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"We've been really clear it would be both of us" Sounds perfect. | |||
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"We've been really clear it would be both of us Sounds perfect. " I agree | |||
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"We've been really clear it would be both of us" I can’t message you, if you want to message me I can reply with pics | |||
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"We've been really clear it would be both of us" your profile excludes single men so they cant message you | |||
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"Your profile says straight so not for us, but thanks for the offer " I’m orally bi, perhaps hubby wants to shove his through first so I can prove it | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report" Gutted I'm so far away | |||
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"Really not sure why you're all confused about the filters. If we want to block single guys and have an age filter that's up to us. We can start chatting to single guys we choose to contact regardless of these filters" The filters are the problem, you’re offering something predominantly single guys will be interested in but they have no way to contact you? Maybe just put up a status and temporarily lift the male block on the occasions you want to have someone use the gh and then put it back on? | |||
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"Put some photos of it in your profile including one of it in use so people can see what they'd be coming too I used to have one and if I advertised a gloryhole meet we'd have 30 replies in as many minutes " Wish I’d known about that .. hope you decide to reopen | |||
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"When I open my glory hole I'm very quickly inundated with guys wanting to visit ,it's by invitation only and I choose who gets to use it " Love your profile, I love edging and being edged J x | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report" Maybe some people are worried it may be the guy giving the BJ? | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report" I'd be up for traveling | |||
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"Really not sure why you're all confused about the filters. If we want to block single guys and have an age filter that's up to us. We can start chatting to single guys we choose to contact regardless of these filters" You can indeed choose your own filters, entirely up to yourselves. But in your original post you asked what could be off putting. Think you probably have your answer. If what you are doing isn't working, try something different. You can't expect every random male you choose to contact to be throwing themselves at the opportunity, contrary to what you may have heard, not every single male on fab will automatically accept any offer going, we aren't all desperate. You are going to find it so much more difficult if you don't let the people interested contact you. Seems a bit counter productive to block the group you are looking for is all. | |||
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"Really not sure why you're all confused about the filters. If we want to block single guys and have an age filter that's up to us. We can start chatting to single guys we choose to contact regardless of these filters You can indeed choose your own filters, entirely up to yourselves. But in your original post you asked what could be off putting. Think you probably have your answer. If what you are doing isn't working, try something different. You can't expect every random male you choose to contact to be throwing themselves at the opportunity, contrary to what you may have heard, not every single male on fab will automatically accept any offer going, we aren't all desperate. You are going to find it so much more difficult if you don't let the people interested contact you. Seems a bit counter productive to block the group you are looking for is all. " Well said | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report" I’d love to come use it but you’ve blocked single guys, be back down week after next and love to use your porch facility Pm me please Pete | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report" It may be they are worried it is the guy and not the woman sucking them off. | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report It may be they are worried it is the guy and not the woman sucking them off." I think the point was that it would be both. | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report" Hot scenarios, it sounds very inviting | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report" Sounds like a fantastic scenario to me It's something I'd certainly be up for I'm surprised you've not had anyone visit yet | |||
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"is driving 2 hours for a blowjob a bit much...lol " I am contemplating it myself lol | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report" I'd definitely come over | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier...only 20 mins away,give me a shout if you still have the glory hole So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report" | |||
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"I'm not surprised you struggle to get people tbh. I can only speak for myself, but I want more than just a blowjob when meeting, especially when travelling. Even if it's only 15/20 miles. Potentially a round trip of 40 miles. What for, a 5 minute blowjob. No thanks. I might as well have a wank, I'd probably enjoy it more. And have you seen the price of petrol nowadays? The biggest one for me is, I'm promised sexy Sarah, but no talking allowed. In reality it's big hairy Dave. That ain't a risk I'm willing to take " I'll add that I like meeting people, interacting with them. Touching, kissing, fucking, getting kinky, talking, making friends. Surely glory holes are best left for clubs? | |||
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"I'm not surprised you struggle to get people tbh. I can only speak for myself, but I want more than just a blowjob when meeting, especially when travelling. Even if it's only 15/20 miles. Potentially a round trip of 40 miles. What for, a 5 minute blowjob. No thanks. I might as well have a wank, I'd probably enjoy it more. And have you seen the price of petrol nowadays? The biggest one for me is, I'm promised sexy Sarah, but no talking allowed. In reality it's big hairy Dave. That ain't a risk I'm willing to take I'll add that I like meeting people, interacting with them. Touching, kissing, fucking, getting kinky, talking, making friends. Surely glory holes are best left for clubs?" Bit confused... Are you suggesting there shouldn't be private ones? | |||
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"I'm not surprised you struggle to get people tbh. I can only speak for myself, but I want more than just a blowjob when meeting, especially when travelling. Even if it's only 15/20 miles. Potentially a round trip of 40 miles. What for, a 5 minute blowjob. No thanks. I might as well have a wank, I'd probably enjoy it more. And have you seen the price of petrol nowadays? The biggest one for me is, I'm promised sexy Sarah, but no talking allowed. In reality it's big hairy Dave. That ain't a risk I'm willing to take I'll add that I like meeting people, interacting with them. Touching, kissing, fucking, getting kinky, talking, making friends. Surely glory holes are best left for clubs? Bit confused... Are you suggesting there shouldn't be private ones? " No, I didn't mean that. Apologies for that comment. I didn't articulate myself very well. I was only speaking on behalf of myself. What I meant was, gloryholes aren't really for me, but if I was ever to try one out curiosity, it would only be in a club environment. Of course other people can do as they like. | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report" Sounds like fun Shame I'm to old love to know how secluded the porch is | |||
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"I think Gloryholes are amazing, it really heightens the sensation Those guys should get a grip " I absolutely love the thought of a gloryhole. So long as its a bird and not a bloke on the other side | |||
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"Who is doing the glory hole your side?" With both parties identifying as bi-curious, my guess would be both.. Buy one warm mouth and get another free | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report" You’re too far from me | |||
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"I think Gloryholes are amazing, it really heightens the sensation Those guys should get a grip I absolutely love the thought of a gloryhole. So long as its a bird and not a bloke on the other side" I second this | |||
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"I'm not surprised you struggle to get people tbh. I can only speak for myself, but I want more than just a blowjob when meeting, especially when travelling. Even if it's only 15/20 miles. Potentially a round trip of 40 miles. What for, a 5 minute blowjob. No thanks. I might as well have a wank, I'd probably enjoy it more. And have you seen the price of petrol nowadays? The biggest one for me is, I'm promised sexy Sarah, but no talking allowed. In reality it's big hairy Dave. That ain't a risk I'm willing to take I'll add that I like meeting people, interacting with them. Touching, kissing, fucking, getting kinky, talking, making friends. Surely glory holes are best left for clubs?" Out of a total of 20 club visits, only once did I see a gloryhole with someone ‘in residence’ At least with an offer from a private gh, you know someone will be there when you get there | |||
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"I'm not surprised you struggle to get people tbh. I can only speak for myself, but I want more than just a blowjob when meeting, especially when travelling. Even if it's only 15/20 miles. Potentially a round trip of 40 miles. What for, a 5 minute blowjob. No thanks. I might as well have a wank, I'd probably enjoy it more. And have you seen the price of petrol nowadays? The biggest one for me is, I'm promised sexy Sarah, but no talking allowed. In reality it's big hairy Dave. That ain't a risk I'm willing to take I'll add that I like meeting people, interacting with them. Touching, kissing, fucking, getting kinky, talking, making friends. Surely glory holes are best left for clubs? Out of a total of 20 club visits, only once did I see a gloryhole with someone ‘in residence’ At least with an offer from a private gh, you know someone will be there when you get there " Fair point. | |||
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"I think Gloryholes are amazing, it really heightens the sensation Those guys should get a grip I absolutely love the thought of a gloryhole. So long as its a bird and not a bloke on the other side" Isn't that the risk u take? Not actually knowing who's on the other side is part of the experience isn't it? | |||
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"I think Gloryholes are amazing, it really heightens the sensation Those guys should get a grip I absolutely love the thought of a gloryhole. So long as its a bird and not a bloke on the other side Isn't that the risk u take? Not actually knowing who's on the other side is part of the experience isn't it?" That's the risk I'm definitely not willing to take | |||
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"I think Gloryholes are amazing, it really heightens the sensation Those guys should get a grip I absolutely love the thought of a gloryhole. So long as its a bird and not a bloke on the other side Isn't that the risk u take? Not actually knowing who's on the other side is part of the experience isn't it?" The exciting part of a gh is not knowing who sucked your cock yes, so long as it’s a woman. I have no desire to have my cock sucked by a man. | |||
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"I think Gloryholes are amazing, it really heightens the sensation Those guys should get a grip I absolutely love the thought of a gloryhole. So long as its a bird and not a bloke on the other side Isn't that the risk u take? Not actually knowing who's on the other side is part of the experience isn't it? That's the risk I'm definitely not willing to take " I second this. Absolutely wouldn't go anywhere near a gloryhole if it wasn't a woman receiving my cock. I get the excitement part of the not knowing but it's not knowing who the woman is. Not playing Russian roulette on if it's a bloke noshing you off or a bird | |||
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"I think Gloryholes are amazing, it really heightens the sensation Those guys should get a grip I absolutely love the thought of a gloryhole. So long as its a bird and not a bloke on the other side Isn't that the risk u take? Not actually knowing who's on the other side is part of the experience isn't it? The exciting part of a gh is not knowing who sucked your cock yes, so long as it’s a woman. I have no desire to have my cock sucked by a man. " Nicely put | |||
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"I think Gloryholes are amazing, it really heightens the sensation Those guys should get a grip I absolutely love the thought of a gloryhole. So long as its a bird and not a bloke on the other side Isn't that the risk u take? Not actually knowing who's on the other side is part of the experience isn't it? The exciting part of a gh is not knowing who sucked your cock yes, so long as it’s a woman. I have no desire to have my cock sucked by a man. Nicely put " Thanks mate! We think the same way, just said it differently | |||
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"I'm very ear Tamworth but alas I cannot message you as you've blocked men. No wonder nobody turns up to your GH" Maybe OP is looking for women to attend his gloryhole so he can get sucked off??????? | |||
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"I'm very ear Tamworth but alas I cannot message you as you've blocked men. No wonder nobody turns up to your GH Maybe OP is looking for women to attend his gloryhole so he can get sucked off???????" Like a 'reverse gloryhole'? What a great idea! I can hear hundreds of hammers and saws up and down the country constructing away right now, as surely all the women out there have literally just been willing this idea to be brought to life.....? | |||
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"I'm very ear Tamworth but alas I cannot message you as you've blocked men. No wonder nobody turns up to your GH Maybe OP is looking for women to attend his gloryhole so he can get sucked off??????? Like a 'reverse gloryhole'? What a great idea! I can hear hundreds of hammers and saws up and down the country constructing away right now, as surely all the women out there have literally just been willing this idea to be brought to life.....? " Believe it or not I enquired about this very thing on the forum many moons ago. Wanted to gauge the reaction of women who be interested in attending a guys gloryhole set up but the response was extremely poor. I would have had one set up months ago had there been a positive reaction | |||
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"I'm very ear Tamworth but alas I cannot message you as you've blocked men. No wonder nobody turns up to your GH" hahaha | |||
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"I'm very ear Tamworth but alas I cannot message you as you've blocked men. No wonder nobody turns up to your GH Maybe OP is looking for women to attend his gloryhole so he can get sucked off???????" It's a couples profile MF so I'm pretty sure they are looking for men to use their GH | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report" Are you still looking for guys to use your gloryhole? I tried messaging but you have blocked single males | |||
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"Put this in the wrong forum earlier... So we've made a really nice glory hole that slots in the door between our porch and lounge, the porch is closed-in so it's completely safe and secluded... But can we find any guys to come visit? Nope Just want someone to pop into the porch, have as much fun as they can stand, and turn and leave when they're done. We've tried contacting just a few local, verified guys who seem interested but after a few messages the chat just dries up. What about this scenario could be off-putting? Report report Are you still looking for guys to use your gloryhole? I tried messaging but you have blocked single males " Yep as pointed out by me weeks ago. Absolute waste of time. | |||
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"I'm very ear Tamworth but alas I cannot message you as you've blocked men. No wonder nobody turns up to your GH Maybe OP is looking for women to attend his gloryhole so he can get sucked off??????? It's a couples profile MF so I'm pretty sure they are looking for men to use their GH" If I was setting up a gloryhole, something that I have mentioned in the past but had no interest from fellow fabbers. I'd only be seeking women. Not remotely interested in men coming to my door | |||
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"It's nice to know that home made gloryholes are still being created, as opposed to those soulless mass-produced ones made in factories." | |||
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"I was going to set one up a while back now and had loads of interest .. unfortunately it fell through as I didn’t want to do it from my home ..so if anyone near Telford would like to help me out drop me a message " If it fell through, was it substandard materials, or shoddy workmanship that was to blame..? | |||
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"You’ve blocked single guys?" I think the thread is just a wind up | |||
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