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By *r laidback OP   Man
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

Idris Elba (49) George Clooney (61) Brad Pitt (58) Robert Downney Jr (57) Lenny Kravitz (58) Denzel Washington (67) What do all these talented men have in common apart from fame? Did anyone get the answer right?... yes that's right all are over 49. We get told 'age is nothing but a number' yet here on fab, not all but very high percentage class sexy between the ages of 19- 40 why is that? I mean I'll be real with you, this post started off about ME, wondering why i could not even say hi or start off a conversation even with women of my own age. I'm 52 dont look it and... i could lie but thats not me, being the age i am, i have learnt too much to just disregard that time for sexy fun. So what makes the names above sexy? I think most woman here would class at least one of these guys as sexy yet None of them would be able to message you if they were on fab, well not without lies, just food for thought and for the guys... Raquel Welch (81) yes 81 unreal, Salma Hayek(55) Elizabeth Hurley(56) Halle Berry(55) Sandra Bullock(57) Toni Braxton(54) yes they all have money but sexy is sexy and doesn't recognise money, colour, size, gender or class...be interested in hearing your thoughts, does sexy really have boundaries?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Commenting to follow this.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Maybe folks don't care much for your banta

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I want to choose my age range and not have it questioned. I don't question why some men won't meet 65 year old women, why earth should they? The people you mention are the exception not the rule

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also sexy doesn't have boundaries but people do

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By *ikNikMan
over a year ago

New Forest

And your profile says you’re looking for women between 25 an 99. What’s wrong with the 18-24 age group…..?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Age is only ever an issue if you make it one yourself or draw attention to it.

I've been here 5 years. I therefore didn't join until I was 52.

I had zero experience of anything like this before either online or in the real world and not once in those 5 years has my age ever been an issue.

People of a certain age, race, creed or colour often use those as their perceived reason for others not meeting them.

It could well be but more often than not there are other reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because its not for you to tell women what they want. If a woman your age wants to meet younger, they're welcome to without people messaging them that don't meet their current needs.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Age is only ever an issue if you make it one yourself or draw attention to it.

I've been here 5 years. I therefore didn't join until I was 52.

I had zero experience of anything like this before either online or in the real world and not once in those 5 years has my age ever been an issue.

People of a certain age, race, creed or colour often use those as their perceived reason for others not meeting them.

It could well be but more often than not there are other reasons. "

Just to add in regard to what sexy is, people can have the most amazing profiles on here with stunning pics and yet have an unbelievably ugly personality so sexy is about much more than looks alone.

A sexy woman never needs to tell anyone how sexy she is. If she has to do that she obviously isn't sexy.

She never has to shout louder than others or demand to be seen.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Age is only ever an issue if you make it one yourself or draw attention to it.

I've been here 5 years. I therefore didn't join until I was 52.

I had zero experience of anything like this before either online or in the real world and not once in those 5 years has my age ever been an issue.

People of a certain age, race, creed or colour often use those as their perceived reason for others not meeting them.

It could well be but more often than not there are other reasons.

Just to add in regard to what sexy is, people can have the most amazing profiles on here with stunning pics and yet have an unbelievably ugly personality so sexy is about much more than looks alone.

A sexy woman never needs to tell anyone how sexy she is. If she has to do that she obviously isn't sexy.

She never has to shout louder than others or demand to be seen.

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So you find modesty sexy. Other guys like women who demand to be seen

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Age is only ever an issue if you make it one yourself or draw attention to it.

I've been here 5 years. I therefore didn't join until I was 52.

I had zero experience of anything like this before either online or in the real world and not once in those 5 years has my age ever been an issue.

People of a certain age, race, creed or colour often use those as their perceived reason for others not meeting them.

It could well be but more often than not there are other reasons.

Just to add in regard to what sexy is, people can have the most amazing profiles on here with stunning pics and yet have an unbelievably ugly personality so sexy is about much more than looks alone.

A sexy woman never needs to tell anyone how sexy she is. If she has to do that she obviously isn't sexy.

She never has to shout louder than others or demand to be seen.

So you find modesty sexy. Other guys like women who demand to be seen"

I understand that but for me that is a huge turn off. I'm not talking about having confidence but more about their looks being the only topic of conversation.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I have a thing for Lenny Kravitz & Brad Pitt - regrettably, they’re not on Fab also, the people you have mentioned are exceptional!

In normal life, I’m not into a big age gap anyway. There are loads of Fab men shaving a few years off their real age too.

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By *r laidback OP   Man
over a year ago

London & New Brighton


"I want to choose my age range and not have it questioned. I don't question why some men won't meet 65 year old women, why earth should they? The people you mention are the exception not the rule"

This is not a personal attack on you or the personal choices of woman, its an open debate on the fact that being sexy is not dependent on looks or body, male, female, ts/tg,cd we have the ability to be sexy inside as well as out, there are no exceptions to the rule, so why does there have to be an age limit? why does being sexy have to be made into a stereotypical package. This is a site to get to know people from wherever or whoever and then if YOUR choices leads you to wish more then so be it, I gave a few examples of outside sexyness but i think we can all agree sexyness is blind and has no limits or ties to it, but i thank you for your feedback, its always interesting to see other points of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You definitely don't look 52 OP!!

Many women and couples use age range message filters to reduce messages.

Many women know what they are attracted to and so aim their profile at that demographic. Aiming wider just results in a lot more unsuitable messages.

Maybe try clubs or socials where people see *you* and not a profile sex menu.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I want to choose my age range and not have it questioned. I don't question why some men won't meet 65 year old women, why earth should they? The people you mention are the exception not the rule

This is not a personal attack on you or the personal choices of woman, its an open debate on the fact that being sexy is not dependent on looks or body, male, female, ts/tg,cd we have the ability to be sexy inside as well as out, there are no exceptions to the rule, so why does there have to be an age limit? why does being sexy have to be made into a stereotypical package. This is a site to get to know people from wherever or whoever and then if YOUR choices leads you to wish more then so be it, I gave a few examples of outside sexyness but i think we can all agree sexyness is blind and has no limits or ties to it, but i thank you for your feedback, its always interesting to see other points of view."

My lower age filter is set at 40 because it will always been 10 years above my eldest daughters age. That doesn't mean that women under 40 aren't sexy, it just means I'm not attracted to them because of the reason I've just given.

That's my preference.

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By *r laidback OP   Man
over a year ago

London & New Brighton


"And your profile says you’re looking for women between 25 an 99. What’s wrong with the 18-24 age group…..?"

Your right my profile says 24 and up but that not because i cant appreciate that an 18yr old can't be sexy, i just dont feel right in my spirit that i should be thinking of such a young person in that way, so maybe you've proved a point, age should have a place, its a point well made however i like to think most men 50 yrs plus would not feel comfortable being with an 18yr old. And its on that note i feel justification with my age group of 24 and above, its not based on prejudice of someone that age cant be sexy, its more about decently for me

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Having never been attracted to younger men I opted to go from my age upwards, I also have young parents so decided to go no higher than 50 for now. My age preference will move along with me as I get older and it is just that, a preference. If you have open filters here you spend too long sifting through looking for that one or two who are a match in many other ways than just age. The filters help cut that down somewhat. If a 55 yr old man started a conversation with me in person and I was attracted to him then who knows! But for here I make use of the filters

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By *xmarkxx321Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne

I'm don't care what age you are it's what's inside that counts for me

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm a great believer in the 'age is just a number' theory.

I'm also a great believer in people being able to have their preferences.

Sure. You may find yourself out of their age filter, maybe even by just a year. But that's life. Just because you think you may be good for someone doesn't mean that they will, whether it's down to your looks, height, weight , sexuality, tastes, interests or yes.....your age.

If you want to experience an environment where age matters less, then go to a club. Nobody wears ahe badges, people make decisions based on attraction and I've yet to ever be asked my age face to face.

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By *r laidback OP   Man
over a year ago

London & New Brighton


"Maybe folks don't care much for your banta "

Your very right my banta is not for everyone, your comment comes over as a bit personal, not that it has any effect on me. But thank you for your contribution.

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By *r laidback OP   Man
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

I liked your answer to my post, not that you have to answer to me by no means but it was interesting and understandable, have a blessed day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get where you are coming from OP. It would appear odd that some will discount others based solely on age but we all have preferences, but I hear you

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