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Sex with people you dont fancy is better than sex with people you do fancy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Go figure…!

I learned something new today. I will not be testing this theory but i thought i’d share new info with you all.

Things you learn on fab!

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go figure…!

I learned something new today. I will not be testing this theory but i thought i’d share new info with you all.

Things you learn on fab! "

Who relayed this hypothesis?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

D.

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Go figure…!

I learned something new today. I will not be testing this theory but i thought i’d share new info with you all.

Things you learn on fab!

Who relayed this hypothesis?"

Probably an ugly bloke...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go figure…!

I learned something new today. I will not be testing this theory but i thought i’d share new info with you all.

Things you learn on fab!

Who relayed this hypothesis?

Probably an ugly bloke..."

I didn’t!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife would probably agree with you .. we meet a guy years ago who use to give her the best sex outdoors when we went dogging . We started going to his house so she got to see him in the lite .. she then said she wouldn't even look at him if she was on the pull .. she did meet him for 10 years mind

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The number of people who say they won't meet or contact people they deem to be "out of their league" leads me to believe that the less attractive many find someone the more relaxed they are therefore the higher the possibility they'll enjoy sex. I'm not saying they find the people they meet unattractive but that in their mind there's a sliding scale of attractiveness and they'll be more relaxed below a certain level.

I have to say I don't think that way myself though

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm going to have to disagree but I've never slept with someone I didn't fancy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The number of people who say they won't meet or contact people they deem to be "out of their league" leads me to believe that the less attractive many find someone the more relaxed they are therefore the higher the possibility they'll enjoy sex. I'm not saying they find the people they meet unattractive but that in their mind there's a sliding scale of attractiveness and they'll be more relaxed below a certain level.

I have to say I don't think that way myself though "

In this instance the idea is that sex should be a free flowing thing between all men and women and attraction should not come into it. You should just shag whoever because its all about sex and pleasure. This concept makes no sense to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The number of people who say they won't meet or contact people they deem to be "out of their league" leads me to believe that the less attractive many find someone the more relaxed they are therefore the higher the possibility they'll enjoy sex. I'm not saying they find the people they meet unattractive but that in their mind there's a sliding scale of attractiveness and they'll be more relaxed below a certain level.

I have to say I don't think that way myself though

In this instance the idea is that sex should be a free flowing thing between all men and women and attraction should not come into it. You should just shag whoever because its all about sex and pleasure. This concept makes no sense to me. "

Ah ok I understand. It makes no sense to me either. It's a bit like eating food you don't like just because you enjoy food. However I have heard people express this before though and all power to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The number of people who say they won't meet or contact people they deem to be "out of their league" leads me to believe that the less attractive many find someone the more relaxed they are therefore the higher the possibility they'll enjoy sex. I'm not saying they find the people they meet unattractive but that in their mind there's a sliding scale of attractiveness and they'll be more relaxed below a certain level.

I have to say I don't think that way myself though

In this instance the idea is that sex should be a free flowing thing between all men and women and attraction should not come into it. You should just shag whoever because its all about sex and pleasure. This concept makes no sense to me.

Ah ok I understand. It makes no sense to me either. It's a bit like eating food you don't like just because you enjoy food. However I have heard people express this before though and all power to them "

Very much agreed! I did try to explain that if its all about pleasure then sex with your own gender should be equally enjoyable. Apparently this is not the case…. Strange.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The number of people who say they won't meet or contact people they deem to be "out of their league" leads me to believe that the less attractive many find someone the more relaxed they are therefore the higher the possibility they'll enjoy sex. I'm not saying they find the people they meet unattractive but that in their mind there's a sliding scale of attractiveness and they'll be more relaxed below a certain level.

I have to say I don't think that way myself though

In this instance the idea is that sex should be a free flowing thing between all men and women and attraction should not come into it. You should just shag whoever because its all about sex and pleasure. This concept makes no sense to me.

Ah ok I understand. It makes no sense to me either. It's a bit like eating food you don't like just because you enjoy food. However I have heard people express this before though and all power to them

Very much agreed! I did try to explain that if its all about pleasure then sex with your own gender should be equally enjoyable. Apparently this is not the case…. Strange. "

Yes, well *some* people tend to think their way is the right way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be that way.

Where there is high attraction, people can feel intimidated and a greater need to 'perform' the right way.

With lesser attraction, inhibitions may be lower because the person isn't as bothered what the other person thinks and they can really let themselves go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The number of people who say they won't meet or contact people they deem to be "out of their league" leads me to believe that the less attractive many find someone the more relaxed they are therefore the higher the possibility they'll enjoy sex. I'm not saying they find the people they meet unattractive but that in their mind there's a sliding scale of attractiveness and they'll be more relaxed below a certain level.

I have to say I don't think that way myself though

In this instance the idea is that sex should be a free flowing thing between all men and women and attraction should not come into it. You should just shag whoever because its all about sex and pleasure. This concept makes no sense to me. "

Oh yeah those are usually the people who can't get anyone to shag them and think Swingers fuck everyone who asks. So they are particularly sad and offended when a Swinger says no.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Attraction is a difficult one and composes of many different things and Mrs4 finds males who can make her laugh very attractive and having sex for sex sake is pretty low on both our lists and as we say chemistry before biology but as a survey found out once a woman does decide in under a minute if she'd have sex with a male but not if she was going to ? and no one should be out your league but sadly some do think they are out of few peoples league ? but finally for us it's a sexy bum and pert breasts and nice matching underwear and afew brain cells thrown in for good measure ! and of course good manners,social skills and GSOH and appreciation of sarcasm ...

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"It can be that way.

Where there is high attraction, people can feel intimidated and a greater need to 'perform' the right way.

With lesser attraction, inhibitions may be lower because the person isn't as bothered what the other person thinks and they can really let themselves go. "

I just enjoy the sex, I don't find the way a person looks affects anything other than making me feel lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it, OP, is that anyone who shags me must be doing it for charitable reasons, sympathy, or maybe even a dare?

Anyway, think of all the endorphins released for doing a good, charitable thing and helping the needy?

FaF!?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Years ago I used to swing with a fuck buddy and charity fucks were something we did as a favour to each other.

Had some really great sex with people who were 'not my type' at all.

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper


"It can be that way.

Where there is high attraction, people can feel intimidated and a greater need to 'perform' the right way.

With lesser attraction, inhibitions may be lower because the person isn't as bothered what the other person thinks and they can really let themselves go.

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My feelings to ,but generally just happy someone wants to have sex with me,so put in the effort to try and satisfy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best sex I've had is with people I didn't think I found that attractive. The body knew otherwise!

men have told me they enjoy sex with men/tvs even though they identify as straight. They get off on the un-attraction, its a thing I promise!

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