FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing

By *rush strokes21 OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

is kissing a must or a no no for you guys for me love a good kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both prefer it, sex just isn't the same without it.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Defo a must. Char loves kissing her meets and I love seeing it.

(Bry)

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"We both prefer it, sex just isn't the same without it."

Indeed,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t imagine not kissing to be honest.

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"Defo a must. Char loves kissing her meets and I love seeing it.

(Bry)"

A must - adds so much more…and we’d love to kiss Char (and Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to include kissing so sensual erotic and intimate

It’s a huge part of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a kiss, must for us but we know some couples that is a no…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I would ever meet someone that didn't kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah passionate kissing just ups the mood and my dick exponentially

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Has to be kissing

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

There always has to be kissing.

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By *alfrollerMan
over a year ago

West London / Scotland

Definitely kissing is a big part of playing. We tend to avoid couples who won't share kissing tbh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss our casual partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must

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By *asepaul71Man
over a year ago

Buxton

I love kissing just doesn't happen

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Each to their own but for me it’s a must

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

Absolutely love kissing, the more passionate the better. Although I understand that some couples, while allowing others to fuck, keep kissing to themselves. Always respect boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s an absolute deal breaker. No kissing no meet.

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

Essential, definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing. It's the ultimate turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to kiss, my wife in particular is a fan of kissing

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

It would be a bit wooden without it. I couldn’t have sex without the kissing (lips emoji)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the point if there's no kissing, it just feels wrong if you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A definite requirement or else there’s no spark. It is so sensual to see your partner kiss somebody else - such a horny first step and even better during sex.

Goes along with of course we love oral and definitely fuck on the first date.

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Kissing is great. From the peck on the cheek knowing things could get steamier, to the full on passionate deep kissing while hands wander. To the teasing of little bites on the lips and hands round heads kissing roughly while you ride him, or her

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Absolutely adore deep, passionate, sensuous kissing.

I've nearly cum through that alone!

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Absolutely is kissing not mandatory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just makes it so clinical.

We tried it once and Mrs Magic lasted about 5mins into the meet before the kissing started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes kissing needed , and lots of it please ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It just makes it so clinical.

We tried it once and Mrs Magic lasted about 5mins into the meet before the kissing started. "

Actually I’ve done it during role play but this happened.

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By *uckyNineMan
over a year ago

prescot

Yes please love to kiss and be kissed anywhere and everywhere x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Absolutely is kissing not mandatory

No it isn't. Nothing about sex is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An absolute must for us.... No kiss no play xx

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

In ten years of playing in clubs I have never, ever had a guy show the slightest hesitation in fucking me because I won't kiss him. The rhetoric here from men certainly doesn't match my experiences. On the other hand I thoroughly enjoy kissing other women. It's probably because I associate kissing men with romanticism, which I don't want while swinging, but although I enjoy sex with women I don't have romantic feelings for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In ten years of playing in clubs I have never, ever had a guy show the slightest hesitation in fucking me because I won't kiss him. The rhetoric here from men certainly doesn't match my experiences. On the other hand I thoroughly enjoy kissing other women. It's probably because I associate kissing men with romanticism, which I don't want while swinging, but although I enjoy sex with women I don't have romantic feelings for them."

Same. I’ve never, EVER been turned down or had any negative responses for not kissing. It’s strange reading all the “no kissing, no meet” comments as that has definitely never been my experience

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

It just wouldn’t feel passionate if there was no kissing it’s the kissing that gets the juices flowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.. kissing adds to the moment.. well it does for me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing. Massive part of foreplay for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much preferred but not a deal breaker xx

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

"We don't kiss our casual partners. "

Same for us and it certainly hasn't stopped us getting meets

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

"Much preferred but not a deal breaker xx"

Same here absolutely love kissing but if it's a no no, I always respect their boundaries

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"We don't kiss our casual partners.

Same for us and it certainly hasn't stopped us getting meets

Since compatibility is something we aim for it hasn't stopped us either

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

It's a must for me as it adds that special passion

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Definitely a must for me, find kissing a massive turn on so wouldn't meet someone if kissing wasn't an option

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By *onesome swingerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I love it, but I respect a woman's choice if she is not open to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s a must that’s a huge part of the chemistry and such a turn on.

Those who don’t do it must use gaffer tape

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By *ighlander81Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Kissing is essential, it’s too cold if there isn’t any I always find myself turned on after kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It just wouldn’t feel passionate if there was no kissing it’s the kissing that gets the juices flowing "

Agreed

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Kissing is great. From the peck on the cheek knowing things could get steamier, to the full on passionate deep kissing while hands wander. To the teasing of little bites on the lips and hands round heads kissing roughly while you ride him, or her

This

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Same here. Kissing for me requires and emotional connection, so is something I rarely do until I know people well, but I've never had anyone (men or couples) turn down a meet over it. I've had an occasional person try to kiss me during a meet despite having been told no kissing, they were politely reminded to respect all of my boundaries.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes it’s a must that’s a huge part of the chemistry and such a turn on.

Those who don’t do it must use gaffer tape

What for?

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By *igpack82Man
over a year ago

Harrow

I kiss every where. But passionately kissing while in missionary is the best. When you're in that zone and time stops, you're deeply fucking and looking into her eyes and kissing, all hot & wet and sweaty. Those sessions, I love.

I love kissing women with nice full juicy lips.

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By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

Dont understand why you would'nt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing…helps me feel a connection which is important for me personally

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Kissing and eye contact for me is very telling. So not only is it hot, it tells me if things are going to work out going forward.

I don't want to be with anyone who wouldn't kiss me. I know that's some people's thing and thats ok. But for me it's cold, not erotic and would make me feel used like I'm just some kind of sex toy with no human value.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont understand why you would'nt"

Because some people don’t enjoy it.

Because some couples keep kissing for themselves.

Because some people have a preference not to.

Just because.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Kissing is a must

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Dont understand why you would'nt

Because some people don’t enjoy it.

Because some couples keep kissing for themselves.

Because some people have a preference not to.

Just because. "

Exactly, you don't have to explain why you might not want anal, same sex play, pegging,water sports,bukkake or anything else. Why should kissing be different? Many on here mention passion and intimacy. I have enough of that with my partner, and I'm not here to date but have purely sexual fun. For those that don't understand it, you don't need to. It's my choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it, adds to the meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it’s a must for us. It’s just not the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep long sensual kissing… love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s an absolute must for me! If the kissing doesn’t work, then there’s no point carrying on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it

i can't stop kissing my man

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't proceed without it

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By *igpack82Man
over a year ago

Harrow

"Dont understand why you would'nt

Because some people don’t enjoy it.

Because some couples keep kissing for themselves.

Because some people have a preference not to.

Just because.

Yup, to each their own. Sex is psychological, it's primarily in the mind. The body don't care whether that skin cell is a mouth cell, pussy, dick, anus cell. To some, depending on the their life experiences/culture etc. that can mean a married woman talking to another man will cause the husband to totally blow his mind. To others watching their loving wife gangbanged by 20 guys leaving a sloppy mess while their balls have been caged up for a few weeks is just their monthly fix to get them in the mood for the following working week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a massive part of swinging for us.

It makes things so much more intimate and heightens the whole experience of meeting and playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a massive thing for us - it's a must!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute must for us.

Love seeing C kissing another guy or girl.

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By *icenick1966Man
over a year ago

clowne

Absolute must for me

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"It’s an absolute must for me! If the kissing doesn’t work, then there’s no point carrying on "

See I've had some mind blowing sex without any kissing, then after a few meets I've agreed to try kissing and it has completely ruined things.

Each to their own though!

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By *igpack82Man
over a year ago

Harrow

"It’s an absolute must for me! If the kissing doesn’t work, then there’s no point carrying on

See I've had some mind blowing sex without any kissing, then after a few meets I've agreed to try kissing and it has completely ruined things.

Each to their own though!

Could you elaborate on how the kissing ruined things? Bad kisser? Turn off? Introduced deeper emotions?

I'd imagine like all things sexual. Disgust sensitivity probably plays a role. Scientifically speaking I believe the oral part of us is the least hygienic. You're better off sinking your face into someone's crotch or even their ass.

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Not a deal breaker if not as respecting boundaries is par for the course but do enjoy a good snog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good smooch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is big part of playing for us...

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

I find kissing such a turn on..tongues tantalising each other

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

I love a good kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute must for me, it's an important part of the session.

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By *oe2512Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

It’s a must for me.

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

"is kissing a must or a no no for you guys for me love a good kiss "

definetly a must

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

A must for us xx

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Yeah defo must, good deep passionate ones can't beat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always makes everything much more sensual

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By *irst timersCoolCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme

Definitely has to be kissing for us it’s part of the foreplay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing is like having cherry pie with no custard....you lose the oooooze..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no kissing no meet if i fancy you enought to fuck me then i expect kissing too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must you don't get me without deep kissing x

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By *hill1965Man
over a year ago

Camberley

Kissing makes it so much hornier for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t meet anyone who didn’t kiss

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By *itty Kat ABWoman
over a year ago

North Somerset

That's how it all starts isn't it... with a kiss

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By *ongandthickMan
over a year ago

exmouth

I don't think the sex is so good without kissing & caressing the woman you are with. That said it's something you should clear with all involved before hand. The first couple i met a long time ago(not on here)she sucked my cock,i ate her pussy & then we started fucking all the time her partner watching & then she kissed me. He went bonkers,i thought he was going to hit me & he was a big chap. Allways check first but sex is just not the same without kissing or i don't think so anyway.

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

I want to watch T with other women, I think if there was no kissing it would be strange. Kissing can be very sexy. I'm on team kiss S

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By *ongandthickMan
over a year ago

exmouth

Kissing & caressing is foreplay & that's so important for good sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep kissing definitely it helps with connection me thinks

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

It’s a must!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Yep kissing definitely it helps with connection me thinks "

What if the lady doesn't want a connection? Many of us don't.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Kissing is the start, middle and end to a very good memory

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