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Open House on Channel 4

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone ever wondered why it's the men wanting and having threesomes with women? Not a single woman had the pleasure of having two men!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Anyone ever wondered why it's the men wanting and having threesomes with women? Not a single woman had the pleasure of having two men! "

That show is a very small sample size to be extrapolating those assumptions from...

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"That show is a very small sample size to be extrapolating those assumptions from..."

I read the OP that it's odd that one show itself, it's only couples wanting to add another woman, not add another guy. Think even though they are trying to break taboos, they still can't admit that girls like sex just as much as guys.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That show is a very small sample size to be extrapolating those assumptions from...

I read the OP that it's odd that one show itself, it's only couples wanting to add another woman, not add another guy. Think even though they are trying to break taboos, they still can't admit that girls like sex just as much as guys.

(Bry)"

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone ever wondered why it's the men wanting and having threesomes with women? Not a single woman had the pleasure of having two men!

That show is a very small sample size to be extrapolating those assumptions from..."

"extrapolating those assumptions" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup me and my wife said the same. Want go a women with two men instead. Its always the same 3 girls to . Scripted crap

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

Yes me and my husband thought this too. We're willing there to be more mfm or couples swaps on there. It feels like most of them don't even get past the stage of chatting and playing games with the dice either.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

And no-one over 35 or under 9 on the shaggability scale has a sex life, apparently.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it’s always the same girls and that makes it feel like it’s not genuine. Also agree it isn’t true to life as most of us enjoy mfm threesomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone ever wondered why it's the men wanting and having threesomes with women? Not a single woman had the pleasure of having two men! "

One of the couples did want another man to join them as the male of the couple wanted to watch. When they did the games he got jealous and decided he wanted another couple to join them instead.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We have wondered this too

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion it’s just another badly scripted show where everyone is there to become a “celebrity” and be discovered.

All the guys from the couples who visit seem to be emotionally immature and not very experienced sexually.

The “acting” of the sex scenes has to be seen to be believed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was really looking forward to this show but after watching all 6 I thought it was a poor effort tbh

Very staged and poor "casting" but I may watch the next series to see if they improve it but i won't be holding my breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also find it weird they send them on separate socials . Lol that's not what swinging is about

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Anyone ever wondered why it's the men wanting and having threesomes with women? Not a single woman had the pleasure of having two men! "

We noticed that too, it's not a big surprise to us though.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"Anyone ever wondered why it's the men wanting and having threesomes with women? Not a single woman had the pleasure of having two men!"

Put simply, even though shows like this market themselves as "groundbreaking" and "challenging mainstream ideas" about love, sex and relationships, etc... it's still the safest and most pallatable method of exposing ENM / polyamory to the mainstream. It's the heterosexual thruple, the two ladies and one man, because that's the least threatening to the Status Quo, and therefore the most used PR / image for ENM / polyamory dynamics.


"I was really looking forward to this show but after watching all 6 I thought it was a poor effort tbh"

I'm only halfway through the series, but I agree. It seems like most of the meat, the work done with the expert, has been cut from the show to focus on the "fun" bits - the sex parties. The result is a rather shallow show all about the looks and glamour, rather than being more intellectual and educational on the subject matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also find it weird they send them on separate socials . Lol that's not what swinging is about "

It's the only way to iron out jealousy issues, on both occasions when the couples mixed together both experiments went wrong!

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By *orayFWoman
over a year ago

Moray


"I also find it weird they send them on separate socials . Lol that's not what swinging is about "

I know! Not the obvious way to go for a first experience but most likely to raise insecurities and conflicts.

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By *orthWestUKCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Preston

We said the same. Same with Naked Attraction, there have been couples looking for a female, but never a couple looking for a male. That would be a way more fun show to us, seeing her eyes light up as the screen goes up, all the innuendo aimed a what they are looking for…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were thinking about watching this, but judging by how everyone has described it, it sounds rather crap. Thanks all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder why most if not all of the 'contestants' are young, professional people and there has never been an older, ordinary, everyday couple taking part ?

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By *ipster8Man
over a year ago

South Lincs

I’ve not seen many episodes. But the ones I have they always seem to choose the same lady. I think her name was Precious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder why most if not all of the 'contestants' are young, professional people and there has never been an older, ordinary, everyday couple taking part ?"

It wouldn't be good for the ratings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The show is nonsense- it's C4 does a taboo love island. Its not reality, so don't worry about trying to extrapolate data from it - it's trash tv!!!!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I’ve not seen many episodes. But the ones I have they always seem to choose the same lady. I think her name was Precious?

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She's also been on The Cirlce on Channel 4, so trying to get famous, this time by... jumping into bed with people!

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

Like a lot of folk have already written, it has been produced for palatable mainstream audience and therefore for people like us it seems tame. We came to the conclusion that it's all younger people who are generally more open and want to be in the limelight and have their 5 min of fame. Us older and wiser folk are less inclined to discuss our sexual desires on National TV. The one message of advise that prevails with each episode is that couples should communicate their emotions and desires with each other. I think Precious is chosen all the time because it is set up that way. She is the one that is the most flirty and also clever at manipulating the couples in create the desired reaction from the couples.

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

We've found that it's another car crash programme. Designed to make the swinging community look odd and broken.

Each couple have had issues or were hugely inexperienced in life. Then the "expert" sends them off to separate room swaps. Surprisingly most have issues with that scenario, bearing in mind that lots of long term swingers don't like separate room.

Then they're sent away with instructions on how to fix their relationship.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

It's not a programme about swinging or swingers, though...

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

As much as its a fair few steps from reality, I thought some of the emotional challenges the couple encountered while exploring were familiar. And coz it's pretty fluffy and easy to consume I've def signposted a few of my monogamous friends at it if they want to better understand mine and hubby's decision to open our marriage.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It feels more of a gameshow where they have to pick a winner. They seem to be guaranteed whatever they have come looking for if they want it.

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By *rowsing86Man
over a year ago

North west

Are there any other programmes like this.

Me and the wife watched the whole series last week. And the sex was unreal.

Hoping to find something where the woman has 2 guys mmf.

If there is pm me about it thanks in advance

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