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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see many profiles that state, "Can't accomodate, can't travel". I'm at a loss as to how these people expect to meet anyone if they don't want folks to visit them and they don't want to travel to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they go to clubs or meet outdoors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wondered whether some of them misunderstood the meaning of accommodate, as in they thought it meant you have to put people up overnight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do they get to the clubs if they won't travel?

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By *lex 1971Man
over a year ago

telford


"How do they get to the clubs if they won't travel? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always assume they want someone with a house or hotel within the town they live in. By 'can't travel' I think they mean can't go beyond a certain distance from their home due to either not having a car or not having the time or simply not having the inclination.

Personally if I contact someone with this type of profile I make it clear that I would be happy to get a hotel in their area and before that would travel to their town for the social meet.

But like someone has already said in some cases it could just mean that they only meet at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have can't travel on our profile as we don't want to spend hours travelling to a meet when there are so many sexy people nearby! Also makes it easier to meet for socials. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't have anyone round to my house for many many reasons. So, can't accomodate.

I won't travel far and only within a certain distance. So, can't travel.

I don't have my location on my profile to avoid people getting arsey about how far I will/ won't travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see many profiles that state, "Can't accomodate, can't travel". I'm at a loss as to how these people expect to meet anyone if they don't want folks to visit them and they don't want to travel to meet. "

Often puzzle at that one myself... I've always taken the two terms like this:

Can/Can't Accomm: refers to whether you can use your home for meeting. I don't include a hotel in accommodating.

Can/Can't travel: usually take this to mean won't travel more than the equivalent of one bus journey from home, usually within the town/borough where they live. You have to be understanding of other peoples family set up on this one. Not everyone can be too far from home, specially if they have very young kids.

Just another reason why a 'glossary of terminology' might be useful...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see many profiles that state, "Can't accomodate, can't travel". I'm at a loss as to how these people expect to meet anyone if they don't want folks to visit them and they don't want to travel to meet. "

Ive always took it as they expect to be picked up and dropped back somewhere if they say cant travel.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"they go to clubs or meet outdoors "

Don't forget hotels.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have can't acom on my profile but in actual fact I don't acom. The difference is that I could but choose not to for safety/security reasons.

It says I can travel but in the text I say I'm looking for locals. I meet for a coffee first to suss people out and won't travel long distances for a cuppa only to say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't Travel" means to me don't drive, or not willing to drive, or not willing to travel more than a short distance away from home etc...

"Can't Accommodate" means to me not able to invite anyone back for whatever reason(s), and/or not prepared to pay for accommodation etc...

They may be able to meet locally at clubs, or hotels, or outdoor, or in cars/vans/whatever. However, I usually avoid them as I do not like to do all the leg/hard work myself.

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.

for me "cant travel" means i have no feckin money to pay the bills, let alone travel anywhere, but i can accom and usually its me paying for the condoms

so i dont mind.and i try to have several weeks/months chat before inviting anyone to my place.

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