FabSwingers.com forum: Wolf Whistle

By *iglet OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

Any ladies enjoy receiving a wolf whistle or a cheeky comment from a stranger when they are out alone in public? Is it flattering or unwanted attention….

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By *ornynorfolkguyMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk

I can’t see a time or place where either are appropriate to be honest!

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

A 'You're looking very beautiful today' type comment can be taken as a compliment.

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

is it not kind of illegal these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do actually like it and it's never bothered me take it as s compliment.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"I do actually like it and it's never bothered me take it as s compliment.

I could be wrong in assuming but are younger women more likely to take offence?

I'd pay you a compliment if our paths crossed. I tend to pay such compliments if I'm briefly chatting whilst waiting to get served at a bar. But rarely would I start a conversation with that type of comment.

I've had my bum pinched a few times in bars and it doesn't bother me. But I'd never do that myself.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Don’t worry, the cavalry will be along any minute now to put you in your place.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I actually like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t worry, the cavalry will be along any minute now to put you in your place."

The pc police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s nothing nicer than a friendly compliment

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

"Don’t worry, the cavalry will be along any minute now to put you in your place."

Haha yeah with the same repeated phrases and fake outrage.

Weall know who they are.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I enjoy it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Don’t worry, the cavalry will be along any minute now to put you in your place.

Haha yeah with the same repeated phrases and fake outrage.

Weall know who they are."

Because their opinion is different it's faking?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Context, time, place situation are everything. Know your audience, don't he an arse, creepy or frightening and it's great. If you wouldn't want your mum, daughter,sister or any loved woman in your life subject to your actions, simply don't do it.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

"Don’t worry, the cavalry will be along any minute now to put you in your place.

Haha yeah with the same repeated phrases and fake outrage.

Weall know who they are.

Because their opinion is different it's faking?"

I stand by what I said.

You have said it in a different way and that's not what I've said.

They come on and bash people's opinions all the time and gang up on guys asking questions or having an opinion.

They ruin threads and the forms for a lot of people on here.

I've had guys message me and say they are scared to say there opinion in the chat because of the others jumping on them.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Any ladies enjoy receiving a wolf whistle or a cheeky comment from a stranger when they are out alone in public? Is it flattering or unwanted attention…."

Personally, I don't object to wolf whistles, though many do.

Cheeky comments from a stranger is a big NO, but polite, respectful, non creepy compliments are always welcome.

Nita

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Don’t worry, the cavalry will be along any minute now to put you in your place.

Haha yeah with the same repeated phrases and fake outrage.

Weall know who they are.

Because their opinion is different it's faking?

I stand by what I said.

You have said it in a different way and that's not what I've said.

They come on and bash people's opinions all the time and gang up on guys asking questions or having an opinion.

They ruin threads and the forms for a lot of people on here.

I've had guys message me and say they are scared to say there opinion in the chat because of the others jumping on them.

It's a shame if anybody is scared to post. If people are rude it's worth reporting.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

"Don’t worry, the cavalry will be along any minute now to put you in your place.

Haha yeah with the same repeated phrases and fake outrage.

Weall know who they are.

Because their opinion is different it's faking?

I stand by what I said.

You have said it in a different way and that's not what I've said.

They come on and bash people's opinions all the time and gang up on guys asking questions or having an opinion.

They ruin threads and the forms for a lot of people on here.

I've had guys message me and say they are scared to say there opinion in the chat because of the others jumping on them.

It's a shame if anybody is scared to post. If people are rude it's worth reporting."

Yeah I agree it is. And for once we got a dig in first about them.

Can you report people for being a bit rude or having a go at your opinion?

Me personally I wouldn't go down that route. I'd just give it back. But I tend to keep away from the touchy subjects on here because I couldn't be bother arguing with people I wouldn't give one second of my time to in the real world.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

And if they turn out to be only 14 year old, is it their fault for looking older? It's 2022 and not a carry on film.

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By *u78Woman
over a year ago

NORTHAMPTON

I'd rather a friendly conversation

I don't mind being approached

But in my experience guys who whistle or make comments are not respectful and just intimidating.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Don’t worry, the cavalry will be along any minute now to put you in your place.

Haha yeah with the same repeated phrases and fake outrage.

Weall know who they are.

Because their opinion is different it's faking?

I stand by what I said.

You have said it in a different way and that's not what I've said.

They come on and bash people's opinions all the time and gang up on guys asking questions or having an opinion.

They ruin threads and the forms for a lot of people on here.

I've had guys message me and say they are scared to say there opinion in the chat because of the others jumping on them.

It's a shame if anybody is scared to post. If people are rude it's worth reporting.

Yeah I agree it is. And for once we got a dig in first about them.

Can you report people for being a bit rude or having a go at your opinion?

You can report people for being abusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t worry, the cavalry will be along any minute now to put you in your place.

Haha yeah with the same repeated phrases and fake outrage.

Weall know who they are.

Because their opinion is different it's faking?

I stand by what I said.

You have said it in a different way and that's not what I've said.

They come on and bash people's opinions all the time and gang up on guys asking questions or having an opinion.

They ruin threads and the forms for a lot of people on here.

I've had guys message me and say they are scared to say there opinion in the chat because of the others jumping on them.

It's a shame if anybody is scared to post. If people are rude it's worth reporting."

Sometimes it’s simply a case that people don’t post because they get tired of others telling them how to think.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Don’t worry, the cavalry will be along any minute now to put you in your place.

Haha yeah with the same repeated phrases and fake outrage.

Weall know who they are.

Because their opinion is different it's faking?

I stand by what I said.

You have said it in a different way and that's not what I've said.

They come on and bash people's opinions all the time and gang up on guys asking questions or having an opinion.

They ruin threads and the forms for a lot of people on here.

I've had guys message me and say they are scared to say there opinion in the chat because of the others jumping on them.

It's a shame if anybody is scared to post. If people are rude it's worth reporting.

Sometimes it’s simply a case that people don’t post because they get tired of others telling them how to think.

I'm speaking personally now

If someone *tells* me how to think I don't take any notice of them and disengage.

If someone expresses a different opinion to mine respectfully and backs it up with sensible reasons and I find I don't have a counter argument I reconsider my opinion.

If someone expresses a different opinion to mine rudely or uses ad hominem argument I realise that they have no real faith in their opinion but don't like to admit it so I take no notice.

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