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"I've never seen anything that would indicate that it's taboo on here. Are you sure you aren't just trying to stir up trouble op?" It seems very frowned upon. As I said white men especially hi jacking posts .I'm white but we a couple very much into this scene and it seems people are rude about it | |||
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"Are we on different sites?" Sorry it just come across it to me .. I think fab should have a section for interracial as most forums do | |||
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"Why is this such a delicate topic? Who cares if that's what a women wants ? White guys always making jokes . I find it quiet offensive and I'd be appalled if I was a black male . This should be normal in 2022" It's not taboo in the slightest and there's not been anything in the forums to suggest that it is why so are you trying to make it something that it isn't? | |||
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"Why is this such a delicate topic? Who cares if that's what a women wants ? White guys always making jokes . I find it quiet offensive and I'd be appalled if I was a black male . This should be normal in 2022" What exactly has you appalled ? Cos to everyone else there doesn’t appear to be an issue ?? | |||
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"If it is taboo why do clubs host events like dark desires, black magic, coffee and cream, BMFC etc ?" Yes that's great but I'm surprised people haven't said these clubs are fetishsized | |||
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"Your profile says you are reserching? Just what are you reserching op?" ............................... Triggers for his clickbait website | |||
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"That's me done on the topic don't need to say anymore " ................................. So don't. | |||
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"It seems topics on this get shut down rather easily on other threads and everyone gets in a heated discussion. There's no need for it. Everyone's here for sex regardless of colour. It should be spoke about freely and not white men making silly remarks about BBC licence the TV channel etc. Then people saying you can't like this as it's fetishism etc. It gets out of hand you wouldn't say that if it was just a white male seeking a white female there would be no heated discussions about it that's all . You can see the evidence when you look at anything to do with BBC/interracial/Black guys etc. Just thought I'd say something as nobody else would . That's me done on the topic don't need to say anymore " Because most of the time the topics take a turn and end up with either people making borderline racist comments or making comments the fetishise black people White people actually wanting to have sex with black people isn't taboo on the slightest. It's when white people start saying certain things it becomes a problem. | |||
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"Your profile says you are reserching? Just what are you reserching op? ............................... Triggers for his clickbait website " Honestly! | |||
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"I'm surprised people haven't said these clubs are fetishsized " What size is fetish ? I'm guessing huge | |||
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"It seems topics on this get shut down rather easily on other threads and everyone gets in a heated discussion. There's no need for it. Everyone's here for sex regardless of colour. It should be spoke about freely and not white men making silly remarks about BBC licence the TV channel etc. Then people saying you can't like this as it's fetishism etc. It gets out of hand you wouldn't say that if it was just a white male seeking a white female there would be no heated discussions about it that's all . You can see the evidence when you look at anything to do with BBC/interracial/Black guys etc. Just thought I'd say something as nobody else would . That's me done on the topic don't need to say anymore Because most of the time the topics take a turn and end up with either people making borderline racist comments or making comments the fetishise black people White people actually wanting to have sex with black people isn't taboo on the slightest. It's when white people start saying certain things it becomes a problem." So you get my point abit then ? People do say stuff? | |||
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"It seems topics on this get shut down rather easily on other threads and everyone gets in a heated discussion. There's no need for it. Everyone's here for sex regardless of colour. It should be spoke about freely and not white men making silly remarks about BBC licence the TV channel etc. Then people saying you can't like this as it's fetishism etc. It gets out of hand you wouldn't say that if it was just a white male seeking a white female there would be no heated discussions about it that's all . You can see the evidence when you look at anything to do with BBC/interracial/Black guys etc. Just thought I'd say something as nobody else would . That's me done on the topic don't need to say anymore Because most of the time the topics take a turn and end up with either people making borderline racist comments or making comments the fetishise black people White people actually wanting to have sex with black people isn't taboo on the slightest. It's when white people start saying certain things it becomes a problem. So you get my point abit then ? People do say stuff?" No your point was that white people wanting to have sex with black people is taboo. I literally said twice now it's not. Not sure how you've come to conclusion that I'm agreeing with you | |||
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"Ah so when you say 'taboo' what you mean is: "Why do a large proportion of people on fab seem to dislike the fetishization of someone due to X, Y or Z characteristic, in my case interracial sex" 1. Because noone should be fetishized because of a characteristic. It's weird and creepy (people shouldn't be fetishized on general) 2. Because your 'kink' is based on systemic racism and the perception that such a meeting in itself is 'taboo' and it isn't. " Hit the nail on the head | |||
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"I’m guessing you are one of these woke snowflake types who feel the need to stand up for anything black related. Whether it’s a person or a board. My black friends look at these types and just roll their eyes. Stop trying to find something that isn’t there. Are you just attention seeking?" ................................. Does it make you a 'woke snowflake' the fact you're white, contributing and standing up for your black friends?! | |||
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"I’m guessing you are one of these woke snowflake types who feel the need to stand up for anything black related. Whether it’s a person or a board. My black friends look at these types and just roll their eyes. Stop trying to find something that isn’t there. Are you just attention seeking?" Non of this made sense btw | |||
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"Nope" ........ ..................... OK, so maybe other contributors shouldn't be denounced just for having a view contrary to your own? | |||
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"Ah so when you say 'taboo' what you mean is: "Why do a large proportion of people on fab seem to dislike the fetishization of someone due to X, Y or Z characteristic, in my case interracial sex" 1. Because noone should be fetishized because of a characteristic. It's weird and creepy (people shouldn't be fetishized on general) 2. Because your 'kink' is based on systemic racism and the perception that such a meeting in itself is 'taboo' and it isn't. " Exactly this and much more eloquently put than I could have managed K | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 09/05/22 13:04:47]" Oh now I wanna know what you said! Hope you're well x | |||
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"Nothing I seen suggests anything taboo about it, sounds more like the OP gets off using a wooden spoon to try stirring up imaginary issues." | |||
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"I think what OP is saying is that on most forums on here if they are black male/bbc orientated the forum gets hijacked by all sorts (the offended, trolls, self righteous and haters). I could be wrong " When you say offended/trolls you mean people like me who think that the fetishization of someone because of a characteristic they happen to have is abhorrent? | |||
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"I think what OP is saying is that on most forums on here if they are black male/bbc orientated the forum gets hijacked by all sorts (the offended, trolls, self righteous and haters). I could be wrong When you say offended/trolls you mean people like me who think that the fetishization of someone because of a characteristic they happen to have is abhorrent?" The trolls I refer to are those who joke around with the term bbc bringing up the TV station and stuff. You may fall into the offended bracket | |||
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"I think what OP is saying is that on most forums on here if they are black male/bbc orientated the forum gets hijacked by all sorts (the offended, trolls, self righteous and haters). I could be wrong When you say offended/trolls you mean people like me who think that the fetishization of someone because of a characteristic they happen to have is abhorrent? The trolls I refer to are those who joke around with the term bbc bringing up the TV station and stuff. You may fall into the offended bracket" ................................ Which bracket do you fall into? There's no such thing as an innocent bystander | |||
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"Are we on different sites? Sorry it just come across it to me .. I think fab should have a section for interracial as most forums do" So you say it should be no different... but should be seperated off into it's own section? | |||
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"I've never seen anything that would indicate that it's taboo on here. Are you sure you aren't just trying to stir up trouble op?" Of course he is, I have never witnessed it including the years I was on here before | |||
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"I think what OP is saying is that on most forums on here if they are black male/bbc orientated the forum gets hijacked by all sorts (the offended, trolls, self righteous and haters). I could be wrong When you say offended/trolls you mean people like me who think that the fetishization of someone because of a characteristic they happen to have is abhorrent? The trolls I refer to are those who joke around with the term bbc bringing up the TV station and stuff. You may fall into the offended bracket ................................ Which bracket do you fall into? There's no such thing as an innocent bystander " That’s exactly what I am.. innocent | |||
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"I think what OP is saying is that on most forums on here if they are black male/bbc orientated the forum gets hijacked by all sorts (the offended, trolls, self righteous and haters). I could be wrong " | |||
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"The issue for me is when white people say “I want a bbc” there is an issue of consent. We black folk are not here as play things for white people" That goes both ways though. We get it almost daily messages from men with BBC on the profile. It isn't just white people asking for it, I would go as far as saying from what we have seen there are more man advertising the fact they have a BBC than people asking for it. | |||
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"The issue for me is when white people say “I want a bbc” there is an issue of consent. We black folk are not here as play things for white people" Same as PAWG same as BBW noone should have a label, so you ought to tell that to the 100s of black guys who have messaged me asking if I want their BBC | |||
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"Such a shit stirring thread." Exactly. Hate division. But I do have a preference to bbc. But it’s down to individuals xx | |||
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"Do you women prefer Black African Men or Black Caribbean Men??" I think that you are overthinking the whole thing, and if it was a preference then everyone will have one I can't see that it'll be a % thing | |||
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"Tbf I just thought that was a normal thing hardly taboo Every woman I've known want BBC. Meh each to their own it's just a Shane that black women aren't too interested in white men " There is a few black women that like white men only on here | |||
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" There is a few black women that like white men only on here" Point them to my profile please? | |||
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"Why is this such a delicate topic? Who cares if that's what a women wants ? White guys always making jokes . I find it quiet offensive and I'd be appalled if I was a black male . This should be normal in 2022" I’ll stick my neck out here, and offer that possibly half the entire club scene is focussed around white women meeting black guys | |||
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"Do you women prefer Black African Men or Black Caribbean Men?? I think that you are overthinking the whole thing, and if it was a preference then everyone will have one I can't see that it'll be a % thing " African and Caribbean are quite different personalities. It’s not over thinking. | |||
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"The issue for me is when white people say “I want a bbc” there is an issue of consent. We black folk are not here as play things for white people That goes both ways though. We get it almost daily messages from men with BBC on the profile. It isn't just white people asking for it, I would go as far as saying from what we have seen there are more man advertising the fact they have a BBC than people asking for it." Completely agree, and when it comes down to it yes some are big but most no bigger than others. So when advertised BBC errr no it black , but apparently it’s a good sales technique on fab. Good luck guys why not. | |||
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"Did you ever stop to think that before"Caribbean or African" we are first and foremost human beings. The only thing you People care about is what we have between or legs. Did you ever engage in what we have between our ears, because as well as a penis I also have a brain " Some guys love to be a walking "dildo", I don't like and never use the term BBC but if the guys being called it or use it in their own profile then it's up to them. I've never met anyone who calls me it or uses the term as a first message but that's just me | |||
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"If we want to talk about fetishizing based on something, I could argue that many BBW / curvy girl nights are frequented by mostly black males and white females. Are we therefore fetishizing black males, white females, large, curvy women, non or all of the above. Can I argue that black men have a fetish for big white women? So do black BBW not attend clubs because they don't need to be singled out to flaunt thier curves, they just do it anyway. We could argue that any of these factors could be racist or fetishistic if we wanted to. Or just agree that people like what they like." ................................. You may be right but at least the BBW acronym refers to the subject as a human being rather than reducing them to a body part. | |||
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" Some guys love to be a walking "dildo", I don't like and never use the term BBC but if the guys being called it or use it in their own profile then it's up to them. I've never met anyone who calls me it or uses the term as a first message but that's just me " ................................ Of course people can refer to themselves however they want, but the issue is where the porn inspired "BBC" is the accepted vernacular to describe black men generally. | |||
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"Playing a race card is the easiest way to get yourself noticed in the forums. Was that your aim really? " ................................ Not sure who your post is directed at or its purpose. | |||
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"Playing a race card is the easiest way to get yourself noticed in the forums. Was that your aim really? ................................ Not sure who your post is directed at or its purpose." Stating a fact. | |||
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"Playing a race card is the easiest way to get yourself noticed in the forums. Was that your aim really? ................................ Not sure who your post is directed at or its purpose. Stating a fact. " ............................... You posed a question, not sure who it was meant for. | |||
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"What an odd, ancient, thread to resurrect!" Yes, I wondered what the hell was going on? | |||
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"Why is this such a delicate topic? Who cares if that's what a women wants ? White guys always making jokes . I find it quite offensive and I'd be appalled if I was a black male . This should be normal in 2022" This doesn't make sense where do you get this idea from ? | |||
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"Why is this such a delicate topic? Who cares if that's what a women wants ? White guys always making jokes . I find it quite offensive and I'd be appalled if I was a black male . This should be normal in 2022 This doesn't make sense where do you get this idea from ?" Especially as it’s 2023? | |||
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"Strange how you never see black girls looking for white guys" Maybe they don't state looking for white cock as much as the girls write looking for BBC only | |||
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"Got to admit I love it when I see a black man with a white woman, the combination is nice" The contrast is hot | |||
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