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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wanted advice, do the ladies on here take notice of guys that are genuine nice people or are we more likely to be noticed if we are more forceful and in reality a bit arrogant ?

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By *ize_Queen_DeenWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Be yourself and hope for the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a lady but I do get loads of messages from men on here, most of them are from men to be honest. A lot of the messages are very forceful and rude and I tend to ignore them, I always reply to polite messages of men who seem to be nice and genuine.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Nice goes a long way with me.

Life is too short to be arrogant and rude.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Only way to find out is meet in person and see which one of those goes down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half of the time nice guys aren’t actually nice guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes this is true. And I think the advice is right, be yourself rather than what you think they might want you to be. Just seems hard to get across in a profile your personality.

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By *ark69x_glosMan
over a year ago

Cirencester

Be yourself, no sex is worth being false.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes this is true. And I think the advice is right, be yourself rather than what you think they might want you to be. Just seems hard to get across in a profile your personality. "

You seem like a genuinely nice guy and I’m sure that comes across once you get chatting with someone. With regards to getting your personality across in your profile….we’re not allowed to comment on your profile as you haven’t asked us to, but I would say that generally people who write a bit about themselves outside of swinging or have a bio that shows they’ve put some effort into writing it get their personality across well.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Forceful and arrogance are never attractive to me and are in fact the complete opposite. The same as someone who changes their personality to suit who ever they are chatting to .

Being yourself is the most attractive thing anyone can do on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do ‘Nice Guys finish last’? Apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forceful, arrogant and pushy is not for me either

Just be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning all how are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not a lady but I do get loads of messages from men on here, most of them are from men to be honest. A lot of the messages are very forceful and rude and I tend to ignore them, I always reply to polite messages of men who seem to be nice and genuine. "

I don’t. It specifically says I’m straight on my page. I still get mess gears from guys and 99% are polite. I suppose it’s a mixed bag between all our experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a bit of both.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends what you mean by nice. Most women are not stupid and can spot an arrogant idiot a mile off, they can also spot a guy who thinks being nice entitles them to sex. A decent all round, nice man on the other hand always stands out from the others.

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By *lutWithAButtWoman
over a year ago

:)

'Being nice' is not something that is special or is a stand out attribute. It's literally the bare minimum of a decent human being. You can't really have your selling point as 'I'm nice', as there are a million other people who are also nice.

You need to be more than just 'nice'. You need to be confident, attractive, charming, funny, flirty, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with being nice and respectful, it's essential. But confidence is sexy, humour is sexy and a man who knows what he wants is sexy.

A mixture of all these make a great playmate, no one wants a knobhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Being nice' is not something that is special or is a stand out attribute. It's literally the bare minimum of a decent human being. You can't really have your selling point as 'I'm nice', as there are a million other people who are also nice.

You need to be more than just 'nice'. You need to be confident, attractive, charming, funny, flirty, etc. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to be more than just 'nice'. You need to be confident, attractive, charming, funny, flirty, etc. "

Exit stage left …

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there


"Yes this is true. And I think the advice is right, be yourself rather than what you think they might want you to be. Just seems hard to get across in a profile your personality. "

They say pictures say a thousand words, if they don’t show your personality we are unlikely to look at the profile bio.

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