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By *ss2011 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds/Bradford

People don't seem to be for real on here, or is my profile info a shit one? Maybe not the best of profiles or proof I am for real either, but damn annoying when you see loads of people getting meets!

Or am I moaning about nothing and same for everyone?

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Perhaps time to rethink your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you elaborate why people aren't for real?

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So young but very negative, saying alot of people are full of shit wont win you alot of votes either, just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was fill of shit, then I visited the toilet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy on the swears, it's not attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was fill of shit, then I visited the toilet "

hahah

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sorry, but your poor profile, woild not inspire me to either contact or respond to you, so yes you need to revisit it.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

May I offer a few suggestions?

Some of us do read the profile - many who meet a fair bit don't like message tennis so an information profile added to a good variety of pics (which you have) will result in a quick decision.

However, a negative profile or one with no information in will not lead to meets.

Yes, it's hard when you keep getting your messages deleted without a reply to stay positive, but most people want to spend their brief swinging time with cheery fun people. You might actually be the life and soul but right now your profile doesn't reflect that.

You will get ignored (they're not interested), blocked (they're not interested), and deleted (they're not interested) but when you do get replies then they are the ones to put effort into.

Single guys outnumber every other type of person on here vastly. The other negative (for some) is your age. But others will love that about you!

Keep plugging away, make sure you read profiles before you message so you fit their preferences. And if you neatly do but not quite then say so - it shows you have been paying attention!

Consider a social or a club to get veris - they do help.

Keep your pecker up honey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to be an obsession on here to judge whether folks are 'genuine' or not. There will always be folks who swing, those who fancy swinging but never get round to it - and those who do, however, often (perhaps it's their choice...) We appreciate this is simply 'life' and that there's not much we can do about it. The key thing is not to have a go at others perhaps and just accept that's the situation

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By *londeandbrownCouple
over a year ago

taunton

Your profile is terrible ,it's there to sell yourself , you say str8 however you are looking for TVs and TSs , you have no info about yourself your age range is from pubescent to centurions your more confused than scooby doo. Sit down list your wants and then your good points then maybe the people you think are full of shit will actually take notice if you

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By *ss2011 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds/Bradford

Okay I'll have a change of profile. Kinda guessed it was that though I'd imagine it is mostly about the pictures considering it is a sex meet website. I'll have a go at explaining more about myself now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures are for looking at. Some people collect them.... - perhaps coming across as a decent, meetable person is more important. Just food for thought...

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

THis is not a " Come and shag fast " Site.

You dont like it , you get out of it.

PS: At 22 i was banging a long list of university mates and never run out of hot birds

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Your getting noticed now..... But not for all good reasons. The only point Id make is your profile says no men...... But you want to meet TVs arnt they men :O

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"People don't seem to be for real on here, or is my profile info a shit one? Maybe not the best of profiles or proof I am for real either, but damn annoying when you see loads of people getting meets!

Or am I moaning about nothing and same for everyone? "

think of it like is....

if you write more in the post above, than you do in your shop window (your profile) what do you think that says??

hand on heart would you answer your own profile......

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By *ss2011 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds/Bradford


"THis is not a " Come and shag fast " Site.

You dont like it , you get out of it.

PS: At 22 i was banging a long list of university mates and never run out of hot birds"

Really? And that applies to me how? I left my bird of 20 months: not a full on desperado. I done the University slag thing myself, but I don't go bragging about it to anyone because everyone at University was up to it.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Okay I'll have a change of profile. Kinda guessed it was that though I'd imagine it is mostly about the pictures considering it is a sex meet website. I'll have a go at explaining more about myself now.

"

if that is version 2..... after what i saw of version 1.... no one is going to be able to help you..... wow!!

and i wonder why people would bother...

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By *ss2011 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds/Bradford


"Your getting noticed now..... But not for all good reasons. The only point Id make is your profile says no men...... But you want to meet TVs arnt they men :O"

Nah more along the fetish side. Liking men is a sexuality, TV's is just a fetish with a bit/alot of gay hints.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Good luck....I wonder how many ladies have already click on the B....button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah more along the fetish side. Liking men is a sexuality, TV's is just a fetish with a bit/alot of gay hints.

Lol...sorry, but surely Denial Quote of the Week Award ahoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ask for advice if you don't like Answers....simples

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Its not just me that picked apon this point....

You also seem to have anger issues with your responces on here and this whole thread

Youve asked to be put under the microscope,at your age most of us were sowing our oats..... But is it good to say they were slags (not a nice word to class women)

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Methinks this wasnt a good thread to get noticed and to win personality of the week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people begger belief with an attitude like that noone is gonna find it attractive if you think your gods gift and sex should come to you then your wrong.

I think another site is better for you this is NOT a sex site its a swinging site THERE IS A DIFFERENCE!!

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By *ss2011 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds/Bradford


"Okay I'll have a change of profile. Kinda guessed it was that though I'd imagine it is mostly about the pictures considering it is a sex meet website. I'll have a go at explaining more about myself now.

if that is version 2..... after what i saw of version 1.... no one is going to be able to help you..... wow!!

and i wonder why people would bother... "

Done now mate!

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By *artine EssexCouple
over a year ago

Essex

got to be honest I wouldn't get in touch on the strength of your Profile. Sorry but you did ask

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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Done now mate! "

lot better... now remove that status update with something positive, and you might just about be in business...

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By *ss2011 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds/Bradford

Agreed about the swinging aspect, and how am I coming across with anger issues and such? I've seen a lot of people complain about the site, both men and women, before though as someone just pointed out about the swinging thing: it maybe because they are single!

I don't get some of these replies, and for anyone thinking I'm in denial then that is hilarious. I'm actually very, very open in real life about what I like otherwise I wouldn't have face pictures on here. Call it denial but you should check out the Kinsey scale, having a fetish like that doesn't make somebody completely gay and in denial. I've been with guys as guys and didn't like it one bit.

And where have I called anyone a slag? :S!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Nah more along the fetish side. Liking men is a sexuality, TV's is just a fetish with a bit/alot of gay hints."

It's funny ya know, when I used to live in Narnia, I used to think that too !

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By *ss2011 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds/Bradford


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Done now mate!

lot better... now remove that status update with something positive, and you might just about be in business..."

Done that too, sound. Think I'm going to avoid this thread now because it seems like an attempt to wind me up with the confused quotes.

I see my stupidity now though with having such little info, just been a bit brainless and complaining for little reason I guess. But hey ho, we've all done dumb things before.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Its not just me that picked apon this point....

You also seem to have anger issues with your responces on here and this whole thread

Youve asked to be put under the microscope,at your age most of us were sowing our oats..... But is it good to say they were slags (not a nice word to class women)"

To be fair I think that was a typing error in reply to another post, think it should have read shag.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield


"THis is not a " Come and shag fast " Site.

You dont like it , you get out of it.

PS: At 22 i was banging a long list of university mates and never run out of hot birds

Really? And that applies to me how? I left my bird of 20 months: not a full on desperado. I done the University slag thing myself, but I don't go bragging about it to anyone because everyone at University was up to it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People don't seem to be for real on here, or is my profile info a shit one? Maybe not the best of profiles or proof I am for real either, but damn annoying when you see loads of people getting meets!

Or am I moaning about nothing and same for everyone? "

Didn't see the first incarnation of your profile - but still reads like someone with a lot of 'expectancy' and more of a 'come shag me' advert than a 'please take a look'.

Nothing personal but it seems to always be the younger element on site that is questioning why others are more successful in their interactions - social, play or whatever - which kind of leads me to believe that maturity and 'life skills', including the all important attributes of patience, respect and communication - play a far greater part in enjoying life in this or other sites than an urgent desire to hook up with others with little prior interaction.

Could be wrong - could be right - but I'd always be open to feedback/criticism from those with more experience if I was asking for it.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Wernt this your post saying the slag thing???

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

In this post here!!!

So if they were slags, what does that make you?

You are certainly not going to win friends with that attitude!

Lisa

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"THis is not a " Come and shag fast " Site.

You dont like it , you get out of it.

PS: At 22 i was banging a long list of university mates and never run out of hot birds

Really? And that applies to me how? I left my bird of 20 months: not a full on desperado. I done the University slag thing myself, but I don't go bragging about it to anyone because everyone at University was up to it. "

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Only the OP would know that..... It reads right to me as slag..... If he meant shag wunt he have put shagging thing??

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Did you think the OP meant to put slag Lisa or is it just me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say he is referring to women, he doesn't say that.

Men can be referred to as uni slags. I bloody know a few lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Only the OP would know that..... It reads right to me as slag..... If he meant shag wunt he have put shagging thing?? "

As I put in my earlier post I took it as a typing error as in done the university shag thing.....

But as you say only the OP will know what he meant so not going to argue with you over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IF you get unislags do you also get collegeslags?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I was very much a uni-tart in my olden college days (black and white)......

should i be proud or ashamed.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh come on gang - yu know the score so stop gangig up on him; he asked for adice; which yes we see same requests over and over; but it was just advice; which i for one was happy to provide..

We have all seen far worse profiles on here havent we mine for one its prob the crappiest of all; but im not bothered lol hehehhe

Be happy and have fun; if not .....

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