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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead?

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East

Just showing off now! Yes I am jealous!

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood


"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead? "

You're just showing off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go with the flow mate. Plans never really go the way you want when there are 3 folk involved.

My best advice is make sure you are all involved, and that no one ever feels left out for a second as that's easy to do in 3somes.

Sure suggest things but its not like pornhub 3somes.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Never plan it lol all the best plans in the world will soon unravel in the heat of the moment. Just go with the flow and a lot of talking and I'm sure it will go well.

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Never plan it lol all the best plans in the world will soon unravel in the heat of the moment. Just go with the flow and a lot of talking and I'm sure it will go well.

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That’s my gut feeling right now. Be great to hear from any ladies that have taken part in a threesome like this !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never plan it lol all the best plans in the world will soon unravel in the heat of the moment. Just go with the flow and a lot of talking and I'm sure it will go well.

That’s my gut feeling right now. Be great to hear from any ladies that have taken part in a threesome like this ! "

Dont be afraid to sit back and watch whilst the girls play with each other. Some men feel like they have to be involved all the time but that can get in the way of the girls connecting... plus, some people find it sexy to watch/be watched! Penises are not always the most interesting thing in the room.

Communicate a lot. Ask them if there is anything they would like to try. Ask if there is something you want and dont assume that anything in particular will happen (waving dick in face to indicate you want oral...? Yuck!). Ask "is this ok?", "would you like me to...", "Do you need a break?" Etc.

They are probably more experienced than you with ffm threesomes, so theres no need for you to try and lead the experience - let them do that (or better yet, everyone go with the flow). So just sit back nad relax. If you are nervous, admit it. Non sexual contact and light foreplay can help settle nerves (massage, hugs, kissing, stroking etc).

If you cant get it up, dont panic! Enjoy using your tongue/fingers/words to have a good time.

Most importantly: dont do anything you dont wanna do, and leave if you feel uncomfortable. Just the same as women, you are allowed to say no.

Have fun!!

Fay x

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

Can't wait to disappoint two women at once

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Never plan it lol all the best plans in the world will soon unravel in the heat of the moment. Just go with the flow and a lot of talking and I'm sure it will go well.

That’s my gut feeling right now. Be great to hear from any ladies that have taken part in a threesome like this !

Dont be afraid to sit back and watch whilst the girls play with each other. Some men feel like they have to be involved all the time but that can get in the way of the girls connecting... plus, some people find it sexy to watch/be watched! Penises are not always the most interesting thing in the room.

Communicate a lot. Ask them if there is anything they would like to try. Ask if there is something you want and dont assume that anything in particular will happen (waving dick in face to indicate you want oral...? Yuck!). Ask "is this ok?", "would you like me to...", "Do you need a break?" Etc.

They are probably more experienced than you with ffm threesomes, so theres no need for you to try and lead the experience - let them do that (or better yet, everyone go with the flow). So just sit back nad relax. If you are nervous, admit it. Non sexual contact and light foreplay can help settle nerves (massage, hugs, kissing, stroking etc).

If you cant get it up, dont panic! Enjoy using your tongue/fingers/words to have a good time.

Most importantly: dont do anything you dont wanna do, and leave if you feel uncomfortable. Just the same as women, you are allowed to say no.

Have fun!!

Fay x "

Thanks Fay appreciate the advice. I’m not a nervous type but I do want it to go well. After all I want an invite back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead? "

Ha! I just realised that by the time Id read the other replies, I had completely forgotten the question and answered a different one. Oops! Heres take two!

Yes, you are definitely over thinking it. As others have said, go with the flow. They will have a better idea about what they enjoy than you do, so the best way to make sure everyone has fun is to make sure that you dont take control of the entire sex session. Let them come up with ideas about what they wanna do, invite them to instruct you on how best to please them.... every woman is different after all!

Rather than thinking about what might please them, maybe you can think about one or two things you would like to try for your own enjoyment? That way, when they turn to you and ask what you would like, you will be ready with an answer. If they're half decent people, they will want you to have fun too!

Enjoy! Fay x

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol


"Never plan it lol all the best plans in the world will soon unravel in the heat of the moment. Just go with the flow and a lot of talking and I'm sure it will go well.

That’s my gut feeling right now. Be great to hear from any ladies that have taken part in a threesome like this ! "

I’m sure you’ll handle them both just fine

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Never plan it lol all the best plans in the world will soon unravel in the heat of the moment. Just go with the flow and a lot of talking and I'm sure it will go well.

That’s my gut feeling right now. Be great to hear from any ladies that have taken part in a threesome like this !

I’m sure you’ll handle them both just fine "

I think they might eat me alive

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Well it happened yesterday

OMFG !!! It was the hottest sexual experience I have ever had. We agreed I would sit and watch to start as they got going. Well that lasted 5 minutes didn’t it ! Every position a man dreams about and every filthy fantasy that was in my head we did. Having your face snogged off having a blow job ! Wow just incredible.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I'm glad you enjoyed it I have one planned in a few weeks and I can't wait

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Hope it goes as well as mine. At one point I was lying there thinking will I ever enjoy 1:1 sex again!

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh


"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead? "

Am I jealous.......too fucking right i am.

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead?

Am I jealous.......too fucking right i am. "

Think I deserved it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead? "

Lucky man and glad you enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had our first ever fmf a few weeks ago, I (mr) honestly hardly did a thing, I had every opportunity to do what I wanted whilst involved but was just in absolute amazement that it was actually happening.

The whole experience was brilliant and would love to do it again very soon, just go with the flow and enjoy it!!

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts


"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead? "

I think you're just showing off

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

I have also had a fmf before, great fun. Nothing like the porno films.

Make sure you talk to each other and go with the flow.

Let the 2 fems play first then join in.

Him x

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead?

I think you're just showing off "

Possibly! Can you blame me though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead?

I think you're just showing off

Possibly! Can you blame me though! "

Of course not, any guy would too, especially if the women play with each other its the ultimate scenario for many fellas.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We met another lady for a 3sum it was awesome watching them play then having them both suck my cock together. Janie be loved watching me fuck the other lady and cum in her

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

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