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By *wales_hotwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

What’s the etiquette? Our attitude is, if you ask for face pics, we expect you to send them first. Is this fair enough or is there some other unwritten rule such as whomever makes contact first?

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester


"What’s the etiquette? Our attitude is, if you ask for face pics, we expect you to send them first. Is this fair enough or is there some other unwritten rule such as whomever makes contact first?"

I think that's fair if you want to make contact then you should be the one sending the photo first. I know I always do.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What’s the etiquette? Our attitude is, if you ask for face pics, we expect you to send them first. Is this fair enough or is there some other unwritten rule such as whomever makes contact first?"

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Personally I think both apply, if I'm interested enough to message someone I wouldn't expect them to provide a face pic unless I'd shared mine first.

If someone contacts me asking for a face pic without providing one themselves, they're ignored!

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Absolutely face pic 1st mine by return is my answer. Also many complaints have been made when people don't have them on a profile but if you have ever had a picture stolen and put all over social media you too woukd be careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are no rules. I don't approach fab with any expectations. If someone else's way of doing fab doesn't fit with my way it's no biggie, they just aren't for me.

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By *wales_hotwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Generally it’s not an issue with single males who, being so massively outnumbered here, are happy to jump through hoops. The problem comes with other couples and female accounts who are used to the above and then don’t want to be the first to do it

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester


"Absolutely face pic 1st mine by return is my answer. Also many complaints have been made when people don't have them on a profile but if you have ever had a picture stolen and put all over social media you too woukd be careful "

People can complain as much as they want I don't want a face photo on my public photos. What gets me are couples and single ladies who write on their profile that no public face photo no reply yet they don't have one themselves.

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By *lossyLegsGlassesCouple
over a year ago

stafford

We're free and easy on the face pic requests tbh....if you want to send one do so, if not don't...but of course it will affect the chances we will meet.....how will we recognise you in a bar???

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"We're free and easy on the face pic requests tbh....if you want to send one do so, if not don't...but of course it will affect the chances we will meet.....how will we recognise you in a bar??? "

And Stafford is a small town

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips


"What’s the etiquette? Our attitude is, if you ask for face pics, we expect you to send them first. Is this fair enough or is there some other unwritten rule such as whomever makes contact first?"

Completely agree. Asking for a facepic without first providing one is rude.

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham


"What’s the etiquette? Our attitude is, if you ask for face pics, we expect you to send them first. Is this fair enough or is there some other unwritten rule such as whomever makes contact first?"

We think the person making contact initially should send a face picture as they showed interest first x

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By *lossyLegsGlassesCouple
over a year ago

stafford


"We're free and easy on the face pic requests tbh....if you want to send one do so, if not don't...but of course it will affect the chances we will meet.....how will we recognise you in a bar???

And Stafford is a small town "

Very true...

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford


"We're free and easy on the face pic requests tbh....if you want to send one do so, if not don't...but of course it will affect the chances we will meet.....how will we recognise you in a bar???

And Stafford is a small town

Very true... "

I'd recognise you bum anywhere....

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"We're free and easy on the face pic requests tbh....if you want to send one do so, if not don't...but of course it will affect the chances we will meet.....how will we recognise you in a bar???

And Stafford is a small town

Very true... "

I used to live near Stafford and bumped into a few I new from the scene in fact my longest FWB lives in Penkridge

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By *wales_hotwife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"We think the person making contact initially should send a face picture as they showed interest first x"

That’s interesting. We had a scenario where we simply paid someone a compliment as the first point of contact - no real intention of requesting a meet or anything. They then asked for a face pic. We said you go first and they blocked us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just join face pic Friday and get loads there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely face pic 1st mine by return is my answer. Also many complaints have been made when people don't have them on a profile but if you have ever had a picture stolen and put all over social media you too woukd be careful

People can complain as much as they want I don't want a face photo on my public photos. What gets me are couples and single ladies who write on their profile that no public face photo no reply yet they don't have one themselves. "

Well said .

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't send pics online. Ever. Problem solved

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

We don’t have expectations & although it’s nice to get a face pic, wouldn’t demand one.

We’re always happy to send x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t have expectations & although it’s nice to get a face pic, wouldn’t demand one.

We’re always happy to send x"

Can I have 1 please .?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our general rule is whoever makes first contact should send first. We still chat without face pics but we do prefer them up front.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"We don’t have expectations & although it’s nice to get a face pic, wouldn’t demand one.

We’re always happy to send x

Can I have 1 please .?"

For darts practice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am messaging someone then I usually attach one straight awa in the first message, that way they can make the decision to reply or not. Figured it is the lesser of two evils, rather be ignored for being ugly than chatting to someone and then ignored for being ugly.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"If I am messaging someone then I usually attach one straight awa in the first message, that way they can make the decision to reply or not. Figured it is the lesser of two evils, rather be ignored for being ugly than chatting to someone and then ignored for being ugly. "

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"We think the person making contact initially should send a face picture as they showed interest first x

That’s interesting. We had a scenario where we simply paid someone a compliment as the first point of contact - no real intention of requesting a meet or anything. They then asked for a face pic. We said you go first and they blocked us lol"

Its great when folk apply the filter for us Like that. We don't mind if folk don't like the look of us and block. We know we are respectful, reliable and very laid back. We have our face pics in friends section so ask if they send theirs we'll accept a friend request to see ours. We will have chatted a bit to see if they are respectful and as genuine as we can make out before face pics are thrown out. After all if you are going to send them on a whim you may as well have them public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women and couples are naturally more careful about sharing face pics, I mean how often do you see guys getting slut shamed or having their collection of pics posted online or fake social media profiles made using their pics? But women on the other hand can have a rough time for those reasons.

Personally I only show my face pic if the recipient is photo verified or has solid verifications from real people, and secondly if I'm interested in a meet. Typically other people make the first move, but occasionally I initiate things first.

If a guy shows me his face pics and its clearly a no go for me, I don't share mine back. May seem harsh but I'm trying to look after myself on and offline, limit my exposure to the few nob heads that are intent on being malicious.

xxx

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By *azzle-me-TazzMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

I tend to ignore those messages that just say "pic" or "pics". I find them just downright rude. At least make some effort

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
over a year ago

SA3

Absolutely fair

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

If someone messages me unsolicited and decides to send me a face pic then it is unlikely I would send one in return.

I didn't ask for a face picture.

If I had been messaging with someone and asked for a face pic I would send one to them when I asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree OP.

There are so many profiles that demand a face pic with the first message you send them, but then you look and they don’t have a face pic or indeed any pics on their profile!

Those ones are best avoided in my view!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think we all want to see a face pic. I totally don't mind and I think it's something for fairly early on if things are potentially promising. However the whole face pic first thing I find is a bit vulgar. Do prefer to build some kind of basic rapport and judge come kind of compatability before handing face pics to strangers off the Internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always share my smile if asked, always assume you get one back in return though. Most people do

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We just had face pics from a guy this morning. First message face pic, obviously didn't read profile as he's asking for a f##k meet and refers himself as the sperminater. How do you all think we dealt with that??? Did we send a face pic back or block???

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"We just had face pics from a guy this morning. First message face pic, obviously didn't read profile as he's asking for a f##k meet and refers himself as the sperminater. How do you all think we dealt with that??? Did we send a face pic back or block??? "

Sperminater?... Pah! It's not as good as Pussypounder .

We think whoever made contact first should send pics first if they're serious about meeting, and that does normally happen. However we've had a few profiles make initial contact to us and then ask if we've got face pics. To which we reply "Yes we do".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with OP - its only fair that each see who your chatting to - but be aware some people cheat and lie about pics and they could be years and years old

J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just had face pics from a guy this morning. First message face pic, obviously didn't read profile as he's asking for a f##k meet and refers himself as the sperminater. How do you all think we dealt with that??? Did we send a face pic back or block??? "

When is he moving into your spare room…?

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"We just had face pics from a guy this morning. First message face pic, obviously didn't read profile as he's asking for a f##k meet and refers himself as the sperminater. How do you all think we dealt with that??? Did we send a face pic back or block???

When is he moving into your spare room…?"

Half past NEVERRRRR

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"We just had face pics from a guy this morning. First message face pic, obviously didn't read profile as he's asking for a f##k meet and refers himself as the sperminater. How do you all think we dealt with that??? Did we send a face pic back or block???

Sperminater?... Pah! It's not as good as Pussypounder . "

How could anyone resist

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By *nlyliveoncexMan
over a year ago

naas

Sent x

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"What’s the etiquette? Our attitude is, if you ask for face pics, we expect you to send them first. Is this fair enough or is there some other unwritten rule such as whomever makes contact first?"

Thats how I roll aswell

Person who asks 1st sends 1st

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By *ickingfunMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

Many profile state " Send face pic with message or delete and block", when you look at their profile there's often no pic of any kind on their profile. Some strange requests from some people !

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