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By *atcherofmyballs OP   Man
over a year ago

hereford

Like to initiate sex, or do you prefer your OH/ meet to take the lead?

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.

meets to make first move, being a sub and very nervous it helps me if they make a move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prefer playmate to make first move. I'm shy at first but once I get comfortable I'm very naughty

I'm not one to take charge or pounce I prefer to be pounced on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy sitting next to our playmates and mrs kenters will descreetly put her legs over his and thats when things start to relax he can then rub her legs and go as high as he likes

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

first time playing i like them to make first move. after that im happy to make my intentions known and take what i want hehe !

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

after years of being made to feel like i was attacking the guy if i tried to initiate anything i can shy away from it

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Depends - sometimes I initiate, sometimes they do. I just play it by ear.

With my fb he often does - he is quite dom. But there are plenty of times I just jump him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We enjoy sitting next to our playmates and mrs kenters will descreetly put her legs over his and thats when things start to relax he can then rub her legs and go as high as he likes"

Has she been taking lessons from Perky? That's almost exactly what she does. Mind you, it wouldn't be exactly 'discreet' if she had..... Oh no....... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I am with, if I am with my fb and I am in the mood, I make the first move. If its a new meet, its kind of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We enjoy sitting next to our playmates and mrs kenters will descreetly put her legs over his and thats when things start to relax he can then rub her legs and go as high as he likes

Has she been taking lessons from Perky? That's almost exactly what she does. Mind you, it wouldn't be exactly 'discreet' if she had..... Oh no....... Lol

"

Mail sent

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I'm bad at suggesting/initiating... not because I fear rejection, but so I don't get accused of being too forward or pushy: if the lady suggests or initiates then its all good

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

New meet, I prefer them to make the move.

With my Swinging 'friend', its still early days, so again, I like it to be him.

Think its the fear of rejection that stops me from making the 1st move

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

New meet, I prefer them to make the move.

With my Swinging 'friend', its still early days, so again, I like it to be him.

Think its the fear of rejection that stops me from making the 1st move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i sit on my bed and get undressed then i wait and see what they want to do first.

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By *heekyladyCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Can't keep my hands off my playmate so a whole lot of the time I pounce. But, he initiates equally too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"meets to make first move, being a sub and very nervous it helps me if they make a move. "

couldn't have said it better myself :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like to initiate sex, or do you prefer your OH/ meet to take the lead? "

I would wait for permission but a glance was normally all that was needed. I never wait for anyone else to initiate sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known to initiate things - but I get ridiculously nervous on a first meet and tend to wait for a kiss then I relax and really enjoy myself and my meet hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to start the ball rolling, usually discussed how my meet would like it to begin and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just get to sucking their cock. Get the cum and say bye lol. So no real time to worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just get to sucking their cock. Get the cum and say bye lol. So no real time to worry."

There have been times when I've just done that and as that is one of my favourite past times I'm happy haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I would wait for permission but a glance was normally all that was needed.

"

That's the go-ahead I'd normally be waiting for, so as not to be accused of 'pouncing' like said further up the thread.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just get to sucking their cock. Get the cum and say bye lol. So no real time to worry.

There have been times when I've just done that and as that is one of my favourite past times I'm happy haha "

I like it like that. Straight to it. No talking no kissing rubbish. Just proper nsa sex. I am actually more impersonal now single. Lol

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just get to sucking their cock. Get the cum and say bye lol. So no real time to worry.

There have been times when I've just done that and as that is one of my favourite past times I'm happy haha

I like it like that. Straight to it. No talking no kissing rubbish. Just proper nsa sex. I am actually more impersonal now single. Lol

Cali"

I have been known to go from one end of a line of cocks to another and back again! I like impersonal, no worries about attachments forming! haha

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im in a relationship i usually start sex, but thats just cos i'm a pest

On a meet depends on the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes I like the lady to start makes me feel like she really.wants me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes I like the lady to start makes me feel like she really.wants me"

can be arranged tehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like to initiate sex, or do you prefer your OH/ meet to take the lead?

I would wait for permission but a glance was normally all that was needed. I never wait for anyone else to initiate sex. "

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Like to initiate sex, or do you prefer your OH/ meet to take the lead? "
i am happy with either but never have a problem making the first move.

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By *ungle VIPMan
over a year ago

Weedon

Sorry im not a lady but Im going for my first meet this week with a couple and am quite nervous still.

Think id like to be led a bit to start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes I like the lady to start makes me feel like she really.wants me

can be arranged tehe"

mmm the thoughts I have, while I am waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we have met other women,i always like to have her ly on the bed and let me do my stuff first...it might seem selfish,but i like to show her what i want back and at what pace.

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

With OH it tends to be me, he does when it's not appropriate, I'm sure he wants us to get caught lol

With meets it them or OH that get the ball rolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like who i have met to make the first move so i know they are interested

i think id die if i met someone and i made a move on them for them to tell me they wasnt interested in platying lol

but once they have made it clear they want to play i like to take the lead, but i dont like sub men where i have to do all the mental work, i like them to have a little inishative sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sometimes I like the lady to start makes me feel like she really.wants me

can be arranged tehe

mmm the thoughts I have, while I am waiting"

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I'm bad at suggesting/initiating... not because I fear rejection, but so I don't get accused of being too forward or pushy: if the lady suggests or initiates then its all good "

This ^^^^

It's actually quite rare for us to initiate any playing we like others to make the first move.

But I have on a few occasions come back in, in just my lingerie...that seems to do the trick

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I'm happy to make the first move.. just as long as I won't get shot for it so some indication to this always helps

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