FabSwingers.com forum: Hotwife’s and guys Is no kissing a deal breaker?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s really everyone’s preference but for us it is and this is our opinion bit of you are going to as intimate as placing your genitals inside some one the least you can do is give them a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s really everyone’s preference but for us it is and this is our opinion bit of you are going to as intimate as placing your genitals inside some one the least you can do is give them a kiss "

agreed... kissing is the best bit!

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yep, kissing is generally needed

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

Definitely kissing for us, it's soooo sexy to watch and take part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be for me. I couldn’t have sex and not kiss…

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

I regard kissing as an essential part of sex, but I can understand those who want to keep something exclusive with their partner. So although I would prefer it, I don't view it as a deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need kissing it wouldn't work for us without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! I turned down a meet off here yesterday because they won't kiss

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

When we first started out we had a no kissing rule. However as our journey has evolved this has been phased out so to say

in fact my husband says one of his best experiences in a club was watching me kiss a guy on the dance floor while looking at him as he watched from the bar

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Its an odd concept, sex without kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its an odd concept, sex without kissing."

I think so too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mot yried a meet where it wasn't an option but, don't think it would be anywhere near as enjoyable. If you fancy someone, there's gotta be a kiss, surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a massive turn on for me

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Deal breaker if they don't kiss

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Feels a bit too 'Pretty Woman' for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are attractive I’ll snog them …… if not I’d rather lick a lemon lol x

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Kissing is a massive turn on for me so the no kissing rule is a deal breaker for me I'm afraid as it just spoils the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love kissing on a meet

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

"Deal breaker if they don't kiss "

I'd definitely kiss you. 4th March pic - lovely lips xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a deal breaker at all. Just have to respect each other’s boundaries - whilst I love kissing I don’t want to make the other person feel uncomfortable. You can still have fun without

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Certainly a deal breaker here, oral sex but no kissing, don't get it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not a deal breaker for us. In fact if someone insists on kissing we won't meet them, it means they don't respect our boundaries

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Absolutely love kissing on a meet

Kissing is great & adds to the passion too.

Great pics, very sexy & lovely legs with gorgeous thighs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a deal breaker I have to kiss to enjoy the moment to its fullest

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Certainly a deal breaker here, oral sex but no kissing, don't get it."

Great set of pics too.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Had a few non kissing meet .. a little weird, and the urge to is mental

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Not a deal breaker for me...

....I've met women and couples who have been perfectly happy to kiss, and others who have either avoided it at the time, or said beforehand that it's 'not allowed'...

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By *nlyfunsMan
over a year ago

I think it’s part of it, it has been for us anyway. I like her to be passionate and have fun

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By *weetHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We always respect a third party's ground rules but we love it. The sound of a full on snog adds to the moment

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By *otogpcplCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

No kissing (on the face) for us and never been a problem.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Not a problem if there is still good sexual chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually insist on kissing. Adds a level of intensity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really struggle to have fun without kissing

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Sex without kissing lacks passion and excitement.

Otherwise it's just dry and unfeeling.

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By *tagvixen400Couple
over a year ago

medway

Vixen has free rein to do as she wants, when we met up…

So if they start to kiss, I’m all for it, as it’s all part of the fun.

She now knows, she will be encouraged to go with her instincts.

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

If there's no kissing then no sex, it just wouldn't feel right.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"Vixen has free rein to do as she wants, when we met up…

So if they start to kiss, I’m all for it, as it’s all part of the fun.

She now knows, she will be encouraged to go with her instincts."

I'm still looking forward to her going for whatever she likes with me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing,Sex without kissing is cold .

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By *otfitbmthcoupleMan
over a year ago

Blandford

We don't do MF kissing, only FF. Kissing is the most intimate thing for us... Maybe thats a bit strange.xxx

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Much prefer kissing, would feel like something missing if a meet didn't include any.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree this post isn't my preference it's just a question for all . I really wouldn't mind if my wife kissed during sex if she's going to put his dick in her mouth anyway what's the difference?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But then again I fuck my wife sometimes and we don't even kiss

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Guessing we are going against the grain here a little bit we are def a no MF kissing couple. FF kissing absolutely, another cock inside Jeni thumbs up…..however just not into kissing.

Might sound strange but just to personal, even though taking another cock is fine!!

It’s a strange world but takes all sorts!

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By *orsetminx20Woman
over a year ago

Poole

Definitely weird without kissing !

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

I personally love kissing and find it a big turn on.

I did do one fab meet without kissing and I felt like leaving some money on the table at the side.

But that may have been the lady, it wouldn't be a deal breaker for me if I couldn't kiss..

I'm assuming they mean no lips kissing, I would just kiss their other lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to kisses would definitely be strange not too.

To me that means their is no chemistry between each other or everybody, and there as to be chemistry in the first place.

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I've had meets where there's been no kissing, feels like something's missing but happy to respect boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guessing we are going against the grain here a little bit we are def a no MF kissing couple. FF kissing absolutely, another cock inside Jeni thumbs up…..however just not into kissing.

Might sound strange but just to personal, even though taking another cock is fine!!

It’s a strange world but takes all sorts!"

Yeah it's definitely I can see if from that point of view to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any man claiming that no kissing would put them off sex with an attractive woman is talking utter bollox.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

it would be a no from us without kissing it would be like strawberries without cream

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

"It’s really everyone’s preference but for us it is and this is our opinion bit of you are going to as intimate as placing your genitals inside some one the least you can do is give them a kiss

agreed... kissing is the best bit!"

Ditto!

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

Nope not a deal breaker for me. Ive had a couple meets with no kissing and they were very hot. And we both left extremely satisfied. Wasnt clinical or cold or whatever usual tropes are thrown about. I respect people who wish to kiss and those who dont. Its not up to me to belittle other peoples boundaries and wants

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

I wasnt allowed to be present when she actually fucked them but when we met socially guys who had fucked her and she greeted tehm with a realy warm lean in kiss it made my cock really stif with excitement

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Kissing definitely had to happen

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Generally yes. I'm not a sex toy. I want to be immersive with that person and get a feel for them. A kiss is very telling and is hot.

Not 100% always the case, say for instance no kissing was part of a specific kink or role-play then I could be down for that if it catches my imagination.

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By *onnie879Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

All great sex starts with or involves kissing in my humble opinion I can’t align that with the opinion of a couple saying you can enter any orifice of my smoking hot with but don’t kiss her lips !

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By *onnie879Man
over a year ago

Falkirk

Wife not with

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Kissing is what gets the heart racing, the blood flowing and the excitement levels to rise. For us it is the start of pleasure and without kissing it is nothing but perfunctory sex.

Obviously not everybody will agree as we see many profile who stipulate no kissing.

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"All great sex starts with or involves kissing in my humble opinion I can’t align that with the opinion of a couple saying you can enter any orifice of my smoking hot with but don’t kiss her lips !"

Absolutely!! Happily watch your cock going inside her but def not kissing. Totally understand it’s different for everyone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Absolutely!! Happily watch your cock going inside her but def not kissing. Totally understand it’s different for everyone."

The same for us when we were full swap.

We're broad minded enough to be tolerant of everyone's preferences and happily accept that people who need to kiss won't meet us. There's something for everyone

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

"Any man claiming that no kissing would put them off sex with an attractive woman is talking utter bollox."

100% they’re lying…. For me kissing is a deal breaker. You can tell a lot about someone sexually by the way they kiss and I see as a big element of sexual experience. So kissing is a must before, during and after.

As a good friend said to me once, sex without kissing is like food without seasoning.

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

It's a deal breaker here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely need a snog first! (Kiss)

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over a year ago

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

Bakewell

Everyone loves a good kiss surely

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

It's a deal breaker here, no kissing no shaggy waggy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is such an important part of everything wrapped up around sex!

The teasing, the arousal, the build up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Previous relationship was no kissing for us, it was just our thing, how ever i use to enjoy kissing her myself after she had given someone a good bj.

Weird works we live in but a boring one if we were all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather not meet than not kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be for me. I couldn’t have sex and not kiss… "

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

Yes got to kiss. It’s all part of the fun xxxx

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I've met with a couple before who had a no kissing rule between me and her. The meet was still fun, but definitely wasn't as good without the kissing

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I am not worried either way with kissing tbh Nice if it happens. Not a problem if it doesn’t either

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By *en30216Man
over a year ago

york

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What if you’re kissing the dick

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"It’s really everyone’s preference but for us it is and this is our opinion bit of you are going to as intimate as placing your genitals inside some one the least you can do is give them a kiss "

Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feels a bit too 'Pretty Woman' for me"

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Absolutely a deal breaker. I love good snog and my hands wondering around. I am not a dildo attached to male body

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"It’s really everyone’s preference but for us it is and this is our opinion bit of you are going to as intimate as placing your genitals inside some one the least you can do is give them a kiss

Brilliant!"

This is where we would differ I guess. When we have sex together its normally “intimate” not always, if one of us is just horny then the other helps out!! Long term marriage will do that to you. But with other people we don’t really see it as “intimate”. More just fun sex!! Kissing would fall into the intimate folder for us, so isn’t something we are comfortable with. But again each to their own!!! Live and let live

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

Kissing takes it up a level for both of us.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

If I fancy a guy we snog x

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By *oolman34Man
over a year ago

london

Like kissing x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Any man claiming that no kissing would put them off sex with an attractive woman is talking utter bollox."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any man claiming that no kissing would put them off sex with an attractive woman is talking utter bollox."

I’m stating it as FACT for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must.

No kissy no meety.

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