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By *ecret_Passion777 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Hey guys,

Just wondering if anyone, particularly ladies, could take a quick look at my profile and see where I may be going wrong and can improve perhaps?

I think I’m in reasonably decent gym shape, but don’t get much response from the women I message. Thanks. Xx

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It's a tad long imo but informative.

Maybe a few more pictures of different things, clothed, your back, thighs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people really need to know that your out of a relationship?

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By *ickedWhimsWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I don't usually comment on these types of threads because your profile is how you choose to portray yourself and no one should tell you how to do that but one thing did strike me:

"I like varied sex - A good, long session. Fast and hard and deep.. slow, sensual and sexy. Mixing it up intermittently and swapping between foreplay and sex is amazing..

Missionary is a good start and amazing for hot, sexy kissing while we’re doing it... I’m sure you get the picture, ha! Xx"

The whole thing combined with the bit about the ex girlfriend just reads as incredibly vanilla to me. "I like to have very normal sex that's normal and I want to do it normally".

Are you vanilla? Do you wanna do it..... Normally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people really need to know that your out of a relationship? "

Totally agree, if you are single then just say that. The rest is just off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get the first two paragraphs. You’re not in that relationship anymore so why does it have any relevance?

You ask not to be judged but give people a reason to be judged when there is no reason

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Pics are fine, possibly a bit too in-depth for a opening profile.

I would get yourself out to a club, meet people. Explore the scene and get yourself some verifications. I thing this is a common theme with guys, patience is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Draw some tape measure markings on your penis, it works wonders (apparently).

But if it gets you more action than me, I want royalties. Paid to “K Soze cash quick enterprises.”

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Draw some tape measure markings on your penis, it works wonders (apparently).

But if it gets you more action than me, I want royalties. Paid to “K Soze cash quick enterprises.”"

True story ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, your profile is fine, you appear interesting and have taken the time out to put some effort in to your bio. As I can testify to the wife’s interests in profiles, a bit of humour and some detail goes a long way. She was enamoured with reading one profile and something will now come of that. Be patient, I’ve a feeling you’ll have some success on here and getting a verification under your belt might help but not necessary. Good luck mate

Bob

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do people really need to know that your out of a relationship?

Totally agree, if you are single then just say that. The rest is just off putting."

Especially saying it was sexless. No point mentioning it. You have a great physique but both your pics are almost identical. I don't know why you think people will judge you for wanting NSA sex. Isn't that what a majority of people on this site are looking for ?

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

he didnt listen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following on from Bob's comment, if I jad one criticism, it would be your age range. I have no obje tion to 99 year olds having their end away, but the idea doesn't float boat

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By *ecret_Passion777 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks for that feedback, great help!

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By *ecret_Passion777 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks Sally, and thanks for the compliment on body shape. Will make amendments to profile

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By *ampshire_guy40Man
over a year ago

hampshire

I had some help with my profile a few weeks ago from alot of fabbers and it has helped me a great deal just listen and take onboard what others say and you won't regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys,

Just wondering if anyone, particularly ladies, could take a quick look at my profile and see where I may be going wrong and can improve perhaps?

I think I’m in reasonably decent gym shape, but don’t get much response from the women I message. Thanks. Xx "

I think your profile is fine as it is. It’s difficult to say what’s right or wrong as we’re all different and looking for different things. You can’t be everyone’s type, no matter what you look like or how well you can string a sentence together. Good luck x

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By *ecret_Passion777 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks Bob, great feedback will be making some amendments here and there!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's all a bit cliché.

2 pics that are the same.

What's "like minded"? you need to be more specific.

Doesn't stand out from the hundreds of other profiles.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The text looks much better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you either keep it your profile or you become another boring advice driven profile from people who dont know you ???

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Haven't read it, no connection then it must be crap, joke!

Although it's normal on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a couple of other nitpicks. Really not being rude at all.

"The same person would be ace" Sounds like a 6 year old not 36

Also please remove like-minded, because no one else knows you.

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By *ecret_Passion777 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Got it, great tips, thanks!

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By *ecret_Passion777 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks Sally, took some points on board and deleted some stuff, cheers

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By *valon7Woman
over a year ago

Lancaster

My profile isnt getting much female attention either!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Thanks Sally, took some points on board and deleted some stuff, cheers "

You say "mates" three times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't usually comment on these types of threads because your profile is how you choose to portray yourself and no one should tell you how to do that but one thing did strike me:

"I like varied sex - A good, long session. Fast and hard and deep.. slow, sensual and sexy. Mixing it up intermittently and swapping between foreplay and sex is amazing..

Missionary is a good start and amazing for hot, sexy kissing while we’re doing it... I’m sure you get the picture, ha! Xx"

The whole thing combined with the bit about the ex girlfriend just reads as incredibly vanilla to me. "I like to have very normal sex that's normal and I want to do it normally".

Are you vanilla? Do you wanna do it..... Normally? "

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"My profile isnt getting much female attention either! "

Me neither…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile isnt getting much female attention either!

Me neither….. "

I got 3 fabs in a day once. Had to go and have a sit down

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"My profile isnt getting much female attention either!

Me neither…..

I got 3 fabs in a day once. Had to go and have a sit down"

That would give me a fucking nose bleed haha

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"My profile isnt getting much female attention either!

Me neither…..

I got 3 fabs in a day once. Had to go and have a sit down"

Actually laughed out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does make me chuckle when all these guys wonder why they haven't had a meet or much interest after only being in the site for a few months

Take it from me if you want a meet just simply get your self out there clubs,socials, christ even a dogging meet will do , don't just rely on scoring a meet solely through here as for most of you you will be in for a long wait.

Then when you get a few veris from clubs you can then start to get meets off of here.

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By *tryder83Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It does make me chuckle when all these guys wonder why they haven't had a meet or much interest after only being in the site for a few months

Take it from me if you want a meet just simply get your self out there clubs,socials, christ even a dogging meet will do , don't just rely on scoring a meet solely through here as for most of you you will be in for a long wait.

Then when you get a few veris from clubs you can then start to get meets off of here."

This

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