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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What drives couples to even start talking about swinging/Sharing, seems like very much a woman driven desire.

99% of woman like men and or woman but only maybe 25% of men like both men and woman.

So do woman or men get more out if this life

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Are you saying you need to be bisexual to enjoy swinging ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What drives couples to even start talking about swinging/Sharing, seems like very much a woman driven desire.

99% of woman like men and or woman but only maybe 25% of men like both men and woman.

So do woman or men get more out if this life "

I think you saying 99% of women are bisexual is quite a high number

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Or are they saying 1% of women are asexual ?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

There are alot of bi women on this site ,but I do think some do it more to please their partners than because they genuinely want to play with a woman.

So some 3sums are driven by the males fantasy's .

Not all men who are bi do admit to it as there's still a stigma to it at times and some couples/women won't meet bi men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F here. I'm 100% straight and it was me who bought up swinging in conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to your profile you’re a couple who are just starting to get into swinging but you’re asking what drives couples to start talking about swinging….can’t you answer that yourself from your own experience?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Jack here, part of a couple.

When we got together, Alice knew that I was interested in non-monogamy. And she had experienced a few threesomes.

We would talk about swinger-ish scenarios whilst talking about fantasies amd watching porn. Then one day I asked her how she would feel about a relationship where she could sleep with whomever she wanted.

Took her about 00.01 seconds to bite my hand off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What drives couples to even start talking about swinging/Sharing, seems like very much a woman driven desire.

99% of woman like men and or woman but only maybe 25% of men like both men and woman.

So do woman or men get more out if this life "

I feel your maths might be wrong... Also there's Fab 'straight'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What drives couples to even start talking about swinging/Sharing, seems like very much a woman driven desire.

99% of woman like men and or woman but only maybe 25% of men like both men and woman.

So do woman or men get more out if this life

I feel your maths might be wrong... Also there's Fab 'straight' "

I initially thought his maths/stats were wrong until I reread it and realised he said ‘men and or women’ so he’s referring to all women apart from the ones who don’t like men or women so his 99% estimation may not be too far off.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

For us I’ve done it before my wife knew as always been open about past . Then we had fun on nudest beech’s witch she found massive turn on . This lead to us enjoying being watched, cam , outdoor & little dogging fun . Now love mmf fun as I love showing her off and seeing guys play with her

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We met on here. So we didn't really need that conversation because our interests were already out in the open. However we've met lots of couples who have been together years before they started swinging. I love hearing the stories of how they started. It's also very reassuring to know there are so many great relationships out there. To have the openess and security in a relationship to feel safe to express yourself with your partner over such a proposal is a beautiful thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here and combined resources.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We fantasised together in bed. Then we tried Web cam fun. Then we very slowly progressed to a first meet back in 2010. We never looked back x

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

He was my first swing back in a club, many many moons ago. So didn't really need to start the convo.

As to enjoying it more, we feed off each others kinks amd bring it out more in each other. The other statment, I'm Pansexual, so I do it for me. Not putting on a show for him.

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

More women than men are open to unlearning what they were told about their own sexuality (and gender) and learn about themselves from themselves.

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