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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So heres whats really grinding my gears!!!! Supposedly straight men on fab messaging me for sex of some sort, then reading their verifications and seeing they have been with couples who wont touch bi men! Its soo wrong and extremely frustrating, especialy when these guys refuse to varify you after meeting because fab sais they're straight!!!!?!

These men know the deal and still lie, its disrespectful, i am honest, safe and considerent and im limited because i admit im bi!

Fubar i say

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

So don't meet them

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

You may be limited by people who won't meet bi guys, but the folk that actively or only look for bi guys are there for the picking...swings and roundabouts mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see your point but dont you think its wrong that these straight guys mislead straight couples who have stated on their profile they dont want bi men.

Well of course im not going to bleedin meet them again but how am i supposed to know they wont giveme a verification till i've met them!?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

there are plenty out there who will meet bi guys .. i wouldnt worry too much about it.

i doesnt matter wot category u fall into there will be time wasters .. pick ur self up and dust urself off !

start again with a positive attitude !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop meeting men who say they're straight. That's what I did. Because they won't verify me or accept my verification and the sex has always been one sided and shit for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really understand the issue here - are you on fab for meets or for verifications? Yes, some guys will say straight but want to experience MM at some point in their lives, and will feel uncomfortable about leaving a veri - in the same way that a female may do so after a FF meet.

Do you ask before meeting?

If this is a major problem for you, don't meet 'straight' men as someone else has suggested.

Just my thoughts!

Mrs GT

Ps very nice profile you have too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop meeting men who say they're straight. That's what I did. Because they won't verify me or accept my verification and the sex has always been one sided and shit for me. "

Fully agree with this. Not one has ever satisfied me, they just get off and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met straight guys, and had some great sex with fhem. Who cares if you don't get a verification, this is a sex site not a verification collectors club.

If I wanted points I'd swipe my nectar card!

People have all sorts of hang ups about labels, I don't care if someone says they're an Alien with a penchant for Rhubarb. If I find them sexy then it'll happen, if I don't it won't. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met straight guys, and had some great sex with fhem. Who cares if you don't get a verification, this is a sex site not a verification collectors club.

If I wanted points I'd swipe my nectar card!

People have all sorts of hang ups about labels, I don't care if someone says they're an Alien with a penchant for Rhubarb. If I find them sexy then it'll happen, if I don't it won't. Simples! "

This would be ok if verifications didnt make it easier to arrange meets which plainly they do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't really understand the issue here - are you on fab for meets or for verifications? Yes, some guys will say straight but want to experience MM at some point in their lives, and will feel uncomfortable about leaving a veri - in the same way that a female may do so after a FF meet.

Do you ask before meeting

Ps very nice profile you have too!"

Thank you i guess i will have avoid straight men but its the ones who have been with couples who dont want bi men that reaaly bothers me! How is that right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should it bother you? Unless its because it proves that lying gets you more sex?

Which it doesn't really, it just proves that men will do anything to get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really understand the issue here - are you on fab for meets or for verifications? Yes, some guys will say straight but want to experience MM at some point in their lives, and will feel uncomfortable about leaving a veri - in the same way that a female may do so after a FF meet.

Do you ask before meeting

Ps very nice profile you have too!

Thank you i guess i will have avoid straight men but its the ones who have been with couples who dont want bi men that reaaly bothers me! How is that right?

I totally agree with you on that but no-one on here can be taken as 100% up front about everything - so long as you're enjoying yourself that's all that matters. Get to a couple of socials or parties & I'm sure you'll get a few more verifications. Stay upbeat & positive & you'll be getting a whole heap of meets! X

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By *orseydaveMan
over a year ago

Norwich NR5


"So heres whats really grinding my gears!!!! Supposedly straight men on fab messaging me for sex of some sort, then reading their verifications and seeing they have been with couples who wont touch bi men! Its soo wrong and extremely frustrating, especialy when these guys refuse to varify you after meeting because fab sais they're straight!!!!?!

These men know the deal and still lie, its disrespectful, i am honest, safe and considerent and im limited because i admit im bi!

Fubar i say"

Sometimes, Im sure men on here lie about their sexuality, it seems that being bi is trendy at the moment. There is no doubt in my mind that like with everything else in life, sex has its trends aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thank you i guess i will have avoid straight men but its the ones who have been with couples who dont want bi men that reaaly bothers me! How is that right? "

Personally I think if you let anything somebody else does 'bother' you then you are making a mistake. Worrying about what other people do is futile. Just concentrate on making sure you do what you feel is right and let everybody else look after themselves. Your question 'how is that right?' strikes me as naive. No one should reach adulthood without realising life isn't 'fair' and therefore stop expecting it to be.

I've just realised that this may come across as having a go at you. I really don't mean it that way. I'm just offering friendly advice cos I think if you stay on this site thinking the way you do you will end up miserable. But hey it's all just my opinion.

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