ; seen sally cum on cam many time

What does this tell you ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not meeting right now.

I'm lying on my sofa listening to Earth Wind and Fire and drinking beer!

Hey - everyone needs a break sometimes!! "

Earth Wind and Fire, your on our popular list. :D

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol

Hi guys I'm Sally aged 21,working long hours just here for webcam fun.

I'm naughty

Interests; webcams

Verified ; seen sally cum on cam many time

What does this tell you ???

"
It tells us that Sally likes to webcam, and if that does not suit you, use your filters more effectively. XxX MT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol

yes it must seem strange on a site for a COMMUNITY for memebers of that community to enjoy chatting to others wthout meeting them for sex....very strange"

Wait a minute , so me replying to your message doesn't automatically give me rights to your body ??

WTF is this world comin too ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol

yes it must seem strange on a site for a COMMUNITY for memebers of that community to enjoy chatting to others wthout meeting them for sex....very strange

Wait a minute , so me replying to your message doesn't automatically give me rights to your body ??

WTF is this world comin too ? "

You can have automatic access to my body if ya like *wiggles eyebrows*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take time out every now and again, i dont delete my profile as i know i will be back, so i just put, not meeting at mo i'm just here to chat to friends, then when im ready to meet again i change my profile back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get me wrong, but I've seen this now a few times and i dont get it, why would you message someone saying not meeting? strange lol

Not aimed at the OP, as I don't think I've had contact from him, but the very first thing on my profile is "not meeting". It beggers belief that someone can expect a meet out of my current profile.

When I'm in the right (wrong?) mood I'll reply back pointing this out to see if they'll backpeddle or how they'll squirm their way out of it.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I rarely meet when I travel for work - I'm away right now - but I do when I'm home. If I'm away for more than a few days I post not meeting on my profile.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol

yes it must seem strange on a site for a COMMUNITY for memebers of that community to enjoy chatting to others wthout meeting them for sex....very strange

Wait a minute , so me replying to your message doesn't automatically give me rights to your body ??

WTF is this world comin too ? "

wellllllll seeing as its you.....yes, yes it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had emergency surgery on Tuesday, so my profile says I'm not meeting, had 3 messages in the last 2 days asking for a meet at the weekend

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol "
Cause people can....freedom of choice....they all have their own reasons...

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol "

As I suspect you're aware, it's purely attention seeking.

A faint hope people will post loads and loads of message entreating the poster to meet them and make their lives full again.

Desperation tactics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol

As I suspect you're aware, it's purely attention seeking.

A faint hope people will post loads and loads of message entreating the poster to meet them and make their lives full again.

Desperation tactics."

Bwahahahahaha!! Yeah ok, whatever you say!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol

As I suspect you're aware, it's purely attention seeking.

A faint hope people will post loads and loads of message entreating the poster to meet them and make their lives full again.

Desperation tactics.

Bwahahahahaha!! Yeah ok, whatever you say! "

What I say is that when you say

"Grammar is the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit." - what you actually mean is

"Punctuation is the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit."

The clever bit is knowing the difference

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol "

People travel for work: a couple of my friends are in Dubai. Do you think they should delete their profile?

I've hidden my profile, men seldom read profiles, so well done you for actually noticing.

There are a myriad of reasons why people are not meeting...bottom line: really, what business is it of yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol

As I suspect you're aware, it's purely attention seeking.

A faint hope people will post loads and loads of message entreating the poster to meet them and make their lives full again.

Desperation tactics.

Bwahahahahaha!! Yeah ok, whatever you say!

What I say is that when you say

"Grammar is the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit." - what you actually mean is

"Punctuation is the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit."

The clever bit is knowing the difference "

And that is relevant to this thread how? Oh look, it isn't! It's from a different thread, on a totally different subject entirely.

The clever part is being able to distinguish between the two.

But hey, you have to try to divert attention away from the fact you have no clue what you are on about on this thread and are talking out of your arse.

Trying to divert the thread onto a completely different topic, one you think you know something about, is just a little transparent.

Must try harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol

As I suspect you're aware, it's purely attention seeking.

A faint hope people will post loads and loads of message entreating the poster to meet them and make their lives full again.

Desperation tactics.

Bwahahahahaha!! Yeah ok, whatever you say!

What I say is that when you say

"Grammar is the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit." - what you actually mean is

"Punctuation is the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit."

The clever bit is knowing the difference

And that is relevant to this thread how? Oh look, it isn't! It's from a different thread, on a totally different subject entirely.

The clever part is being able to distinguish between the two.

But hey, you have to try to divert attention away from the fact you have no clue what you are on about on this thread and are talking out of your arse.

Trying to divert the thread onto a completely different topic, one you think you know something about, is just a little transparent.

Must try harder. "

And I wouldn't bother trying to argue back either!!!

They're not the kind of feet you'd want kicking your arses like they just have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol "

Don't get me wrong but I've seen this a few times and I don't get why people say "Don't get me wrong" although it does seem to go just before a sentence that can really only be 'got' right

'strange' (followed by 'lol' just in case ya get me wrong)

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol "

It's hardly strange that people aren't available to meet 365 days of the year!

Often take time out depending on what we have going on in our everyday life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol

yes it must seem strange on a site for a COMMUNITY for memebers of that community to enjoy chatting to others wthout meeting them for sex....very strange

Wait a minute , so me replying to your message doesn't automatically give me rights to your body ??

WTF is this world comin too ? "

U could reply to the postman n still get me lol.....hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who says one has to meet and play with other people just because they are on FAB?!

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol "

We we haven't put this on our profile but we should use it really..we have full time job.. own business.. and young kids.. our nearest family is 2 1/2 hour drive away and not got access to good enough babysitters so in school hols kids go to stay with family for a little bit.. when they go there we can meet. the rest of the time is not really meeting time for us. Most people on a swingers site do this for adult fun.. it is a lifestyle but it is not their life if you understand. The site is not a sex catalogue.. see one you like and they'll meet when you want or need to. Swingers generally get that life and family have to come first and emergencies happen as well sometimes.

So its peoples choice if meeting or not.. we are not keen at the moment due to the influx of timewasters. but thats our choice.. also if the genuine ones who put the effort in and get verifications need to take a break or cant meet for whatever reason putting not meeting lets people know but deleting their profile loses all veris and has to start again. we are staying to attend socials where hopefully we will continue to meet people we want to play with.. but not meeting through messages on here without meeting at fab socials..just our thing find it easier than sifting through the idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol "

in it hun why do people come on this site just to chat not meet they are better off just going on facebook

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Dont get me wrong but ive seen this now a few times and i dont get it why would you put this up saying not meeting when your on a swinging site strange lol

As I suspect you're aware, it's purely attention seeking.

A faint hope people will post loads and loads of message entreating the poster to meet them and make their lives full again.

Desperation tactics."

The odd few, maybe but certainly not all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reasons;

1. She has an headache

2. She having her hair done

3. Womens thingys

4. He go piles

5. He just got found out so staying low

6. To many good things on telly

7. Sex is boring so becoming a nun/vic

8. Knackered after so much sex

9. Cant cope with amount of attention

and the one that i think somes most of us up who take a break from time to time is;

10.We love sex; but its not the only thing in my life and its good to re charge energy"

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