FabSwingers.com forum: Hotel meet or club meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious do you have a preference, club meets or more private couple meets?

I like the idea of meeting in a club where you don’t really get to know the other couple because it’s just a sexual thing.

Do people prefer building a friendship before playing?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Im def a private meet kinda guy ..have played at club but only with someone ive already known and in a private room ..never in a public room ..does nothing for me tbh

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We prefer a social in a club, into a playroom, then onto the dance floor after

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Club meets are my preference.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I love hotel meet but only after a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meets for me, you can get a vibe of someone in person before being behind closed doors.

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

Clubs or hotels so far, but I can't wait for a non-swinging social to get messy.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Club meet every time as if it goes tits up there's a chance you might get it on with someone else.

Though when we go to Chams the night sometimes continues at the hotel anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social firstly,then a Hotel.

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

club or party strangers for us

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Definitely clubs for us...we enjoy the atmosphere and variety of people.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I find private meets better but I'm also not interested in building friendships with people

I rarely exchange more than 3 messages with someone before meeting them

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Clubs meets for me hands down as you get to meet multiple people at the same time and socialise. Even better if you get a hotel for the night and make an evening of it beforehand, at the club itself and after

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By *ffervescent_KissCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Clubs are great for meeting people. If you don't click with the person/couple you're meeting you can go off and still have a great night.

Mrs

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We prefer hotel meets with single guys, no social and all our extensive prior conversations are via fab. The excitement, the entrepidation as well as the nervous energy gets us both off immensely.

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By *plforfunxyxCouple
over a year ago

Crewe

We don’t mind clubs but prefer to have drinks and a laugh before moving on to more. Nice going back to a hotel or private in a room, instead of in the open every man and his dog comes in for a look

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

I will only go to clubs, won't arrange a meet just go and see what happens

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By *plforfunxyxCouple
over a year ago

Crewe

We get this, done a few times and it gets very intense on the way x

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By *BB and NNCouple
over a year ago

York

Hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer my 1979 ford transit with a mattress bought from a second hand shop (slightly soiled) and mood lighting.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Yes

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By *ittlechick77Couple
over a year ago

Staines

Club meet less expectation

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By *ove2Couple
over a year ago

colchester

Definitely clubs or parties as we both don't know what we want until the night.

With swinging so much choice and fun to have.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

Club meets 100%. You never know how the evening will go, it's totally dynamic depending on who is there on the night.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Hotels if we've met them before and get on with them socially. Otherwise a club meet. Easier to ditch them if things get weird

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By *ungle_kingMan
over a year ago

Nuneaton

It’s all down to personal preference.

Clubs are great as you won’t get messed about and let down etc. Not easy though to chat and for me as a single guy I don’t like to be not pushy but forward let’s say So that bit I don’t like and also not a fan of group rooms with wanking zombies walking about. Hotels are much more relaxed meets and more intimate so a personal preference definitely for me.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We enjoy club nights as it’s a chance to meet a few people and we enjoy the atmosphere. However when it comes to playing we do prefer private meets and like to get to know people a bit first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meets all the way. You can move on to the next if there's no connection. Plus your mood can change know what you want. So I club is ideal and no pressure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure I’m against clubs as much as I was. I suppose it’s because this ‘fab’ thing is a lot of work. The people are not hard work, but the rules and expectations are difficult to navigate. It doesn’t feel as natural to talk to someone as it once was on here. (Years ago)

I’d prefer a hotel, I’d prefer to have got to talk with someone and built up some kind of understanding of one another. Friendliness and flirtyness goes a long way to getting me naked. In a club, I’m supposed to have already ‘dressed down’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done hotel meets but now find club meets better for me as definitely no time waste there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meets

For some reason my anxiety is heightened when doing hotel meets so prefer a club x

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
over a year ago

North West

Hotel meets for us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel meets for me.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Clubs definitely for us. Love the anonymous spontaneous sex, often with groups of guys and other women (who you get to see before committing to play). Hotel meets reserved for the people we've met and enjoyed in the clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aydalcroydonWoman
over a year ago

croydon

Clubs but thinking about hotels

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We’re always happy to accommodate overnight,nice neck of woods lol, just as happy in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hotel first and if keen would go to a club with her

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I like both though club meets do far seem to be better

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Cheam

Building friendships is ideal but it’s harder when in a club because those encounters tend to be one off events if not pre planned.

Definitely friendship before hand for a hotel meet

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

Club meets. Just cuts out all the nonsense and time wasters.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Hotel for definite never been to club yet

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Must exhibitionists prefer club meet. personally, I prefer a hotel meet where you can exude your uninhibited tendency. Too many voyeuristic acts in the club scene. A complete turn-off for me

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

We are exhibitionists ands adore risky sex as well especially at first meets lol

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By *oppy and Rugby BoyCouple
over a year ago

Herts

We like club meets first

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Just curious do you have a preference, club meets or more private couple meets?

I like the idea of meeting in a club where you don’t really get to know the other couple because it’s just a sexual thing.

Do people prefer building a friendship before playing?

Easy solution and the best of both worlds - go to a club a reasonable distance away and book a hotel.

We used to do this regularly on trips to Xtasia which was a 4 hour round trip for us. If we were just going for the night we'd not stay over so was a pure club night and I'd have to not drink to drive there and back (not an issue). If we were making a weekend of it we'd book a room.

So you could enjoy the club experience AND take fun back to the hotel if you wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are quite pragmatic to be fair. It's sex at the end of the day and we don't need to form deep connections for play. You get a feeling very early on if something isn't right before going to the bedroom or hot-tub.

Meet, chat for a bit, fuck (or don't fuck). It's supposed to be fun, and there is no sense pussy footing about.

Private meets are preferred by us as that leaves the option of taking a few snaps or filming if all parties agree.

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Club meets initially, takes the pressure off everyone, then if we get on we'll arrange a hotel meet for another time

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By *iscretemale6911Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

Hotel meets are my preference with couples for 3some play. Stay in hotels for work on occasions and try to make best use of the free evenings. The excitement of the knock on the door …….

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