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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own?" Guess the important question is does she share the same idea? If so - fantasy could become reality - if not............ Oh - and it seems pretty common - do a forum search - you'll see!  | |||
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"I have a fantasy of seeing myself in that position Sorry could not resist xx" lol | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own?" think this a very common fantasy... I've seen it many times lol  | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own?" Big fantasy of mine to mate, cant get it out my head | |||
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"I just don't know what it is with those black guys "You're lovely, thats what it is.  | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own?" I'd like to see her as well! | |||
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"I just don't know what it is with those black guys
You're lovely, thats what it is. " | |||
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"I just don't know what it is with those black guys
You're lovely, thats what it is. "l third that lol | |||
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"see... it not one of those things i play up... I'd rather be seen as a nice guy, who happens to be black....... than a black guy, who happens to be nice... it is obvious part of me... but not what defines me... if it makes sense...." | |||
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"see... it not one of those things i play up... I'd rather be seen as a nice guy, who happens to be black....... than a black guy, who happens to be nice... it is obvious part of me... but not what defines me... if it makes sense...." Yet your profile title and some of your status updates state you're black. Obviously it is totally up to you what you put on your profile but if you are so against being defined as a black guy, why do you advertise yourself as one? There are many on here who don't. | |||
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"see... it not one of those things i play up... I'd rather be seen as a nice guy, who happens to be black....... than a black guy, who happens to be nice... it is obvious part of me... but not what defines me... if it makes sense...." just a shame about the hat | |||
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"see... it not one of those things i play up... I'd rather be seen as a nice guy, who happens to be black....... than a black guy, who happens to be nice... it is obvious part of me... but not what defines me... if it makes sense.... Yet your profile title and some of your status updates state you're black. Obviously it is totally up to you what you put on your profile but if you are so against being defined as a black guy, why do you advertise yourself as one? There are many on here who don't." because if people didn't look at my picture how would people tell, I happen to be single, I happen to be black... that is being factual not playing up to the crowd! there is a huge huge difference between how I define me, and how others Stereotype black guys... and that is the point and the difference "some" guys play up the stereotypes... if that works for them then good for them, but then they can't complain if and when those same stereotypes work against type.... I just go out there and try to be the best "ME" I can be....and that is the thing I can control, the bits I can't control and were born with are just pieces on the side just happen to be there... I don't know if you will truely get what I am about to say... they may well be pieces of the jigsaw... but not large ones, the pieces I control will determine and define me... not the ones I can't... | |||
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she has her own fantasy for me! but thats another forum post | |||
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"see... it not one of those things i play up... I'd rather be seen as a nice guy, who happens to be black....... than a black guy, who happens to be nice... it is obvious part of me... but not what defines me... if it makes sense...." Totally agree with you on this one! | |||
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"I agree but it's the black on white skin that gets me excited, altho i gotta admit i'd prefer a gentleman to a guy who thinks himself a badass! i still want my lady to be treated with respect "You are right about the mixed colour stuff...As a black guy i find it so hard to get attracted by black ladies ( Hope some sista wont kill me for this )....But give me any white lady and i am on fire...I only date 1 black girl out of the so many gf i had. I cant even explain why | |||
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"LOL i thinkthey no how to please a girl!! and to see ebony and ivory together just looks great!" See this is the black guy stereotype thing again... "They know how to please a girl " ? So what your saying is all black men are sex gods and white men know nothing about pleasing a girl ?  | |||
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" See this is the black guy stereotype thing again... "They know how to please a girl " ? So what your saying is all black men are sex gods and white men know nothing about pleasing a girl ? "whereas the trust is - that all men are crap | |||
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"LOL i thinkthey no how to please a girl!! and to see ebony and ivory together just looks great!" Comments like this can cause a lot of resentment among the white men who just feel like they are being downgraded to merely guys who can "manage" to fine their around a woman's body. This brings me to Fabio's last comment. Like him, all though we enjoy contrast between skin colour and all that, we would prefer to be considered as human being as well... The typical stereotype where a black man is concerned is "he has a big dick, powerfully built body and he really knows how to fuck". What happens when you come across one who doesn't fit in the category? Does this person become "well he was shit in bed, couldn't last 2 mins and his cock pretty much shriveled up when he was done"? What then? I am certainly not knocking anyone for having fantasies with being with a black guy. But there is a human being behind that fantasy as well... Personally the biggest turn on for me is the black on white skin contrast... never mind anything else... | |||
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"LOL i thinkthey no how to please a girl!! and to see ebony and ivory together just looks great! Comments like this can cause a lot of resentment among the white men who just feel like they are being downgraded to merely guys who can "manage" to fine their around a woman's body. This brings me to Fabio's last comment. Like him, all though we enjoy contrast between skin colour and all that, we would prefer to be considered as human being as well... The typical stereotype where a black man is concerned is "he has a big dick, powerfully built body and he really knows how to fuck". What happens when you come across one who doesn't fit in the category? Does this person become "well he was shit in bed, couldn't last 2 mins and his cock pretty much shriveled up when he was done"? What then? I am certainly not knocking anyone for having fantasies with being with a black guy. But there is a human being behind that fantasy as well... Personally the biggest turn on for me is the black on white skin contrast... never mind anything else..." | |||
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"nope your just reading into it too much!  "Was reading what you quoted ... And its also not the first time that someones made a stupid quote like that either. There are just as many white guys with fantastic bodies,big cocks and who are also believe it or not great lovers !! This stereotype thing about black guys comes from the great porn industry ! | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own?" whats the big deal what colour a person is? | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own?whats the big deal what colour a person is? " its a big deal when it comes to the preference of who they wanna shag... | |||
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"see... it not one of those things i play up... I'd rather be seen as a nice guy, who happens to be black....... than a black guy, who happens to be nice... it is obvious part of me... but not what defines me... if it makes sense...." | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own?whats the big deal what colour a person is? its a big deal when it comes to the preference of who they wanna shag..." preference is fine. Don't say it's a fantasy to fuck a black guy/women. like black people are outcast pure racialism. Hate people like that. Plus if a women/man shuts he's/hers eyes and a cock went inside her pussy or a pussy sat on he's cock could they really fucking tell what colour it was? | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own?whats the big deal what colour a person is? its a big deal when it comes to the preference of who they wanna shag... preference is fine. Don't say it's a fantasy to fuck a black guy/women. like black people are outcast pure racialism. Hate people like that. Plus if a women/man shuts he's/hers eyes and a cock went inside her pussy or a pussy sat on he's cock could they really fucking tell what colour it was? " Plus this is a swingers site. I'm sure no ain't her looking for love or marriage | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own?whats the big deal what colour a person is? its a big deal when it comes to the preference of who they wanna shag... preference is fine. Don't say it's a fantasy to fuck a black guy/women. like black people are outcast pure racialism. Hate people like that. Plus if a women/man shuts he's/hers eyes and a cock went inside her pussy or a pussy sat on he's cock could they really fucking tell what colour it was? " outcasting urself by ur very statement....think u really need to think before u type..in my opinion. | |||
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"Talk about out of context. There are a lot of people that indulge in interracial sex because they see it still as being a little bit taboo" . This is a good point and I think articulates the reason for some of the objections black men have raised here. Without wishing to be critical of anyone or the reasons for their well held preferences, it could be construed that "a little bit taboo" references prejudices that are notionally still held in the modern world. Being the subject of something that's considered 'taboo' isn't necessarily an uplifting position to find yourself in. For my own part when I first entered this wonderful alternative life 10 years ago, I played to the gallery because it seemed I had unique selling qualities because of my skin colour, but that changed more recently when the male partner of a couple I met fairly regularly confessed that they only met black men because his wife "wouldn't ever run off with one", so didn't threaten their relationship like a white male potentially could, so basically saying we were alright for a shag but not much good for anything else! | |||
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"Talk about out of context. There are a lot of people that indulge in interracial sex because they see it still as being a little bit taboo . This is a good point and I think articulates the reason for some of the objections black men have raised here. Without wishing to be critical of anyone or the reasons for their well held preferences, it could be construed that "a little bit taboo" references prejudices that are notionally still held in the modern world. Being the subject of something that's considered 'taboo' isn't necessarily an uplifting position to find yourself in. For my own part when I first entered this wonderful alternative life 10 years ago, I played to the gallery because it seemed I had unique selling qualities because of my skin colour, but that changed more recently when the male partner of a couple I met fairly regularly confessed that they only met black men because his wife "wouldn't ever run off with one", so didn't threaten their relationship like a white male potentially could, so basically saying we were alright for a shag but not much good for anything else! " Sounds like the perfect reason not to be swinging in the first place this.. If he's insecure about his wife running off with with somebody else then why the hell swing ? Hmmm | |||
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"Talk about out of context. There are a lot of people that indulge in interracial sex because they see it still as being a little bit taboo . This is a good point and I think articulates the reason for some of the objections black men have raised here. Without wishing to be critical of anyone or the reasons for their well held preferences, it could be construed that "a little bit taboo" references prejudices that are notionally still held in the modern world. Being the subject of something that's considered 'taboo' isn't necessarily an uplifting position to find yourself in. For my own part when I first entered this wonderful alternative life 10 years ago, I played to the gallery because it seemed I had unique selling qualities because of my skin colour, but that changed more recently when the male partner of a couple I met fairly regularly confessed that they only met black men because his wife "wouldn't ever run off with one", so didn't threaten their relationship like a white male potentially could, so basically saying we were alright for a shag but not much good for anything else! Sounds like the perfect reason not to be swinging in the first place this.. If he's insecure about his wife running off with with somebody else then why the hell swing ? Hmmm" . Indeed one does wonder, I can say though that they are dedicated and experienced participants in this lifestyle whom I know quite well. It was in a less guarded moment that the male made the comment he did and frankly it was a showstopper for me. My point though was really addressing the issue of regarding black playmates as 'taboo', which implies participation in something that might be regarded as forbidden. I believe the fascination in the 'forbidden' might be universal but I find the occasional cream cake satisfies that indulgence as far as I'm concerned and would feel uncomfortable extending such sentiment to human beings! I've occasionally been challenged because of my username because it appears to be paying succour to the stereotypes, but as Fabio said earlier mentioning your skin colour on your profile is merely stating fact..I happen to be big, black and called Dominic! Personally I wouldn't want to rely solely/significantly on my superficial 'attributes' (if you can call them that) to achieve success in this lifestyle it would be demeaning..sorry for the sermon!  | |||
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"If he's insecure about his wife running off with with somebody else then why the hell swing ? Hmmm" Oh and to answer this point specifically..he isn't worried about his wife running off with black men-that's why they play exclusively with them, the subliminal message being that they wouldnt be good enough for her from a relationship perspective, so she'd never be tempted, hey-ho! | |||
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"Talk about out of context. There are a lot of people that indulge in interracial sex because they see it still as being a little bit taboo . This is a good point and I think articulates the reason for some of the objections black men have raised here. Without wishing to be critical of anyone or the reasons for their well held preferences, it could be construed that "a little bit taboo" references prejudices that are notionally still held in the modern world. Being the subject of something that's considered 'taboo' isn't necessarily an uplifting position to find yourself in. For my own part when I first entered this wonderful alternative life 10 years ago, I played to the gallery because it seemed I had unique selling qualities because of my skin colour, but that changed more recently when the male partner of a couple I met fairly regularly confessed that they only met black men because his wife "wouldn't ever run off with one", so didn't threaten their relationship like a white male potentially could, so basically saying we were alright for a shag but not much good for anything else! Sounds like the perfect reason not to be swinging in the first place this.. If he's insecure about his wife running off with with somebody else then why the hell swing ? Hmmm . Indeed one does wonder, I can say though that they are dedicated and experienced participants in this lifestyle whom I know quite well. It was in a less guarded moment that the male made the comment he did and frankly it was a showstopper for me. My point though was really addressing the issue of regarding black playmates as 'taboo', which implies participation in something that might be regarded as forbidden. I believe the fascination in the 'forbidden' might be universal but I find the occasional cream cake satisfies that indulgence as far as I'm concerned and would feel uncomfortable extending such sentiment to human beings! I've occasionally been challenged because of my username because it appears to be paying succour to the stereotypes, but as Fabio said earlier mentioning your skin colour on your profile is merely stating fact..I happen to be big, black and called Dominic! Personally I wouldn't want to rely solely/significantly on my superficial 'attributes' (if you can call them that) to achieve success in this lifestyle it would be demeaning..sorry for the sermon! "of course dominic...as ur username suggest u are indeed black...as does ur avatar and pics I'd guess lol | |||
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"If he's insecure about his wife running off with with somebody else then why the hell swing ? Hmmm Oh and to answer this point specifically..he isn't worried about his wife running off with black men-that's why they play exclusively with them, the subliminal message being that they wouldnt be good enough for her from a relationship perspective, so she'd never be tempted, hey-ho! " Don't see his wife is any less likely to run of with a black guy compared to a white guy to be honest . When you look how many white woman put black guys on a pedal stool, making out they are far more superior in every department to a white guy. Taking this into account you would say if anything she is more likely to run off with a black guy ? | |||
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"If he's insecure about his wife running off with with somebody else then why the hell swing ? Hmmm Oh and to answer this point specifically..he isn't worried about his wife running off with black men-that's why they play exclusively with them, the subliminal message being that they wouldnt be good enough for her from a relationship perspective, so she'd never be tempted, hey-ho! Don't see his wife is any less likely to run of with a black guy compared to a white guy to be honest . When you look how many white woman put black guys on a pedal stool, making out they are far more superior in every department to a white guy. Taking this into account you would say if anything she is more likely to run off with a black guy ? ". . Well I was really reflecting on a personal situation rather than speaking generally. Of course there are interracial relationships which thrive just the same as others do but they would be unlikely to do so if one party regarded the other as a fetish or 'taboo'. Within the swinging lifestyle there are a myriad shades of grey, people choose what they like and don't like and if their particular fixation is with black men because they regard them sexually as 'taboo', that's entirely a matter for them, it's just not the kind of encounter I'd want to participate in, assuming I was pre-armed with that information, it's a thrill that was short lived when I was less concerned about it. I agree though there may well be people here and in the real world who place their black partners on a pedestal because they're black, but if they do so I'd suggest there's something lacking in the wider context of their existence..a bit like the guy who had no interest in parading his wife at the golf club dinner until she became surgically enhanced! | |||
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"When you look how many white woman put black guys on a pedal stool, making out they are far more superior in every department to a white guy." In what context though? Here or in the real world? I wonder how many women in mono-racial relationships have cast off their pasty, concaved chest, 3" dicked husband for a full on relationship with this mythical black god of a man?! (I'm being playful there btw!) Sorry I keep adding bits as my thinking develops!   | |||
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"Speaking purely personally as someone who only wants to meet black men it's mainly about the visual contrast for me. I love that. Also k is a slim white guy and I find him very attractive but when I'm looking for a play mate I like someone completely different. Can't get more opposite than a huge black guy....plus I just happen to think they are as sexy as hell! "I'm putting on weight and getting an extra tan | |||
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"Speaking purely personally as someone who only wants to meet black men it's mainly about the visual contrast for me. I love that. Also k is a slim white guy and I find him very attractive but when I'm looking for a play mate I like someone completely different. Can't get more opposite than a huge black guy....plus I just happen to think they are as sexy as hell! ". ..but would you take one home to meet your mother?! | |||
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"When you look how many white woman put black guys on a pedal stool, making out they are far more superior in every department to a white guy. In what context though? Here or in the real world? I wonder how many women in mono-racial relationships have cast off their pasty, concaved chest, 3" dicked husband for a full on relationship with this mythical black god of a man?! (I'm being playful there btw!) Sorry I keep adding bits as my thinking develops! "Here and other sites ... Black guys are gentleman compared to white guys,better bodies,bigger cocks blah blah.. We have freinds all nationalitys and colours and hate this there better than whoever rubbish because they are Italian black or whatever. It the men went around saying how Asian women and Eastern european women were the best,yet all English women were fat chavs we'd never hear the last of it that you can guarentee !! | |||
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"When you look how many white woman put black guys on a pedal stool, making out they are far more superior in every department to a white guy. In what context though? Here or in the real world? I wonder how many women in mono-racial relationships have cast off their pasty, concaved chest, 3" dicked husband for a full on relationship with this mythical black god of a man?! (I'm being playful there btw!) Sorry I keep adding bits as my thinking develops!
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Black guys are gentleman compared to white guys,better bodies,bigger cocks blah blah..
We have freinds all nationalitys and colours and hate this there better than whoever rubbish because they are Italian black or whatever.
It the men went around saying how Asian women and Eastern european women were the best,yet all English women were fat chavs we'd never hear the last of it that you can guarentee !! ". Hahaha, well you can probably imagine that I'm here grinding my teeth whilst challenging a stereotype that I'm a beneficiary of! However if that's someone's experience of black guys that's great-good for them, but I have to say I've met some who can be wankers just like anybody else, myself included! | |||
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"When you look how many white woman put black guys on a pedal stool, making out they are far more superior in every department to a white guy. In what context though? Here or in the real world? I wonder how many women in mono-racial relationships have cast off their pasty, concaved chest, 3" dicked husband for a full on relationship with this mythical black god of a man?! (I'm being playful there btw!) Sorry I keep adding bits as my thinking develops!
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Black guys are gentleman compared to white guys,better bodies,bigger cocks blah blah..
We have freinds all nationalitys and colours and hate this there better than whoever rubbish because they are Italian black or whatever.
It the men went around saying how Asian women and Eastern european women were the best,yet all English women were fat chavs we'd never hear the last of it that you can guarentee !!
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Hahaha, well you can probably imagine that I'm here grinding my teeth whilst challenging a stereotype that I'm a beneficiary of!
However if that's someone's experience of black guys that's great-good for them, but I have to say I've met some who can be wankers just like anybody else, myself included! "By the way did i say that French and Italian women are so much sexier than English ? | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own?" nice simple question but as usual its blown out of all proportion by some on here. Lovely fantasy enjoyed by many. | |||
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"When you look how many white woman put black guys on a pedal stool, making out they are far more superior in every department to a white guy. In what context though? Here or in the real world? I wonder how many women in mono-racial relationships have cast off their pasty, concaved chest, 3" dicked husband for a full on relationship with this mythical black god of a man?! (I'm being playful there btw!) Sorry I keep adding bits as my thinking develops!
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Black guys are gentleman compared to white guys,better bodies,bigger cocks blah blah..
We have freinds all nationalitys and colours and hate this there better than whoever rubbish because they are Italian black or whatever.
It the men went around saying how Asian women and Eastern european women were the best,yet all English women were fat chavs we'd never hear the last of it that you can guarentee !!
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Hahaha, well you can probably imagine that I'm here grinding my teeth whilst challenging a stereotype that I'm a beneficiary of!
However if that's someone's experience of black guys that's great-good for them, but I have to say I've met some who can be wankers just like anybody else, myself included!
By the way did i say that French and Italian women are so much sexier than English ? "sexier but hairier | |||
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"i think the irony of it all and what I hope people start to realise on both sides is that which stuff like this, you are probably turning off and sending people running in the other direction as many of the very people you are trying to attract if not said or approached rightly, as you are by the way it is done now.... I want to feel more the just a proforming seal, I want people to want to meet me for me, because I attracted that persona and not because I filled some sort of niche...... it has to start from the bottom up... with people saying "sorry I don't want to be put in a position when I feel like a piece of meat".... so there are certain things i dont go to, or if If something doesn't feel right I step back... does it cost me meets... sure, am i a better person within myself for taking the stance I do... absolutely" I understand...to a degree. I wouldn't attend a black man's fan club or bbw event. However, I wouldn't be offended if someone had "prefer bbws" on their profile, as I wouldn't find that "demeaning", if you know what I mean. | |||
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"When you look how many white woman put black guys on a pedal stool, making out they are far more superior in every department to a white guy. In what context though? Here or in the real world? I wonder how many women in mono-racial relationships have cast off their pasty, concaved chest, 3" dicked husband for a full on relationship with this mythical black god of a man?! (I'm being playful there btw!) Sorry I keep adding bits as my thinking develops!
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Black guys are gentleman compared to white guys,better bodies,bigger cocks blah blah..
We have freinds all nationalitys and colours and hate this there better than whoever rubbish because they are Italian black or whatever.
It the men went around saying how Asian women and Eastern european women were the best,yet all English women were fat chavs we'd never hear the last of it that you can guarentee !!
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Hahaha, well you can probably imagine that I'm here grinding my teeth whilst challenging a stereotype that I'm a beneficiary of!
However if that's someone's experience of black guys that's great-good for them, but I have to say I've met some who can be wankers just like anybody else, myself included!
By the way did i say that French and Italian women are so much sexier than English ?
sexier but hairier "No you don't see many with hair nowadays except on their head,which i dunno about you but i think is needed | |||
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"When you look how many white woman put black guys on a pedal stool, making out they are far more superior in every department to a white guy. In what context though? Here or in the real world? I wonder how many women in mono-racial relationships have cast off their pasty, concaved chest, 3" dicked husband for a full on relationship with this mythical black god of a man?! (I'm being playful there btw!) Sorry I keep adding bits as my thinking develops!
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Black guys are gentleman compared to white guys,better bodies,bigger cocks blah blah..
We have freinds all nationalitys and colours and hate this there better than whoever rubbish because they are Italian black or whatever.
It the men went around saying how Asian women and Eastern european women were the best,yet all English women were fat chavs we'd never hear the last of it that you can guarentee !!
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Hahaha, well you can probably imagine that I'm here grinding my teeth whilst challenging a stereotype that I'm a beneficiary of!
However if that's someone's experience of black guys that's great-good for them, but I have to say I've met some who can be wankers just like anybody else, myself included!
By the way did i say that French and Italian women are so much sexier than English ?
sexier but hairier
No you don't see many with hair nowadays except on their head,which i dunno about you but i think is needed "not according to this 70's porn mag I'm reading | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own?" I reckon I'd better get the boot polish out then Lol | |||
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"i think the irony of it all and what I hope people start to realise on both sides is that which stuff like this, you are probably turning off and sending people running in the other direction as many of the very people you are trying to attract if not said or approached rightly, as you are by the way it is done now.... I want to feel more the just a proforming seal, I want people to want to meet me for me, because I attracted that persona and not because I filled some sort of niche...... it has to start from the bottom up... with people saying "sorry I don't want to be put in a position when I feel like a piece of meat".... so there are certain things i dont go to, or if If something doesn't feel right I step back... does it cost me meets... sure, am i a better person within myself for taking the stance I do... absolutely I understand...to a degree. I wouldn't attend a black man's fan club or bbw event. However, I wouldn't be offended if someone had "prefer bbws" on their profile, as I wouldn't find that "demeaning", if you know what I mean. " Its not the fact that people have preferences or fantasies,its the fact they need to belittle those that don't fit into their categorys | |||
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"What annoys me is the inability of some to express their preference without insulting those they're not interested in, and the sensitivity of some in believing their "usp" is always a negative." . But in being "annoyed" by how others are able to express their preferences or articulating their 'usp as negative' aren't you overlaying your own views onto theirs? If I don't regard my blackness necessarily as a positive selling point then presumably that's my choice? If other black males want to do so, and there are people who exclusively want to meet them that's fine by me and I wouldn't be annoyed about it | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own? nice simple question but as usual its blown out of all proportion by some on here. Lovely fantasy enjoyed by many." . We're a community of people, nobody's deriding the OP's fantasy, but not everyone shares their view..what a shame frank exchanges of views have to be criticised in anyway, whatever perspective they come from. | |||
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"By the way did i say that French and Italian women are so much sexier than English ? ". Have you seen Bridget Bardot lately?! | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own? nice simple question but as usual its blown out of all proportion by some on here. Lovely fantasy enjoyed by many. . We're a community of people, nobody's deriding the OP's fantasy, but not everyone shares their view..what a shame frank exchanges of views have to be criticised in anyway, whatever perspective they come from." Exactly everything should be black and white "excuse the pun" some people know the response they will get before they post a thread for open debate . | |||
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"By the way did i say that French and Italian women are so much sexier than English ?
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Have you seen Bridget Bardot lately?! "Yeah but then Marilyn Monroe don't look to hot these days either ! | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own? nice simple question but as usual its blown out of all proportion by some on here. Lovely fantasy enjoyed by many. . We're a community of people, nobody's deriding the OP's fantasy, but not everyone shares their view..what a shame frank exchanges of views have to be criticised in anyway, whatever perspective they come from. Exactly everything should be black and white "excuse the pun" some people know the response they will get before they post a thread for open debate ." . Absolutely, I did wonder why the OP didn't post his fantasy as a status update, so I assumed he was welcoming comment by posting it here! | |||
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"What annoys me is the inability of some to express their preference without insulting those they're not interested in, and the sensitivity of some in believing their "usp" is always a negative. . But in being "annoyed" by how others are able to express their preferences or articulating their 'usp as negative' aren't you overlaying your own views onto theirs? If I don't regard my blackness necessarily as a positive selling point then presumably that's my choice? If other black males want to do so, and there are people who exclusively want to meet them that's fine by me and I wouldn't be annoyed about it "Aren't you making assumptions on what I've written? | |||
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"What annoys me is the inability of some to express their preference without insulting those they're not interested in, and the sensitivity of some in believing their "usp" is always a negative. . But in being "annoyed" by how others are able to express their preferences or articulating their 'usp as negative' aren't you overlaying your own views onto theirs? If I don't regard my blackness necessarily as a positive selling point then presumably that's my choice? If other black males want to do so, and there are people who exclusively want to meet them that's fine by me and I wouldn't be annoyed about it
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"When you look how many white woman put black guys on a pedal stool, making out they are far more superior in every department to a white guy. In what context though? Here or in the real world? I wonder how many women in mono-racial relationships have cast off their pasty, concaved chest, 3" dicked husband for a full on relationship with this mythical black god of a man?! (I'm being playful there btw!) Sorry I keep adding bits as my thinking develops! "Only just saw that and it made me burst out laughing | |||
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"On this subject, where can a girl go in the Northwest to meet black guys safely ? Prison " .
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"Blimey! So much PC......Any thinking human being knows that it doesn't matter or put less or more value on a human being whatever 'colour' they are. (Duuuuh!lol) Some women prefer the look of black guys for the contrast. Nothing pseudo-racist in it....Too much touchiness around, as well as stupid stereotpyes. Perhaps just easier to be less PC and just enjoy life? Just a thought ". Hahaha..but you're being 'touchy' about people being 'touchy'!! | |||
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"I may not fit the mould of "big muscly-built 6ft plus, dick hanging to the knees" black guy, so I wonder if that makes me less of a prospect? Lol. Or maybe as I was once told, "not black enough" ? Lol !!!" Well at the very least you make a useful bathroom accessory!! | |||
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"No, not touchy - just observant.... " . ..but that's all anyone is doing 'observing' what others are saying and commenting on it
To be honest, I don't think anyone's being 'touchy' really, the black guys who have commented are simply offering a view of the 'black fetish' from their perspective..although it seems few are interested.
I gave an example above of a couple I once had regular contact with admitting they only met black guys because the wife would never "run off with one", intimating that we weren't good enough for that.
Now Im not looking for a relationship or hoping to snare some hapless white guy's beloved, but I only want to meet people who see me as an equal, not inferior (or superior for that matter!), I don't think that's being touchy, otherwise anyone's preferences could be described as such! | |||
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"Ok...if any of the well spoken, deep thinking, gentleman that can actually hold a string of thought, have a great sense of humor, and and passion in their minds(as those men I find most attractive)who just so happen to be Black, let me know if they are ever in the west coast of Ireland please..x" . . | |||
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"Amusingly I notice OP has now gone! Another timewaster or have they lined up so many black guys their diary is full... BTW very interesting points of view and comments on this thread. Thank you all "Says this poster with the hidden profile ! | |||
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"Amusingly I notice OP has now gone! Another timewaster or have they lined up so many black guys their diary is full... BTW very interesting points of view and comments on this thread. Thank you all
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"see... it not one of those things i play up... I'd rather be seen as a nice guy, who happens to be black....... than a black guy, who happens to be nice... it is obvious part of me... but not what defines me... if it makes sense.... Yet your profile title and some of your status updates state you're black. Obviously it is totally up to you what you put on your profile but if you are so against being defined as a black guy, why do you advertise yourself as one? There are many on here who don't. because if people didn't look at my picture how would people tell, I happen to be single, I happen to be black... that is being factual not playing up to the crowd! there is a huge huge difference between how I define me, and how others Stereotype black guys... and that is the point and the difference "some" guys play up the stereotypes... if that works for them then good for them, but then they can't complain if and when those same stereotypes work against type.... I just go out there and try to be the best "ME" I can be....and that is the thing I can control, the bits I can't control and were born with are just pieces on the side just happen to be there... I don't know if you will truely get what I am about to say... they may well be pieces of the jigsaw... but not large ones, the pieces I control will determine and define me... not the ones I can't..." . An interesting, personal contribution Fabio | |||
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"No, not touchy - just observant.... . ..but that's all anyone is doing 'observing' what others are saying and commenting on it
To be honest, I don't think anyone's being 'touchy' really, the black guys who have commented are simply offering a view of the 'black fetish' from their perspective..although it seems few are interested.
I gave an example above of a couple I once had regular contact with admitting they only met black guys because the wife would never "run off with one", intimating that we weren't good enough for that.
Now Im not looking for a relationship or hoping to snare some hapless white guy's beloved, but I only want to meet people who see me as an equal, not inferior (or superior for that matter!), I don't think that's being touchy, otherwise anyone's preferences could be described as such! "Responding to your comment about this couple, I heard from a younger black lover a similar argument about bbws ! That they were good for a shag, and he liked meeting them on this site because there was no risk in him falling for one...!!!! Now i would have respected his choice to meet up with bbws only without questions and to me it is just stupidity or plain ignorance to say such things to other people ! If that's your reason you keep it to yourself! I personally don't mind, it is human nature to have preferances, to try to protect yourself from certain routes life might take you .... it is normal that you also might not be able to explain to yourself why you prefer specific types, there are simply too many factors to explain why you are attracted to a certain body type, personality type, lover type (dominant/sub) as long as you show enough respect and what you are saying does not offend the person you are talking too, that's fine! This is a site where most people want to fulfil their fantasies, be it finding men that are not afraid to chain you to a tree in the wood and fuck you, a red hair very busty woman or a tall Mediterranean, Nordic or Black man , I don't see where the problem is! It is not discrimination in my eyes, just a choice, a preference, that might be temporary... afterall it is a sex site so you have to accept that most people might see you as their next available meal, and might not want to spend time finding out how clever you are or how nicely grounded you are as a person!... it is not a dating site, I would be offended by that behaviour on a dating site not on a sex site! | |||
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" No, not touchy - just observant.... . ..but that's all anyone is doing 'observing' what others are saying and commenting on it
To be honest, I don't think anyone's being 'touchy' really, the black guys who have commented are simply offering a view of the 'black fetish' from their perspective..although it seems few are interested.
I gave an example above of a couple I once had regular contact with admitting they only met black guys because the wife would never "run off with one", intimating that we weren't good enough for that.
Now Im not looking for a relationship or hoping to snare some hapless white guy's beloved, but I only want to meet people who see me as an equal, not inferior (or superior for that matter!), I don't think that's being touchy, otherwise anyone's preferences could be described as such!
Responding to your comment about this couple, I heard from a younger black lover a similar argument about bbws ! That they were good for a shag, and he liked meeting them on this site because there was no risk in him falling for one...!!!! Now i would have respected his choice to meet up with bbws only without questions and to me it is just stupidity or plain ignorance to say such things to other people ! If that's your reason you keep it to yourself!
I personally don't mind, it is human nature to have preferances, to try to protect yourself from certain routes life might take you .... it is normal that you also might not be able to explain to yourself why you prefer specific types, there are simply too many factors to explain why you are attracted to a certain body type, personality type, lover type (dominant/sub) as long as you show enough respect and what you are saying does not offend the person you are talking too, that's fine!
This is a site where most people want to fulfil their fantasies, be it finding men that are not afraid to chain you to a tree in the wood and fuck you, a red hair very busty woman or a tall Mediterranean, Nordic or Black man , I don't see where the problem is!
It is not discrimination in my eyes, just a choice, a preference, that might be temporary... afterall it is a sex site so you have to accept that most people might see you as their next available meal, and might not want to spend time finding out how clever you are or how nicely grounded you are as a person!... it is not a dating site, I would be offended by that behaviour on a dating site not on a sex site!"I can feel another round of the sex site drama coming on here ... | |||
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"Responding to your comment about this couple, I heard from a younger black lover a similar argument about bbws ! That they were good for a shag, and he liked meeting them on this site because there was no risk in him falling for one...!!!! Now i would have respected his choice to meet up with bbws only without questions and to me it is just stupidity or plain ignorance to say such things to other people ! If that's your reason you keep it to yourself! I personally don't mind, it is human nature to have preferances, to try to protect yourself from certain routes life might take you .... it is normal that you also might not be able to explain to yourself why you prefer specific types, there are simply too many factors to explain why you are attracted to a certain body type, personality type, lover type (dominant/sub) as long as you show enough respect and what you are saying does not offend the person you are talking too, that's fine! This is a site where most people want to fulfil their fantasies, be it finding men that are not afraid to chain you to a tree in the wood and fuck you, a red hair very busty woman or a tall Mediterranean, Nordic or Black man , I don't see where the problem is! It is not discrimination in my eyes, just a choice, a preference, that might be temporary... afterall it is a sex site so you have to accept that most people might see you as their next available meal, and might not want to spend time finding out how clever you are or how nicely grounded you are as a person!... it is not a dating site, I would be offended by that behaviour on a dating site not on a sex site!" . Thanks for your detailed reply _ussyonfire. Completely understand where you're coming from but I think you've overstated my position (fnar fnar), since I agree with almost everything you say! I absolutely agree that people have preferences and nowhere have I said I see it as 'discrimination' in the accepted sense of the word. Swinging will reflect the prejudices of the real world and to be honest even racists/sexists/misogynists etc should be able to swing too, but they have to pick their potential partners more carefully! I don't need people to acknowledge 'how clever I am', it's a subjective issue anyway, but I know from my own experience the encounters I've enjoyed the most have been where my skin colour is 'incidental' to our reasons for meeting, rather than the sole reason, that would be MY preference but in no way do I denounce people who want to meet others on that basis, it's their business. I've seen these discussions before, here and on other sites and if a black man states an opinion which makes people shuffle uncomfortably, then he's often derided (Im not saying you have btw), but the dialogue often turns towards trivialising what he says in the name of 'political correctness' or other derisory terms, I have an opinion and trying my best to articulate it without offending people. Myself and I believe Fabio are simply offering a different (and personalised) perspective to the black male porn stereotype which often seems popular..if a man wants to see his wife "blacked", or hear her spoken to like a "white ho" then it's unlikely a meet with me would be fulfilling from their point of view, I'm afraid this BBC has a body and brain attached to it! Ps: ironically since I've contributed to this thread my mailbox has actually received messages from interested people rather than the usual tumble that greets me on my daily visit to it! | |||
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" No, not touchy - just observant.... . ..but that's all anyone is doing 'observing' what others are saying and commenting on it
To be honest, I don't think anyone's being 'touchy' really, the black guys who have commented are simply offering a view of the 'black fetish' from their perspective..although it seems few are interested.
I gave an example above of a couple I once had regular contact with admitting they only met black guys because the wife would never "run off with one", intimating that we weren't good enough for that.
Now Im not looking for a relationship or hoping to snare some hapless white guy's beloved, but I only want to meet people who see me as an equal, not inferior (or superior for that matter!), I don't think that's being touchy, otherwise anyone's preferences could be described as such!
Responding to your comment about this couple, I heard from a younger black lover a similar argument about bbws ! That they were good for a shag, and he liked meeting them on this site because there was no risk in him falling for one...!!!! Now i would have respected his choice to meet up with bbws only without questions and to me it is just stupidity or plain ignorance to say such things to other people ! If that's your reason you keep it to yourself!
I personally don't mind, it is human nature to have preferances, to try to protect yourself from certain routes life might take you .... it is normal that you also might not be able to explain to yourself why you prefer specific types, there are simply too many factors to explain why you are attracted to a certain body type, personality type, lover type (dominant/sub) as long as you show enough respect and what you are saying does not offend the person you are talking too, that's fine!
This is a site where most people want to fulfil their fantasies, be it finding men that are not afraid to chain you to a tree in the wood and fuck you, a red hair very busty woman or a tall Mediterranean, Nordic or Black man , I don't see where the problem is!
It is not discrimination in my eyes, just a choice, a preference, that might be temporary... afterall it is a sex site so you have to accept that most people might see you as their next available meal, and might not want to spend time finding out how clever you are or how nicely grounded you are as a person!... it is not a dating site, I would be offended by that behaviour on a dating site not on a sex site!
I can feel another round of the sex site drama coming on here ... ".
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" No, not touchy - just observant.... . ..but that's all anyone is doing 'observing' what others are saying and commenting on it
To be honest, I don't think anyone's being 'touchy' really, the black guys who have commented are simply offering a view of the 'black fetish' from their perspective..although it seems few are interested.
I gave an example above of a couple I once had regular contact with admitting they only met black guys because the wife would never "run off with one", intimating that we weren't good enough for that.
Now Im not looking for a relationship or hoping to snare some hapless white guy's beloved, but I only want to meet people who see me as an equal, not inferior (or superior for that matter!), I don't think that's being touchy, otherwise anyone's preferences could be described as such!
Responding to your comment about this couple, I heard from a younger black lover a similar argument about bbws ! That they were good for a shag, and he liked meeting them on this site because there was no risk in him falling for one...!!!! Now i would have respected his choice to meet up with bbws only without questions and to me it is just stupidity or plain ignorance to say such things to other people ! If that's your reason you keep it to yourself!
I personally don't mind, it is human nature to have preferances, to try to protect yourself from certain routes life might take you .... it is normal that you also might not be able to explain to yourself why you prefer specific types, there are simply too many factors to explain why you are attracted to a certain body type, personality type, lover type (dominant/sub) as long as you show enough respect and what you are saying does not offend the person you are talking too, that's fine!
This is a site where most people want to fulfil their fantasies, be it finding men that are not afraid to chain you to a tree in the wood and fuck you, a red hair very busty woman or a tall Mediterranean, Nordic or Black man , I don't see where the problem is!
It is not discrimination in my eyes, just a choice, a preference, that might be temporary... afterall it is a sex site so you have to accept that most people might see you as their next available meal, and might not want to spend time finding out how clever you are or how nicely grounded you are as a person!... it is not a dating site, I would be offended by that behaviour on a dating site not on a sex site!
I can feel another round of the sex site drama coming on here ...
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We'll all become members of the Happy-Clappy Club by the time this reaches its natural conclusion "Give it a day or so and there will be another blackman thread another BBW thread another do women like men with hairy chests thread and the list goes on ! Then we can all join the Happy Clappy nuthouse ! | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own?" I take it his girlfriend enjoyed herself and left with the black guys | |||
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"I have a big fantasy to see my girlfriend with a couple of black men! is this a usual fantasy or am i on my own? I take it his girlfriend enjoyed herself and left with the black guys "Lol | |||
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"I agree but it's the black on white skin that gets me excited, altho i gotta admit i'd prefer a gentleman to a guy who thinks himself a badass! i still want my lady to be treated with respect You are right about the mixed colour stuff...As a black guy i find it so hard to get attracted by black ladies ( Hope some sista wont kill me for this )....But give me any white lady and i am on fire...I only date 1 black girl out of the so many gf i had. I cant even explain why"h I have a black male friend who told me that black girls are hard to chat-up, that they have this 'attitude'. Maybe that's why lol xxx | |||
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"I agree but it's the black on white skin that gets me excited, altho i gotta admit i'd prefer a gentleman to a guy who thinks himself a badass! i still want my lady to be treated with respect You are right about the mixed colour stuff...As a black guy i find it so hard to get attracted by black ladies ( Hope some sista wont kill me for this )....But give me any white lady and i am on fire...I only date 1 black girl out of the so many gf i had. I cant even explain whyh
I have a black male friend who told me that black girls are hard to chat-up, that they have this 'attitude'. Maybe that's why lol xxx"What your friend means he finds it hard to chat up black girls himself. That is utter bollocks | |||
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"I agree but it's the black on white skin that gets me excited, altho i gotta admit i'd prefer a gentleman to a guy who thinks himself a badass! i still want my lady to be treated with respect You are right about the mixed colour stuff...As a black guy i find it so hard to get attracted by black ladies ( Hope some sista wont kill me for this )....But give me any white lady and i am on fire...I only date 1 black girl out of the so many gf i had. I cant even explain whyh
I have a black male friend who told me that black girls are hard to chat-up, that they have this 'attitude'. Maybe that's why lol xxx
What your friend means he finds it hard to chat up black girls himself.
That is utter bollocks "Not entirely bollocks - I was once told (by a black girl) that I've forgotten how to dance with a black girl. Firstly: how does a black girl dance that as a black guy, I'd have to go into "dancing with a black girl" mode that is so different? am I set to a default "dancing with a white/latino/greek/oriental girl" mode? Secondly: perhaps it wasn't that I forgot - maybe I just grew up around a number of black girls that (as commonly portrayed) cant tell the difference between confident/assertive.. and plain aggressive/rude. Is that the attitude? Third: How does one "chat up a black girl"? Are there certain things you say/do/approach that may work and keep the attention of a white/latino/oriental/jewish girl but will be a straight turn off with a black girl, and vice versa some hidden gem of a witty opener it gets a black girl dripping liek a bucket,.. but has zero meaning to a white/latino/oriental/jewish girl?? And by the way... this thread is still going?? | |||
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"My reply to Ahabs post below. Some people make daft comments was this girl a spokesperson for black girls? A white girl once told me I don't talk black this shows her ignorance and would not lead me to question the thing.white girl's say in general. I grew up in one of the most diverse London boroughs 32 languages are spoken people from all around the world. I also work with the general public now some people are just rude and lacking in social skills and this applies to people from all races. One chat's up a black girl the same way you would any other woman. Well I do anyway if they like me all good if they don't I wish them well. I don't do any better or worse with black, mixed race or white women. I have not mentioned other groups as I don't come into contact with them in the same numbers. It would be unfair to compare them as I don't have the experience. You see when you assume people are all similar because they are the same colour it starts to cloud your judgement." Lol at "spokesperson for black girls" comment Perhaps she was? I don't know.
And yeah, I know what you mean about being around different groups of people socially - I likewise live in a very diverse borough.. BUT.. you should see the looks TattooedHB and I get sometimes from other black women when we're casually out and about... makes me appreciate the swinging world a whole lot more!
PS - I've also received the "not black enough" comment: as both my parents are 100% African background, how much more "black" am I supposed to get and what do I do to achieve this? | |||
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"My reply to Ahabs post below. Some people make daft comments was this girl a spokesperson for black girls? A white girl once told me I don't talk black this shows her ignorance and would not lead me to question the thing.white girl's say in general. I grew up in one of the most diverse London boroughs 32 languages are spoken people from all around the world. I also work with the general public now some people are just rude and lacking in social skills and this applies to people from all races. One chat's up a black girl the same way you would any other woman. Well I do anyway if they like me all good if they don't I wish them well. I don't do any better or worse with black, mixed race or white women. I have not mentioned other groups as I don't come into contact with them in the same numbers. It would be unfair to compare them as I don't have the experience. You see when you assume people are all similar because they are the same colour it starts to cloud your judgement. Lol at "spokesperson for black girls" comment Perhaps she was? I don't know.
And yeah, I know what you mean about being around different groups of people socially - I likewise live in a very diverse borough.. BUT.. you should see the looks TattooedHB and I get sometimes from other black women when we're casually out and about... makes me appreciate the swinging world a whole lot more!
PS - I've also received the "not black enough" comment: as both my parents are 100% African background, how much more "black" am I supposed to get and what do I do to achieve this? "not black enuff lol....yeahh,I mailed saying hi to someone...she wasnt interest cos she didnt think I was 'black'(and actually asian)...sent my negroid nostril pics to verify lololol never really helped lol-maybe the big snotter put her/them off | |||
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