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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

How hard is it get a genuine women get a reply, seems to me like cant even get a response, just seem to get ignored or not there type.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Women are genuine, they just aren't wanting dick 24/7.

Due to the number of guys active on here people want replies/meets at 6am or 11pm even if they are just browsing

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Who says im after a shag ur just assuming even if ur nice with out asking for sex still blanked

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

They aren't interested in you

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Well its there loss of a genuone nice guy

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By *ustask1974Man
over a year ago

Abingdon

Gave up months ago dude but pop back to have a nose. To be honest haven’t really tried that hard sent a few messages out but not really clued up on swinger chat so dries up pretty quick so not surprise lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well its there loss of a genuone nice guy "

Is it their loss though?

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

Just from a female Pov, the fact you’ve got no pics on there would make me lose interest particularly quickly, especially if you hadn’t sent any with an opening message or only sent dick pics like a lot of guys do. Your status would put me off right now too tbh regardless of if you’d ticked every other box for me or not.

Other than that it will just be personal preference I’m afraid and there’s nothing you can do about that! Just keep trying and don’t get offended if people don’t reply or say you’re not for them. Someone will be!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Well its there loss of a genuone nice guy "

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I did have pictures on even people say have a picture or they reply but yet dont even if its a nice non sexual message no reply

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

You’ve a veri from a week ago as well so it can’t be going that bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don’t reply OP it’s their prerogative, just move on and don’t take it personally. You have 3 verifications in the last year so probably having more luck than a lot of other guys on here xx

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By *ust vickyTV/TS
over a year ago

the big smoke

What is it with gurls lol

Do they not cum out at night time here

Arranged several meetings on here and don't reply to ur message frustrating to say the least especially when u make a effort to dress up for them

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne


"How hard is it get a genuine women get a reply, seems to me like cant even get a response, just seem to get ignored or not there type. "

Single females followed by couples get BOMBARDED by single males. You are one tiny fish in a VERY big pool so unless you're very dishy and/or have the right chemistry of lokes and dislikes then your chances are much reduced.

To be quiet frank. A lot of single males on these types of sites are just plain rude and ignorant.

When a female or a couple take time to detail what ther ARE looking for - what they are NOT looking for and ask you to repeat a key phrase to show you they have been arsed to read their requirements....... but you dont... the block single males filter goes on quick.

Or they leave it open knowing that 99% of the men conctacting them are just chucking shit at the wall hoping something will stick so the desire to ignore is elevated.

On the other hand - you can really look at a profile.. reread what they want.... repeat the key phrase - try and come up with an original response that took you ages and required care and commitment only to be ignored.

You know the odds before you play. Only they turn out to be much tougher than you thought.

Not everyone wants to look at 40 pics of a cock and fuck all else.

You would be better going to clubs and even then - that may not work for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did have pictures on even people say have a picture or they reply but yet dont even if its a nice non sexual message no reply "

I can imagine it's shit getting no replies, makes you feel invisible.

Blame the men who are creepy and turn even a normal conversation into wank chat.

Blame the men who get abusive when women reply no thank you.

Blame the men who hound women and treat them like just a wet hole and put them off meeting.

X

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Truw but even if u pick ur type still not interested amd even with status etc still no reply

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"I did have pictures on even people say have a picture or they reply but yet dont even if its a nice non sexual message no reply "

There is no such thing as a non sexual message on here... Just one that has no sexual content... Yet

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Kinda does but then u see every women status saying that they pull etc and u struggle most of the time kinda makes u think u aint good enough for anybody to get a reply even if its non sexual no reply

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Well ive sent a few not even talking about sex

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Not all single males are rude its just how people judge them all as the same

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over a year ago

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Not that much lucl tbh

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Well ive sent a few not even talking about sex "

What do you say in an opening message ?

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Hi there how are you doing nice pics btw and you up to much this evening single genuine here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all single males are rude its just how people judge them all as the same "

If you use the Reply + quote button we will know who you are talking to.

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Ok thank you very much

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi there how are you doing nice pics btw and you up to much this evening single genuine here"

I'm sorry but I wouldn't reply to that message, plus a silhouette picture

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Well any others can chamge it please and ive taken pic of because judge on way i look anyways

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Tbh op it doesn't show a lot of imagination or insight about what your intended is interested in. Read profiles carefully and pick something out that you either have a joint interest in (be honest, fake it and you'll be found out) or ask about something on their profile you're interested in.

Not saying it'll improve your hit rate but it won't hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there how are you doing nice pics btw and you up to much this evening single genuine here

I'm sorry but I wouldn't reply to that message, plus a silhouette picture "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard is it get a genuine women get a reply, seems to me like cant even get a response, just seem to get ignored or not there type. "

Did you take any of the advice on the last post you made about the same subject? It was 3 weeks ago and people were good enough to offer ideas to help.

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Yes still didnt help

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By *ar64Man
over a year ago

Grays


"Single females followed by couples get BOMBARDED by single males. You are one tiny fish in a VERY big pool so unless you're very dishy and/or have the right chemistry of lokes and dislikes then your chances are much reduced.

To be quiet frank. A lot of single males on these types of sites are just plain rude and ignorant.

When a female or a couple take time to detail what ther ARE looking for - what they are NOT looking for and ask you to repeat a key phrase to show you they have been arsed to read their requirements....... but you dont... the block single males filter goes on quick.

Or they leave it open knowing that 99% of the men conctacting them are just chucking shit at the wall hoping something will stick so the desire to ignore is elevated.

On the other hand - you can really look at a profile.. reread what they want.... repeat the key phrase - try and come up with an original response that took you ages and required care and commitment only to be ignored.

You know the odds before you play. Only they turn out to be much tougher than you thought.

Not everyone wants to look at 40 pics of a cock and fuck all else.

You would be better going to clubs and even then - that may not work for you."

Preach!!!...

I'm not a lady/couple but can only imagine. I think this sums it up brilliantly

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Not all single males are rude its just how people judge them all as the same "

You are messaging someone you are hoping to have sex with... If she thinks it's going to stay a non sexual conversation, even if it's as tame as, what are you looking for? She is wrong... So most women won't engage in, any way, with someone they aren't attracted to

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

That will be the full site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard is it get a genuine women get a reply, seems to me like cant even get a response, just seem to get ignored or not there type. "

Hey there. It’s not easy on the other end either. And some days you may have sent your message at a bad time and got the grumpy end off the recipient. Your profile does read like a copy paste if I’m honest of a couples profile. So if I had read it I would have been put off. Especially as you tell people off for that.

I’m sorry you feel slighted. It’s not easy either end of this but…. The end result is the reward.

Good luck. X

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Well what is there i can put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well its there loss of a genuone nice guy "

Its not their loss. You're not what they want, so they either turn you down or ignore you.

Welcome to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you updated it to take the ‘our’ out. What to put, well it’s down to you really. You’ve told the viewer how to talk to you. But who are you? What do you actually like. What turns you on. What are you ‘genuinely’ here for …

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Not all single males are rude its just how people judge them all as the same

You are messaging someone you are hoping to have sex with... If she thinks it's going to stay a non sexual conversation, even if it's as tame as, what are you looking for? She is wrong... So most women won't engage in, any way, with someone they aren't attracted to "

This^^^^

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By *an JuniperoCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Hi there how are you doing nice pics btw and you up to much this evening single genuine here"

You’d be surprised at how many different people have sent pretty much that exact message.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Well its there loss of a genuone nice guy

Is it their loss though?"

Probably not...

OP... You profile is your shop window... What's going to encourage women to reply do you think?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

No woman owes any man a pity fuck. There are thousands of guys in the same boat who are not getting meets on here. Even us cpls get turned down as not their type or what they are looking for on here. Creating post after post complaining no woman will open her legs for you speaks of desperation and will be a red flag to most cpls and single women on here.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Hi there how are you doing nice pics btw and you up to much this evening single genuine here"

The lack of punctuation would put me off.

The "btw" isn't great

It's a very generic msg, wouldn't show you've read me profile, probably get the same msg about 20 times a day.

"Genuine" is over used on here.

We like to see a bit of personality!

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Its not exsactly work time lol

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Even with out complaining still no look

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

(Grabs popcorn)

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Even with out complaining still no look "

You need to hit "reply and quote" so people know who you're talking to

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Even with out complaining still no look

You need to hit "reply and quote" so people know who you're talking to"

Ok thanks hun

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Even with out complaining still no look

You need to hit "reply and quote" so people know who you're talking to"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Grabs popcorn)"

This!! This guy right here… that’s a profile. (Btw )

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"(Grabs popcorn)

This!! This guy right here… that’s a profile. (Btw )"

*Tips hat*

Why thaaaaaaaank you, payment is in the post

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork

I think if you have a more positive attitude it translates in messages. Not everyone will like you, not on here and not in real life, that’s reality. You need to be confident enough in yourself and who you are as a person for it not to bother you. Just my opinion, but it sounds like you’re being far too serious about it all instead of having fun. I have a weakness for guys that can make me laugh, so maybe try a more lighthearted, fun approach. You want your message to stand out from all the others and a “hi how are you etc” will never stand out.

Just my 2c worth

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I think if you have a more positive attitude it translates in messages. Not everyone will like you, not on here and not in real life, that’s reality. You need to be confident enough in yourself and who you are as a person for it not to bother you. Just my opinion, but it sounds like you’re being far too serious about it all instead of having fun. I have a weakness for guys that can make me laugh, so maybe try a more lighthearted, fun approach. You want your message to stand out from all the others and a “hi how are you etc” will never stand out.

Just my 2c worth "

Love this.

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By *achelfunCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You can do everything right and still get no response as a single male on here.

My wife has a single account on here and gets at least 50 messages a day, rising to more like 100, if she is has recently been online.

There is no way to read all those messages, no matter how well composed and with a face pic. Unless she wants fab to be a full time job, she has to delete them.

So, it is the luck of the draw! You will have more luck trying to strike up a convo when a female is online rather than sending your standard (and let's be right it is a standard message) to 100 offline women.

However, the absolute number one tip for all single males is to stop sending messages altogether. Instead get along to a social meet a few people. If you are as nice a person as you say you will make friends, and nothing says fuckable to another women, than a man who is already liked by women they know.

Just my 2 pennies worth... Trey (male half of cpl, who has been a single male on here previously)

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"You can do everything right and still get no response as a single male on here.

My wife has a single account on here and gets at least 50 messages a day, rising to more like 100, if she is has recently been online.

There is no way to read all those messages, no matter how well composed and with a face pic. Unless she wants fab to be a full time job, she has to delete them.

So, it is the luck of the draw! You will have more luck trying to strike up a convo when a female is online rather than sending your standard (and let's be right it is a standard message) to 100 offline women.

However, the absolute number one tip for all single males is to stop sending messages altogether. Instead get along to a social meet a few people. If you are as nice a person as you say you will make friends, and nothing says fuckable to another women, than a man who is already liked by women they know.

Just my 2 pennies worth... Trey (male half of cpl, who has been a single male on here previously)"

Maybe i just live in the wrong area lol as there no clubs in the area or social as cant seem to find any

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’d say stop fixating every interaction with the desperation to get laid.

There literally and should be more to your life than trying to fuck everything that moves.

Try to have fun, smile and talk to people on here as you would on any other platform or interaction, and I’d say been even more respectful.

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"I think if you have a more positive attitude it translates in messages. Not everyone will like you, not on here and not in real life, that’s reality. You need to be confident enough in yourself and who you are as a person for it not to bother you. Just my opinion, but it sounds like you’re being far too serious about it all instead of having fun. I have a weakness for guys that can make me laugh, so maybe try a more lighthearted, fun approach. You want your message to stand out from all the others and a “hi how are you etc” will never stand out.

Just my 2c worth "

How can u gain comfidence if no one is interested and spend most time alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you have a more positive attitude it translates in messages. Not everyone will like you, not on here and not in real life, that’s reality. You need to be confident enough in yourself and who you are as a person for it not to bother you. Just my opinion, but it sounds like you’re being far too serious about it all instead of having fun. I have a weakness for guys that can make me laugh, so maybe try a more lighthearted, fun approach. You want your message to stand out from all the others and a “hi how are you etc” will never stand out.

Just my 2c worth

How can u gain comfidence if no one is interested and spend most time alone "

I'd suggest most people on a swinging site are looking for fun, not to help others become more confident or coach them in social skills. Maybe you'd feel better if you concentrated on increasing your social life outside of fab. When you're more confident and comfortable you'll feel better coming back, and won't be as bothered by lack of responses.

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"I think if you have a more positive attitude it translates in messages. Not everyone will like you, not on here and not in real life, that’s reality. You need to be confident enough in yourself and who you are as a person for it not to bother you. Just my opinion, but it sounds like you’re being far too serious about it all instead of having fun. I have a weakness for guys that can make me laugh, so maybe try a more lighthearted, fun approach. You want your message to stand out from all the others and a “hi how are you etc” will never stand out.

Just my 2c worth

Love this."

Thank you

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By *ingofthenorth69Man
over a year ago

sussex


"(Grabs popcorn)"

(Brings along the rum punch need drink's too)

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"(Grabs popcorn)

(Brings along the rum punch need drink's too) "

You sharing? You can have some popcorn….

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc "

Attractiveness is subjective, and not every woman wants splitting in two.

Hold a conversation, be witty and charming and have fun and it will come. You just can’t get down hearted, and if you do you might be here for the wrong reasons

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

Attractiveness is subjective, and not every woman wants splitting in two.

Hold a conversation, be witty and charming and have fun and it will come. You just can’t get down hearted, and if you do you might be here for the wrong reasons"

I can hold a conversation its the peoopke who dont reply who cant lol

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"I think if you have a more positive attitude it translates in messages. Not everyone will like you, not on here and not in real life, that’s reality. You need to be confident enough in yourself and who you are as a person for it not to bother you. Just my opinion, but it sounds like you’re being far too serious about it all instead of having fun. I have a weakness for guys that can make me laugh, so maybe try a more lighthearted, fun approach. You want your message to stand out from all the others and a “hi how are you etc” will never stand out.

Just my 2c worth

Love this.

Thank you "

Nothing to positive about if every one ignores ur inbox and u send nice messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc "

So what exactly is the point of your post? What are you actually asking for?

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By *an JuniperoCouple
over a year ago

North East

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

So what exactly is the point of your post? What are you actually asking for? "

The question was suppose to be why isnt there women who is genuine who does actually reply after reading the message even though its not about sex lol

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By *an JuniperoCouple
over a year ago

North East

Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off. "

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

So what exactly is the point of your post? What are you actually asking for?

The question was suppose to be why isnt there women who is genuine who does actually reply after reading the message even though its not about sex lol "

There are plenty of them. We speak to single and couple profiles every week.

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

So what exactly is the point of your post? What are you actually asking for?

Thats you lol

The question was suppose to be why isnt there women who is genuine who does actually reply after reading the message even though its not about sex lol

There are plenty of them. We speak to single and couple profiles every week. "

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

So what exactly is the point of your post? What are you actually asking for?

Thats you lol

The question was suppose to be why isnt there women who is genuine who does actually reply after reading the message even though its not about sex lol

There are plenty of them. We speak to single and couple profiles every week. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic "

Just because it's not work, doesn't mean it isn't needed. To some, it matters.

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

So what exactly is the point of your post? What are you actually asking for?

The question was suppose to be why isnt there women who is genuine who does actually reply after reading the message even though its not about sex lol

There are plenty of them. We speak to single and couple profiles every week. "

Thats you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

So what exactly is the point of your post? What are you actually asking for?

The question was suppose to be why isnt there women who is genuine who does actually reply after reading the message even though its not about sex lol "

Just because they don’t reply doesn’t mean they aren’t genuine…

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

So what exactly is the point of your post? What are you actually asking for?

The question was suppose to be why isnt there women who is genuine who does actually reply after reading the message even though its not about sex lol

Just because they don’t reply doesn’t mean they aren’t genuine… "

Not my fauly i have dyslexia

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


" How can u gain comfidence if no one is interested and spend most time alone "

Confidence comes from within not from others. I get the impression (and apologies if I’m wrong) that you want some kind of reassurance, maybe you want someone to tell you that you’re doing everything right and it’s the rude, bad women that are in the wrong here.... if that is what you’re looking for, I don’t think you’re going to get it. Nobody owes you a thing, not a reply and definitely not sex. As a grown man you should know that and if you’re so easily offended perhaps fab isn’t the right place for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

So what exactly is the point of your post? What are you actually asking for?

The question was suppose to be why isnt there women who is genuine who does actually reply after reading the message even though its not about sex lol

There are plenty of them. We speak to single and couple profiles every week.

Thats you lol "

And you just stated that your question was why aren't there genuine women who reply to messages.

Is your question actually, why don't they reply to you?

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By *an JuniperoCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic "

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


" How can u gain comfidence if no one is interested and spend most time alone

Confidence comes from within not from others. I get the impression (and apologies if I’m wrong) that you want some kind of reassurance, maybe you want someone to tell you that you’re doing everything right and it’s the rude, bad women that are in the wrong here.... if that is what you’re looking for, I don’t think you’re going to get it. Nobody owes you a thing, not a reply and definitely not sex. As a grown man you should know that and if you’re so easily offended perhaps fab isn’t the right place for you? "

Never asked anything for anybody and wasnt after sex tbh but u see all these women who post who brag about how much cock i can get in one week and lad cant even get reply of them proves it doesnt it and dunno how they manage to get a verification if they say pics and get a reply and still dont get a reply maybe its not there right place if theg ignore guys for no reason even a non sexual message

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort. "

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

Attractiveness is subjective, and not every woman wants splitting in two.

Hold a conversation, be witty and charming and have fun and it will come. You just can’t get down hearted, and if you do you might be here for the wrong reasons"

This is so spot on, wit, intelligence and a great sense of humour is so attractive. If a guy can’t hold a decent conversation I would have zero interest in meeting, regardless of what he looked like.

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

Attractiveness is subjective, and not every woman wants splitting in two.

Hold a conversation, be witty and charming and have fun and it will come. You just can’t get down hearted, and if you do you might be here for the wrong reasons

This is so spot on, wit, intelligence and a great sense of humour is so attractive. If a guy can’t hold a decent conversation I would have zero interest in meeting, regardless of what he looked like. "

How can u hold a conversation with a brick wall if no one replies cant have a conversation with ur self lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" How can u gain comfidence if no one is interested and spend most time alone

Confidence comes from within not from others. I get the impression (and apologies if I’m wrong) that you want some kind of reassurance, maybe you want someone to tell you that you’re doing everything right and it’s the rude, bad women that are in the wrong here.... if that is what you’re looking for, I don’t think you’re going to get it. Nobody owes you a thing, not a reply and definitely not sex. As a grown man you should know that and if you’re so easily offended perhaps fab isn’t the right place for you?

Never asked anything for anybody and wasnt after sex tbh but u see all these women who post who brag about how much cock i can get in one week and lad cant even get reply of them proves it doesnt it and dunno how they manage to get a verification if they say pics and get a reply and still dont get a reply maybe its not there right place if theg ignore guys for no reason even a non sexual message "

You're asking women to reply!

Fab is about choices, and preference. People are free to choose who they want to talk to, meet and fuck. It's. Their. Choice.

If it bothers you, you'll continue to be disappointed.

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

"

YES!!!!!! These emojis are just not cutting it

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

Attractiveness is subjective, and not every woman wants splitting in two.

Hold a conversation, be witty and charming and have fun and it will come. You just can’t get down hearted, and if you do you might be here for the wrong reasons

This is so spot on, wit, intelligence and a great sense of humour is so attractive. If a guy can’t hold a decent conversation I would have zero interest in meeting, regardless of what he looked like. "

Exactly, it’s how I feel about meeting women. If you get no signs of interest or connections, then move on.

It may be a sex site but it doesn’t remove the fact we are talking to other humans. Haha

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

Attractiveness is subjective, and not every woman wants splitting in two.

Hold a conversation, be witty and charming and have fun and it will come. You just can’t get down hearted, and if you do you might be here for the wrong reasons

This is so spot on, wit, intelligence and a great sense of humour are so attractive. If a guy can’t hold a decent conversation I would have zero interest in meeting, regardless of what he looked like. "

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By *an JuniperoCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia "

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


" How can u gain comfidence if no one is interested and spend most time alone

Confidence comes from within not from others. I get the impression (and apologies if I’m wrong) that you want some kind of reassurance, maybe you want someone to tell you that you’re doing everything right and it’s the rude, bad women that are in the wrong here.... if that is what you’re looking for, I don’t think you’re going to get it. Nobody owes you a thing, not a reply and definitely not sex. As a grown man you should know that and if you’re so easily offended perhaps fab isn’t the right place for you?

Never asked anything for anybody and wasnt after sex tbh but u see all these women who post who brag about how much cock i can get in one week and lad cant even get reply of them proves it doesnt it and dunno how they manage to get a verification if they say pics and get a reply and still dont get a reply maybe its not there right place if theg ignore guys for no reason even a non sexual message

You're asking women to reply!

Fab is about choices, and preference. People are free to choose who they want to talk to, meet and fuck. It's. Their. Choice.

If it bothers you, you'll continue to be disappointed."

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


" How can u gain comfidence if no one is interested and spend most time alone

Confidence comes from within not from others. I get the impression (and apologies if I’m wrong) that you want some kind of reassurance, maybe you want someone to tell you that you’re doing everything right and it’s the rude, bad women that are in the wrong here.... if that is what you’re looking for, I don’t think you’re going to get it. Nobody owes you a thing, not a reply and definitely not sex. As a grown man you should know that and if you’re so easily offended perhaps fab isn’t the right place for you?

Never asked anything for anybody and wasnt after sex tbh but u see all these women who post who brag about how much cock i can get in one week and lad cant even get reply of them proves it doesnt it and dunno how they manage to get a verification if they say pics and get a reply and still dont get a reply maybe its not there right place if theg ignore guys for no reason even a non sexual message

You're asking women to reply!

Fab is about choices, and preference. People are free to choose who they want to talk to, meet and fuck. It's. Their. Choice.

If it bothers you, you'll continue to be disappointed."

The whol site will never change tbh

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

YES!!!!!! These emojis are just not cutting it "

I’d win everyone over with just GiFs haha

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours. "

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" How can u gain comfidence if no one is interested and spend most time alone

Confidence comes from within not from others. I get the impression (and apologies if I’m wrong) that you want some kind of reassurance, maybe you want someone to tell you that you’re doing everything right and it’s the rude, bad women that are in the wrong here.... if that is what you’re looking for, I don’t think you’re going to get it. Nobody owes you a thing, not a reply and definitely not sex. As a grown man you should know that and if you’re so easily offended perhaps fab isn’t the right place for you?

Never asked anything for anybody and wasnt after sex tbh but u see all these women who post who brag about how much cock i can get in one week and lad cant even get reply of them proves it doesnt it and dunno how they manage to get a verification if they say pics and get a reply and still dont get a reply maybe its not there right place if theg ignore guys for no reason even a non sexual message

You're asking women to reply!

Fab is about choices, and preference. People are free to choose who they want to talk to, meet and fuck. It's. Their. Choice.

If it bothers you, you'll continue to be disappointed.

The whol site will never change tbh "

It doesn't need to, it works perfectly well for those who understand human interaction.

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By *an JuniperoCouple
over a year ago

North East


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

"

100% haha.

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc "

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

100% haha. "

Not wrong am I haha

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella"

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

Attractiveness is subjective, and not every woman wants splitting in two.

Hold a conversation, be witty and charming and have fun and it will come. You just can’t get down hearted, and if you do you might be here for the wrong reasons

This is so spot on, wit, intelligence and a great sense of humour is so attractive. If a guy can’t hold a decent conversation I would have zero interest in meeting, regardless of what he looked like.

Exactly, it’s how I feel about meeting women. If you get no signs of interest or connections, then move on.

It may be a sex site but it doesn’t remove the fact we are talking to other humans. Haha"

Absolutely.... one of my favourite quotes

“Chemistry is you touching my mind and setting my body on fire”

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By *an JuniperoCouple
over a year ago

North East


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

100% haha.

Not wrong am I haha"

Not at all haha.

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

100% haha.

Not wrong am I haha"

Not on this particular occasion

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

Attractiveness is subjective, and not every woman wants splitting in two.

Hold a conversation, be witty and charming and have fun and it will come. You just can’t get down hearted, and if you do you might be here for the wrong reasons

This is so spot on, wit, intelligence and a great sense of humour is so attractive. If a guy can’t hold a decent conversation I would have zero interest in meeting, regardless of what he looked like.

Exactly, it’s how I feel about meeting women. If you get no signs of interest or connections, then move on.

It may be a sex site but it doesn’t remove the fact we are talking to other humans. Haha

Absolutely.... one of my favourite quotes

“Chemistry is you touching my mind and setting my body on fire” "

No one knows what chemistry is on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc "

So, to summarise the reasons you've given why you don't get replies:

Dyslexia

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

The site doesn't work

People aren't genuine

Read all of your responses back to yourself, and then ask yourself why people aren't replying.

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By *an JuniperoCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple "

That attitude is exactly why no one will reply to you. They’re not losing out, you are. That’s why you’re here complaining about it.

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

Attractiveness is subjective, and not every woman wants splitting in two.

Hold a conversation, be witty and charming and have fun and it will come. You just can’t get down hearted, and if you do you might be here for the wrong reasons

This is so spot on, wit, intelligence and a great sense of humour is so attractive. If a guy can’t hold a decent conversation I would have zero interest in meeting, regardless of what he looked like.

Exactly, it’s how I feel about meeting women. If you get no signs of interest or connections, then move on.

It may be a sex site but it doesn’t remove the fact we are talking to other humans. Haha

Absolutely.... one of my favourite quotes

“Chemistry is you touching my mind and setting my body on fire” "

Love it

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

So, to summarise the reasons you've given why you don't get replies:

Dyslexia

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

The site doesn't work

People aren't genuine

Read all of your responses back to yourself, and then ask yourself why people aren't replying.

"

Because im not one of these

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork

Pity party for 1 is getting a little boring

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple

That attitude is exactly why no one will reply to you. They’re not losing out, you are. That’s why you’re here complaining about it. "

Never asked u to comment did i anyways

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

So what exactly is the point of your post? What are you actually asking for?

The thing is I get a lot of opening messages the make out they just want to chat but in my experience that has never been TrueThey always try to turn the conversation sexual so I just don’t bother anymore if I have no intention in having sex with them if I want to talk to people I come on the forums.

The question was suppose to be why isnt there women who is genuine who does actually reply after reading the message even though its not about sex lol "

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

So, to summarise the reasons you've given why you don't get replies:

Dyslexia

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

The site doesn't work

People aren't genuine

Read all of your responses back to yourself, and then ask yourself why people aren't replying.

"

The social skills and confidence away from a sex site needs attention mate, not basing your value on randoms from the internet

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple

That attitude is exactly why no one will reply to you. They’re not losing out, you are. That’s why you’re here complaining about it. "

And i woudlnt be losing out cus they dont reply to my inbox lol

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Pity party for 1 is getting a little boring "

Was thinking this.

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

So, to summarise the reasons you've given why you don't get replies:

Dyslexia

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

The site doesn't work

People aren't genuine

Read all of your responses back to yourself, and then ask yourself why people aren't replying.

The social skills and confidence away from a sex site needs attention mate, not basing your value on randoms from the internet"

Who asked u to comment not me

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple

That attitude is exactly why no one will reply to you. They’re not losing out, you are. That’s why you’re here complaining about it.

Never asked u to comment did i anyways "

Dude you are posting this in a forum yeah…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab would still be the same to be ignored or blocked either so wouldnt make a difference more about looks or being a bbc

So what exactly is the point of your post? What are you actually asking for?

The question was suppose to be why isnt there women who is genuine who does actually reply after reading the message even though its not about sex lol

Just because they don’t reply doesn’t mean they aren’t genuine…

Not my fauly i have dyslexia "

What has that got to do with you saying a woman isn’t genuine because she doesn’t reply though?

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

So, to summarise the reasons you've given why you don't get replies:

Dyslexia

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

The site doesn't work

People aren't genuine

Read all of your responses back to yourself, and then ask yourself why people aren't replying.

Because im not one of these

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough"

That’s complete bs and insulting to women, well this woman anyway. I personally wouldn’t reply because you have a shitty attitude.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


" maybe its not there right place if theg ignore guys for no reason even a non sexual message "

There is always a reason that people don't reply.It is not their problem (or their loss for that matter) if you cannot see the reason.Just because a message is non sexual does not mean it should get a reply.

I don't get many messages but I will delete ones that don't interest me now. Because I'm not wasting anymore time answering people I have zero interest in. Most of them claim they are genuine as well but funnily enough it's usually the self proclaimed genuine nice people who are the ones who turn stroppy the fastest when they don't get what they want on here.

If it upsets you that much why not just delete sent messages then you won't know if they look at them or not and if you get a reply great.

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

So, to summarise the reasons you've given why you don't get replies:

Dyslexia

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

The site doesn't work

People aren't genuine

Read all of your responses back to yourself, and then ask yourself why people aren't replying.

Because im not one of these

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

That’s complete bs and insulting to women, well this woman anyway. I personally wouldn’t reply because you have a shitty attitude. "

Maybe thats why i havr attitude lol

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple

That attitude is exactly why no one will reply to you. They’re not losing out, you are. That’s why you’re here complaining about it.

Never asked u to comment did i anyways

Dude you are posting this in a forum yeah….."

Legit laughed out loud at this ha ha ha Think we may need more popcorn

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By *an JuniperoCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple

That attitude is exactly why no one will reply to you. They’re not losing out, you are. That’s why you’re here complaining about it.

Never asked u to comment did i anyways "

You didn’t but it’s a public thread so I can comment if I wish. Unfortunately you can’t demand that people only say things you agree with. Once again, you’re doing yourself no favours. If this is always your attitude then Fab is not the place for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

So, to summarise the reasons you've given why you don't get replies:

Dyslexia

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

The site doesn't work

People aren't genuine

Read all of your responses back to yourself, and then ask yourself why people aren't replying.

Because im not one of these

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

That’s complete bs and insulting to women, well this woman anyway. I personally wouldn’t reply because you have a shitty attitude. "

And there, in a nutshell, you have it.

Attitude.

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple

That attitude is exactly why no one will reply to you. They’re not losing out, you are. That’s why you’re here complaining about it.

Never asked u to comment did i anyways

Dude you are posting this in a forum yeah…..

Legit laughed out loud at this ha ha ha Think we may need more popcorn "

I’ve ran out…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well its there loss of a genuone nice guy

Its not their loss. You're not what they want, so they either turn you down or ignore you.

Welcome to fab"

This

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

So, to summarise the reasons you've given why you don't get replies:

Dyslexia

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

The site doesn't work

People aren't genuine

Read all of your responses back to yourself, and then ask yourself why people aren't replying.

Because im not one of these

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

That’s complete bs and insulting to women, well this woman anyway. I personally wouldn’t reply because you have a shitty attitude.

And there, in a nutshell, you have it.

Attitude."

Something i already knew cus the way people judge me

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple

That attitude is exactly why no one will reply to you. They’re not losing out, you are. That’s why you’re here complaining about it.

Never asked u to comment did i anyways

You didn’t but it’s a public thread so I can comment if I wish. Unfortunately you can’t demand that people only say things you agree with. Once again, you’re doing yourself no favours. If this is always your attitude then Fab is not the place for you. "

Well dont get no luck being happy so may aswell have attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck OP.

Your responses show your attitude to fab and the other users.

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Good luck OP.

Your responses show your attitude to fab and the other users.

"

Not like im gonna gain anything from here anyways even with out am attitude

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

So, to summarise the reasons you've given why you don't get replies:

Dyslexia

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

The site doesn't work

People aren't genuine

Read all of your responses back to yourself, and then ask yourself why people aren't replying.

Because im not one of these

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

That’s complete bs and insulting to women, well this woman anyway. I personally wouldn’t reply because you have a shitty attitude.

And there, in a nutshell, you have it.

Attitude.

Something i already knew cus the way people judge me"

Any judgement is coming from the stuff you are writing. I’d go back to basics mate, and pick out some people you like and reply based on what you read in their profile. No copy and paste.

This is after you re write your profile, it’s very demanding.

Then do that ALOT, as it’s going to take you ages due to the way in which we (single hetro males) are the vast majority, and not every will want to fuck you.

Go to clubs and just be friendly and chat. If a couple or woman likes you, build up the rapport.

This will probably take forever and a day.

This is my second profile in 4 years, I haven’t even had a social!! I’m still smiling as there is more to my life than vagina

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Id leave this post go now mate. You gained mote "no replies" guaranteed by your attitude on this post. No lady on here owes you a "pity fuck". I did well as a single years ago as i put time in to making my profile and treated the ladies with respect and had good banter. You get out what you put in simpley put!!!

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

So, to summarise the reasons you've given why you don't get replies:

Dyslexia

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

The site doesn't work

People aren't genuine

Read all of your responses back to yourself, and then ask yourself why people aren't replying.

Because im not one of these

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

That’s complete bs and insulting to women, well this woman anyway. I personally wouldn’t reply because you have a shitty attitude.

And there, in a nutshell, you have it.

Attitude.

Something i already knew cus the way people judge me

Any judgement is coming from the stuff you are writing. I’d go back to basics mate, and pick out some people you like and reply based on what you read in their profile. No copy and paste.

This is after you re write your profile, it’s very demanding.

Then do that ALOT, as it’s going to take you ages due to the way in which we (single hetro males) are the vast majority, and not every will want to fuck you.

Go to clubs and just be friendly and chat. If a couple or woman likes you, build up the rapport.

This will probably take forever and a day.

This is my second profile in 4 years, I haven’t even had a social!! I’m still smiling as there is more to my life than vagina "

Tried that doesnt work

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"Id leave this post go now mate. You gained mote "no replies" guaranteed by your attitude on this post. No lady on here owes you a "pity fuck". I did well as a single years ago as i put time in to making my profile and treated the ladies with respect and had good banter. You get out what you put in simpley put!!! "

Never said no women owes me anything did i no

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

So, to summarise the reasons you've given why you don't get replies:

Dyslexia

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

The site doesn't work

People aren't genuine

Read all of your responses back to yourself, and then ask yourself why people aren't replying.

Because im not one of these

You're not a hung black guy

You're not skinny

You're not attractive enough

That’s complete bs and insulting to women, well this woman anyway. I personally wouldn’t reply because you have a shitty attitude.

And there, in a nutshell, you have it.

Attitude.

Something i already knew cus the way people judge me

Any judgement is coming from the stuff you are writing. I’d go back to basics mate, and pick out some people you like and reply based on what you read in their profile. No copy and paste.

This is after you re write your profile, it’s very demanding.

Then do that ALOT, as it’s going to take you ages due to the way in which we (single hetro males) are the vast majority, and not every will want to fuck you.

Go to clubs and just be friendly and chat. If a couple or woman likes you, build up the rapport.

This will probably take forever and a day.

This is my second profile in 4 years, I haven’t even had a social!! I’m still smiling as there is more to my life than vagina

Tried that doesnt work"

Fuck me, I’m out….

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

YES!!!!!! These emojis are just not cutting it

I’d win everyone over with just GiFs haha"

I’d probably piss everyone off.... it’s one of my many talents

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

YES!!!!!! These emojis are just not cutting it

I’d win everyone over with just GiFs haha

I’d probably piss everyone off.... it’s one of my many talents "

Not gonna gain anything from here so may aswell

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

OP - you should read a book called Who Moved My Cheese. Might help you in more ways than one!

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

YES!!!!!! These emojis are just not cutting it

I’d win everyone over with just GiFs haha

I’d probably piss everyone off.... it’s one of my many talents "

My GiF game is a different level. Fair warning.

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"OP - you should read a book called Who Moved My Cheese. Might help you in more ways than one!"

Amazing book

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

YES!!!!!! These emojis are just not cutting it

I’d win everyone over with just GiFs haha

I’d probably piss everyone off.... it’s one of my many talents

Not gonna gain anything from here so may aswell"

Dude you are the reason and posts like this, is why single guys get a bad rep. It’s the reason I’m going in here. It’s hard enough without this kind of attitude to put people off single gents

Listen to the comments and work on your game

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple

That attitude is exactly why no one will reply to you. They’re not losing out, you are. That’s why you’re here complaining about it.

Never asked u to comment did i anyways

Dude you are posting this in a forum yeah…..

Legit laughed out loud at this ha ha ha Think we may need more popcorn

I’ve ran out….. "

I’m shocked and quite frankly a little disappointed at just how badly prepared you are... or aren’t Not sure I’ll ever be able to look at you the same way again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares!

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

YES!!!!!! These emojis are just not cutting it

I’d win everyone over with just GiFs haha

I’d probably piss everyone off.... it’s one of my many talents

Not gonna gain anything from here so may aswell

Dude you are the reason and posts like this, is why single guys get a bad rep. It’s the reason I’m going in here. It’s hard enough without this kind of attitude to put people off single gents

Listen to the comments and work on your game"

Tried working on it and doesnt always work still get ignored if nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As is nearly always the case, another OP trying to blame everything and everybody else for his lack of success when in fact, the problem is looking back in the mirror.

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough


"OP - you should read a book called Who Moved My Cheese. Might help you in more ways than one!

Amazing book"

Really is! Literally changed my life - well, made me change it! X

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"OP - you should read a book called Who Moved My Cheese. Might help you in more ways than one!"

Lol

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"As is nearly always the case, another OP trying to blame everything and everybody else for his lack of success when in fact, the problem is looking back in the mirror."

Not in the mirror morr about shallow people

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By *an JuniperoCouple
over a year ago

North East


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

YES!!!!!! These emojis are just not cutting it

I’d win everyone over with just GiFs haha

I’d probably piss everyone off.... it’s one of my many talents

Not gonna gain anything from here so may aswell

Dude you are the reason and posts like this, is why single guys get a bad rep. It’s the reason I’m going in here. It’s hard enough without this kind of attitude to put people off single gents

Listen to the comments and work on your game"

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

YES!!!!!! These emojis are just not cutting it

I’d win everyone over with just GiFs haha

I’d probably piss everyone off.... it’s one of my many talents

My GiF game is a different level. Fair warning. "

Bring it on

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough


"OP - you should read a book called Who Moved My Cheese. Might help you in more ways than one!

Lol "

Why is that funny?

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple

That attitude is exactly why no one will reply to you. They’re not losing out, you are. That’s why you’re here complaining about it.

Never asked u to comment did i anyways

Dude you are posting this in a forum yeah…..

Legit laughed out loud at this ha ha ha Think we may need more popcorn

I’ve ran out…..

I’m shocked and quite frankly a little disappointed at just how badly prepared you are... or aren’t Not sure I’ll ever be able to look at you the same way again "

I can’t face looking in the mirror. The self hate is too much to bear.

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"As is nearly always the case, another OP trying to blame everything and everybody else for his lack of success when in fact, the problem is looking back in the mirror."

This ^^^^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

YES!!!!!! These emojis are just not cutting it

I’d win everyone over with just GiFs haha

I’d probably piss everyone off.... it’s one of my many talents

Not gonna gain anything from here so may aswell

Dude you are the reason and posts like this, is why single guys get a bad rep. It’s the reason I’m going in here. It’s hard enough without this kind of attitude to put people off single gents

Listen to the comments and work on your game

Tried working on it and doesnt always work still get ignored if nice "

So if being nice hasn’t worked I’m not sure how you think coming across as a bit of a c&@t will work either? Genuinely intrigued

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"OP - you should read a book called Who Moved My Cheese. Might help you in more ways than one!

Lol

Why is that funny? "

Cant judge a book buy its cover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As is nearly always the case, another OP trying to blame everything and everybody else for his lack of success when in fact, the problem is looking back in the mirror.

Not in the mirror morr about shallow people "

It really isn't, that's your perception of the problem and its categorically wrong

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"(Grabs popcorn)

This!! This guy right here… that’s a profile. (Btw )"

Yes, seconded! It’s to the point but a couple of good photos & nice write up

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough


"OP - you should read a book called Who Moved My Cheese. Might help you in more ways than one!

Lol

Why is that funny?

Cant judge a book buy its cover "

just read the book

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

YES!!!!!! These emojis are just not cutting it

I’d win everyone over with just GiFs haha

I’d probably piss everyone off.... it’s one of my many talents

Not gonna gain anything from here so may aswell

Dude you are the reason and posts like this, is why single guys get a bad rep. It’s the reason I’m going in here. It’s hard enough without this kind of attitude to put people off single gents

Listen to the comments and work on your game

Tried working on it and doesnt always work still get ignored if nice "

You mastered the art of time travel as well?….

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"As is nearly always the case, another OP trying to blame everything and everybody else for his lack of success when in fact, the problem is looking back in the mirror.

Not in the mirror morr about shallow people "

Serious mate careful

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple

That attitude is exactly why no one will reply to you. They’re not losing out, you are. That’s why you’re here complaining about it.

Never asked u to comment did i anyways

Dude you are posting this in a forum yeah…..

Legit laughed out loud at this ha ha ha Think we may need more popcorn

I’ve ran out…..

I’m shocked and quite frankly a little disappointed at just how badly prepared you are... or aren’t Not sure I’ll ever be able to look at you the same way again

I can’t face looking in the mirror. The self hate is too much to bear."

I can only hope that in time the memory of tonight will fade

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"OP - you should read a book called Who Moved My Cheese. Might help you in more ways than one!

Lol

Why is that funny?

Mmmm…. Ok

Cant judge a book buy its cover

just read the book"

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Spelling, punctuation and grammar will go a long way too

Lots of “Lol” and “ur” and other typical “text speak” are likely to put people off.

Its not work so not needed especially if youre dyslexic

We know it’s not work but it does matter to some. To us it shows a lack of effort.

Be so much effort to get a reply lol. Not my fault i have dyslexia

You can blame dyslexia if you want, but the people receiving your messages won’t immediately know that unless you state it. You’re complaining about not being able to get a reply but the more this thread develops it’s clear that you’re really not doing yourself any favours.

Wont anyways to many people shallow on here who just want skinny men and bbc

This mindset is going to win you no fans fella

There loss then not mine only truth dont like it dont comment simple

That attitude is exactly why no one will reply to you. They’re not losing out, you are. That’s why you’re here complaining about it.

Never asked u to comment did i anyways

Dude you are posting this in a forum yeah…..

Legit laughed out loud at this ha ha ha Think we may need more popcorn

I’ve ran out…..

I’m shocked and quite frankly a little disappointed at just how badly prepared you are... or aren’t Not sure I’ll ever be able to look at you the same way again

I can’t face looking in the mirror. The self hate is too much to bear.

I can only hope that in time the memory of tonight will fade "

No this I will never forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP looking at it from the outside in, that message you posted earlier is way too generic. There's no standout, nothing that makes you interesting. You have to remember that the girls here get hundreds of messages a day, most of which will look exactly like that.

You need to add some personality, some humour, something to make you memorable! Looking good is only 10% of the battle, it's your mind that does the rest

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"(Grabs popcorn)

This!! This guy right here… that’s a profile. (Btw )

Yes, seconded! It’s to the point but a couple of good photos & nice write up "

Thanks guys. Feeling the love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP looking at it from the outside in, that message you posted earlier is way too generic. There's no standout, nothing that makes you interesting. You have to remember that the girls here get hundreds of messages a day, most of which will look exactly like that.

You need to add some personality, some humour, something to make you memorable! Looking good is only 10% of the battle, it's your mind that does the rest"

And grammar. Jesus... grammar

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"OP looking at it from the outside in, that message you posted earlier is way too generic. There's no standout, nothing that makes you interesting. You have to remember that the girls here get hundreds of messages a day, most of which will look exactly like that.

You need to add some personality, some humour, something to make you memorable! Looking good is only 10% of the battle, it's your mind that does the rest"

Most women profile aint that interesting either and see judging a book buy its cover lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP and so many others like him have no bearing on my site experiences. Actually quite the opposite, it is because of the masses that complain, can not construct a well put together initial message ( or forum post for that matter ) and have a very unimaginative profile that us genuine single males can get meets.

I actively encourage you and your ilk to long continue your poor me attitude and apathetic approach to the site. Well done OP by all means keep it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP - you should read a book called Who Moved My Cheese. Might help you in more ways than one!

Lol

Why is that funny?

Cant judge a book buy its cover

just read the book"

I've just downloaded it on audible. Thanks for the tip!

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"It’s times like this fab needs GIF support……

YES!!!!!! These emojis are just not cutting it

I’d win everyone over with just GiFs haha

I’d probably piss everyone off.... it’s one of my many talents

Not gonna gain anything from here so may aswell

Dude you are the reason and posts like this, is why single guys get a bad rep. It’s the reason I’m going in here. It’s hard enough without this kind of attitude to put people off single gents

Listen to the comments and work on your game

Tried working on it and doesnt always work still get ignored if nice "

if I want to converse with people I chat on the forums and sometimes I get chatting to people of whom neither of us want to have sex with each other but we will then move the conversations to private chat and get friendly but without any sexual expectations but whenever it’s happened the other way round the conversation has always turned sexual and that’s really disheartening and shows there intention was never to just chat with no expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP looking at it from the outside in, that message you posted earlier is way too generic. There's no standout, nothing that makes you interesting. You have to remember that the girls here get hundreds of messages a day, most of which will look exactly like that.

You need to add some personality, some humour, something to make you memorable! Looking good is only 10% of the battle, it's your mind that does the rest

Most women profile aint that interesting either and see judging a book buy its cover lol "

Welcome to the world of dating online. The men outnumber the women here 100:1, so the girls often don't need to put the same level of effort in that guys do. Life isn't fair but that's the way it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to the ratio on men to woman/couples on here you need to ensure you put effort into your message. Read the person's profile entirely and don't go for the standard, "hey how you doing?" etc try to capture their attention and a little thought and humour goes a long way.

As a couple we got lots of messages from guys and 90% of them are exactly the same and unless asked dick pics on the first message are a huge no.

Hope that helps x

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By *ccidentprone2023 OP   Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough


"The OP and so many others like him have no bearing on my site experiences. Actually quite the opposite, it is because of the masses that complain, can not construct a well put together initial message ( or forum post for that matter ) and have a very unimaginative profile that us genuine single males can get meets.

I actively encourage you and your ilk to long continue your poor me attitude and apathetic approach to the site. Well done OP by all means keep it up "

Well thats what happen u get rejected alot and for every rejection ive had ide save £1 ide be loaded

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"OP looking at it from the outside in, that message you posted earlier is way too generic. There's no standout, nothing that makes you interesting. You have to remember that the girls here get hundreds of messages a day, most of which will look exactly like that.

You need to add some personality, some humour, something to make you memorable! Looking good is only 10% of the battle, it's your mind that does the rest

And grammar. Jesus... grammar"

All the grammar man, all of it

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough


"OP looking at it from the outside in, that message you posted earlier is way too generic. There's no standout, nothing that makes you interesting. You have to remember that the girls here get hundreds of messages a day, most of which will look exactly like that.

You need to add some personality, some humour, something to make you memorable! Looking good is only 10% of the battle, it's your mind that does the rest

Most women profile aint that interesting either and see judging a book buy its cover lol "

But your profile is your advert. Would you respond to you?? You have a few short words to make an impact so you need to chose them wisely!

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By *ojoishereforfunWoman
over a year ago

benfleet

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Honestly your status screams desperation and so does this post. Not everyone will like you on here, not everyone will like you in real life, that goes for all of us and as adults we have to suck it up and get on with it.

Unfortunately it's a dog eat dog World out there, just because you don't live in an area that's got a club why not travel to go to one? Try talking to a different type of woman? Your the biggest group on here of single males and us women get bombarded constantly.

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By *museBouche31Woman
over a year ago

Reigate


"As is nearly always the case, another OP trying to blame everything and everybody else for his lack of success when in fact, the problem is looking back in the mirror.

Not in the mirror morr about shallow people "

Perhaps instead of just asking all us shallow people to comment on a thread when you’re not prepared to even entertain some feedback, you should just leave us all here in our shallow paddling pool that is fabs, and find some more rounded characters, that can offer you a much more interesting and engaging time?

Have you tried going out with your friends in the real world and just having some fun? . . . .

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