FabSwingers.com forum: Overnight meets

By *ools and the brain OP Couple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

What's people's thoughts?

Personally I'm (Mr) not all that keen.

Few reasons, dragon breath in morning and the need to go for a poo poo first thing as soon as I wake.

This would be a complete passion killer for the other party should we be in a hotel room with ensuite.

I know it sounds ewwwww but this must be an issue for others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love over nights preferably longer

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

"What's people's thoughts?

Personally I'm (Mr) not all that keen.

Few reasons, dragon breath in morning and the need to go for a poo poo first thing as soon as I wake.

This would be a complete passion killer for the other party should we be in a hotel room with ensuite.

I know it sounds ewwwww but this must be an issue for others?"

I feel ya !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No to overnight stays, I'm not great in the mornings

plus my cats take over half the bed so no

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I love overnight meets. It makes an evening much more relaxed if you're not watching the clock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done a handful of overnights in the past. Its nice having the time for a few rounds in the evening and another 2 or 3 in the morning xx

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Two separate rooms solves this

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

I would not do overnight meets as in sleeping with someone else all night. But then as I only meet in clubs its not something that i have to really worry about.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Love overnight meets with the right person. Sex throughout the night/early morning. Shared sensual shower. Have breakfast together and look forward to next meet.

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

nr spalding

I love over night meets with a regular partner.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"What's people's thoughts?

Personally I'm (Mr) not all that keen.

Few reasons, dragon breath in morning and the need to go for a poo poo first thing as soon as I wake.

This would be a complete passion killer for the other party should we be in a hotel room with ensuite.

I know it sounds ewwwww but this must be an issue for others?"

Get yourself a bottle of VIPoo!

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By *roonGuy46Man
over a year ago

Troon

Yes overnight meets are best get to know the person you are meeting chat, relax then have lots of fun.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

no not really for me with new people , I dont mind them sometimes with people I am fully comfortable with but usually I prefer to leave / go home in my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be happy with a response to be honest

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

"I’d be happy with a response to be honest"

ha it gets like that right at times ...

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I do enjoy an overnighter. Playing in the middle of the night and waking up to the person next to you and starting all over again. It’s one thing I did miss during lockdown.

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

nr spalding

"I do enjoy an overnighter. Playing in the middle of the night and waking up to the person next to you and starting all over again. It’s one thing I did miss during lockdown. "

I miss the random night time horn as much as the feeling of someone next to me in the bed that isnt one of my two dogs lol

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yet to meet anyone I'd want to spend the whole night with. A few hours of fun is fine, then they can leave or I go home.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

It takes me a long time to get comfortable enough with a new partner to be able to sleep next to them in bed, so overnights don’t work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of my meets have been overnighters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if we found a regular we trusted then maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not keen I prefer to sleep by myself, though if its someone regular maybe.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Nothing says I love you like ignoring the plop plop sound and smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i’m used to the person then yes to overnighters. Ive no aversion to being in the same house/flat/apartment as a couple either.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've done this twice. Once the person stayed at ours and another time we stayed at theirs

We wouldn't do it again

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Love an overnight meet

MJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do overnighters. Not my thing.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

London

When I use to meet literally half my meeting was overnight. Pretty enjoyable nothing weird happened you might be overthinking the situation.

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By *unshinee99Woman
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Love an overnight meet with a regular fwb, don't do it with everyone for sure but a select few. It's nice not having to clock watch or stay sober for the night. Male company in bed is also appreciated

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I have a feeling, I might be having one, in a couple of weeks time and I can't fucking wait... Lets hope he isn't a light sleeper though as we are going to the pub too and I have been known to snore like a freight train after beer

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

No, not for us.

Like to go to a party, club or meet as a couple but back to our own bed or hotel.

Nor looking for or interested in anything but casual sex of the swinging variety.

Each to their own though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something we might consider in the future. We have had a little pillow talk inviting another guy round to do just that, but for us would have to be a trusted regular and not a random

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with a regular yep we both love the idea but there are very few guys who will do this .... and out of those who want this theres those that get clingy ...yuk ... but when you find one its great great fun

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Overnights are always my preference, I like to make the most of a free night/morning if I’m going to meet

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

They have their place but I generally now don't do them much. I like the freedom of kicking them out, for some space

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By *iren!Woman
over a year ago

leeds

"Yet to meet anyone I'd want to spend the whole night with. A few hours of fun is fine, then they can leave or I go home."

Agree. An over night stay seems a little like your overstaying the purpose of the meet. If it's a regular FEB than I guess it's ok....lol GO HOME

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By *ookiemonster500Man
over a year ago

No where

Love overnight meets more relaxed and comfortable as there is no rush can sit relax talk and before you know it its early hours in the morning and need some shut eye

Obviously this isn't with new people but once a base social aspect has been made or mutal comfertablilty has been astablished its perfect

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Get yourself a bottle of VIPoo!"

Would love to see how much the googling figures for that have shot up since that post!

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By *idyn Mawr 87Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Double edged sword I guess, yeah you make good points not to. But on the other hand it's great means you get more rounds in. We all love sex right?

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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago

South Shields

Done a few overnighters with the same couple a few years ago and worked really well.

Being a chef, they were treated to a nice breakfast in the morning as I was up an hour before them...think thats why they asked me back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overnights are great with someone you know and trust. Saves the clock watching.

As for the bathroom stuff, you've been bumping uglies the evening before, what's a morning dump between friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually apply the distance rule.

Local, go home.

Out of towners, overnight.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Hubby and I meet separately.... no-one is taking his space (apart from the dogs- who won't even let anyone in to start) and I don't want to stay out overnight... for me personally, it would be disrespectful.... I always go home to him... he has the same state of mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them, however whether they do with my snoring & farting is a different thing..

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We have them regularly with close friends.

Most often it’ll be a night in a hotel with 2 king size beds pushed together and us all sleeping together.

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By *ottsredMan
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

Depends if hotel or house for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stayed once at my fwb house overnight only because I knew I was leaving at 5am the next day for work so showered and left

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By *unandcuriousCouple
over a year ago

Antrim

we have always done overnight and from our experience and fun we had we will keep to overnight if we can

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