FabSwingers.com forum: Is being tall a problem?

By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

I've been to clubs and had guys message me the day after saying they saw me there, but were too intimidated by my height and size (I'm tall and built like a tank) to approach me because I was taller and they didn't think I'd be interested.

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly I’d say yes they do and women prefer tall

Men overall I’d say

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By *mma_j_cdTV/TS
over a year ago

chester

I'm 6'2 even taller in my heels but that doesn't seen to be a problem, the thing that is a problem is skirts and dresses that are quite short end up being very short when you are tall,miso much so that I have trouble with them covering my stocking tops

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By *illbe9999Man
over a year ago

Holmfirth

Tall women are a particular kink of mine.

I think it's really sexy OP

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m 6ft 2 without heels!

Some will like it, some won’t.

Focus on those that do.

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I'm 6'2 even taller in my heels but that doesn't seen to be a problem, the thing that is a problem is skirts and dresses that are quite short end up being very short when you are tall,miso much so that I have trouble with them covering my stocking tops "

Long Tall Sally are great for short skirts for tall girls

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By *rzuuMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Whilst I can't state for certain, I would suspect that many guys DO feel a little intimidated by a woman that is taller than them.

It strikes me as one of those "old fashioned" ideas that have been passed down, generation to generation.

I am 6ft 2 and some will think I have no experience of this situation, but before you comment to that point, I have date 2 women in the past that were a little taller than me (ok, they were both Dutch and that kind of height for a woman is not unusual)!

so not an issue for me personally, but I suspect i may be in the minority group on this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tall ladies are not a problem being 6,3

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

I am quite compact but don’t have any reservation about taller girls. I love grip on heels.

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By *BB and NNCouple
over a year ago

York

A friend of ours (who unfortunately we haven’t played with…YET), is circa 6’ and absolutely stunning!

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Mike is 6’10 is pretty much impossible to find a woman taller if we fancied one!!!

J x

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By *orem1000Couple
over a year ago

southampton

I love it when Loren is in high heels and close to my 6'4" would love someone really tall so that I can comfortably suck on her nipples as I dtd in missionary

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Silly thread really. Its only a problem if you let it be a problem.

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Silly thread really. Its only a problem if you let it be a problem. "

Thanks for your helpful input.

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By *ipvanwinkieMan
over a year ago

out of town!

I’ve never really thought about it to be honest. I don’t have any problem with ladies as tall / taller than me

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them? "

My perception is that it's quite common to see women profiles expressing a preference for men taller than them. This can then create an assumption that this applies universally, hence "I'm sorry I'm so short" from blokes of average height.

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them?

That's a real shame. One of my best meets was with a guy who was 5ft 5.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Tall gal here too!

I’ve never had a problem with it on here sex wise but it’s absolutely an issue in the vanilla/ dating world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them? "

i’m like 5.8 and don’t mind if the women are taller or shorter but i find a lot of women like a taller man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think you look stunning

absolutely love a leggy bbw

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

"Silly thread really. Its only a problem if you let it be a problem. "

If other people have the problem, how do you magically make that OK?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd happily stand on a box (if needed)

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By *e.youngguyMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Personally I think you look stunning

absolutely love a leggy bbw

I wonder why you think she’s gorgeous… could it be because you’re are classy curves couples profile? Haha

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Makes no difference to me

I certainly wouldn't be intimidated because your taller than me... Just get you on your knees we would be the same size

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Silly thread really. Its only a problem if you let it be a problem.

Thanks for your helpful input. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never be intimidated by a tall woman. I’m relatively tall anyway but to me, height just isn’t a thing. Short or tall, I don’t care and it would never stop me approaching someone.

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Makes no difference to me

I certainly wouldn't be intimidated because your taller than me... Just get you on your knees we would be the same size

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Personally I think you look stunning

absolutely love a leggy bbw

I wonder why you think she’s gorgeous… could it be because you’re are classy curves couples profile? Haha "

I'd say it was because she's bloody gorgeous with stunning photos.

Don't you think?

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By *palgMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

My perception too

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Personally I think you look stunning

absolutely love a leggy bbw

Lee, you are biased, and shouldn't be replying on this thread because it looks weird. Don't be commenting on my solo profile posts with our couples profile, it looks suss.

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East

Not wanting to get in the way of a domestic!

I love a tall lady. I’ve only once been out with a lady taller than me ( when she’s in heels) I might feel dominated!

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Don’t see no problem with it at all

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Not wanting to get in the way of a domestic!

I love a tall lady. I’ve only once been out with a lady taller than me ( when she’s in heels) I might feel dominated!"

LOL, no domestic. We are both new to the forums, I don't think he realised that commenting on my posts with our couples profile would look a bit weird, he doesn't have a solo profile. But back to the point, I do get a few requests to be a domme I must admit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like tall more to explore

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By *aj_massageMan
over a year ago

Dudley

At 5'3", all the ladies I've had the pleasure with have all been taller than me. As I also have a kink for stiletto heels it's nigh on impossible for me to find somwone smaller, not that I'm complaining

Recently, chatting to a delightful lady on here and when she realised my height replied "Are you really 5'3", oh how sweet" and never heard from her again.

The weird thing is, lying down together and from head to hip we are pretty much the same in height.

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East

"Not wanting to get in the way of a domestic!

I love a tall lady. I’ve only once been out with a lady taller than me ( when she’s in heels) I might feel dominated!

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I adore a tall woman. It's so sexy.

I think it's the fact that there's more of her than me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them? "

Being as hot as you, I am surprised guys would turn you down on such a small or is it a tall matter lol

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them?

Being as hot as you, I am surprised guys would turn you down on such a small or is it a tall matter lol

I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Had my fair share of fat shaming messages.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

From society's point of view, it can be a problem for a woman to be taller than her partner. You actually often hear from women they prefer their partner to be taller. It doesn't matter to me, however, I can see why some men might be threatened by such present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tall lady lover here! Saying that I’m 6”1 so not short, it’s always the short guys who are quick to say to tall ladies, “bloody hell your tall” like they have been completely unaware of the fact thier whole life!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Most women want a guy taller than them OP. Me personally it wouldn’t bother me if the woman was taller so if it doesn’t bother you go for it

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville

Always liked taller women myself. Something about long legs, I suppose.

Never understood why men would be intimidated by that, what’s there to be intimidated about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them? "

I really wouldn't worry about it. I like tall men 6ft+

A lot of men it seems don't know their height or think I will notice

Missy x

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By *arkmanMan
over a year ago

hounslow

In my experience women prefer men that are taller than them which I kind of understand and I wonder if this is the reason some men are intimidated by you.

Personally I think you look fabulous!!

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them? "

Not a problem here. We both decided last night you looked great and height doesn't come into it.

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By *angerousLiaisonsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

London

I’ll be honest and say I do prefer a woman to be shorter than me but I also haven’t really met many - any actually - women who would date a shorter guy.

The preference is more so pronounced from the women who opt for taller men in my experience.

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

Never bothered me. Usually I find women are more bothered about a guy being shorter than them.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I love tall women being I am trans and stand 5ft7 tall .. OP you look a fab height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few profiles of tall or reasonably tall women who insist that potential playmates have to be taller than them and quite clearly state "we're not all the same height lying down".

Also, the male ego is quite fragile and can be intimidated by a woman significantly taller than them.

I would love to meet a woman in heels that is taller than me as I always have to stoop. I'm not even overly tall!

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By *ar64Man
over a year ago

Grays

Interesting... My, vertically challengd friends do love taller ladies. But aren't too fussed. Personally... Anything less than 6" is short in my world

so a 6+ lady! Amazon goddess right there

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

I think if you both click ,there isnt a problem ,but the bonus is you can change light bulbs

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I wouldn't say tall women are a preference, but it's nice to be able to kiss her without bending down so far I put my back out.

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By *otlWelshCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

No not for me in fact quite sexy and my good lady finds taller men more attractive. X

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By *ongandthickMan
over a year ago

exmouth

I'm a short arse,many years ago i went out with a girl who would allways wear really flat shoes when we were together so she didn't seem that taller.Never bothered me but i thought it quite considerate of her

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them? "

A different take on this. I'm a short guy with a desrire to be with an Amazonian type tall woman. I don't expect this to happen anytime soon but it's something that's always been there, so no, not too tall here, I'd probably insist upon a higher set of heels

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them? "

The issue you describe seems to stem from the fact that women (mostly) prefer taller men.

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them? "

If anyone has a problem with your height they're crazy! You are gorgeous!

I used to see a woman who was over 6 ft and it was amazing.

Especially when she'd get on her knees to suck my cock...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nope ...why should I?

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By *hebfg2020Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

Only problem I have with it is when I bang my head on a door frame because I did not duck

Bring on the future of tall people ……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The male half here is only 5’8, and he has no problems with taller women - especially if they happen to be a bit dominant.

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

I'm 6'3" (without heels) personally I love people the same height as me, I enjoy a conversation without getting a crook in my neck!

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By *orMatureWomenAndCouplesMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

I’m 6ft3 and personally I bloody love a tall woman

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By *.S.17Woman
over a year ago

Midlands

"Tall lady lover here! Saying that I’m 6”1 so not short, it’s always the short guys who are quick to say to tall ladies, “bloody hell your tall” like they have been completely unaware of the fact thier whole life!

So true

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By *.S.17Woman
over a year ago

Midlands

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them? "

I’m the same! And do find that some shorter guys will say they’re not bothered about the height difference! … with the intimidation, if a bloke is intimidated by me then he’s not the one

I was having a conversation with some girl friends about this over the weekend as a few of us are tall, and I think I would be ok with shorter guys if in a club/group environment if things were just ….. happening

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By *eepgliderMan
over a year ago

Chacewater

I'm not intimidated!!!

If I encountered you at a club I'd come along and politely express an interest in performing sex with you.

In fact if I saw you in the street I'd introduce myself and express my interest in performing sex with you. xxx

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By *edsmudgeMan
over a year ago

oxford

With a bottom like yours , I’m surprised you get any comments other than hubba hubba .

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

I'm going to guess that it's mostly men who consider themselves tall (but are actually just slightly above average) who will have a problem. I'm fairly short, I've dated and had (wonderful) sex with many ladies way taller then me. Although they mostly topped out at just under 6'. But even over, they'd still be ok lying over my lap

Actually from a physical perspective, I find doggy works better when the lady is slightly taller, my legs are straight, hers are at an angle...but I'm sure I can make it work any way.

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By *eepgliderMan
over a year ago

Chacewater

Alternative reply... Some of us guys feel a sense of being validated by which lady(s) we give orgasms to. If you help give a big bad powerful woman her orgasms, that is more validation as a male. Makes me feel very contented when description of current circumstances involves this - when you are giving her orgasms to a lady seemingly the rest of the world is diving for cover from, terrified.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them? "

A persons height dosnt bother me and really wouldnt stop me asking her out.

Really its all down to the lady whilst im 5ft 9 skiny and can pick her up ( lets say the op and carry her up the stairs and carry her to bed )

There is a size difference dosnt mean I cant protect her or defend her.

Yes it was fun having to use the phone books to get a little higher it also added to the enjoyment of it.

The sex was no different and neither was the kisses though she had to bend down to kiss me.

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By *heHertsGuyMan
over a year ago

Hertford

Being 6ft 4 is not an issue for me.

I love a long legged woman!

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them? "

Love taller women but as a short arse 5,8” have never approached. Mark

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By *intsizedpocketrocketsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

"I'm tall. 6ft 2 in heels, 5ft 11 without.

I often get messages from guys saying they want to meet me but won't because I'm taller than them, or they just assume that I'd say no because they're shorter and apologise for it??

Is this really a problem? Do guys prefer women to be shorter than them? "

That's sad! A is 5'5" but would never feel intimidated by a taller woman. Really don't understand this fascination with men having to be taller than women. Can appreciate it's preferance but we talk to/ play with people of all heights

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Short arse here!

My wife, and all our female friends are at least 5' 8" and all wear at least 4" heels and I love being surrounded by these leggy lovelies

one of them only meets men 6' 2"`+ yet she loves spending time with this short arse. Plus I can genuinely get away with talk to their cleavage when they are wearing heels!

There's nothing I can do about my height so it's never bothered me, if people have an issue with someones height it's THEIR PROBLEM not yours so don't worry about it, just move on to someone who doesn't have an issue with it.

Personally I think its rude to message and say someones too tall or short, its no different (IMO) to saying someones too fat or thin, which people can actually have some control over - unlike height!

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By *ongandthickMan
over a year ago

exmouth

"Short arse here!

My wife, and all our female friends are at least 5' 8" and all wear at least 4" heels and I love being surrounded by these leggy lovelies

one of them only meets men 6' 2"`+ yet she loves spending time with this short arse. Plus I can genuinely get away with talk to their cleavage when they are wearing heels!

Personally I think its rude to message and say someones too tall or short, its no different (IMO) to saying someones too fat or thin, which people can actually have some control over - unlike height!Well said from a fellow short arse.lol.

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By *YorksBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest but seems to bother a lot of women

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By *orMatureWomenAndCouplesMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

I don’t especially have a preference and it’s unusual to meet a woman who’s 6ft4 but tall or taller is not intimidating at all, it’s very sexy

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