FabSwingers.com forum: First time

By *ungle VIP OP Man
over a year ago

Weedon

Hopefully meeting a couple for my first time on this scene this week at a hotel.

Whats best? Arrive first and wait or let them arrive and coome along later?

Also should i take a drink? I wont drink myself but maybe it would help the mood?

Perhaps a Barry White cd too? LOL I dont know, lol

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

We've never had a hotel meet but I'm trying to imagine, as a female, what I'd want. I think I'd arrange beforehand that we'd arrive first so I could compose myself and 'prepare' but that the guy should be close at hand (maybe the bar or a nearby pub) and we'd text to say we were ready.

That's how I'd like it to go anyway - others might be different

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By *H.coupleCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Hopefully meeting a couple for my first time on this scene this week at a hotel.

Whats best? Arrive first and wait or let them arrive and coome along later?

Also should i take a drink? I wont drink myself but maybe it would help the mood?

Perhaps a Barry White cd too? LOL I dont know, lol"

we recently had our first meet with a guy, what made it great for us was how nice and respectful he was, maybe ask if they have a certain drink they like shows a bit of effort.

We dont expect anything but its the nice little touches that makes us relaxed. Hope this helps and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i would arrive early, but thats just because i dont like looking around for people it scares me...

The other questions ask the couple what they want

They might like Barry White

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By *ungle VIP OP Man
over a year ago

Weedon

I know they like red wine as thats what they had when we met socially the other day.

If you guys are reading this i'll get something better than the house red, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a nice bottle of red for them then

Sorry i'm no red wine expert otherwise i would help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if you've met them socially then you should have a good idea of what they want. My advice...be chatty, interesting, funny and non pushy...it should all go swimmingly.

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