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Is my profile too honest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't seem to find the sort of woman or couple l want - l do get some good chats and have had a couple of meets and am planning a couple but seem to get turned down a lot, is it better to lie if you are playing away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer honesty but I think most women would have an issue playing behind an ill woman's back.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe start by looking for one regular rather than two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't seem to find the sort of woman or couple l want - l do get some good chats and have had a couple of meets and am planning a couple but seem to get turned down a lot, is it better to lie if you are playing away "

If your wife doesn't know you are fucking around then what difference does it make? Just lie on your profile too.

There may be other things on your profile that put people off wanting to meet you.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Don't seem to find the sort of woman or couple l want - l do get some good chats and have had a couple of meets and am planning a couple but seem to get turned down a lot, is it better to lie if you are playing away "

No but it might not be just that your married putting people off

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Honesty is always the best policy in life.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yes you need to be honest but I wouldn’t meet anyone who is married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you need to be honest but I wouldn’t meet anyone who is married"

Same

If you change your profile to miss out the fact that you’re cheating, will you tell the truth if potential meets ask or will you like to them too?

If you’ll tell the truth then you might as well leave it in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate your honesty but your situation will be very off putting.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No it's not better to lie

If someone doesn't want to meet anyone cheating ,then by lying you're potentially taking that way from them.

Always be upfront ,not all will meet you due to it it at least they get to make their own choice about it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know it's better from the point of view of getting more meets, I don't even know if it's better morally, there are too many things to take into account.

Overall I'd say without being certain that you're better off leaving your profile as it is. There could be people looking for exactly the arrangement you are. As I read it you'd like an affair with a couple of people, I think there are more people looking for that than will admit it.

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