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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i am wondering i have let my fitness levels drop over the past year due to job hunting and settling in my job.

now i am naturally a slim and athletic guy, but am wondering if I should start to work out and build up some muscle, at least get toned and some muscle not massive. What do people think is well built good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be whoever you want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter, it's more what is comfortable for you and what you want as you cannot please everyone

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I try to use a local gym regularly as am slim and not very muscley. I just want to sort of firm up and get a bit toned. I get distracted by looking at other people working out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like skinny men myself.

face and personality is most important.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i like skinny men myself.

face and personality is most important."

yeah, i don't think my face is great to be honest hence why i try to improve other areas. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your face is just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with adding a little beef to the bone.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

One benefit of working out is having more stamina. Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One benefit of working out is having more stamina. Just saying. "

naughty, this is true i am still fitter than the average though in and have stamina just need the muscle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like skinny men myself.

face and personality is most important.

yeah, i don't think my face is great to be honest hence why i try to improve other areas. x"

Funnily enough I have done the same though I couldn't afford to join a gym plus I have no desire to be likened to my mother who is very overweight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One benefit of working out is having more stamina. Just saying. "

I work out xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your able to download off the web then have a look for a fitness work out called Insanity.

I'm waiting for my knee to heal before I start it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am wondering i have let my fitness levels drop over the past year due to job hunting and settling in my job.

now i am naturally a slim and athletic guy, but am wondering if I should start to work out and build up some muscle, at least get toned and some muscle not massive. What do people think is well built good?"

Working out isn't going to put much muscle on you , it will sculpt what you have. If you do want muscle then 70% is down to diet , 30% a tailored training plan that is progressive but achievable !

Realistically you will need to diet and train about 4/6 times a week for 16 weeks before you notice much change ! Most give up in first month because they don't see results , if you want help inbox me , I am competing in the world powerlifting championships this weekend I will show you some pics next week if you are interested !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am wondering i have let my fitness levels drop over the past year due to job hunting and settling in my job.

now i am naturally a slim and athletic guy, but am wondering if I should start to work out and build up some muscle, at least get toned and some muscle not massive. What do people think is well built good?

Working out isn't going to put much muscle on you , it will sculpt what you have. If you do want muscle then 70% is down to diet , 30% a tailored training plan that is progressive but achievable !

Realistically you will need to diet and train about 4/6 times a week for 16 weeks before you notice much change ! Most give up in first month because they don't see results , if you want help inbox me , I am competing in the world powerlifting championships this weekend I will show you some pics next week if you are interested !"

Could do with some healthy food tips if you could, meal ideas etc.... If you could??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha sex is the best workout...my hips n thighs are aching from last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am wondering i have let my fitness levels drop over the past year due to job hunting and settling in my job.

now i am naturally a slim and athletic guy, but am wondering if I should start to work out and build up some muscle, at least get toned and some muscle not massive. What do people think is well built good?

Working out isn't going to put much muscle on you , it will sculpt what you have. If you do want muscle then 70% is down to diet , 30% a tailored training plan that is progressive but achievable !

Realistically you will need to diet and train about 4/6 times a week for 16 weeks before you notice much change ! Most give up in first month because they don't see results , if you want help inbox me , I am competing in the world powerlifting championships this weekend I will show you some pics next week if you are interested !

Could do with some healthy food tips if you could, meal ideas etc.... If you could?? "
sure when I get back Monday inbox me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i am wondering i have let my fitness levels drop over the past year due to job hunting and settling in my job.

now i am naturally a slim and athletic guy, but am wondering if I should start to work out and build up some muscle, at least get toned and some muscle not massive. What do people think is well built good?

Working out isn't going to put much muscle on you , it will sculpt what you have. If you do want muscle then 70% is down to diet , 30% a tailored training plan that is progressive but achievable !

Realistically you will need to diet and train about 4/6 times a week for 16 weeks before you notice much change ! Most give up in first month because they don't see results , if you want help inbox me , I am competing in the world powerlifting championships this weekend I will show you some pics next week if you are interested !"

tips would be great, I can't inbox you males are blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"haha sex is the best workout...my hips n thighs are aching from last night "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two swingers are correct . Train hard , however it's your diet that will change your shape the most . Running and weight training does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am wondering i have let my fitness levels drop over the past year due to job hunting and settling in my job.

now i am naturally a slim and athletic guy, but am wondering if I should start to work out and build up some muscle, at least get toned and some muscle not massive. What do people think is well built good?"

If your unhappy with your fitness then you know it's time to workout. First thing you need to do is get yourself mentally prepared, there are so many people at my gym that train for a few weeks then you never see them again and that's a shame.

What are you willing to push yourself through? Here's some food for thought that you can google for more info:

Insanity Workout - you workout at home, some gyms offer this system. It's an all over body workout that will get you fit but is designed to give you a beach body.

P90X - Similar to the above but in my personal experience, much tougher. This is also a home workout.

British Military Fitness - all over the UK, based outdoors and is great for general fitness.

Crossfit - My favourite, this will tear you a new one. It's main aim is strength and conditioning at high intensity and minimum rest. I train on this system 3 times per week along with over methods. If you want the best benefits then this is the one.

It'll take me ages to go into food tips but try using www.greatist.com full of info, it's American but has been a great source of info for me. Hope what I've written helps.

Mr. C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One benefit of working out is having more stamina. Just saying. "

I do a lot of rowing on high resistance, good work-out better cardio more stamina!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dan if you wanna try something a bit different, try crossfit. It's a mixture of weight lifting, circuit training, gymnastics and cardio. Is good fun and great for general fitness and toning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insanity is exactly what it says!!! Mental workout, which I just can't manage.

If you're going to a gym, body combat is good for cardio, and body pump is good for muscle - combine the two, and it works really well, without giving you the huge ripped look.

Bodyrock is another good one, but the female instructors on vids may distract you (google that one). Its long reps, short recovery, so excellent with reasonably quick results (2 months). Have fun with it, I always feel so much better in myself after working out, its that buzz, and feelgood factor

PS. nothing wrong with your face

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

I've seen the ads for insanity and I'm considering getting it. Sean T looks like a hard task master!

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"I've seen the ads for insanity and I'm considering getting it. Sean T looks like a hard task master! "

If you know where to look you can get it for free……., but insanity is the right name for it. It’s only for the really dedicated.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"I've seen the ads for insanity and I'm considering getting it. Sean T looks like a hard task master!

If you know where to look you can get it for free……., but insanity is the right name for it. It’s only for the really dedicated."

Thanks but I'd want to tshirt too. I'm not adverse to training hard, I do afew triathlons a year.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France


"i am wondering i have let my fitness levels drop over the past year due to job hunting and settling in my job.

now i am naturally a slim and athletic guy, but am wondering if I should start to work out and build up some muscle, at least get toned and some muscle not massive. What do people think is well built good?"

Doesn't matter what others think..

I train because i want to look and feel better for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dan if you wanna try something a bit different, try crossfit. It's a mixture of weight lifting, circuit training, gymnastics and cardio. Is good fun and great for general fitness and toning. "

very good recommendation

the cardio, aerobic and anaerobic high-reps stuff and stretches are very good. Far better to have your hips go at it like a sewing machine than be a purely strength merchant

Wolf

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