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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Hi what would be considered a good opening message to receive from a guy to start the ball rolling? X

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath


"Hi what would be considered a good opening message to receive from a guy to start the ball rolling? X"

Im sure lots is said that sparks intrigue (so long as its not me saying it it seems)

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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have a look at the profile and create a first message based from that, if you are what they are looking for.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Hi what would be considered a good opening message to receive from a guy to start the ball rolling? X"

I can't really answer that, as different people want to receive different messages. However, I'm not sure that having a template you copy and paste for every 1st message is a good idea. You can usually tell when someone's done that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d suggest anything but nice tits or wanna fuck

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Suck my cock and drain my ball's.

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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Yeah I get that totally just feel it’s hard to start a conversation and break the ice with just a hi how’s things etc . X must be a polite way to make a start with out sounding dull ans coming across as lacking effort lol ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to take bits from their profile and respond to them in my opening message - can be hard to not fall into a pattern with them but I think it’s important not to template it too much!

My success rate is fairly low though, so probably not the best to take advice from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I get that totally just feel it’s hard to start a conversation and break the ice with just a hi how’s things etc . X must be a polite way to make a start with out sounding dull ans coming across as lacking effort lol ? "

Try mentioning things about the persons profile - it shows you’ve read it

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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Thanks pal ??

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

Just follow what they like you should enjoy same stuff so talk about that

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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Thanks everyone for your response it has helped x

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Thanks pal ??"

If you use reply+quote we can tell who you're responding to.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Hi what would be considered a good opening message to receive from a guy to start the ball rolling? X"

Suggest:

Something about the profile.

Why you're a good "match" for the profile.

What you bring.

I like a funny first message, it's fresher than the cut & paste stuff many send.

Bottom line we're all individual, so different things work for different people.

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By *layfull OP   Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Thank you. X

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Hi what would be considered a good opening message to receive from a guy to start the ball rolling? X

Suggest:

Something about the profile.

Why you're a good "match" for the profile.

What you bring.

I like a funny first message, it's fresher than the cut & paste stuff many send.

Bottom line we're all individual, so different things work for different people. "

Hello Kate you looking for a Clyde to your Bonnie because I certainly could introduce uncomplicated and exciting adventures!

There is a lot of trouble out there for us to get into and go down laughing when you message me back.

Would something like this work?

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Hi what would be considered a good opening message to receive from a guy to start the ball rolling? X

Suggest:

Something about the profile.

Why you're a good "match" for the profile.

What you bring.

I like a funny first message, it's fresher than the cut & paste stuff many send.

Bottom line we're all individual, so different things work for different people.

Hello Kate you looking for a Clyde to your Bonnie because I certainly could introduce uncomplicated and exciting adventures!

There is a lot of trouble out there for us to get into and go down laughing when you message me back.

Would something like this work?

"

Brilliant.

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

If you've received a message,just say hi how are you etc,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi what would be considered a good opening message to receive from a guy to start the ball rolling? X"

Nice gash

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Hi what would be considered a good opening message to receive from a guy to start the ball rolling? X

Suggest:

Something about the profile.

Why you're a good "match" for the profile.

What you bring.

I like a funny first message, it's fresher than the cut & paste stuff many send.

Bottom line we're all individual, so different things work for different people.

Hello Kate you looking for a Clyde to your Bonnie because I certainly could introduce uncomplicated and exciting adventures!

There is a lot of trouble out there for us to get into and go down laughing when you message me back.

Would something like this work?

Brilliant. "

I will laugh so hard if this gets cop and paste to you in the next couple of weeks...

But remember it was I who said it first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here’s a pic of my cock. Rate it out of 10.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Hi what would be considered a good opening message to receive from a guy to start the ball rolling? X

Suggest:

Something about the profile.

Why you're a good "match" for the profile.

What you bring.

I like a funny first message, it's fresher than the cut & paste stuff many send.

Bottom line we're all individual, so different things work for different people.

Hello Kate you looking for a Clyde to your Bonnie because I certainly could introduce uncomplicated and exciting adventures!

There is a lot of trouble out there for us to get into and go down laughing when you message me back.

Would something like this work?

Brilliant.

I will laugh so hard if this gets cop and paste to you in the next couple of weeks...

But remember it was I who said it first. "

Any chance of royalties for the copy & paste !!

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

Fancy a fuck

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Hi what would be considered a good opening message to receive from a guy to start the ball rolling? X

Suggest:

Something about the profile.

Why you're a good "match" for the profile.

What you bring.

I like a funny first message, it's fresher than the cut & paste stuff many send.

Bottom line we're all individual, so different things work for different people.

Hello, Kate you looking for a Clyde to your Bonnie because I certainly could introduce uncomplicated and exciting adventures!

There is a lot of trouble out there for us to get into and go down laughing when you message me back.

Would something like this work?

Brilliant.

I will laugh so hard if this gets cop and paste to you in the next couple of weeks...

But remember it was I who said it first.

Any chance of royalties for the copy & paste !! "

Never thought of that! not in for the money more for the smile and the fucking.

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

Something that shows he's read our profile!

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