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By *anchestermeets OP   Man
over a year ago

glossop

Hi there, are there women on the site actually looking for a relationship where they could then carry on the lifestyle of Hotwife or cuckold ??

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

I am hoping to find a woman on here to have a relationship with who's comfortable with my sexuality.

There must be some successful stories from meeting off here and then getting together to carry on swinging as a pair.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We met on fet then moved over to here.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

So there's hope for me yet then

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By *unniebee1970Woman
over a year ago

The Hive

I think a few women on here could be open to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my ex on here although we weren't a cuckold couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping to find a relationship through Fab... I make it quite clear what I'm looking for and still get asked.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"I think a few women on here could be open to this. "

Well I certainly hope this is the case. A few I've spoken to insist on fully straight not fab straight x

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I certainly like the idea of meeting someone through fab for a relationship. I'm available, ladies x

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I met my other half on here. Got engaged a couple of weeks ago and moving south soon.

It’s certainly been the best way to meet someone that aligns with my views and wants on sex and lifestyle.

Although it’s not remotely what I was looking for when I first joined, or expected to find. A very happy bonus to Fab.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"I met my other half on here. Got engaged a couple of weeks ago and moving south soon.

It’s certainly been the best way to meet someone that aligns with my views and wants on sex and lifestyle.

Yay a success story. Fair play and congratulations x

Although it’s not remotely what I was looking for when I first joined, or expected to find. A very happy bonus to Fab."

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

If I found someone I wanted a relationship with and they me then that would just be a bonus them being bi wouldn’t be an issue for me as my ex was bi

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By *ingle w3t femaleWoman
over a year ago

yorkshire

Just joined a vanilla date site and most guys are on there from here !

I'd have to date a fellow swinger I think, most definitely a bi one !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met someone on here and we ended up in a relationship it’s not something I’d be adverse to

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We met on here and just celebrated 4 years together.

No plans to meet a partner but it happened and we’re happily continuing swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and the Mr met through here, we’re having a great time and couldn't be happier.

Mrs

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

It's really comforting and positive reading that fabbers have a happy relationship after meeting on here.

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By *oolkoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We met on here. Weren't looking for a relationship, it just turned out that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do look and try date sites then think noo I like on here so I’m open and perfect if found too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up, hard to meet someone decent.

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By *ilmissANGELicWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

This is my ideal situation x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I think its possible on here but very very rare ....

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

I looking my self even on other dating sites 4 years now I have been single

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By *inkyisfunukMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think any future partner for me would have to be a swinger, it’s too big a part of my life/sexual desire for a relationship to work otherwise.

I live in hope…

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By *otsure1991Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

I’d love to meet someone on here.. then enjoy a happy life swinging together!

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We met on here nearly 7 years ago and we've been together ever since!

M and M

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By *llez WorldWoman
over a year ago

SE London

Anything is possible I guess. I use fab for hookups and vanilla dating sites for potential partners but I definitely prefer fab as it's generally so open and easier to establish a vibe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would love to have found a woman keen on this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same thing with everything on fab % if theres a 100 women looking for relationships then theres 10,000 men per woman looking so from a mans point of view almost imposible but from a womans point of view very possible ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"same thing with everything on fab % if theres a 100 women looking for relationships then theres 10,000 men per woman looking so from a mans point of view almost imposible but from a womans point of view very possible .... "

and you are very lucky to have someone who shares your interest (or was it the other way?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"same thing with everything on fab % if theres a 100 women looking for relationships then theres 10,000 men per woman looking so from a mans point of view almost imposible but from a womans point of view very possible ....

and you are very lucky to have someone who shares your interest (or was it the other way?)"

nope we met the vanilla way and to be honest i would not have wanted it any other way we knew we wanted each other before we talked about swinging ... if anything was to happen and we split (will never happen) the last place i would look for a new partner in fab or dating sites 28 years on this scene ive seen so many try and fail some do make it but many dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"same thing with everything on fab % if theres a 100 women looking for relationships then theres 10,000 men per woman looking so from a mans point of view almost imposible but from a womans point of view very possible ....

and you are very lucky to have someone who shares your interest (or was it the other way?)"

as for interest we were both very sexual and had very open and honest chats

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Would love to find ladie for relationship long term

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

Wouldn't it be lovely.

Sing along now!!!

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"same thing with everything on fab % if theres a 100 women looking for relationships then theres 10,000 men per woman looking so from a mans point of view almost imposible but from a womans point of view very possible .... "

Totally agree - its hard enough on vanilla dating sites to meet someone I am mentally compatible with then to add on the swinging element makes it very, very, very hard.

I would be very open to having a long term swinging relationship with someone from fab - but am sure the single women on fab are swamped with men…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think im too old for the dating game so gave up looking but if I met someone on here and a relationship unsued then win-win as you both know the lifestyle.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Your never too old little

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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley

We met on fab. Weren't looking for relationship but we got one and love it.

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I'm hoping to find a relationship through Fab... I make it quite clear what I'm looking for and still get asked. "

Absolutely stunning, yet I'm out of your age range

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Definitely would love to find someone for long term relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of someone looking for a relationship on fab

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia


"Anything is possible I guess. I use fab for hookups and vanilla dating sites for potential partners but I definitely prefer fab as it's generally so open and easier to establish a vibe "

Exactly the same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A relationship with a Fabber would be great x

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By *eneralPMan
over a year ago

other


"Hi there, are there women on the site actually looking for a relationship where they could then carry on the lifestyle of Hotwife or cuckold ??"

If I were you I would not use fab to find a relationship, or at least that wouldn’t be my goal. Fab is full of men and the majority of those men are arseholes but also make themselves very attractive options for a relationship, then once they fuck they remove their lovely masks to reveal they are fuckboys so getting a woman to trust and buy into you is a whole different challenge, not to mention the disparity between real life hot and fab “hot”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats to be will be so.

Lets things flow and fall in place.

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By *eepshaftRyanMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Door is always open for a fab meet to progress into a relationship. Made some great friends on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there, are there women on the site actually looking for a relationship where they could then carry on the lifestyle of Hotwife or cuckold ??"

This is pretty much what I’m looking for on here. Without any luck I must add.

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By *ontentspiceWoman
over a year ago

salford

I would love to meet someone from Fab. It would be my ideal relationship. My want list is

1, Bi

2, High sex drive

3, A Fabswinger!!

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By *G85Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate

I think it doesn't matter where you meet if you click you click. My friends met on here thou and have a successful relationship so its totally doable x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it doesn't matter where you meet if you click you click. My friends met on here thou and have a successful relationship so its totally doable x"

Very well said

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

From my perspective I find it both inefficient and mentally draining trying to explain my ethically non-monogamous stance to vanilla women on dating sites.

So I now only use OkCupid. It's the only one I know of that has a non monogamous option in the profile and search filters.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"I think it doesn't matter where you meet if you click you click. My friends met on here thou and have a successful relationship so its totally doable x"

Not necessarily. You meet someone elsewhere, get to really like them then discuss swinging to find that they think it's disgusting and perverted! Then what?

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By *G85Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate


"I think it doesn't matter where you meet if you click you click. My friends met on here thou and have a successful relationship so its totally doable x

Not necessarily. You meet someone elsewhere, get to really like them then discuss swinging to find that they think it's disgusting and perverted! Then what?"

If they think your disgusting and perverted for being a swinger then the click isnt as good as you thought.

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By *egardMan
over a year ago

Sittingbourne


"I think im too old for the dating game so gave up looking but if I met someone on here and a relationship unsued then win-win as you both know the lifestyle."

Bummer I am both too old and too far....

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"I think it doesn't matter where you meet if you click you click. My friends met on here thou and have a successful relationship so its totally doable x

Not necessarily. You meet someone elsewhere, get to really like them then discuss swinging to find that they think it's disgusting and perverted! Then what?

If they think your disgusting and perverted for being a swinger then the click isnt as good as you thought. "

Ultimately they're saying I am yes. But I don't just come out with it saying I am so they don't know. Swinging is referenced subtlety to see their reaction.

Hence why I think if I'm lucky enough to find someone on here it'd be much better as they are already on my page.

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It would be great moving forward!

I definitely would be open to marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it doesn't matter where you meet if you click you click. My friends met on here thou and have a successful relationship so its totally doable x

Not necessarily. You meet someone elsewhere, get to really like them then discuss swinging to find that they think it's disgusting and perverted! Then what?"

While I don't agree being in a swinging relationship is disgusting surely you can understand that it's not for everyone and some people wouldn't want that option for their relationship

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

Wild consider it, with the right person, no doubt

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast

Think swinging is something you need to slowly grow into as a couple in a relationship. Maybe I’m wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m open to a relationship with the right girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a mental and intellectual connection makes the whole physical connection so much more easier and intense. If the parties involved can communicate then the issue of “feels” should be an easy one to navigate regardless of the final outcome. That’s all IMO

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Hi there, are there women on the site actually looking for a relationship where they could then carry on the lifestyle of Hotwife or cuckold ??"
there seems to be plenty that are. I've seen many couple up happily across the years

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

If I ever decide to have another relationship, it will be with someone I can happily ever after swing with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm hoping to find a relationship through Fab... I make it quite clear what I'm looking for and still get asked. "
hello)

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I’ve done it. I’m ENM, and OKC, whilst it has good options for nonmono folk, is attracting The Wrong Kind Of People. I’m finding it a lot easier to meet people at clubs and develop from there, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only but...age and distance makes it a non starter, so I've stopped looking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve done it. I’m ENM, and OKC, whilst it has good options for nonmono folk, is attracting The Wrong Kind Of People. I’m finding it a lot easier to meet people at clubs and develop from there, though."

In theory, OKC is the app designed for these purposes. Unfortunately, it's full of scammers. Forget the people, the app itself is a scam nowadays. If I created a new account, I will get some 30 likes in a day which is too good to be true. Of course, I have to pay to see who they are. Once I pay, I find out that all the likes were from women living in China and Thailand. The weird thing is all the likes dry up the moment I pay money. No one looks at my profile. Once my subscription expires, I get another 30 likes.

Sad that an app with such great potential has turned into this. As you said, events and socials are much better.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I’ve done it. I’m ENM, and OKC, whilst it has good options for nonmono folk, is attracting The Wrong Kind Of People. I’m finding it a lot easier to meet people at clubs and develop from there, though.

In theory, OKC is the app designed for these purposes. Unfortunately, it's full of scammers. Forget the people, the app itself is a scam nowadays. If I created a new account, I will get some 30 likes in a day which is too good to be true. Of course, I have to pay to see who they are. Once I pay, I find out that all the likes were from women living in China and Thailand. The weird thing is all the likes dry up the moment I pay money. No one looks at my profile. Once my subscription expires, I get another 30 likes.

Sad that an app with such great potential has turned into this. As you said, events and socials are much better."

Damn..that’s irritating! I joined tinder - and again lots of likes from women in Thailand!

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"I think it doesn't matter where you meet if you click you click. My friends met on here thou and have a successful relationship so its totally doable x

Not necessarily. You meet someone elsewhere, get to really like them then discuss swinging to find that they think it's disgusting and perverted! Then what?

While I don't agree being in a swinging relationship is disgusting surely you can understand that it's not for everyone and some people wouldn't want that option for their relationship "

You didn't see my other reply. It all goes back to my original comment which is why I'm looking for a relationship from this site.

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By *ilmissANGELicWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

So… after posting in here 6 weeks ago… I met a guy at my local club and we have been seeing one another quite a lot, dating and going to clubs together and it’s working well x

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Know a few who have ended up in relationships & even 2 couples who got married & are still happily together.

Never know what's around the corner

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By *eepshaftRyanMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Never ruled it out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely!

Can’t get better than a relationship with a fellow swinger although for me a swinger and a kinkster and we have now a match made in heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my partner through Fab….have known him a year and we now have a couples account and swing together….

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By *r and Mrs Fab VicarMan
over a year ago

Stanstead and Norfolk

I met T.F.M.V (The future Mrs Vicar) on here and we get married in 10 weeks.

Neither of us were ever expecting to meet someone on Fab. It also meant that neither of us had to explain to a new partner about our kinks, wants and desires which has actually made us closer and more trusting.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’d be open to a relationship at this point. But non cohabiting which I think is a deal breaker for many. I like my space I like suiting myself at home but it could be lovely to have someone to go out for meals, theatre, shows, walks etc as well as sexy fun to talk to etc but I wouldn’t want to live with someone again I don’t think - but never say never right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think im too old for the dating game so gave up looking but if I met someone on here and a relationship unsued then win-win as you both know the lifestyle."

looking fabulous, shame about your age limits, would love to chat

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

That's awesome. Really happy for both of you.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

There's nothing wrong with that at all it's similar to what I'm doing.

I'm a solo-poly and currently have one partner but I'm also free to develop other relationships too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So… after posting in here 6 weeks ago… I met a guy at my local club and we have been seeing one another quite a lot, dating and going to clubs together and it’s working well x "

Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there, are there women on the site actually looking for a relationship where they could then carry on the lifestyle of Hotwife or cuckold ??

If I were you I would not use fab to find a relationship, or at least that wouldn’t be my goal. Fab is full of men and the majority of those men are arseholes but also make themselves very attractive options for a relationship, then once they fuck they remove their lovely masks to reveal they are fuckboys so getting a woman to trust and buy into you is a whole different challenge, not to mention the disparity between real life hot and fab “hot”"

Fab hot.... when a man has been rejected 1,000 times and all of a sudden I'm looking gooood.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"We met on fet then moved over to here. "

FET??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there are, and more than will admit it. It's normal to want a steady relationship/significant other, even if you embrace the swinging lifestyle as a couple. Cake and eat it scenario.

Both my past fwb really wanted a life partner, although I was always clear from the start that could never be me. Eventually they found them, and good luck to them..

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By *angbangcouple6969Man
over a year ago

Walsall

We met through an arranged gangbang on here. 6 months later got married and never looked back

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By *istress B and BrookeCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We met on here and got married 18 months later. Have a lot to thank swinging for lol

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Couples who meet via Fab will have the best of times ahead

Its just going to continue meaning more swinging / meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m open to the idea. But not actively seeking it - if it comes along then great! Until then, very happy with being by myself

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"We met through an arranged gangbang on here. 6 months later got married and never looked back"

Great to hear success stories like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here almost 8 years ago. It wasn’t our intention it just happened. We now have 2 kids and still enjoy each other as well as the lifestyle.

Anything is possible.

Mrs

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By *inkyfuckery999Couple
over a year ago

lowestoft

We met here just over 2 years ago! Was only supposed to be kinky fuckery!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there done that, won’t do it again lol he ended up being a total ass so not keen to repeat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met an ex through here and we had a fantastic time together, but fab caused some insecurities from both sides, I think it would work with the correct relationship dynamic. It could be fun but I could also see it being a bit overwhelming.

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By *upidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We met in a club but now looking to add a 3rd person to our relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I would be VERY open to. For me, vanilla just doesn't cut it, so a lady with an adventurous side is definitely on my radar.

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By *mMrbrightsideMan
over a year ago

wakefield

I posted a thread about this a while ago

It’s a nice idea and I hope it works for you OP

Iv had no joy but I suppose it’s right time right place

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