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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If anyone is thinking of leaving the site, is there even the smallest chance you can just leave or delete your account without having to inform us you are but still be here months later ?

I've seen 3 updates today alone saying this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're staying..

fancy a shag?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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A cetain gentleman is leaving in a number of years, can't remember how many, but sure he will remind us

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By *azzasteMan
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Now come on, surely you are not saying that they are doing it purely to try and get some attention............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll ne leaving the site for the evening soon and be back tomorrow... lool

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

It'd be funny if Admin took it upon themself to save the people the hassle of doing it and just deleted their account for them

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I'll ne leaving the site for the evening soon and be back tomorrow... lool "

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By *azzasteMan
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"It'd be funny if Admin took it upon themself to save the people the hassle of doing it and just deleted their account for them "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'll be signing off for the night in the next hour or so, does that count??

Oh, your on about the attention seeking one's who are hoping to have all the begging, 'please don't go messages'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'd be funny if Admin took it upon themself to save the people the hassle of doing it and just deleted their account for them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *acandJulesCouple
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees

What other reason is there to announce that you are leaving the site other than attention seeking?

If you’re going to leave, just leave there is no need to make a song and dance out of it!! Please don’t give me the “we were just letting our friends list know we were leaving” if that is the case have the common decency to send them a private message about you impending departure and let the rest of us get on with having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we're staying..

fancy a shag?"

oh yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What other reason is there to announce that you are leaving the site other than attention seeking?

If you’re going to leave, just leave there is no need to make a song and dance out of it!! Please don’t give me the “we were just letting our friends list know we were leaving” if that is the case have the common decency to send them a private message about you impending departure and let the rest of us get on with having fun "

Same applies to status updates about deleting or culling friends list

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Now come on, surely you are not saying that they are doing it purely to try and get some attention............"

...perish the thought!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we're staying..

fancy a shag?"

You had me at fancy....

Glad to see it irks others too, it's right up there wi "fab my photos"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It'd be funny if Admin took it upon themself to save the people the hassle of doing it and just deleted their account for them "

One can but wish!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Same applies to status updates about deleting or culling friends list"

Ok, I've been guilty of that in the past! Now I just cull! I've learnt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same applies to status updates about deleting or culling friends list

Ok, I've been guilty of that in the past! Now I just cull! I've learnt lol "

Attention seeker!

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By *acandJulesCouple
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees


"What other reason is there to announce that you are leaving the site other than attention seeking?

If you’re going to leave, just leave there is no need to make a song and dance out of it!! Please don’t give me the “we were just letting our friends list know we were leaving” if that is the case have the common decency to send them a private message about you impending departure and let the rest of us get on with having fun

Same applies to status updates about deleting or culling friends list"

Very true, We did our friends list about 5 weeks ago, but Before we cleaned it up we did send message to people telling them we we're removing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm leaving if I don't get a shag in the next 5 seconds...................

user no longer on site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm leaving if I don't get a shag in the next 5 seconds...................

user no longer on site

"

Ha ha ha

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Does make me chuckle when I see that on profiles, makes me wonder if they think they will suddenly get a queue of people begging them for a shag.

So....we are leaving

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Find it rather pathetic...along with the grandiose "I'm back!" announcement threads. Who gives a fuck?!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

starved of attention as a child is probably the cause.

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales

Back when I used to be far too nice, I used to re-verify the leavers when they came crawling back. Then I realised how many people do it, and some of them are proper yo-yos. Got fed up pretty quickly, and stopped doing it, which led to a few being quite miffed.

Beats me why they don't just hide their profiles if they want to leave cos most of them are back within a month, and they've lost all their veri's.

I've also had quite a few, "I'm back!" emails. Most of the time, hadn't noticed they'd gone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, like the bad smell from something you stepped in, I will be hanging around for the foreseeable future!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've already left!

This is a recorded message - at the tone feel free to cry and sob!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I've already left!

This is a recorded message - at the tone feel free to cry and sob! "

Or cheer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is one person on here who is updating the site saying she will be leaving and then every day its 17 days til i leave this site then the next day its 16 days until i leave etc unfortunately i just noticed today she still has 13 days to go - do you think i should message her and tell her its not like having a phone contract and having to give notice when you want to leave!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we're staying..

fancy a shag?

You had me at fancy....

Glad to see it irks others too, it's right up there wi "fab my photos" "

Oh you didn't mean fab YOUR photos? Whoops lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have decided its time to leave the site. Back in 30 mins after lunch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are closing our account.

We advertised it.

We had our own reasons for doing it.

It worked and acheived what we wanted.

Our profile is now hidden because we dont want contact from new people.

Its still here because we are talking to a few people about this coming weekend.

Once thats over the account will be closed.

We dont want attention, neither of was deprived of it as youngsters and have not been since. In fact over the 2 years or so we have been on here we have had lots of it, and from some really nice people.

We do our own thing and don't care what you do or say, in other words, we dont judge assume or comment on your actions.

So all you who are passing comment or judgement on why people advertise they are closing thier account, open your mind a little, theres always two sides to every story.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"We are closing our account.

We advertised it.

We had our own reasons for doing it.

It worked and acheived what we wanted.

Our profile is now hidden because we dont want contact from new people.

Its still here because we are talking to a few people about this coming weekend.

Once thats over the account will be closed.

We dont want attention, neither of was deprived of it as youngsters and have not been since. In fact over the 2 years or so we have been on here we have had lots of it, and from some really nice people.

We do our own thing and don't care what you do or say, in other words, we dont judge assume or comment on your actions.

So all you who are passing comment or judgement on why people advertise they are closing thier account, open your mind a little, theres always two sides to every story.

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of course there are people like yourselves and all the best to you.

and there are people who are allowed to mention they are leaving weekly, then stay or go and come back... their choice

and mine to comment on it on a thread that raises the subject...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what we are talking about here though are the people who do it for effect - to illicit a response of some sort that they cannot get by other means but are still around six months after declaring they are leaving in 5 days.

Perhaps an ego boost by some saying 'Please don't go we want to meet' or 'You will be missed'. Perhaps for some, validation of what they already expect.

Its not about the people who are genuinely leaving - its about those who stamp their feet because they cant always get what they want.

..cue the Rolling Stones....

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I'm back...from the loo...cue grandiose music...

Just as Funky reminds us every time of his leaving at some point in a future time-worm-stringy thing, I'm afraid you're stuck with me for the forseeable future...messages for me to bugger off can be left at the following thread after the beep...

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/129611

BEEP!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think what we are talking about here though are the people who do it for effect - to illicit a response of some sort that they cannot get by other means but are still around six months after declaring they are leaving in 5 days.

Perhaps an ego boost by some saying 'Please don't go we want to meet' or 'You will be missed'. Perhaps for some, validation of what they already expect.

Its not about the people who are genuinely leaving - its about those who stamp their feet because they cant always get what they want.

..cue the Rolling Stones....

"

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto to another reply above .... i leave every day; but come back for more next day ......actually i never turn FAB off on my BB; just to keep in touch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mmmmm interesting

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

There's one on my local updates saying leaving as the site is so shit. There's been a different variation of this posted each day for the past 3 days........

Looking at the profile it joined.......4 days ago lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've one on my local update and every other day it's , no meets , still waiting for my operation , the NHS this and that !

Ok maybe it's frustrating but sonyiu have to share that info every day ?

Maybe I'm just a grumpy fart, might be r sexual frustration kicking in

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"

Maybe I'm just a grumpy fart, might be r sexual frustration kicking in "

Move up North. I'll sort you out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the.....deleting my account on Monday/Tuesday /Wednesday etc delete as appropriate, if you still want to remain friends message me ! Wtf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined 2 months ago and someone I spoke to has left and returned twice and has the same pics and name

If you really want out tell the people you want to keep in touch with and go its not an advent calendar is it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Maybe I'm just a grumpy fart, might be r sexual frustration kicking in

Move up North. I'll sort you out. "

Just called Pickford

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


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Maybe I'm just a grumpy fart, might be r sexual frustration kicking in

Move up North. I'll sort you out.

Just called Pickford "

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Maybe they want a leaving party? Or a whip round for a gift?

By the way, please fab my pictures before I leave in 74 days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not just the leaving tho...its the returning too.......if your going...go ...if you change your mind and return....just sneak in the back door quietly..no need for trumpets n tick a tape...jeeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we're staying..

fancy a shag?"

Nice nipples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone is thinking of leaving the site, is there even the smallest chance you can just leave or delete your account without having to inform us you are but still be here months later ?

I've seen 3 updates today alone saying this "

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Yup..we left at 11pm last night...and came back around 6 this morning...and if you're all not careful , and I mean VERY careful....we're gonna do it again...

So..watch it......all of you!!!

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