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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My mr is fully up for swinging and I'm being a big softy I'm fine with soft swop but kills me actually seeing him sleep with another girl what shall I do??

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Don't do it. It is obvious that you will not be able to handle it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he know how you feel? And you do realise that no one compares to you in his eyes.

Cali

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

Tell him how you feel.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Stick to soft swap, or don't swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me like its soft swap only, or split up.

Talk to him about it. Best of luck.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

talk to each other and make a decision between the 2 of you.

If you are not sure about full swap then he really should respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mr is fully up for swinging and I'm being a big softy I'm fine with soft swop but kills me actually seeing him sleep with another girl what shall I do?? "

Ok please dont take this as a personal attack it is not meant so.

If it tears you apart to see him playing with another woman then swinging IS NOT for you, ive just this second been reading a thread on jealousy and although i cannot comment on your feelings it sounds to me like there is a little green eyed monster in there! But of course the decision is yours but if you value your realtionship then think long and hard on this. If your only doing this to please him then it isnt gonna work.

Of course soft swap is the option but IMO i think you need to talk and strengthen your relationship before meeting anyone else!

Just my opinion, good luck

GnJ

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My mr is fully up for swinging and I'm being a big softy I'm fine with soft swop but kills me actually seeing him sleep with another girl what shall I do??

Ok please dont take this as a personal attack it is not meant so.

If it tears you apart to see him playing with another woman then swinging IS NOT for you, ive just this second been reading a thread on jealousy and although i cannot comment on your feelings it sounds to me like there is a little green eyed monster in there! But of course the decision is yours but if you value your realtionship then think long and hard on this. If your only doing this to please him then it isnt gonna work.

Of course soft swap is the option but IMO i think you need to talk and strengthen your relationship before meeting anyone else!

Just my opinion, good luck

GnJ"
no I defiantly haven't taken it wrong way I respect your help and every one else's help/advice I said to him I don't feel strong enough at minute to see him with someone else I will get there just not yet,we had bad year last yr and broke up for while obv bk together been bk a while but suppose it takes time to feel as strong as always did and I thought only other option was soft swing to kinda keep in the swing of it haha but thanks guys you's are stars x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

for me, the fact you are asking tells me you know the answer deep inside

good luck for the futurex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mr is fully up for swinging and I'm being a big softy I'm fine with soft swop but kills me actually seeing him sleep with another girl what shall I do??

Ok please dont take this as a personal attack it is not meant so.

If it tears you apart to see him playing with another woman then swinging IS NOT for you, ive just this second been reading a thread on jealousy and although i cannot comment on your feelings it sounds to me like there is a little green eyed monster in there! But of course the decision is yours but if you value your realtionship then think long and hard on this. If your only doing this to please him then it isnt gonna work.

Of course soft swap is the option but IMO i think you need to talk and strengthen your relationship before meeting anyone else!

Just my opinion, good luck

GnJ"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mr is fully up for swinging and I'm being a big softy I'm fine with soft swop but kills me actually seeing him sleep with another girl what shall I do?? "

having read your profile it easy to see that your experienced on scene as such; and im sure there is a logical reason why your now hesitant; the one you give is valid im sure; but its all about trust; so ask your self deep down do you trust Mr if yes then have trial run with you vetting the fem ok

Happy Fadding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't know what's up with me lately I have suffered depression thru us having a break up last yr we've been together nearly five yrs have a child as well as me havin another child who will has taken on when we broke I got with someone and then will did and it was when he did that it hit me and I wanted him back so we made a go of it joe ever all he wants to do is move on from past where as I can't help but dwell on it and it's not cause I'm bein a dick I'm just hurt they it all bit we love each other obv if we never we wouldn't be together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My mr is fully up for swinging and I'm being a big softy I'm fine with soft swop but kills me actually seeing him sleep with another girl what shall I do??

having read your profile it easy to see that your experienced on scene as such; and im sure there is a logical reason why your now hesitant; the one you give is valid im sure; but its all about trust; so ask your self deep down do you trust Mr if yes then have trial run with you vetting the fem ok

Happy Fadding "
thank u x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some of us who have sufered similar issues; so your not alone in this mad world of fabland -whether your talking in forums or direct im sure you find good advice here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks just for understanding x

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