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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm interested to know peoples views regarding swinging as an occasional treat, rather than something much more regular.
Over the years i have met various couples and the thrill has been two fold for me.
Firstly there's the "chase", the work of finding a couple or female, which although it can be a complete pain (more so lately), is rewarded with the excitement of finding compatible people. Sharing likes, dislikes, and as you chat, the realisation dawning that you may have struck gold in being compatible and that turning to excitement as you arrange to meet.
Secondly, the heightened sense of fun and naughtiness in meeting a stranger, discovering them, the excitement on the way to meet, seeing them for the first time, thinking "it's a big yes from me!" realising that they feel the same. The chatting, flirting, realising that fun is imminent and as things become physical, completely savouring the experience.
However, do people go too far into things, losing that forbidden fruit, or guilty pleasure "edge"? I get that there are plenty of people who like to fuck countless partners but for most, especially married couples, if you do it too much, in particular with the same regular person, does it become stale?
I wonder if meeting the same person or couple for regular fun, can become too regular and eventually less fun making you inclined to move on, stop swinging or worse still, if things are going too well leave your husband/wife and fall in love with the new person?
It certainly seems like wanting swinging fun but not with lots of people and not too often with the same person or couple narrows down the field a fair bit from my side. It's hard to say what too often is but to me, once a month or maybe once a quarter would make things more fun than three times a week though. |
