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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some men on here send nasty messages? If they don't like I am fat why do they take time to message me.

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

There idiots ,ignore them .

You have lovely body

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran


"Why do some men on here send nasty messages? If they don't like I am fat why do they take time to message me. "

Makes them feel important and they need to belittle other people for that.

As long as you're happy then stick 2 fingers up at the little guys out there. Just imagine their ego drop when they get turned down by a full bodied lady. Give yourself a high 5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them. They're obviously vicious and have low self esteem.

You keep being you.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

In my experience it's because they are arseholes looking for an argument I've had it plenty of times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Report them. They're obviously vicious and have low self esteem.

You keep being you."

Thank you and I guess they have nothing better to do either.Just had a look at your profile and you are gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience it's because they are arseholes looking for an argument I've had it plenty of times "

I didn't respond as guessing that's what they was hoping for. Attention or something

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Why do some men on here send nasty messages? If they don't like I am fat why do they take time to message me. "

Just ignore them and use the block button and move on simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do some men on here send nasty messages? If they don't like I am fat why do they take time to message me.

Makes them feel important and they need to belittle other people for that.

As long as you're happy then stick 2 fingers up at the little guys out there. Just imagine their ego drop when they get turned down by a full bodied lady. Give yourself a high 5."

I just feel like only men do this. Never once had such messages off females or couples.

Exactly I am too good for bullies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There idiots ,ignore them .

You have lovely body "

Thank you and if it wasn't for the good guys I would leave

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By *alypsoWoman
over a year ago

Hinckley


"Why do some men on here send nasty messages? If they don't like I am fat why do they take time to message me. "

Men or women send shitty messages. Usually for their own ego, own self gratification.

Ignore, block.

You do you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do some men on here send nasty messages? If they don't like I am fat why do they take time to message me.

Just ignore them and use the block button and move on simples"

I did ignore and block. Just don't understand the motive. I am quite aware I am fat etc and honest about it so why insults

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago

They’re insecure little boys. Not men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there's some sad people about , ignore them and carry on doing what makes u happy.Have fun x

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

It's immaturity and attention seeking

I've had messages telling me I've got a huge bum too

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

It’s because they know they are anonymous. They’d be too scared in real life to say anything to you or any other woman.

Happy fabbing and have a great weekend.

Gbat

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Why do some men on here send nasty messages? If they don't like I am fat why do they take time to message me. "

Because they are rude, ignorant and childish. It doesn’t matter what size you are these trolls will have something to be nasty about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the site is full of them sadly ..these are the guys who think they are supeior to ladies they are the entitled the bullies the trolls all hiding behing a keyboard they are in fact just pathetic men who cant stand the thought of women doing there own thing ....

its a great filter its best just to laught at report and move on making sure you let everyone you know via convo's thats how you deal with it all women are strong and beautiful no matter who you are no matter what ... big small tall short no matter what race or diabillities or if you were born male and turning female stay strong ladies for there are plenty of men who like us as we are .... all beautiful is all us women not just the few but all...

op you look sexy as .. you go do your thing nly you control you nobody else

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By *issy and GingeCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Their horrible comments are just propping up their own insecurities.

Block them and move on there are idiots everywhere even here sadly

M&G

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Douche bags

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Why do some men on here send nasty messages? If they don't like I am fat why do they take time to message me. "
you are absolutely stunning don't take any notice of them idiots you are a really sexy BBW xx

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's nothing to do you, it's their own insecurities and low self esteem! I often get hateful vitriol spewed at me from guys because I'm Bi or Married. They target whatever they think is your weakness and try to hurt you! Funnily enough it's often from str8 guys I've just turned down lol!

You just keep doing you! I've looked at your profile and interests list and quite frankly you sound incredibly sensual and hot as fuck!

I wish you would write more about yourself though! without feeling the need to excuse or defend your physique. I'd love to know more about what turns you on and what you're looking for, because ultimately that's what really piques my interest in people.

I fabbed a couple of your pics but again I'd enjoy seing some that also focus on who you are and what you're into...

Good luck! Have fun! And just report and block the trolls!

XXX

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

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Ignore them , they are just sad individuals who think they are more superior, just enjoy yourself and have fun , there are loads of men on here who adore a BBW .

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun


"Why do some men on here send nasty messages? If they don't like I am fat why do they take time to message me. "

Simple they are people who lack any ability to engage in conversation with anyone, but it massages their ego to troll, it's the little person's way of feeling big.

Just say, thank you little person for your comment, it's added to the little person junk file.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sorry OP you shouldn’t have to suffer any abuse or horrible comments - it’s not right and I hope the site follows this thread and reviews it

People have the right to like or dislike due to age, sexuality , looks etc but not be abusive about it

Well done for highlighting it

Take care and have fun - with the large number of nice people on here

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By *ad Bod AdonisMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I don't think it's just on here it's online generally. The anonymity makes people say things they'd never say face to face. It's such a shame you've had to endure such nastiness, OP. As others have said, ignore, block and move on. It's their loss, not yours x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually get the abuse if a single guys mails us and we reply "not for us thanks" or not her type etc. That's when the dummy comes out...pathetic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's nothing to do you, it's their own insecurities and low self esteem! I often get hateful vitriol spewed at me from guys because I'm Bi or Married. They target whatever they think is your weakness and try to hurt you! Funnily enough it's often from str8 guys I've just turned down lol!

You just keep doing you! I've looked at your profile and interests list and quite frankly you sound incredibly sensual and hot as fuck!

I wish you would write more about yourself though! without feeling the need to excuse or defend your physique. I'd love to know more about what turns you on and what you're looking for, because ultimately that's what really piques my interest in people.

I fabbed a couple of your pics but again I'd enjoy seing some that also focus on who you are and what you're into...

Good luck! Have fun! And just report and block the trolls!

XXX"

Thank you you are spot on and will certainly update my bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get them after I don’t reply. I think of it as a lucky mistake I never arranged to meet them if their attitude changes so quickly it would frighten me how they would be on a meeting.

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