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By *eaDrinker91 OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I wanted to start a little post for all us poly folk just to help find possible connections more that just swinging xxx

Please just let us know a little about yourself and if someone else likes your post they might just send you a message xxx

SO I will go first,

I live in Birmingham and Im hoping to expand my polycue by finding a Lady or couple that can hold a good conversation and would like to be spoiled xxx please feel free to check my profile out and my DM's are open to anyone who has questions or looking for a great guy to add to there own polycue. xxx

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By *urvy-blue83Woman
over a year ago

burton

Poly lady here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poly and kinky

Not an uncommon combo

Always open to having a chat and seeing where things go

Conversation and connection are a priority

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By *unseeker6969Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Been looking in Essex areas for years.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am but hugely selective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love two men in my life and my bed. However, I can’t even find one!

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

What men or beds ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are seeking a third, more for me than anything else. But hoping for it to develop into a poly relationship. But I'd really like a female friend to flirt and chat and hopefully the relationship expands to the bedroom, and eventually share with my hubby xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be very interested in going back into a poly relationship

Ended up dipping my toe in the poly world with an ex and was such a thrill once we got fully into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just moved from the North East to the Midlands. I'm married(she knows I'm here and has her own profile) we're both poly and open to exploring that further individually.

I'm looking for woman tha has a mad as a box of frogs chewing custard kind of sense of humour and also hold a decent conversation.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Poly in London here. Just the one person currently, who I don't live with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

poly guy here x

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By *onewolf444Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Never been in a poly relationship but something that I would be keen to explore.

I'm from the North East.

Separated soon to be divorced.

I've found swinging with randoms is less appealing than someone I have a connection with.

Always happy to chat. DMs open x

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

We've had poly relationships before and would again but it would take a lot to find the right person/couple x

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By *eaDrinker91 OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Never thought this little post would get so much attention. Thank you all for your messages xxx it’s nice to see so many poly people in the community xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for a poly/thruple relationship with male or female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love two men in my life and my bed. However, I can’t even find one! "

I doubt there'd be enough room for anyone else judging by the size of those baps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wanted to start a little post for all us poly folk just to help find possible connections more that just swinging xxx

Please just let us know a little about yourself and if someone else likes your post they might just send you a message xxx

SO I will go first,

I live in Birmingham and Im hoping to expand my polycue by finding a Lady or couple that can hold a good conversation and would like to be spoiled xxx please feel free to check my profile out and my DM's are open to anyone who has questions or looking for a great guy to add to there own polycue. xxx"

Pardon my ignorance, but what the fuck is a polycue, is it something to do with snooker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wanted to start a little post for all us poly folk just to help find possible connections more that just swinging xxx

Please just let us know a little about yourself and if someone else likes your post they might just send you a message xxx

SO I will go first,

I live in Birmingham and Im hoping to expand my polycue by finding a Lady or couple that can hold a good conversation and would like to be spoiled xxx please feel free to check my profile out and my DM's are open to anyone who has questions or looking for a great guy to add to there own polycue. xxx

Pardon my ignorance, but what the fuck is a polycue, is it something to do with snooker? "

I think its polycule, but I might be misunderstanding what they meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poly here xx

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm poly and Alice is dabbling in it. We have a 3rd, but don't think it would go any further than that.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Poly couple here too one cis and one trans guy not looking immediately but would be good to find a 3rd ideally transwoman, cis woman or even transmale once my partner is in uk and we have a place together.

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By *urious-Switch81Man
over a year ago

Heanor

Hi I'm in a poly relationship but we do not share partners, I'm looking for a female partner, I don't do one night stands so I'm looking for friendship first and hopefully in time a connection. I'm easy going and from Lincolnshire. Message me if you'd like to chat.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

Would love a poly relationship.

Am single guy in London who would love to meet a poly married lady . Had it years ago and its mind blowing experience

Live by myself in London, responsible and pretty vanilla except when it comes to fab /poly fun..

Contact me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like hard work and a massive amount of responsibility, how do you that are poly find a balance so no one is left out how’s the dynamic work ??

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By *nufflesCouple
over a year ago

Near Stevenage

Be nice to find a a girlfriend as the wife has one

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My wife is off for the weekend with her new (nearly) girlfriend.

This is a first for us.

We're both nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife is off for the weekend with her new (nearly) girlfriend.

This is a first for us.

We're both nervous."

So how do you honestly feel about this ?

Would be so Intriguing to know how you feel now and how you feel later when they are together without you ?

There is no right or wrong way to feel

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nervous of course, but really I feel fine.

We have a high degree of trust in our relationship.

We've been playing together for ages and Mrs knows I meet men for casual 1:1s (not a friends with benefits type thing)

We both know the potential fwb...

We both get turned on by mrs enjoying sex with others, and I have a bit of a cuckold fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nervous of course, but really I feel fine.

We have a high degree of trust in our relationship.

We've been playing together for ages and Mrs knows I meet men for casual 1:1s (not a friends with benefits type thing)

We both know the potential fwb...

We both get turned on by mrs enjoying sex with others, and I have a bit of a cuckold fetish. "

Sounds awesome so glad it works for you both enjoy mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, one half of a poly couple here

We did have a regular third but it got complicated and we broke it off a year ago, was really gutted at the time but ready to get back out there now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solo Poly in Cardiff, potentially open to new romantic connections, but only with people who live nearby!

Thruple vibe isnt for me... although I do like to be friends and spend time with metamours!

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By *itty Kat ABWoman
over a year ago

North Somerset

Poly here too. Open to new connections

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I’d love to find a poly relationship/relationship’s

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

Poly (well more ENM) and kinky here

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By *urious-Switch81Man
over a year ago

Heanor

Poly and single.... sucks to be me lol.

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By *ylvieMWoman
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Currently solo poly here

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By *heshire-cat74Woman
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

I'm quite interested in this myself so if anyone local to me is looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poly, bi, single but live in France

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By *otwife_TrainerMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Secret long term Poly pulling up a chair and watching carefully....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya. I've been on this journey for many years now. I'm just grateful that there's now the language available to describe the way I feel and I'm now fortunate to have found a sense of community.

Recently I've met a couple of wonderful individuals to share genuine love, friendship and affection with. We live in different locations, sometimes it can be challenging but also very rewarding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Secret long term Poly pulling up a chair and watching carefully.... "

Secret? In what way?

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By *iquid GoldCouple
over a year ago

gloucestershire

We have been together for 12 years, married for 3 and we decided to open our relationship up and explore poly a few months ago after flirting with the idea for years.

My (Mrs) bi side has been kicking and screaming to get out for a long time so it seemed the natural progression.

However, I guess we were quite naive as we didn’t anticipate how long it would take to make this happen. We are still waiting for our first meet now and I guess starting to feel a bit deflated about it all. H x

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"We have been together for 12 years, married for 3 and we decided to open our relationship up and explore poly a few months ago after flirting with the idea for years.

My (Mrs) bi side has been kicking and screaming to get out for a long time so it seemed the natural progression.

However, I guess we were quite naive as we didn’t anticipate how long it would take to make this happen. We are still waiting for our first meet now and I guess starting to feel a bit deflated about it all. H x"

Given it's not how most folks live their lives, what made you think it would happen easily or quicker?

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By *otwife_TrainerMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Secret long term Poly pulling up a chair and watching carefully....

Secret? In what way? "

In the way that I've always felt like I've had a lot more room in my heart than is necessary for one love but never voiced it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Secret long term Poly pulling up a chair and watching carefully....

Secret? In what way?

In the way that I've always felt like I've had a lot more room in my heart than is necessary for one love but never voiced it. "

There's no need for secrets here. Welcome

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By *otwife_TrainerMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Secret long term Poly pulling up a chair and watching carefully....

Secret? In what way?

In the way that I've always felt like I've had a lot more room in my heart than is necessary for one love but never voiced it.

There's no need for secrets here. Welcome "

Thank you very much, I will be watching this thread intently.

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It's a lifestyle that when it works its amazing

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By *iquid GoldCouple
over a year ago

gloucestershire


"We have been together for 12 years, married for 3 and we decided to open our relationship up and explore poly a few months ago after flirting with the idea for years.

My (Mrs) bi side has been kicking and screaming to get out for a long time so it seemed the natural progression.

However, I guess we were quite naive as we didn’t anticipate how long it would take to make this happen. We are still waiting for our first meet now and I guess starting to feel a bit deflated about it all. H x

Given it's not how most folks live their lives, what made you think it would happen easily or quicker?"

Granted, it isn’t but I guess when we started this journey we quickly realised that sites like Fab are far more easily accessible than we thought and we (wrongly) assumed we could strike up conversations quickly with like minded females. Add to that the fact that we are both sagitarrians and therefore the most impatient people in the world lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a lifestyle that when it works its amazing "

It's something that you have to work at to make work. Over coming jealousy for instance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it near Balamory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, we are a poly couple who date separately. Mr has a girlfriend but Mrs is looking for the right person who must be fairly local to Stamford lincs.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

We have been in a poly relationship in the past and now my wife is poly. It's not easy finding poly couples, so I hope that you find the right people.

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By *izaeliza7Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

I'm poly and dating on my own. I have a partner, but we don't normally date together. I'm up for messages from genuine poly/non ethical people that might want more than just something casual as I love to chat with all sorts of people.

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By *nlygirlzallowedWoman
over a year ago

N ireland


"We have been together for 12 years, married for 3 and we decided to open our relationship up and explore poly a few months ago after flirting with the idea for years.

My (Mrs) bi side has been kicking and screaming to get out for a long time so it seemed the natural progression.

However, I guess we were quite naive as we didn’t anticipate how long it would take to make this happen. We are still waiting for our first meet now and I guess starting to feel a bit deflated about it all. H x"

Get in touch H. I am looking for a GF xx

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

We'd like to find a couple with a bi fem as we have had this before x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like to find a bi cuck couple/ bi couple to play with nearby.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm polyamorous. I'm currently healing a broken heart from the end of one of my relationships so I'm not really looking for anything else romantic right now but I thought I'd pop in and say hi to other poly folk .

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Just starting on my poly journey.

I’ve been skirting around poly for a while but I’ve only recently entered into an open poly relationship for the first time.

I’m interested to chat with other poly/ENM folks as a way of connecting, building friendships, potential support networks and the like

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I've been EMN for years but have only officially been a solo-poly for just over a year.

I'm currently in a relationship with one woman.

One or two more partners would be the perfect balance for me.

If just one more partner the woman would ideally part of a bi or cuckold couple.

Living locally would be essential though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi one here, looking to find a lovely lady

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm polyamorous. I'm currently healing a broken heart from the end of one of my relationships so I'm not really looking for anything else romantic right now but I thought I'd pop in and say hi to other poly folk . "

Sorry to read this Lacey, it's a crap feeling. I hope you're able to talk about it with people. And hi.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm polyamorous. I'm currently healing a broken heart from the end of one of my relationships so I'm not really looking for anything else romantic right now but I thought I'd pop in and say hi to other poly folk .

Sorry to read this Lacey, it's a crap feeling. I hope you're able to talk about it with people. And hi. "

I'm lucky to have many ENM friends and I'm also very fortunate that we're at a point of being able to comfort each other. Pretending I was fine in the days immediately after in work was difficult though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married over 10 years,we were looking for a regular fb but 5 years after we got our first regular fb we are now in a poly relationship! It's not what we thought or planned it just grew very naturally but the 3 of us are still very happy 5 year's on ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married over 10 years,we were looking for a regular fb but 5 years after we got our first regular fb we are now in a poly relationship! It's not what we thought or planned it just grew very naturally but the 3 of us are still very happy 5 year's on ??"

Good on yous - it’s all about being happy

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By *izaeliza7Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

I'm poly and have been most of my grown up life. I'm married, but date solo. I'm in Guildford, Surrey and are looking for someone serious£" preferably younger than 45.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm poly and have been most of my grown up life. I'm married, but date solo. I'm in Guildford, Surrey and are looking for someone serious£" preferably younger than 45. "

You must have a lot of luck with us younger guys with boobs like that. Amazing

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"Married over 10 years,we were looking for a regular fb but 5 years after we got our first regular fb we are now in a poly relationship! It's not what we thought or planned it just grew very naturally but the 3 of us are still very happy 5 year's on ??"

Sounds beautiful you're so lucky. In an idea world I'd be open to something along those lines with a bi or cuckold couple. I'm already in one solo=poly relationship with a woman but to feel balanced I feel the need for 1-2 more regular partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'd like to find a couple with a bi fem as we have had this before x"

We are extremely interested in this, we would love to meet a couple to stay with or stay with us, holidays etc, where all of us form a relationship, being comfortable and not jealous, to be all in each others company or even if one of us can’t make it.

sex for sure, dinner and drinks too, either all together or with each other’s partner or the girls and the boys

So much to discuss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great post

Extremely interested in this, love singles and couples to join us and form relationships kink and vanilla

We would go further and live together or even communal living x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poly half of a couple

Here

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