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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I read on the profiles that ppl shouldn't mail that we'll come looking. I don't mean to be up my own arse here but out of 300 profiles not one has left anything. Not that i wouldn't demand it. The odds of not having any interest is bizarre as i modelled it on a whole spectrum of male profiles.

At the moment i'm a bit strapped for cash so i can't get the facility to get me the more functionality. And that means i can't find out if anybody has visited me -To entice them back. Can another user have access to who has _iewed me and let me know as i don't want to waste my time.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you want us to be your PA? Do you want me to make you a cup of tea or do some typing too ??

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

what difference does it make who has _iewed ur profile .. we cant see that either but even if we cud i dont think i wud bother looking as if they aint mailed u the chances are they aint interested so in my opinion it just avoids pointless conversations that wud probably go no where anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on....where's the broom?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I read on the profiles that ppl shouldn't mail that we'll come looking. I don't mean to be up my own arse here but out of 300 profiles not one has left anything. Not that i wouldn't demand it. The odds of not having any interest is bizarre as i modelled it on a whole spectrum of male profiles.

At the moment i'm a bit strapped for cash so i can't get the facility to get me the more functionality. And that means i can't find out if anybody has visited me -To entice them back. Can another user have access to who has _iewed me and let me know as i don't want to waste my time.

"

No one else can see who has looked at your profile......

We have the 'who's looked at me' feature and do have a look through it occasionally...but just because someone has looked doesn't mean they want to meet. They could just be nosey, like us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what difference does it make who has _iewed ur profile .. we cant see that either but even if we cud i dont think i wud bother looking as if they aint mailed u the chances are they aint interested so in my opinion it just avoids pointless conversations that wud probably go no where anyway "

What difference? Then why am i staying? Whats keeping me from staying at fabswingers? The talk? Thats ironic!

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Please,please,stay....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you want us to be your PA? Do you want me to make you a cup of tea or do some typing too ?? "

ppl tend to generally do what they have to in this world. And turn a blind eye to suffereing. Hence the jimmy savile case. Ppl can't stand the risk to being mocked or loose their job. what is more precious losing your job or saving a victim from mental anguish. i know what route i would take. Every time. Loyalty is not such a understood term as some ppl make out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please,please,stay...."

Yay!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"What difference? Then why am i staying? Whats keeping me from staying at fabswingers? The talk? Thats ironic!"

No idea, why are you staying? If your so bothered to see who has _iewed you, pay the £5 for 60 days! It's hardly a fortune!

And if you can't be bothered putting the work in, then maybe you should just leave, just my opinion of course

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"So you want us to be your PA? Do you want me to make you a cup of tea or do some typing too ??

ppl tend to generally do what they have to in this world. And turn a blind eye to suffereing. Hence the jimmy savile case. Ppl can't stand the risk to being mocked or loose their job. what is more precious losing your job or saving a victim from mental anguish. i know what route i would take. Every time. Loyalty is not such a understood term as some ppl make out. "

I'm sorry..... but what the fuck?????

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"So you want us to be your PA? Do you want me to make you a cup of tea or do some typing too ??

ppl tend to generally do what they have to in this world. And turn a blind eye to suffereing. Hence the jimmy savile case. Ppl can't stand the risk to being mocked or loose their job. what is more precious losing your job or saving a victim from mental anguish. i know what route i would take. Every time. Loyalty is not such a understood term as some ppl make out.

I'm sorry..... but what the fuck?????"

Thanks, You said it for me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh you have a lot to learn, been here a week, what did you expect?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Oh you have a lot to learn, been here a week, what did you expect?"

However, he has been here before, I recognise the pictures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh you have a lot to learn, been here a week, what did you expect?

However, he has been here before, I recognise the pictures!"

In that case he learnt nothing the first time round...so good luck this time, I have a feeling he'll need it with that attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you want us to be your PA? Do you want me to make you a cup of tea or do some typing too ??

ppl tend to generally do what they have to in this world. And turn a blind eye to suffereing. Hence the jimmy savile case. Ppl can't stand the risk to being mocked or loose their job. what is more precious losing your job or saving a victim from mental anguish. i know what route i would take. Every time. Loyalty is not such a understood term as some ppl make out.

I'm sorry..... but what the fuck?????"

It's not just me that is confused then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you want us to be your PA? Do you want me to make you a cup of tea or do some typing too ??

ppl tend to generally do what they have to in this world. And turn a blind eye to suffereing. Hence the jimmy savile case. Ppl can't stand the risk to being mocked or loose their job. what is more precious losing your job or saving a victim from mental anguish. i know what route i would take. Every time. Loyalty is not such a understood term as some ppl make out.

I'm sorry..... but what the fuck?????

It's not just me that is confused then... "

Nope us too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh you have a lot to learn, been here a week, what did you expect?"

Use to be Grim on her. So no not really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I read on the profiles that ppl shouldn't mail that we'll come looking. I don't mean to be up my own arse here but out of 300 profiles not one has left anything. Not that i wouldn't demand it. The odds of not having any interest is bizarre as i modelled it on a whole spectrum of male profiles.

At the moment i'm a bit strapped for cash so i can't get the facility to get me the more functionality. And that means i can't find out if anybody has visited me -To entice them back. Can another user have access to who has _iewed me and let me know as i don't want to waste my time.

No one else can see who has looked at your profile......

We have the 'who's looked at me' feature and do have a look through it occasionally...but just because someone has looked doesn't mean they want to meet. They could just be nosey, like us. "

Erm. What is the job of a salesman to get a sale. If i new which cpls were taking an interest then I could be putting the extra effort in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What difference? Then why am i staying? Whats keeping me from staying at fabswingers? The talk? Thats ironic!

No idea, why are you staying? If your so bothered to see who has _iewed you, pay the £5 for 60 days! It's hardly a fortune!

And if you can't be bothered putting the work in, then maybe you should just leave, just my opinion of course "

I'll tell you why i'm staying

I'm 36 years old. never had a girl friend. Love sex. I thought this website was catering for my need to be with a woman. Not all guys have been with woman all their lifes. So they don't mind if they don't get meets. i do. Because i'mn frustrated. And it doesn't help when i have aspergers. and it also doesn't help when ppl appear to be sexually friendly when clearly they are not.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"What difference? Then why am i staying? Whats keeping me from staying at fabswingers? The talk? Thats ironic!

No idea, why are you staying? If your so bothered to see who has _iewed you, pay the £5 for 60 days! It's hardly a fortune!

And if you can't be bothered putting the work in, then maybe you should just leave, just my opinion of course

I'll tell you why i'm staying

I'm 36 years old. never had a girl friend. Love sex. I thought this website was catering for my need to be with a woman. Not all guys have been with woman all their lifes. So they don't mind if they don't get meets. i do. Because i'mn frustrated. And it doesn't help when i have aspergers. and it also doesn't help when ppl appear to be sexually friendly when clearly they are not.

"

think you have the scene all wrong your going as if someone owes you something ,you were the same last time round chill out go to a club

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if I am very honest, you have been here before, you know well how it works and if I remember correctly, you did okay the last time.

keep doing what you used to do, not much has changed here.

good luck

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and most are looking for a functioning cock, with a pleasant, respectful guy behind it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What difference? Then why am i staying? Whats keeping me from staying at fabswingers? The talk? Thats ironic!

No idea, why are you staying? If your so bothered to see who has _iewed you, pay the £5 for 60 days! It's hardly a fortune!

And if you can't be bothered putting the work in, then maybe you should just leave, just my opinion of course

I'll tell you why i'm staying

I'm 36 years old. never had a girl friend. Love sex. I thought this website was catering for my need to be with a woman. Not all guys have been with woman all their lifes. So they don't mind if they don't get meets. i do. Because i'mn frustrated. And it doesn't help when i have aspergers. and it also doesn't help when ppl appear to be sexually friendly when clearly they are not.

think you have the scene all wrong your going as if someone owes you something ,you were the same last time round chill out go to a club"

i don't think i am owed anything. Society or the sex society make out you will get sex. And when it doesn't happen. ppl get frustrated. it's all sales...

Thats the thing. i have aspergers. i prefer one on one or 2 on 1. Ideally not suited unless there is no alternative.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and most are looking for a functioning cock, with a pleasant, respectful guy behind it"

trust me i am respectful. i try and protext young folk. I say why do ppl let young ppl continually get hooked on drink so easily. becasue they dont't want to give it up themselves. Or they don't want to run the risk of being mocked by all the ppl they know. look at gambacini on jimmy saville.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is here to "cater for your needs" and provide you with women? This is not FreeProstitutes.com!!

Maybe you need to think about what you can offer rather than what you want.

It does not matter who is looking at your profile if they are not messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and most are looking for a functioning cock, with a pleasant, respectful guy behind it

trust me i am respectful. i try and protext young folk. I say why do ppl let young ppl continually get hooked on drink so easily. becasue they dont't want to give it up themselves. Or they don't want to run the risk of being mocked by all the ppl they know. look at gambacini on jimmy saville.

"

What on Earth are you going on about. How are drinking and Jimmy Seville related to you getting meets?

You're coming across as confused, confusing, entitled and not at all appealing.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"What difference? Then why am i staying? Whats keeping me from staying at fabswingers? The talk? Thats ironic!

No idea, why are you staying? If your so bothered to see who has _iewed you, pay the £5 for 60 days! It's hardly a fortune!

And if you can't be bothered putting the work in, then maybe you should just leave, just my opinion of course

I'll tell you why i'm staying

I'm 36 years old. never had a girl friend. Love sex. I thought this website was catering for my need to be with a woman. Not all guys have been with woman all their lifes. So they don't mind if they don't get meets. i do. Because i'mn frustrated. And it doesn't help when i have aspergers. and it also doesn't help when ppl appear to be sexually friendly when clearly they are not.

think you have the scene all wrong your going as if someone owes you something ,you were the same last time round chill out go to a club

i don't think i am owed anything. Society or the sex society make out you will get sex. And when it doesn't happen. ppl get frustrated. it's all sales...

Thats the thing. i have aspergers. i prefer one on one or 2 on 1. Ideally not suited unless there is no alternative."

all sales ? er ok your not really selling your self are you if you are bad job ,your posting the same type stuff as before ,didnt you learn anything then, and twice you have mentioned jimmy saville hes gone mate he cant fix it for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and most are looking for a functioning cock, with a pleasant, respectful guy behind it

trust me i am respectful. i try and protext young folk. I say why do ppl let young ppl continually get hooked on drink so easily. becasue they dont't want to give it up themselves. Or they don't want to run the risk of being mocked by all the ppl they know. look at gambacini on jimmy saville.

What on Earth are you going on about. How are drinking and Jimmy Seville related to you getting meets?

You're coming across as confused, confusing, entitled and not at all appealing.

Look. The man said because i want sex i'm not respectful. Ok. Now a child of 12 who goes out at the w/e drinking. Some ppl say this is enjoying life. But what they fail to tell the kids is that it can be addictive and lead to unwanted things. Now the ppl who let this happen are they respectful of giving children a choice in life. or finding happiness that they have taken the same route that they have taken. The motto our problems will be your problems. Now on the subject of mr savile. Gambacini refused to inform on mr savile because he would not be taken seriously. Now I would have have thought he would have more RESPECT for the victim over his disruption to his life. And thats why i said it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let it rattle your pot OP. Things come along in their own time

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What difference? Then why am i staying? Whats keeping me from staying at fabswingers? The talk? Thats ironic!

No idea, why are you staying? If your so bothered to see who has _iewed you, pay the £5 for 60 days! It's hardly a fortune!

And if you can't be bothered putting the work in, then maybe you should just leave, just my opinion of course

I'll tell you why i'm staying

I'm 36 years old. never had a girl friend. Love sex. I thought this website was catering for my need to be with a woman. Not all guys have been with woman all their lifes. So they don't mind if they don't get meets. i do. Because i'mn frustrated. And it doesn't help when i have aspergers. and it also doesn't help when ppl appear to be sexually friendly when clearly they are not.

think you have the scene all wrong your going as if someone owes you something ,you were the same last time round chill out go to a club

i don't think i am owed anything. Society or the sex society make out you will get sex. And when it doesn't happen. ppl get frustrated. it's all sales...

Thats the thing. i have aspergers. i prefer one on one or 2 on 1. Ideally not suited unless there is no alternative.all sales ? er ok your not really selling your self are you if you are bad job ,your posting the same type stuff as before ,didnt you learn anything then, and twice you have mentioned jimmy saville hes gone mate he cant fix it for you "

Erm. LOL. Thats why I asked ppl if i could try and reel the ppl who did look at my profile back in. Thats sales. I hadn't started and you were jumping the gun my friend.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"What difference? Then why am i staying? Whats keeping me from staying at fabswingers? The talk? Thats ironic!

No idea, why are you staying? If your so bothered to see who has _iewed you, pay the £5 for 60 days! It's hardly a fortune!

And if you can't be bothered putting the work in, then maybe you should just leave, just my opinion of course

I'll tell you why i'm staying

I'm 36 years old. never had a girl friend. Love sex. I thought this website was catering for my need to be with a woman. Not all guys have been with woman all their lifes. So they don't mind if they don't get meets. i do. Because i'mn frustrated. And it doesn't help when i have aspergers. and it also doesn't help when ppl appear to be sexually friendly when clearly they are not.

think you have the scene all wrong your going as if someone owes you something ,you were the same last time round chill out go to a club

i don't think i am owed anything. Society or the sex society make out you will get sex. And when it doesn't happen. ppl get frustrated. it's all sales...

Thats the thing. i have aspergers. i prefer one on one or 2 on 1. Ideally not suited unless there is no alternative.all sales ? er ok your not really selling your self are you if you are bad job ,your posting the same type stuff as before ,didnt you learn anything then, and twice you have mentioned jimmy saville hes gone mate he cant fix it for you

Erm. LOL. Thats why I asked ppl if i could try and reel the ppl who did look at my profile back in. Thats sales. I hadn't started and you were jumping the gun my friend."

look you seem to always have the answer so why dont you just pitch your sale see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and most are looking for a functioning cock, with a pleasant, respectful guy behind it

trust me i am respectful. i try and protext young folk. I say why do ppl let young ppl continually get hooked on drink so easily. becasue they dont't want to give it up themselves. Or they don't want to run the risk of being mocked by all the ppl they know. look at gambacini on jimmy saville.

What on Earth are you going on about. How are drinking and Jimmy Seville related to you getting meets?

You're coming across as confused, confusing, entitled and not at all appealing.

Look. The man said because i want sex i'm not respectful. Ok. Now a child of 12 who goes out at the w/e drinking. Some ppl say this is enjoying life. But what they fail to tell the kids is that it can be addictive and lead to unwanted things. Now the ppl who let this happen are they respectful of giving children a choice in life. or finding happiness that they have taken the same route that they have taken. The motto our problems will be your problems. Now on the subject of mr savile. Gambacini refused to inform on mr savile because he would not be taken seriously. Now I would have have thought he would have more RESPECT for the victim over his disruption to his life. And thats why i said it. "

So you think you are more "respectful" than people who allow young people to drink or Paul Gambacini. Bizarre way of explaining it but still.

Show me where on this site it says you are guaranteed sex?

The women here are not here to "cater for your needs". They are here looking for what they want.

The attitude that women are here to service you is very disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, if people have looked at your profile and moved on, they've left your shop. They looked, they weren't interested. Reel them back in how? If you've anything to offer to make you more appealing, offer it upfront.

Maybe make your shop better so people want to stay and talk to you. If they leave, they aren't interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and most are looking for a functioning cock, with a pleasant, respectful guy behind it

trust me i am respectful. i try and protext young folk. I say why do ppl let young ppl continually get hooked on drink so easily. becasue they dont't want to give it up themselves. Or they don't want to run the risk of being mocked by all the ppl they know. look at gambacini on jimmy saville.

What on Earth are you going on about. How are drinking and Jimmy Seville related to you getting meets?

You're coming across as confused, confusing, entitled and not at all appealing.

Look. The man said because i want sex i'm not respectful. Ok. Now a child of 12 who goes out at the w/e drinking. Some ppl say this is enjoying life. But what they fail to tell the kids is that it can be addictive and lead to unwanted things. Now the ppl who let this happen are they respectful of giving children a choice in life. or finding happiness that they have taken the same route that they have taken. The motto our problems will be your problems. Now on the subject of mr savile. Gambacini refused to inform on mr savile because he would not be taken seriously. Now I would have have thought he would have more RESPECT for the victim over his disruption to his life. And thats why i said it.

So you think you are more "respectful" than people who allow young people to drink or Paul Gambacini. Bizarre way of explaining it but still.

Show me where on this site it says you are guaranteed sex?

The women here are not here to "cater for your needs". They are here looking for what they want.

The attitude that women are here to service you is very disrespectful."

I didn't say i was more respectful. I was trying to give some ppl a hnt how difficult it is to use words truthfully on here without appearing hypocritical or contradictory. I contradict myself with respect all the time but i try and enlighten ppl how and why it appears that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and most are looking for a functioning cock, with a pleasant, respectful guy behind it

trust me i am respectful. i try and protext young folk. I say why do ppl let young ppl continually get hooked on drink so easily. becasue they dont't want to give it up themselves. Or they don't want to run the risk of being mocked by all the ppl they know. look at gambacini on jimmy saville.

What on Earth are you going on about. How are drinking and Jimmy Seville related to you getting meets?

You're coming across as confused, confusing, entitled and not at all appealing.

Look. The man said because i want sex i'm not respectful. Ok. Now a child of 12 who goes out at the w/e drinking. Some ppl say this is enjoying life. But what they fail to tell the kids is that it can be addictive and lead to unwanted things. Now the ppl who let this happen are they respectful of giving children a choice in life. or finding happiness that they have taken the same route that they have taken. The motto our problems will be your problems. Now on the subject of mr savile. Gambacini refused to inform on mr savile because he would not be taken seriously. Now I would have have thought he would have more RESPECT for the victim over his disruption to his life. And thats why i said it.

So you think you are more "respectful" than people who allow young people to drink or Paul Gambacini. Bizarre way of explaining it but still.

Show me where on this site it says you are guaranteed sex?

The women here are not here to "cater for your needs". They are here looking for what they want.

The attitude that women are here to service you is very disrespectful."

Oh i dunno. picture of pussies, cocks, orgies. meetings to organise, meetings to _iew.. it gives the impression your only one click away. Forums where they discuss how easy and how fruitful their sexual encounters are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it must be the aspergers ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also, if people have looked at your profile and moved on, they've left your shop. They looked, they weren't interested. Reel them back in how? If you've anything to offer to make you more appealing, offer it upfront.

Maybe make your shop better so people want to stay and talk to you. If they leave, they aren't interested."

Jees. What am i supposed to put on here. Some men have sexually explicit material and they have contacts others don't and they have meets. I can't put anything else on it. People don't want to read a ridiculous amount of words, they may be horny...

it's findng the right balance but enough to push them over the edge.

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over a year ago


"and most are looking for a functioning cock, with a pleasant, respectful guy behind it

trust me i am respectful. i try and protext young folk. I say why do ppl let young ppl continually get hooked on drink so easily. becasue they dont't want to give it up themselves. Or they don't want to run the risk of being mocked by all the ppl they know. look at gambacini on jimmy saville.

What on Earth are you going on about. How are drinking and Jimmy Seville related to you getting meets?

You're coming across as confused, confusing, entitled and not at all appealing.

Look. The man said because i want sex i'm not respectful. Ok. Now a child of 12 who goes out at the w/e drinking. Some ppl say this is enjoying life. But what they fail to tell the kids is that it can be addictive and lead to unwanted things. Now the ppl who let this happen are they respectful of giving children a choice in life. or finding happiness that they have taken the same route that they have taken. The motto our problems will be your problems. Now on the subject of mr savile. Gambacini refused to inform on mr savile because he would not be taken seriously. Now I would have have thought he would have more RESPECT for the victim over his disruption to his life. And thats why i said it.

So you think you are more "respectful" than people who allow young people to drink or Paul Gambacini. Bizarre way of explaining it but still.

Show me where on this site it says you are guaranteed sex?

The women here are not here to "cater for your needs". They are here looking for what they want.

The attitude that women are here to service you is very disrespectful.

Oh i dunno. picture of pussies, cocks, orgies. meetings to organise, meetings to _iew.. it gives the impression your only one click away. Forums where they discuss how easy and how fruitful their sexual encounters are. "

You've completely misunderstood the nature of this. Your impression is flawed.

People are here for sex. That doesn't mean everyone gets it or that it's easy. Women are here looking for what they want, primarily. Not to selfless provide what you want.

As for people discussing how easy it is... there are FAR more threads here complaining the exact opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmm it's tricky. we only want single men but there just doesn't seem enough of them.

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over a year ago


"Also, if people have looked at your profile and moved on, they've left your shop. They looked, they weren't interested. Reel them back in how? If you've anything to offer to make you more appealing, offer it upfront.

Maybe make your shop better so people want to stay and talk to you. If they leave, they aren't interested.

Jees. What am i supposed to put on here. Some men have sexually explicit material and they have contacts others don't and they have meets. I can't put anything else on it. People don't want to read a ridiculous amount of words, they may be horny...

it's findng the right balance but enough to push them over the edge."

Your photos are mediocre and your profile is average at best. Random posts on here about teenage drinking and Jimmy Saville are not likely to help.

Perhaps your attitude that there is some sort of magic formula to getting meets is part of the problem.

Bottom line is you need to appeal to the people you want to meet. If you don't get meets, it means you don't appeal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and most are looking for a functioning cock, with a pleasant, respectful guy behind it

trust me i am respectful. i try and protext young folk. I say why do ppl let young ppl continually get hooked on drink so easily. becasue they dont't want to give it up themselves. Or they don't want to run the risk of being mocked by all the ppl they know. look at gambacini on jimmy saville.

What on Earth are you going on about. How are drinking and Jimmy Seville related to you getting meets?

You're coming across as confused, confusing, entitled and not at all appealing.

Look. The man said because i want sex i'm not respectful. Ok. Now a child of 12 who goes out at the w/e drinking. Some ppl say this is enjoying life. But what they fail to tell the kids is that it can be addictive and lead to unwanted things. Now the ppl who let this happen are they respectful of giving children a choice in life. or finding happiness that they have taken the same route that they have taken. The motto our problems will be your problems. Now on the subject of mr savile. Gambacini refused to inform on mr savile because he would not be taken seriously. Now I would have have thought he would have more RESPECT for the victim over his disruption to his life. And thats why i said it.

So you think you are more "respectful" than people who allow young people to drink or Paul Gambacini. Bizarre way of explaining it but still.

Show me where on this site it says you are guaranteed sex?

The women here are not here to "cater for your needs". They are here looking for what they want.

The attitude that women are here to service you is very disrespectful.

Oh i dunno. picture of pussies, cocks, orgies. meetings to organise, meetings to _iew.. it gives the impression your only one click away. Forums where they discuss how easy and how fruitful their sexual encounters are.

You've completely misunderstood the nature of this. Your impression is flawed.

People are here for sex. That doesn't mean everyone gets it or that it's easy. Women are here looking for what they want, primarily. Not to selfless provide what you want.

As for people discussing how easy it is... there are FAR more threads here complaining the exact opposite."

I;m far from selfless honey. i know not all men and some girls don't get what they want. i understand this. What i was getting at was if there was a way round to finding out who has _iewed me and trying to make a second go of it. people browse with no intent on buying but might want to go back. it's this i cling on to and try to get the opportunity. But with no light to see i am blind as to who might be interested. understand me?

So by your own standards they are wrong[ppl who complain like me] because you accused me of that same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also, if people have looked at your profile and moved on, they've left your shop. They looked, they weren't interested. Reel them back in how? If you've anything to offer to make you more appealing, offer it upfront.

Maybe make your shop better so people want to stay and talk to you. If they leave, they aren't interested.

Jees. What am i supposed to put on here. Some men have sexually explicit material and they have contacts others don't and they have meets. I can't put anything else on it. People don't want to read a ridiculous amount of words, they may be horny...

it's findng the right balance but enough to push them over the edge.

Your photos are mediocre and your profile is average at best. Random posts on here about teenage drinking and Jimmy Saville are not likely to help.

Perhaps your attitude that there is some sort of magic formula to getting meets is part of the problem.

Bottom line is you need to appeal to the people you want to meet. If you don't get meets, it means you don't appeal."

There are nothing wrong with my profile or content. your being personnel. I have looked at the marity of make femake and cpl files on here. And i laugh at your comment i really do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honey?

Way to be patronising!

I'm out of here. Best of luck OP, you're going to need it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honey?

Way to be patronising!

I'm out of here. Best of luck OP, you're going to need it."

Now you know how it feels like. Got you on that!

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

Oh i dunno. picture of pussies, cocks, orgies. meetings to organise, meetings to _iew.. it gives the impression your only one click away. Forums where they discuss how easy and how fruitful their sexual encounters are. [ /quote]

As people have said.. its a swingers site.. not a find a shag dot com... those pics maybe there but that doesnt mean they are for your benefit. most people put pics on to attract other swingers whom they may want to play with.. not just for people who come across like they think its their right and that how dare women have pics on there if they are not prepared to spread em when some guy who cant get a women anywhere else wants it...

If thats the issue try a singles site and/or a club.. you may get what you want..

Oh we check profiles and move on if not interested nothing would make us change our mind at that point..

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

...Trying to read this thread made me wonder if I'd been drinking... I'll try again later.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just pay a fiver and avoid the abuse! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh i dunno. picture of pussies, cocks, orgies. meetings to organise, meetings to _iew.. it gives the impression your only one click away. Forums where they discuss how easy and how fruitful their sexual encounters are. [ /quote]

As people have said.. its a swingers site.. not a find a shag dot com... those pics maybe there but that doesnt mean they are for your benefit. most people put pics on to attract other swingers whom they may want to play with.. not just for people who come across like they think its their right and that how dare women have pics on there if they are not prepared to spread em when some guy who cant get a women anywhere else wants it...

If thats the issue try a singles site and/or a club.. you may get what you want..

Oh we check profiles and move on if not interested nothing would make us change our mind at that point.."

But then you ACCUSE single men of harrasing you with mail when maybe some mesg should be sent or something left to signify something.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...Trying to read this thread made me wonder if I'd been drinking... I'll try again later.

- Amy. x"

I'd be interested in seeing if you understand it when you or if you do come back

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

swings and roundabouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to give yourself a good shake and realise that the chance of you getting a meet is slim especially when you seem to have such an attitude. I don't think any woman or couple would meet you if they had read this post.

It seems in my opinion what your looking for is a prostitute rather than a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we're looking for someone within our criteria who will actually meet for some fun! doesn't appear to be many peeps who do meet

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"...Trying to read this thread made me wonder if I'd been drinking... I'll try again later.

- Amy. x

I'd be interested in seeing if you understand it when you or if you do come back"

I've been back and read it 3 times, and I still don't understand it. I have a half bottle of vodka, I may come back after I've drank that, see if it helps!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here are my answers to your OP!

If YOU want to see WHO has looked at YOU then pay up the £5 it's worth it! No one else can see who has seen you, why would I pay £5 to see who has looked at your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just pay a fiver and avoid the abuse! lol"

At last!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here are my answers to your OP!

If YOU want to see WHO has looked at YOU then pay up the £5 it's worth it! No one else can see who has seen you, why would I pay £5 to see who has looked at your profile?

"

Jees. i didn't mean you pay. is that what all you ppl thought. jees! I read somewhere some woman can look at guys profiles and know what profiles he's been looking at. I thought if that was the case then maybe what i described could happen. not that you pay. haha. thats funny. But nice to know where everybody stands. a lonely 30 something man. not even a whiff of consideration or comapionship. i know why to tread carefully next time..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...Trying to read this thread made me wonder if I'd been drinking... I'll try again later.

- Amy. x

I'd be interested in seeing if you understand it when you or if you do come back

I've been back and read it 3 times, and I still don't understand it. I have a half bottle of vodka, I may come back after I've drank that, see if it helps!! "

Maybe if you come over and see me. Get first hand of what i'm like. then go back to the post and confirm your worst thought then - if you have too....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you need to give yourself a good shake and realise that the chance of you getting a meet is slim especially when you seem to have such an attitude. I don't think any woman or couple would meet you if they had read this post.

It seems in my opinion what your looking for is a prostitute rather than a swinger "

Really. why don't you take an active part in loking after the welfare of your friends children and societies children and not get caught up in the whole rat race shenanigans. a change starts when they shy away from the norm .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a couple we're looking for someone within our criteria who will actually meet for some fun! doesn't appear to be many peeps who do meet "

I think ppl should sit down find out from stats which ppl are clearly not interested in sex or meeting and make sure they can mail for these purposes. Then get the other group who are a possibility and tke it from there. So ppl know where they stand. I can accept if ppl don't want to meet but i need to be certain. No news is bad news. It needs to be solid. A decision has to be made. It's one thing to allow a party but a party leaves a mess. And the mess is the trail of one sided mail battles that has to be addressed. As all this reflects in each one of us and how we choose to intereact in fabswingers.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"...Trying to read this thread made me wonder if I'd been drinking... I'll try again later.

- Amy. x

I'd be interested in seeing if you understand it when you or if you do come back

I've been back and read it 3 times, and I still don't understand it. I have a half bottle of vodka, I may come back after I've drank that, see if it helps!!

Maybe if you come over and see me. Get first hand of what i'm like. then go back to the post and confirm your worst thought then - if you have too...."

Ok. Why would I travel approx 7hours to meet a man, that from his forums posts, I think at best a bit of a weird one, to at worst.... actually I don't want another forum ban, so I'm not going to write that, just to see if my initial impression about him is right or wrong?

Really, why would I want to do that?

Am I being unfair and not giving you a chance? After all I do have naked pictures and a profile on here, so I obviously have to shag everything that shows the barest interest in me, as I owe that to fellow members. Or I have read everything you have said wrong?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

Here here !!!!Im sick of people thinking they can look through profiles and think they can pick you to have sex with them!!! Then they get arsey when you decline their kind offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you need to give yourself a good shake and realise that the chance of you getting a meet is slim especially when you seem to have such an attitude. I don't think any woman or couple would meet you if they had read this post.

It seems in my opinion what your looking for is a prostitute rather than a swinger

Really. why don't you take an active part in loking after the welfare of your friends children and societies children and not get caught up in the whole rat race shenanigans. a change starts when they shy away from the norm . "

Wtf. I don't know what sort of drugs you been taking but I think you need to calm down on them. The majority of what you have posted is a load of babble.

I've got a feeling the men in white coats will come and pick you up soon

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By *heekygeordieguyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I think you need to give yourself a good shake and realise that the chance of you getting a meet is slim especially when you seem to have such an attitude. I don't think any woman or couple would meet you if they had read this post.

It seems in my opinion what your looking for is a prostitute rather than a swinger

Really. why don't you take an active part in loking after the welfare of your friends children and societies children and not get caught up in the whole rat race shenanigans. a change starts when they shy away from the norm .

Wtf. I don't know what sort of drugs you been taking but I think you need to calm down on them. The majority of what you have posted is a load of babble.

I've got a feeling the men in white coats will come and pick you up soon"

Lol,great reply pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here here !!!!Im sick of people thinking they can look through profiles and think they can pick you to have sex with them!!! Then they get arsey when you decline their kind offer "

ERM I don't know if they have declined because they don't leave anything. And i never make assumption and then you accuse me of harrasing woman. Well tell me that your not interested because i'm not a mindreader.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...Trying to read this thread made me wonder if I'd been drinking... I'll try again later.

- Amy. x

I'd be interested in seeing if you understand it when you or if you do come back

I've been back and read it 3 times, and I still don't understand it. I have a half bottle of vodka, I may come back after I've drank that, see if it helps!!

Maybe if you come over and see me. Get first hand of what i'm like. then go back to the post and confirm your worst thought then - if you have too....

Ok. Why would I travel approx 7hours to meet a man, that from his forums posts, I think at best a bit of a weird one, to at worst.... actually I don't want another forum ban, so I'm not going to write that, just to see if my initial impression about him is right or wrong?

Really, why would I want to do that?

Am I being unfair and not giving you a chance? After all I do have naked pictures and a profile on here, so I obviously have to shag everything that shows the barest interest in me, as I owe that to fellow members. Or I have read everything you have said wrong?"

you obviously don't have a sense of humour. Thats fine. noones perfect. Well look at your friends and family. How long have you known them and you safely judge them. Why do you judge me with one post?

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"Oh i dunno. picture of pussies, cocks, orgies. meetings to organise, meetings to _iew.. it gives the impression your only one click away. Forums where they discuss how easy and how fruitful their sexual encounters are. [ /quote]

As people have said.. its a swingers site.. not a find a shag dot com... those pics maybe there but that doesnt mean they are for your benefit. most people put pics on to attract other swingers whom they may want to play with.. not just for people who come across like they think its their right and that how dare women have pics on there if they are not prepared to spread em when some guy who cant get a women anywhere else wants it...

If thats the issue try a singles site and/or a club.. you may get what you want..

Oh we check profiles and move on if not interested nothing would make us change our mind at that point..

But then you ACCUSE single men of harrasing you with mail when maybe some mesg should be sent or something left to signify something."

Wtf ? So are we supposed to message every profile that we check and say 'sorry checked your profile but we won't meet you so don't message us back' ? lol... thats the thing if you message people can message you back.. which could be people that are filtered out and otherwise would not be able to message us... if we are interested we would message, if not we leave the profile and don't go back... We have our set so that when we check profiles no one sees that we have looked... we did this to stop the unwanted junk from people that we wouldn't meet... how will we know of we would meet them or at least enter into a chat with them to see if we did not check their profile... if guys message us and we are not interested we message them back and tell them so..

We check profiles and if we are interested we message.. would not message or read a message from a guy without reading his profile... that's what they are there for... We only moan about guys harrassing us when we get messages from guys that are clearly way away from what we are looking for as our profile said (before we removed the bulk of it) or when they have been told thanks but no thanks not for us and they keep coming back pestering and pestering and just not taking no for an answer. We as are most very busy working people with young family and like our time when we can meet to be with the people that suit us best.. just being on here does not mean we have to meet anyone that we don't want to... there maybe time when we want to meet a few as we have a few days child free but then it could be a few months before we get the chance again as real life has to come first. That's why you are probably on the wrong site.. and are completely misguided about a swingers site as its not what you appear to think it is.. people are here for there own enjoyment and not just to pleasure guys that have failed to get sex anywhere else which is how your posts are reading... sorry but they do.. And with this thread you really are just making it worse for yourself as I am sure alot reading it would and have agreed.

This needing to message women or couples that check your profile is the same as in chatroom... why is it that guys jump if you are clicking down through webcams and you for a few seconds are on a guys cam they jump and message or pm you .. with whatever pathetic message they send. When our cam is on we don't try to message everyone that _iews it either briefly or that stay for longer. crazy attitude...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 07/11/12 15:09:36]"

I'm beside myself with laughter.

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over a year ago


""Oh i dunno. picture of pussies, cocks, orgies. meetings to organise, meetings to _iew.. it gives the impression your only one click away. Forums where they discuss how easy and how fruitful their sexual encounters are. [ /quote]

As people have said.. its a swingers site.. not a find a shag dot com... those pics maybe there but that doesnt mean they are for your benefit. most people put pics on to attract other swingers whom they may want to play with.. not just for people who come across like they think its their right and that how dare women have pics on there if they are not prepared to spread em when some guy who cant get a women anywhere else wants it...

If thats the issue try a singles site and/or a club.. you may get what you want..

Oh we check profiles and move on if not interested nothing would make us change our mind at that point..

But then you ACCUSE single men of harrasing you with mail when maybe some mesg should be sent or something left to signify something."

Wtf ? So are we supposed to message every profile that we check and say 'sorry checked your profile but we won't meet you so don't message us back' ? lol... thats the thing if you message people can message you back.. which could be people that are filtered out and otherwise would not be able to message us... if we are interested we would message, if not we leave the profile and don't go back... We have our set so that when we check profiles no one sees that we have looked... we did this to stop the unwanted junk from people that we wouldn't meet... how will we know of we would meet them or at least enter into a chat with them to see if we did not check their profile... if guys message us and we are not interested we message them back and tell them so..

We check profiles and if we are interested we message.. would not message or read a message from a guy without reading his profile... that's what they are there for... We only moan about guys harrassing us when we get messages from guys that are clearly way away from what we are looking for as our profile said (before we removed the bulk of it) or when they have been told thanks but no thanks not for us and they keep coming back pestering and pestering and just not taking no for an answer. We as are most very busy working people with young family and like our time when we can meet to be with the people that suit us best.. just being on here does not mean we have to meet anyone that we don't want to... there maybe time when we want to meet a few as we have a few days child free but then it could be a few months before we get the chance again as real life has to come first. That's why you are probably on the wrong site.. and are completely misguided about a swingers site as its not what you appear to think it is.. people are here for there own enjoyment and not just to pleasure guys that have failed to get sex anywhere else which is how your posts are reading... sorry but they do.. And with this thread you really are just making it worse for yourself as I am sure alot reading it would and have agreed.

This needing to message women or couples that check your profile is the same as in chatroom... why is it that guys jump if you are clicking down through webcams and you for a few seconds are on a guys cam they jump and message or pm you .. with whatever pathetic message they send. When our cam is on we don't try to message everyone that _iews it either briefly or that stay for longer. crazy attitude..."

I guess thats the price being on a website aimed at having frelly available sex. All genders will push the boundaries. I don't push the boundaries unless the person wants it . Please don't fudge me on the actions of other men. I'm frustrated at not having females yes, but i still have dignity about what to say...to get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP why are you being abbusive towards fellow posters? We have given you advice and still you harp on!!

If you want meets you need to be prepared to do the leg work! Contact the people your interested in, if they say no, move on!! Whining and moaning in the forums is going to get you no where!

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"[Removed by poster at 07/11/12 15:09:36]

I'm beside myself with laughter. "

I would be if I were you, you sound like you started on the pop a bit early today... and yes I removed it as I thought I would add a bit more to it so go for it... Good job you can laugh at least you are not bored without any meets ... happy swinging..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here here !!!!Im sick of people thinking they can look through profiles and think they can pick you to have sex with them!!! Then they get arsey when you decline their kind offer "

Look. I'm a guy. And when you have a picture that has you jerking off some poor guy then that says to me and countless others - i like sex. come and get me. Yes it your choice who to pick but it's not your right to complain about getting the attention. As you caused it.

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over a year ago


"Here here !!!!Im sick of people thinking they can look through profiles and think they can pick you to have sex with them!!! Then they get arsey when you decline their kind offer

Look. I'm a guy. And when you have a picture that has you jerking off some poor guy then that says to me and countless others - i like sex. come and get me. Yes it your choice who to pick but it's not your right to complain about getting the attention. As you caused it.

"

Wtf?? Heard it all now!

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


""Oh i dunno. picture of pussies, cocks, orgies. meetings to organise, meetings to _iew.. it gives the impression your only one click away. Forums where they discuss how easy and how fruitful their sexual encounters are. [ /quote]

As people have said.. its a swingers site.. not a find a shag dot com... those pics maybe there but that doesnt mean they are for your benefit. most people put pics on to attract other swingers whom they may want to play with.. not just for people who come across like they think its their right and that how dare women have pics on there if they are not prepared to spread em when some guy who cant get a women anywhere else wants it...

If thats the issue try a singles site and/or a club.. you may get what you want..

Oh we check profiles and move on if not interested nothing would make us change our mind at that point..

But then you ACCUSE single men of harrasing you with mail when maybe some mesg should be sent or something left to signify something."

Wtf ? So are we supposed to message every profile that we check and say 'sorry checked your profile but we won't meet you so don't message us back' ? lol... thats the thing if you message people can message you back.. which could be people that are filtered out and otherwise would not be able to message us... if we are interested we would message, if not we leave the profile and don't go back... We have our set so that when we check profiles no one sees that we have looked... we did this to stop the unwanted junk from people that we wouldn't meet... how will we know of we would meet them or at least enter into a chat with them to see if we did not check their profile... if guys message us and we are not interested we message them back and tell them so..

We check profiles and if we are interested we message.. would not message or read a message from a guy without reading his profile... that's what they are there for... We only moan about guys harrassing us when we get messages from guys that are clearly way away from what we are looking for as our profile said (before we removed the bulk of it) or when they have been told thanks but no thanks not for us and they keep coming back pestering and pestering and just not taking no for an answer. We as are most very busy working people with young family and like our time when we can meet to be with the people that suit us best.. just being on here does not mean we have to meet anyone that we don't want to... there maybe time when we want to meet a few as we have a few days child free but then it could be a few months before we get the chance again as real life has to come first. That's why you are probably on the wrong site.. and are completely misguided about a swingers site as its not what you appear to think it is.. people are here for there own enjoyment and not just to pleasure guys that have failed to get sex anywhere else which is how your posts are reading... sorry but they do.. And with this thread you really are just making it worse for yourself as I am sure alot reading it would and have agreed.

This needing to message women or couples that check your profile is the same as in chatroom... why is it that guys jump if you are clicking down through webcams and you for a few seconds are on a guys cam they jump and message or pm you .. with whatever pathetic message they send. When our cam is on we don't try to message everyone that _iews it either briefly or that stay for longer. crazy attitude...

I guess thats the price being on a website aimed at having frelly available sex. All genders will push the boundaries. I don't push the boundaries unless the person wants it . Please don't fudge me on the actions of other men. I'm frustrated at not having females yes, but i still have dignity about what to say...to get it."

Good for you .. but your post that I replied to here you said that we then accuse men of harrassing us.. and I explained just because people check your profile they have to do that to see if they want to meet..

We get meets and are happy, and as you say now you know what to say to get meets ? .... wtf was the point of a thread moaning that you weren't getting any and that you need to see who has _iewed so you can entice them back !!!

Good god.... its not a site advertising sex freely its a swingers site for adult nsa fun...

hence if you are finding people to meet good for you and go get on with it.. you posted and now you get funny and snotty with people...

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Here here !!!!Im sick of people thinking they can look through profiles and think they can pick you to have sex with them!!! Then they get arsey when you decline their kind offer

Look. I'm a guy. And when you have a picture that has you jerking off some poor guy then that says to me and countless others - i like sex. come and get me. Yes it your choice who to pick but it's not your right to complain about getting the attention. As you caused it.

Wtf?? Heard it all now! "

Agree unreal attitude he's got!!! it might say we like adult fun but it does not say come get me !! some people..

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over a year ago

Well.... isn't this an interesting little thread...... Light blue touch-paper, stands well back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well.... isn't this an interesting little thread...... Light blue touch-paper, stands well back...

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In a hard hat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Oh i dunno. picture of pussies, cocks, orgies. meetings to organise, meetings to _iew.. it gives the impression your only one click away. Forums where they discuss how easy and how fruitful their sexual encounters are. [ /quote]

As people have said.. its a swingers site.. not a find a shag dot com... those pics maybe there but that doesnt mean they are for your benefit. most people put pics on to attract other swingers whom they may want to play with.. not just for people who come across like they think its their right and that how dare women have pics on there if they are not prepared to spread em when some guy who cant get a women anywhere else wants it...

If thats the issue try a singles site and/or a club.. you may get what you want..

Oh we check profiles and move on if not interested nothing would make us change our mind at that point..

But then you ACCUSE single men of harrasing you with mail when maybe some mesg should be sent or something left to signify something."

Wtf ? So are we supposed to message every profile that we check and say 'sorry checked your profile but we won't meet you so don't message us back' ? lol... thats the thing if you message people can message you back.. which could be people that are filtered out and otherwise would not be able to message us... if we are interested we would message, if not we leave the profile and don't go back... We have our set so that when we check profiles no one sees that we have looked... we did this to stop the unwanted junk from people that we wouldn't meet... how will we know of we would meet them or at least enter into a chat with them to see if we did not check their profile... if guys message us and we are not interested we message them back and tell them so..

We check profiles and if we are interested we message.. would not message or read a message from a guy without reading his profile... that's what they are there for... We only moan about guys harrassing us when we get messages from guys that are clearly way away from what we are looking for as our profile said (before we removed the bulk of it) or when they have been told thanks but no thanks not for us and they keep coming back pestering and pestering and just not taking no for an answer. We as are most very busy working people with young family and like our time when we can meet to be with the people that suit us best.. just being on here does not mean we have to meet anyone that we don't want to... there maybe time when we want to meet a few as we have a few days child free but then it could be a few months before we get the chance again as real life has to come first. That's why you are probably on the wrong site.. and are completely misguided about a swingers site as its not what you appear to think it is.. people are here for there own enjoyment and not just to pleasure guys that have failed to get sex anywhere else which is how your posts are reading... sorry but they do.. And with this thread you really are just making it worse for yourself as I am sure alot reading it would and have agreed.

This needing to message women or couples that check your profile is the same as in chatroom... why is it that guys jump if you are clicking down through webcams and you for a few seconds are on a guys cam they jump and message or pm you .. with whatever pathetic message they send. When our cam is on we don't try to message everyone that _iews it either briefly or that stay for longer. crazy attitude...

I guess thats the price being on a website aimed at having frelly available sex. All genders will push the boundaries. I don't push the boundaries unless the person wants it . Please don't fudge me on the actions of other men. I'm frustrated at not having females yes, but i still have dignity about what to say...to get it.

Good for you .. but your post that I replied to here you said that we then accuse men of harrassing us.. and I explained just because people check your profile they have to do that to see if they want to meet..

We get meets and are happy, and as you say now you know what to say to get meets ? .... wtf was the point of a thread moaning that you weren't getting any and that you need to see who has _iewed so you can entice them back !!!

Good god.... its not a site advertising sex freely its a swingers site for adult nsa fun...

hence if you are finding people to meet good for you and go get on with it.. you posted and now you get funny and snotty with people... "

I agree with you in the most part. But where is the courtest of letting someone know that they are not interested.

Have ppls IQ suddenly dropped? How am i to know if i'm harrassing someone if they don't send any word back to me....

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over a year ago


"Here here !!!!Im sick of people thinking they can look through profiles and think they can pick you to have sex with them!!! Then they get arsey when you decline their kind offer

Look. I'm a guy. And when you have a picture that has you jerking off some poor guy then that says to me and countless others - i like sex. come and get me. Yes it your choice who to pick but it's not your right to complain about getting the attention. As you caused it.

Wtf?? Heard it all now!

Agree unreal attitude he's got!!! it might say we like adult fun but it does not say come get me !! some people.. "

No. Then why is this only have 300 profiles? How many millions on GB are there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well.... isn't this an interesting little thread...... Light blue touch-paper, stands well back...

In a hard hat"

... and full Kevlar body armour by the look of things... What a pity I have missed most of the fun this morning but you all seem to have things well under control (as usual) so I'll just have a giggle reading...

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hang on....where's the broom?"

I've wedged it between your bum cheeks, so you can also get on with the rest of what the OP is wanting

PS: .....,where's Prof and his "stay team"

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Well.... isn't this an interesting little thread...... Light blue touch-paper, stands well back...

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think its more of a car crash before the eyes thread..

just when you open a thread having thought you had seen it all on here..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hang on....where's the broom?

I've wedged it between your bum cheeks, so you can also get on with the rest of what the OP is wanting

PS: .....,where's Prof and his "stay team" "

I'm not wanting much. If people are such a good jusge of character then there wouldn't be all the fuck ups in this world in it's problems. now would there???

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over a year ago


"Hang on....where's the broom?

I've wedged it between your bum cheeks, so you can also get on with the rest of what the OP is wanting

PS: .....,where's Prof and his "stay team" "

You called....... ?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I agree with you in the most part. But where is the courtest of letting someone know that they are not interested.

Have ppls IQ suddenly dropped? How am i to know if i'm harrassing someone if they don't send any word back to me...."

If they're interested they'll reply. Take a no reply as a not interested.

you might also want to block anyobe who isn't interested and then you won't harrass them.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"I guess thats the price being on a website aimed at having freely available sex."

...But that's just it, it's NOT "freely available sex", it's a SWINGERS site.

People come here to meet other like-minded people, share fantasies, common interests and sexual experiences. I personally enjoy it more for the community.

A lot of people join this site thinking there will be a production line of women just waiting with their legs open to shag anyone. If THAT's what you're looking for, I think you're in the wrong place.

- Amy. x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Also, if you read the rules/guidelines you will find that a no reply should be accepted as a "no thank you". That has been officially adopted on this site.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with you in the most part. But where is the courtest of letting someone know that they are not interested.

Have ppls IQ suddenly dropped? How am i to know if i'm harrassing someone if they don't send any word back to me....

If they're interested they'll reply. Take a no reply as a not interested.

you might also want to block anyobe who isn't interested and then you won't harrass them."

Then thats 300 profiles and not one of them want me? Don't mean to sound up myself but thats a bit unbelievable?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess thats the price being on a website aimed at having freely available sex.

...But that's just it, it's NOT "freely available sex", it's a SWINGERS site.

People come here to meet other like-minded people, share fantasies, common interests and sexual experiences. I personally enjoy it more for the community.

A lot of people join this site thinking there will be a production line of women just waiting with their legs open to shag anyone. If THAT's what you're looking for, I think you're in the wrong place.

- Amy. x"

Woman act like they have sex all the time and enjoy the come on. Either this is true or woman are causing more problems for men

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

Then thats 300 profiles and not one of them want me? Don't mean to sound up myself but thats a bit unbelievable?"

i wud deffinately believe it .. there are soo many single guys on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What difference? Then why am i staying? Whats keeping me from staying at fabswingers? The talk? Thats ironic!

No idea, why are you staying? If your so bothered to see who has _iewed you, pay the £5 for 60 days! It's hardly a fortune!

And if you can't be bothered putting the work in, then maybe you should just leave, just my opinion of course

I'll tell you why i'm staying

I'm 36 years old. never had a girl friend. Love sex. I thought this website was catering for my need to be with a woman. Not all guys have been with woman all their lifes. So they don't mind if they don't get meets. i do. Because i'mn frustrated. And it doesn't help when i have aspergers. and it also doesn't help when ppl appear to be sexually friendly when clearly they are not.

think you have the scene all wrong your going as if someone owes you something ,you were the same last time round chill out go to a club

i don't think i am owed anything. Society or the sex society make out you will get sex. And when it doesn't happen. ppl get frustrated. it's all sales...

Thats the thing. i have aspergers. i prefer one on one or 2 on 1. Ideally not suited unless there is no alternative.all sales ? er ok your not really selling your self are you if you are bad job ,your posting the same type stuff as before ,didnt you learn anything then, and twice you have mentioned jimmy saville hes gone mate he cant fix it for you "

unlike lance armstrong if he's innocent he gave up the battle. I don't i fight for change and justice. i fight because i can afford to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you in the most part. But where is the courtest of letting someone know that they are not interested.

Have ppls IQ suddenly dropped? How am i to know if i'm harrassing someone if they don't send any word back to me....

If they're interested they'll reply. Take a no reply as a not interested.

you might also want to block anyobe who isn't interested and then you won't harrass them.

Then thats 300 profiles and not one of them want me? Don't mean to sound up myself but thats a bit unbelievable?"

Are you trying to say there are only 300 women on here ..sorry to make you feel worse , but there are thousands.

From reading your comments all I can say is that you have no understanding of women or swingers or how to act around either of them !!! It really isn't surprising you haven't had any luck .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with you in the most part. But where is the courtest of letting someone know that they are not interested.

Have ppls IQ suddenly dropped? How am i to know if i'm harrassing someone if they don't send any word back to me....

If they're interested they'll reply. Take a no reply as a not interested.

you might also want to block anyobe who isn't interested and then you won't harrass them.

Then thats 300 profiles and not one of them want me? Don't mean to sound up myself but thats a bit unbelievable?

Are you trying to say there are only 300 women on here ..sorry to make you feel worse , but there are thousands.

From reading your comments all I can say is that you have no understanding of women or swingers or how to act around either of them !!! It really isn't surprising you haven't had any luck ."

I have to be sensible about things at the moment i can't travel - thats why the nbs are so low. it's fixed to lanarkshire areaI don't expect the person(s) i'm interested to travel if i can't.

Well woman don't know how to act among woman thats why they bitch about them so much - so how do you expect me to? or any man. i don't want to. WE ARE SEPARATE GENDERS FOR A REASON. For compromise of some sort

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Woman act like they have sex all the time and enjoy the come on. Either this is true or woman are causing more problems for men"

Some of them probably do, but with select people they WANT to meet, not everyone.

You sure you haven't been talking to single men in disguise? Lol.

- Amy. x

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

the site works very much like any pub or club with lots of single fellas in it. Some guys will get loads of attention whilst others will get none.. its the same on here !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with you in the most part. But where is the courtest of letting someone know that they are not interested.

Have ppls IQ suddenly dropped? How am i to know if i'm harrassing someone if they don't send any word back to me....

If they're interested they'll reply. Take a no reply as a not interested.

you might also want to block anyobe who isn't interested and then you won't harrass them.

Then thats 300 profiles and not one of them want me? Don't mean to sound up myself but thats a bit unbelievable?

Are you trying to say there are only 300 women on here ..sorry to make you feel worse , but there are thousands.

From reading your comments all I can say is that you have no understanding of women or swingers or how to act around either of them !!! It really isn't surprising you haven't had any luck ."

Why do you think there is a certain way to speak to woman? Woman do the same things as men. They are responsible for the planet. people don't even know what a person is let alone how to behave? hence the word Curious. people have no idea who they are and it frightens them.

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales

I hesitate to bring this up, and might regret it... But here goes:

OP, you've openly mentioned in the forum that you have Aspergers, so hope you don't mind me discussing it either. I don't know you, and don't know what your particular symptoms are, so will talk in general terms, because I don't wish to judge you.

I've known a couple of people with Aspergers, and both freely admit to having poor social skills, and an inability to use perspective taking. They know that this can sometimes result in them coming across as rude, and this can sometimes border on abusive. They struggle to see the other person's point of _iew in an argument. Because they are aware of this, they know they they struggle to form attachments and meet new people.

Like I said earlier, I don't know you and don't know your symptoms, but what I have seen is you're coming across as rude and appear to be failing to see other people's point if _iew.

Just food for thought... (Now I fear I maybe sorry for peeking over the parapet so I'm ducking back down again)!

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I have to be sensible about things at the moment i can't travel - thats why the nbs are so low. it's fixed to lanarkshire areaI don't expect the person(s) i'm interested to travel if i can't."

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Of course we're all missing it, "Lanarkshire, UK's Swinging Capital"!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hesitate to bring this up, and might regret it... But here goes:

OP, you've openly mentioned in the forum that you have Aspergers, so hope you don't mind me discussing it either. I don't know you, and don't know what your particular symptoms are, so will talk in general terms, because I don't wish to judge you.

I've known a couple of people with Aspergers, and both freely admit to having poor social skills, and an inability to use perspective taking. They know that this can sometimes result in them coming across as rude, and this can sometimes border on abusive. They struggle to see the other person's point of _iew in an argument. Because they are aware of this, they know they they struggle to form attachments and meet new people.

Like I said earlier, I don't know you and don't know your symptoms, but what I have seen is you're coming across as rude and appear to be failing to see other people's point if _iew.

Just food for thought... (Now I fear I maybe sorry for peeking over the parapet so I'm ducking back down again)!"

Haha

Thanks for taking an interest

But then i could charge you with that same accusation that you have on me.

But why do ppl assume that normality is without arguments. it's only through arguments that one develops a sense of understanding. Hence the term debate. hence the ppl sitting in the house of commons or wherever it is. I hold on to a _iew not for personnel reasons but for logic and reason. Thats where I differ i think. And I think thats the confusion. I play like you would play a game of chess.

Bottom line is this. I'm frustrated as fuck and my only outlet is tossing off to porn. Now i want to have sex because i think there is something disturbing about something as unproductive as it. But i see news stories about sexual predators who do stuff because they don't have sex. And i apply reasoning to it and say i don't want to be like that. Got to get my self a woman. And thats probably where i come across as pushy cos i don't want to go down that route.

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I hesitate to bring this up, and might regret it... But here goes:

OP, you've openly mentioned in the forum that you have Aspergers, so hope you don't mind me discussing it either. I don't know you, and don't know what your particular symptoms are, so will talk in general terms, because I don't wish to judge you.

I've known a couple of people with Aspergers, and both freely admit to having poor social skills, and an inability to use perspective taking. They know that this can sometimes result in them coming across as rude, and this can sometimes border on abusive. They struggle to see the other person's point of _iew in an argument. Because they are aware of this, they know they they struggle to form attachments and meet new people.

Like I said earlier, I don't know you and don't know your symptoms, but what I have seen is you're coming across as rude and appear to be failing to see other people's point if _iew.

Just food for thought... (Now I fear I maybe sorry for peeking over the parapet so I'm ducking back down again)!"

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I suspect that's the nail firmly hit on the head!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to be sensible about things at the moment i can't travel - thats why the nbs are so low. it's fixed to lanarkshire areaI don't expect the person(s) i'm interested to travel if i can't.

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Of course we're all missing it, "Lanarkshire, UK's Swinging Capital"!"

Rub it in Mr BBD!

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Bottom line is this. I'm frustrated as fuck and my only outlet is tossing off to porn. Now i want to have sex because i think there is something disturbing about something as unproductive as it. But i see news stories about sexual predators who do stuff because they don't have sex. And i apply reasoning to it and say i don't want to be like that. Got to get my self a woman. And thats probably where i come across as pushy cos i don't want to go down that route. "

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Noooooooooooooooooo!!

{just when it seemed safe to get back in the water}}

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I have to be sensible about things at the moment i can't travel - thats why the nbs are so low. it's fixed to lanarkshire areaI don't expect the person(s) i'm interested to travel if i can't.

.

Of course we're all missing it, "Lanarkshire, UK's Swinging Capital"!

Rub it in Mr BBD!

"

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..but you'd probably like that! {JOKE}

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales

"Bottom line is this. I'm frustrated as fuck and my only outlet is tossing off to porn. Now i want to have sex because i think there is something disturbing about something as unproductive as it. But i see news stories about sexual predators who do stuff because they don't have sex. And i apply reasoning to it and say i don't want to be like that. Got to get my self a woman. And thats probably where i come across as pushy cos i don't want to go down that route."

Well I'm glad you're not wanting to choose the route of becoming a sex offender(!) And yes, sex is a healthy outlet. But trying to see it from the point of _iew of the woman you would be 'using' as an outlet... How do you think she might feel about the fact that you're only wanting to dump your load in her to make sure you don't go out and rape someone? From my point of _iew as a woman, that's not a very tempting meet.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

crikey .. i think i need a drink !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Bottom line is this. I'm frustrated as fuck and my only outlet is tossing off to porn. Now i want to have sex because i think there is something disturbing about something as unproductive as it. But i see news stories about sexual predators who do stuff because they don't have sex. And i apply reasoning to it and say i don't want to be like that. Got to get my self a woman. And thats probably where i come across as pushy cos i don't want to go down that route."

Well I'm glad you're not wanting to choose the route of becoming a sex offender(!) And yes, sex is a healthy outlet. But trying to see it from the point of _iew of the woman you would be 'using' as an outlet... How do you think she might feel about the fact that you're only wanting to dump your load in her to make sure you don't go out and rape someone? From my point of _iew as a woman, that's not a very tempting meet. "

because it is offensive are you saying it is not right?

look at volcanoes. I think it is offensive to families keeping children near volcanoes when we know they could erupt. But its part of nature isn't it.

Well, i think my reasoning is part of nature because i exist. and if u accept my as a person you have to accept for any possibility of things a perosn has to offer.

I could retort by saying how could ppl allow the drinking culture to go on as long as it has when adults have addictive personalities. Aren't children more vunerable than adults?

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales

"because it is offensive are you saying it is not right?"

Whether its right or wrong, the bottom line is, it's unlikely to get you a meet. You appear to have quite a cold clinical _iew of sex. I'm curious to whether you've considered prostitution as an option for releasing your frustration? (That's not me recommending it, just asking).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Bottom line is this. I'm frustrated as fuck and my only outlet is tossing off to porn. Now i want to have sex because i think there is something disturbing about something as unproductive as it. But i see news stories about sexual predators who do stuff because they don't have sex. And i apply reasoning to it and say i don't want to be like that. Got to get my self a woman. And thats probably where i come across as pushy cos i don't want to go down that route."

Well I'm glad you're not wanting to choose the route of becoming a sex offender(!) And yes, sex is a healthy outlet. But trying to see it from the point of _iew of the woman you would be 'using' as an outlet... How do you think she might feel about the fact that you're only wanting to dump your load in her to make sure you don't go out and rape someone? From my point of _iew as a woman, that's not a very tempting meet.

because it is offensive are you saying it is not right?

look at volcanoes. I think it is offensive to families keeping children near volcanoes when we know they could erupt. But its part of nature isn't it.

Well, i think my reasoning is part of nature because i exist. and if u accept my as a person you have to accept for any possibility of things a perosn has to offer.

I could retort by saying how could ppl allow the drinking culture to go on as long as it has when adults have addictive personalities. Aren't children more vunerable than adults? "

There is no such thing as a true character because we all have to change to a small degree or so for there any chance of any slice of harmony to exist in this world...

but we won't...why?

I think it is partly to do with a wary relationship with what is acceptable for a human. is it right for a human to have an interchangeable character. it is plagued by Robert loius stevenson attacking it on a monstrous level. But i strongly feel this split personality can and has to be observed if society wants to get this country under better awareness.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"crikey .. i think i need a drink ! "

Yeah, make mine a double please! Think we're going to need it!

- Amy. x

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

So, if in a few weeks times we read the headlines of a serial rapist in Strathaven, we are to blame ourselves for not getting you laid?

Jesus the Daily Mail will have a field day with that one.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"crikey .. i think i need a drink !

Yeah, make mine a double please! Think we're going to need it!

- Amy. x"

Large once each Amy .. cheers !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""because it is offensive are you saying it is not right?"

Whether its right or wrong, the bottom line is, it's unlikely to get you a meet. You appear to have quite a cold clinical _iew of sex. I'm curious to whether you've considered prostitution as an option for releasing your frustration? (That's not me recommending it, just asking). "

yes.Some girls do it because they like it but some girls are not so lucky. and you never know what their background is. some girls and guys gave them a hard time but they made a sacrifice in a way. They are cleaner than some ppl who don't do prostitution. it's still a taboo subject. i have mixed feelings. But they do take the edge of this cold world. They are nice ppl given what we are fed how they are by the press and what not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, if in a few weeks times we read the headlines of a serial rapist in Strathaven, we are to blame ourselves for not getting you laid?

Jesus the Daily Mail will have a field day with that one.

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My reasons may upset you and appear cold or what not. Society created these things for ppl and saying that it offensive is rather peculiar. Who else caused it so we have to address it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh you have a lot to learn, been here a week, what did you expect?

However, he has been here before, I recognise the pictures!"

So you are the one who didn't leave a please fuck me up the bum bareback message , and caused all this malarkey !!

Shame on you

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Oh you have a lot to learn, been here a week, what did you expect?

However, he has been here before, I recognise the pictures!

So you are the one who didn't leave a please fuck me up the bum bareback message , and caused all this malarkey !!

Shame on you "

Is the guy or female talking ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you in the most part. But where is the courtest of letting someone know that they are not interested.

Have ppls IQ suddenly dropped? How am i to know if i'm harrassing someone if they don't send any word back to me....

If they're interested they'll reply. Take a no reply as a not interested.

you might also want to block anyobe who isn't interested and then you won't harrass them.

Then thats 300 profiles and not one of them want me? Don't mean to sound up myself but thats a bit unbelievable?"

It's not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with you in the most part. But where is the courtest of letting someone know that they are not interested.

Have ppls IQ suddenly dropped? How am i to know if i'm harrassing someone if they don't send any word back to me....

If they're interested they'll reply. Take a no reply as a not interested.

you might also want to block anyobe who isn't interested and then you won't harrass them.

Then thats 300 profiles and not one of them want me? Don't mean to sound up myself but thats a bit unbelievable?

It's not "

so we have a hacker then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with you in the most part. But where is the courtest of letting someone know that they are not interested.

Have ppls IQ suddenly dropped? How am i to know if i'm harrassing someone if they don't send any word back to me....

If they're interested they'll reply. Take a no reply as a not interested.

you might also want to block anyobe who isn't interested and then you won't harrass them.

Then thats 300 profiles and not one of them want me? Don't mean to sound up myself but thats a bit unbelievable?

It's not "

I like how you have your profile displayed - it's hidden. lets me know!

good pass it on to al your friends and enemies...

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

so we have a hacker then

"

why do we have a hacker ?

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales

Well, ultimately, regardless of what we'd like to blame on the ills of society, we're all responsible for our own actions, and I doubt a judge would accept 'well I was frustrated' as a suitable defence for rape.

It's looking very unlikely with your questionable social skills that you're going to get a meet on fab, so it's either pay for it, or carry on wanking! (Or work on your social skills and perspective taking, so that in the future, a woman might want to have consensual sex)!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, if in a few weeks times we read the headlines of a serial rapist in Strathaven, we are to blame ourselves for not getting you laid?

Jesus the Daily Mail will have a field day with that one.

"

You know what this crossed my mind also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What difference? Then why am i staying? Whats keeping me from staying at fabswingers? The talk? Thats ironic!

No idea, why are you staying? If your so bothered to see who has _iewed you, pay the £5 for 60 days! It's hardly a fortune!

And if you can't be bothered putting the work in, then maybe you should just leave, just my opinion of course

I'll tell you why i'm staying

I'm 36 years old. never had a girl friend. Love sex. I thought this website was catering for my need to be with a woman. Not all guys have been with woman all their lifes. So they don't mind if they don't get meets. i do. Because i'mn frustrated. And it doesn't help when i have aspergers. and it also doesn't help when ppl appear to be sexually friendly when clearly they are not.

"

This website is not here for your needs, its here for likeminded people to get intouch if interested for chat and take things further, after a week your ranting already and to be honest with what you have posted i believe you,ll get less interested, do you think because you have joined you have a right to shag everything or everyone thats on here, pfft.

No wonder you cant get a gf or a meet with attitude like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, ultimately, regardless of what we'd like to blame on the ills of society, we're all responsible for our own actions, and I doubt a judge would accept 'well I was frustrated' as a suitable defence for rape.

It's looking very unlikely with your questionable social skills that you're going to get a meet on fab, so it's either pay for it, or carry on wanking! (Or work on your social skills and perspective taking, so that in the future, a woman might want to have consensual sex)!!!

"

what you say has implications. That you can change your character.

tell me you ask me to be different from who i am then i can expect the same from you. When you have your time of the month and sometimes you feel bitchy, angry would you stop and think on me? How many years have you lived with the knowledge that at a certain time of the month you might erupt and need to stay calm. Do you? could you?

Have i to go against the way my brain is wired or am i doomed to be a slave to it? likewise with your periods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What difference? Then why am i staying? Whats keeping me from staying at fabswingers? The talk? Thats ironic!

No idea, why are you staying? If your so bothered to see who has _iewed you, pay the £5 for 60 days! It's hardly a fortune!

And if you can't be bothered putting the work in, then maybe you should just leave, just my opinion of course

I'll tell you why i'm staying

I'm 36 years old. never had a girl friend. Love sex. I thought this website was catering for my need to be with a woman. Not all guys have been with woman all their lifes. So they don't mind if they don't get meets. i do. Because i'mn frustrated. And it doesn't help when i have aspergers. and it also doesn't help when ppl appear to be sexually friendly when clearly they are not.

This website is not here for your needs, its here for likeminded people to get intouch if interested for chat and take things further, after a week your ranting already and to be honest with what you have posted i believe you,ll get less interested, do you think because you have joined you have a right to shag everything or everyone thats on here, pfft.

No wonder you cant get a gf or a meet with attitude like that"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah... I remember when you were here before as Grim.

As I recall you had about one verbal fight per day with folks on the forums... But it made great reading. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah... I remember when you were here before as Grim.

As I recall you had about one verbal fight per day with folks on the forums... But it made great reading. Good luck."

Grim oh my god

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales

Some people can change their character. I strive (I sometimes fail though) to be a better person. I have many faults and want to improve. That might mean changing some of my attitudes and characteristics. These aren't set in stone (although perhaps to someone with Aspergers it may feel that they are).

You don't have to change the way you are. I'm not asking you to, and it makes no difference to my life whether you do or don't. However, if you are unwilling or unable to change your attitude and behaviour towards other people, then you can expect that people may respond by rejecting you.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"

unlike lance armstrong if he's innocent he gave up the battle. I don't i fight for change and justice. i fight because i can afford to"

But you can't afford £5 to see who _iewed your profile...but there again maybe you should save your £5, because I have a feeling the disappointment is likely to crush you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

-To entice them back.

"

worrying

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Oh you have a lot to learn, been here a week, what did you expect?

However, he has been here before, I recognise the pictures!

So you are the one who didn't leave a please fuck me up the bum bareback message , and caused all this malarkey !!

Shame on you "

This post has made the last 45 mins of reading this utter bollocks worthwhile PMSL

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"

-To entice them back.

worrying "

Entice them back....you never had them!!! how you entice someone back you never had??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think this op needs a therapist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

unlike lance armstrong if he's innocent he gave up the battle. I don't i fight for change and justice. i fight because i can afford to

But you can't afford £5 to see who _iewed your profile...but there again maybe you should save your £5, because I have a feeling the disappointment is likely to crush you. "

ppls worth are governed by how much they earn. thats what the government want ppl to believe. but they are finding it hard to believe. because society can't work unless everyone is wanting the same thing. I do it because of the satisfaction not because of how it important it makes me feel.

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over a year ago


"I read on the profiles that ppl shouldn't mail that we'll come looking. I don't mean to be up my own arse here but out of 300 profiles not one has left anything. Not that i wouldn't demand it. The odds of not having any interest is bizarre as i modelled it on a whole spectrum of male profiles.

At the moment i'm a bit strapped for cash so i can't get the facility to get me the more functionality. And that means i can't find out if anybody has visited me -To entice them back. Can another user have access to who has _iewed me and let me know as i don't want to waste my time.

"

They are looking for me dude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh you have a lot to learn, been here a week, what did you expect?

However, he has been here before, I recognise the pictures!

So you are the one who didn't leave a please fuck me up the bum bareback message , and caused all this malarkey !!

Shame on you

This post has made the last 45 mins of reading this utter bollocks worthwhile PMSL "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read on the profiles that ppl shouldn't mail that we'll come looking. I don't mean to be up my own arse here but out of 300 profiles not one has left anything. Not that i wouldn't demand it. The odds of not having any interest is bizarre as i modelled it on a whole spectrum of male profiles.

At the moment i'm a bit strapped for cash so i can't get the facility to get me the more functionality. And that means i can't find out if anybody has visited me -To entice them back. Can another user have access to who has _iewed me and let me know as i don't want to waste my time.

They are looking for me dude! "

this is the post that makes it all worth while

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I read on the profiles that ppl shouldn't mail that we'll come looking. I don't mean to be up my own arse here but out of 300 profiles not one has left anything. Not that i wouldn't demand it. The odds of not having any interest is bizarre as i modelled it on a whole spectrum of male profiles.

At the moment i'm a bit strapped for cash so i can't get the facility to get me the more functionality. And that means i can't find out if anybody has visited me -To entice them back. Can another user have access to who has _iewed me and let me know as i don't want to waste my time.

They are looking for me dude! "

well maybe i'll have to rely on the musical groupies then to get my kicks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To let you folks know. Lewis carol who wrote alice in wonderland suffered from spergers and had a long line of problems with adult woman...so i'm in good company and he is still revered.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

...That is completely irrelevant, if we go out and murder someone do you really think a judge is going to accept "Sorry, I was on my period" as a defence and let us off?

No, just as you wouldn't get let off for rape by using some sob story that you were horny and frustrated. x

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales

I tried...

I know living with Aspergers can be difficult, so I've tried to show some understanding and empathy, but I think it's time for me to bow out and acknowledge defeat. Sometimes, whatever issues, syndromes, or labels people have, I guess I have to accept that some people are knobs and are happy to be so.

Crack on, I wash my hands.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...That is completely irrelevant, if we go out and murder someone do you really think a judge is going to accept "Sorry, I was on my period" as a defence and let us off?

No, just as you wouldn't get let off for rape by using some sob story that you were horny and frustrated. x"

I think your missing the point with the period. Don't you complain that you are on your period and ARE angry at times. I want to see a woman in her period go through calmly if they are in perfect control. Then my behaviour with regards to interpretation of woman should go without being judged too

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"I tried...

I know living with Aspergers can be difficult, so I've tried to show some understanding and empathy, but I think it's time for me to bow out and acknowledge defeat. Sometimes, whatever issues, syndromes, or labels people have, I guess I have to accept that some people are knobs and are happy to be so.

Crack on, I wash my hands. "

Woman, you deserve a round of applause! 3 xXx

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

To the OP.......Just out of interest, have a look at the profiles of some of the posters on this thread and see how many have blocked you already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if u did pay for the "who looked at me" part of fab im sure it would b bursting with people now!!! however if people look and dont message then they r not intersted!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To the OP.......Just out of interest, have a look at the profiles of some of the posters on this thread and see how many have blocked you already."

That is not a reflection on me that could be a reflection on them of the implication of agreeing with me...

Well, i hope your children don't go through hardships with drink and mental stress because i[m wiling t listen. you on the other hand are judgemental. and say no your ideas don't hold up.

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales


"

Woman, you deserve a round of applause! 3 xXx"

Why thank you!

I'm a sucker for lost causes. Keep thinking I can make a difference, and never learn. The day I lose my optimism I'll give up totally. Right, where's my next mission...?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Matey boy....theres two sides to all this....the social side and the sex...chill out n take ur time...dont give a rats arse whos _iewed ya...if they want ur cock youll get a message....from moi....sumone doing the socialising bit first for a change...now..im in dunstable tonite....drink neone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it's interesting they say 1 in 5 ppl have mental illnessess

if that is the case then those ppl when arguing can bot be absolutely certain their reason is correct because of this ailment. So a few of the ppl who have commented on my post must fall into this category. Then their reasoning isn't sound

Pause for thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the OP.......Just out of interest, have a look at the profiles of some of the posters on this thread and see how many have blocked you already.

That is not a reflection on me that could be a reflection on them of the implication of agreeing with me...

Well, i hope your children don't go through hardships with drink and mental stress because i[m wiling t listen. you on the other hand are judgemental. and say no your ideas don't hold up.

"

I am one who blocked you having read your first post , haven't found any thing I could agree with in any of your ramblings

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

On that note, I'm going for a cigarette. Who's got the Bacardi? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To the OP.......Just out of interest, have a look at the profiles of some of the posters on this thread and see how many have blocked you already."

this could be unwittingly related to my bringing it up to help me with who is off limits...

there is no abs certainty unless someone tells you that is the case. which i'm sure some will do who are spiteful to the last..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To the OP.......Just out of interest, have a look at the profiles of some of the posters on this thread and see how many have blocked you already.

That is not a reflection on me that could be a reflection on them of the implication of agreeing with me...

Well, i hope your children don't go through hardships with drink and mental stress because i[m wiling t listen. you on the other hand are judgemental. and say no your ideas don't hold up.

I am one who blocked you having read your first post , haven't found any thing I could agree with in any of your ramblings "

why do you assume you are correct?

haha

silly mind games

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On that note, I'm going for a cigarette. Who's got the Bacardi? x"

heard what you wrote, but i'd fret, rather jack off to linda lucardi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I am one who blocked you having read your first post , haven't found any thing I could agree with in any of your ramblings "

I have also done this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill be honest with you OP and I hope you won't be offended, I don't mean this maliciously.

Your openimg post and your responses in this thread are quite worrying. You seem to misunderstand the concept of swinging and are mixing this up with the sexual imagery you are seeing. A woman can post the most explicit pictures ever, but that does not mean she is a free for all.

All of us on here are not selling sex, neither are we offering a public service to those sexually inexperienced.

I find your comments and expectations unnerving. if this is the way you message women, and I would imagine it is as this is how you communicate, then iit does not surprise me that you have little success.

Swinging is about communication and not just sex and it certainly does not mean that men are entitled to have sex with us ladies just because we are showing our bodies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ill be honest with you OP and I hope you won't be offended, I don't mean this maliciously.

Your openimg post and your responses in this thread are quite worrying. You seem to misunderstand the concept of swinging and are mixing this up with the sexual imagery you are seeing. A woman can post the most explicit pictures ever, but that does not mean she is a free for all.

All of us on here are not selling sex, neither are we offering a public service to those sexually inexperienced.

I find your comments and expectations unnerving. if this is the way you message women, and I would imagine it is as this is how you communicate, then iit does not surprise me that you have little success.

Swinging is about communication and not just sex and it certainly does not mean that men are entitled to have sex with us ladies just because we are showing our bodies.

"

This amazes me. where in my post(s) have i stated that i DEMANDED sex. proove it or i could sue for slander

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To let you folks know. Lewis carol who wrote alice in wonderland suffered from spergers and had a long line of problems with adult woman...so i'm in good company and he is still revered."

Now that would have been a profile worth reading.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ill be honest with you OP and I hope you won't be offended, I don't mean this maliciously.

Your openimg post and your responses in this thread are quite worrying. You seem to misunderstand the concept of swinging and are mixing this up with the sexual imagery you are seeing. A woman can post the most explicit pictures ever, but that does not mean she is a free for all.

All of us on here are not selling sex, neither are we offering a public service to those sexually inexperienced.

I find your comments and expectations unnerving. if this is the way you message women, and I would imagine it is as this is how you communicate, then iit does not surprise me that you have little success.

Swinging is about communication and not just sex and it certainly does not mean that men are entitled to have sex with us ladies just because we are showing our bodies.

This amazes me. where in my post(s) have i stated that i DEMANDED sex. proove it or i could sue for slander"

Have any one got the balls on here to openly admit being part of this site. then clearly i have the mental edgeness over you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ill be honest with you OP and I hope you won't be offended, I don't mean this maliciously.

Your openimg post and your responses in this thread are quite worrying. You seem to misunderstand the concept of swinging and are mixing this up with the sexual imagery you are seeing. A woman can post the most explicit pictures ever, but that does not mean she is a free for all.

All of us on here are not selling sex, neither are we offering a public service to those sexually inexperienced.

I find your comments and expectations unnerving. if this is the way you message women, and I would imagine it is as this is how you communicate, then iit does not surprise me that you have little success.

Swinging is about communication and not just sex and it certainly does not mean that men are entitled to have sex with us ladies just because we are showing our bodies.

This amazes me. where in my post(s) have i stated that i DEMANDED sex. proove it or i could sue for slander

Have any one got the balls on here to openly admit being part of this site. then clearly i have the mental edgeness over you"

I openly admit to my friends I'm on here , but I'm just a woman so should have me kecks round me ankles ready for you to fuck. Think I would rather stick red hot pins in me eyes to be honest

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

phewwww !!

nearly 175 posts !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ill be honest with you OP and I hope you won't be offended, I don't mean this maliciously.

Your openimg post and your responses in this thread are quite worrying. You seem to misunderstand the concept of swinging and are mixing this up with the sexual imagery you are seeing. A woman can post the most explicit pictures ever, but that does not mean she is a free for all.

All of us on here are not selling sex, neither are we offering a public service to those sexually inexperienced.

I find your comments and expectations unnerving. if this is the way you message women, and I would imagine it is as this is how you communicate, then iit does not surprise me that you have little success.

Swinging is about communication and not just sex and it certainly does not mean that men are entitled to have sex with us ladies just because we are showing our bodies.

This amazes me. where in my post(s) have i stated that i DEMANDED sex. proove it or i could sue for slander

Have any one got the balls on here to openly admit being part of this site. then clearly i have the mental edgeness over you

I openly admit to my friends I'm on here , but I'm just a woman so should have me kecks round me ankles ready for you to fuck. Think I would rather stick red hot pins in me eyes to be honest "

no you wouldn't

because i don't think you could be that cruel to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFS !! ... just pay your £5 and get over it !!

Now is it lack of funds or just been a tight arsed scot ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ill be honest with you OP and I hope you won't be offended, I don't mean this maliciously.

Your openimg post and your responses in this thread are quite worrying. You seem to misunderstand the concept of swinging and are mixing this up with the sexual imagery you are seeing. A woman can post the most explicit pictures ever, but that does not mean she is a free for all.

All of us on here are not selling sex, neither are we offering a public service to those sexually inexperienced.

I find your comments and expectations unnerving. if this is the way you message women, and I would imagine it is as this is how you communicate, then iit does not surprise me that you have little success.

Swinging is about communication and not just sex and it certainly does not mean that men are entitled to have sex with us ladies just because we are showing our bodies.

This amazes me. where in my post(s) have i stated that i DEMANDED sex. proove it or i could sue for slander

Have any one got the balls on here to openly admit being part of this site. then clearly i have the mental edgeness over you

I openly admit to my friends I'm on here , but I'm just a woman so should have me kecks round me ankles ready for you to fuck. Think I would rather stick red hot pins in me eyes to be honest "

does that include family.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FFS !! ... just pay your £5 and get over it !!

Now is it lack of funds or just been a tight arsed scot ?"

or hes just expects it all for free!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"phewwww !!

nearly 175 posts ! "

Impressive for such a strange thread!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"FFS !! ... just pay your £5 and get over it !!

Now is it lack of funds or just been a tight arsed scot ?"

Look it's a sad story. long one. and i'll put in a new post *sorry*

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"phewwww !!

nearly 175 posts !

Impressive for such a strange thread!!"

ur not kidding there mate ! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ill be honest with you OP and I hope you won't be offended, I don't mean this maliciously.

Your openimg post and your responses in this thread are quite worrying. You seem to misunderstand the concept of swinging and are mixing this up with the sexual imagery you are seeing. A woman can post the most explicit pictures ever, but that does not mean she is a free for all.

All of us on here are not selling sex, neither are we offering a public service to those sexually inexperienced.

I find your comments and expectations unnerving. if this is the way you message women, and I would imagine it is as this is how you communicate, then iit does not surprise me that you have little success.

Swinging is about communication and not just sex and it certainly does not mean that men are entitled to have sex with us ladies just because we are showing our bodies.

This amazes me. where in my post(s) have i stated that i DEMANDED sex. proove it or i could sue for slander

Have any one got the balls on here to openly admit being part of this site. then clearly i have the mental edgeness over you

I openly admit to my friends I'm on here , but I'm just a woman so should have me kecks round me ankles ready for you to fuck. Think I would rather stick red hot pins in me eyes to be honest

does that include family.?

"

As it happens yes. As for pins yes you are right I wouldn't and anything else I say would just be childish so I shall do the right thing and keep gob shut.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"FFS !! ... just pay your £5 and get over it !!

Now is it lack of funds or just been a tight arsed scot ?

or hes just expects it all for free!"

i could say the same about your gender

try robbie williams new song candy for girls like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FFS !! ... just pay your £5 and get over it !!

Now is it lack of funds or just been a tight arsed scot ?

Look it's a sad story. long one. and i'll put in a new post *sorry*

"

Please don't its fine honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ill be honest with you OP and I hope you won't be offended, I don't mean this maliciously.

Your openimg post and your responses in this thread are quite worrying. You seem to misunderstand the concept of swinging and are mixing this up with the sexual imagery you are seeing. A woman can post the most explicit pictures ever, but that does not mean she is a free for all.

All of us on here are not selling sex, neither are we offering a public service to those sexually inexperienced.

I find your comments and expectations unnerving. if this is the way you message women, and I would imagine it is as this is how you communicate, then iit does not surprise me that you have little success.

Swinging is about communication and not just sex and it certainly does not mean that men are entitled to have sex with us ladies just because we are showing our bodies.

This amazes me. where in my post(s) have i stated that i DEMANDED sex. proove it or i could sue for slander"

I don't think Iconic has anything to prove ... she didn't write a word about DEMANDING ... You used that word.

I think maybe a cup of tea all round and a fresh start later would be beneficial.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ill be honest with you OP and I hope you won't be offended, I don't mean this maliciously.

Your openimg post and your responses in this thread are quite worrying. You seem to misunderstand the concept of swinging and are mixing this up with the sexual imagery you are seeing. A woman can post the most explicit pictures ever, but that does not mean she is a free for all.

All of us on here are not selling sex, neither are we offering a public service to those sexually inexperienced.

I find your comments and expectations unnerving. if this is the way you message women, and I would imagine it is as this is how you communicate, then iit does not surprise me that you have little success.

Swinging is about communication and not just sex and it certainly does not mean that men are entitled to have sex with us ladies just because we are showing our bodies.

This amazes me. where in my post(s) have i stated that i DEMANDED sex. proove it or i could sue for slander

Have any one got the balls on here to openly admit being part of this site. then clearly i have the mental edgeness over you

I openly admit to my friends I'm on here , but I'm just a woman so should have me kecks round me ankles ready for you to fuck. Think I would rather stick red hot pins in me eyes to be honest

does that include family.?

As it happens yes. As for pins yes you are right I wouldn't and anything else I say would just be childish so I shall do the right thing and keep gob shut. "

don't do that!

it's ppl like you that keeps the spark alive of something that should have died long ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn is it finished yet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ill be honest with you OP and I hope you won't be offended, I don't mean this maliciously.

Your openimg post and your responses in this thread are quite worrying. You seem to misunderstand the concept of swinging and are mixing this up with the sexual imagery you are seeing. A woman can post the most explicit pictures ever, but that does not mean she is a free for all.

All of us on here are not selling sex, neither are we offering a public service to those sexually inexperienced.

I find your comments and expectations unnerving. if this is the way you message women, and I would imagine it is as this is how you communicate, then iit does not surprise me that you have little success.

Swinging is about communication and not just sex and it certainly does not mean that men are entitled to have sex with us ladies just because we are showing our bodies.

This amazes me. where in my post(s) have i stated that i DEMANDED sex. proove it or i could sue for slander

I don't think Iconic has anything to prove ... she didn't write a word about DEMANDING ... You used that word.

I think maybe a cup of tea all round and a fresh start later would be beneficial.

"

i have the post on file i just need to find the culprits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Matron ....... is it time for my medication yet?

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"To let you folks know. Lewis carol who wrote alice in wonderland suffered from spergers and had a long line of problems with adult woman...so i'm in good company and he is still revered."

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He wouldn't have been if he'd had access to a keyboard and the internet!

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Woman act like they have sex all the time and enjoy the come on. Either this is true or woman are causing more problems for men"

It was bad enough that you used Asbergers as an excuse for your bad behaviour. Now you make a statement that pretty much says "they are asking for it". Do you subscribe to the theory that woman wearing short skirts deserve to be raped? You get out of life what you put into - you are not going to go far in life with an attitude like that!

Shy

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