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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

not an attack just curious we see it on here all the time newsreaders actress mps shop workers nurse drs and on and on we see the post oh id shag her or if you dont want to cum think of her so guys do you sexulize all women you see and meet ...

also ladies how do you feel at the thought that men are sexing you up 24/7

disclaimer ..not all men ... the question contains nuts dont answer if you have a nut allergy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only answer from my personal perspective. Which is, when I see a pretty woman, I think to myself “oh look, a pretty woman”. Then I go about the rest of my existence. I don’t think in terms of “oh I’d love a go on that”.

I’d have thought that sexualising 24/7 would be exhausting.

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By *reewareMan
over a year ago

London & Kent

I often find my self sexualising women, really only the the hot ones but the question remains, is it okay to look women up and down in mind asking myself if I'd fuck them or not. If it's just in my mind it's okay right? Lol

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Do women look at men and think everything they say is gospel. No.

The same applies. Some women you think your fit, some women you think, I'll take on what you say, some women you have had enough of before they've finished their first breath.

Same applies across the sexes I'd presume.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like he says ... nah

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I know men definitely don't be doing it to me most of the time and that suits me fine. I would think it would be extremely annoying if they were.

And I would like to think most men would not be doing it either and would actually on a day to day basis would be able to think and interact with women without sex on the brain all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know men definitely don't be doing it to me most of the time and that suits me fine. I would think it would be extremely annoying if they were.

And I would like to think most men would not be doing it either and would actually on a day to day basis would be able to think and interact with women without sex on the brain all the time. "

You’re very wrong, at least 95% (if not more) of men you interact with on a daily basis are sexualising you. I can’t speak for all men but I can still interact and work with women aswell.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I can honestly say in 38 years in the workforce I've only ever seen 2 occasions where members of staff were inappropriate or openly sexualised female colleagues.

I have however lost count of the number of times women in office situations have made sexual comments to warehouse staff or have been warned by management for unsolicited groping and touching of male colleagues at staff parties.

There are as many "I'd do Tom Hardy or Henry Cavill" comments by women on here as there are similar by men about women.

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By *la87Man
over a year ago

acton

Not all. Many though. I avoid doing it to people I see regularly unless they're most hideous.

@justblo

I suspect you underestimate the effect of boobs that big!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the ones I wana have sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are I wish they would tell me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all many many men think about isn’t it?

Lots of men can make even the most mundane situations sexual.

I’ve just posted my holiday nails on insta. Within seconds started the influx of “I’d love those around my cock” etc etc.

Zzzzzxxxz

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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago

Herts

Not all women.

Family and Friends are all ‘sexless’ women to me.

But celebrities certainly. But there are some exceptions; weirdly they’re usually BBC blonde presenters (honestly cannot think of one that gets the juices flowing they all have the ‘Gabby Roslin’ effect on me - just a pleasant looking woman with the sexual attraction of a pair of trousers from Next)

Also admittedly will sexualise some random woman but keep that to myself and leave it there in my mind

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By *rnewtothisMan
over a year ago

london

I don’t sexualise women until they show me some interest back. It’s not every woman you’d wanna sexualise cause that imagine I’m your head can do more damage than good lol

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

No. I have plenty of lady friends who I never look at them that way.

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By *ambozaMan
over a year ago

kilburn park

I work in a female dominated profession and find that women sexualise men about as much as men sexualise women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've looked at some men and think oh yes... wouldn't say it out loud unless there was banter flowing and it slipped out in response to something they have said.. must admit though I get grins back and phone numbers lol.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Honestly, a bit more than I should, I think.

But have you SEEN Liz Hurley's Instagram?

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"not an attack just curious we see it on here all the time newsreaders actress mps shop workers nurse drs and on and on we see the post oh id shag her or if you dont want to cum think of her so guys do you sexulize all women you see and meet ...

also ladies how do you feel at the thought that men are sexing you up 24/7

disclaimer ..not all men ... the question contains nuts dont answer if you have a nut allergy"

I can’t speak for all men but personally I think about sex probably every other two min one way or another. So to answer OP’s question - no, we don’t sexualise all women 24/7. It random.

Here is my average day thinking:

7 am: I need pee

7:02 that shop assistant selling milk to me yday was cute

7:05 I need coffee

7:20 hey neighbour (you are quite sexy today)

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Work

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Lunch

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Gym

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Dinner

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Sleep

There are many females that I would not think sexually like my friends, much older females, etc etc.

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By *mateur100Man
over a year ago

nr faversham

also ladies how do you feel at the thought that men are sexing you up 24/7

disclaimer ..not all men ... the question contains nuts dont answer if you have a nut allergy"

I would suggest that the honest answer is... probably

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

There are dozens of work and personal relationship *types* that are not sexualised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also ladies how do you feel at the thought that men are sexing you up 24/7

disclaimer ..not all men ... the question contains nuts dont answer if you have a nut allergy"

Nah a never objectify or sexualise a woman even when she's flashing me her tits to get some attention .

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I do wince when I see some of the threads where they're talking about a woman who does a job and they're all like, yeah I'd nail her to the barn door etc.

But then I think of other threads where you name your celebrity crush etc. Are they not just the same?

And the way Tom Hardy gets talked about, poor lad just wants to be recognised for his acting ability!

So in answer to the question in real life, if I see a pretty woman, I think to myself, she's hot, she might put a spring in my step if we interact in a nice way.

But I don't stand in front of her rubbing my thighs, salivating, saying phwoaaarrrr I'd love a go on her lads etc.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"I do wince when I see some of the threads where they're talking about a woman who does a job and they're all like, yeah I'd nail her to the barn door etc.

But then I think of other threads where you name your celebrity crush etc. Are they not just the same?

And the way Tom Hardy gets talked about, poor lad just wants to be recognised for his acting ability!

So in answer to the question in real life, if I see a pretty woman, I think to myself, she's hot, she might put a spring in my step if we interact in a nice way.

But I don't stand in front of her rubbing my thighs, salivating, saying phwoaaarrrr I'd love a go on her lads etc.

What he said

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

There is more to praise on a pretty lady than her female parts. For me nice eyes, lovely hair and beautiful smile i look at first when i see one out and about.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

You would hear no, but the answer is yes however not 24/7. In addition, there is a point at which men might not instead be interested in other qualities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont agree looking at a woman we find hot is necessarily sexualising them its human nature to be attracted to anything we find pleasing on the eye.

Wither it be an attractive woman, nice car or beautiful house. If you see something you like your going to look a little longer than is necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can only answer from my personal perspective. Which is, when I see a pretty woman, I think to myself “oh look, a pretty woman”. Then I go about the rest of my existence. I don’t think in terms of “oh I’d love a go on that”.

I’d have thought that sexualising 24/7 would be exhausting. "

Exactly what you say...

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

also ladies how do you feel at the thought that men are sexing you up 24/7

disclaimer ..not all men ... the question contains nuts dont answer if you have a nut allergy"

I can only reply on my behalf and not for all men..."do men sexualise all women?" no.. Not even close... Some women, in some circumstances , yes.

It's probably worth noting that a lot of the threads in the fora are not designed to show men in their best light... "fuck, drink, avoid" ... "rate my cock / pussy"...

Now off to bed with an improving book...

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By *rivextrMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

No!

If someone attractive, then maybe one has another glance. That’s natural! Do I sit there fantasising? No, don’t have the time…

If I had the time? I would be doing something different.

A lady who is very attractive and is actively sending signals. Ofcourse I’d flirt and try to convince her I am good ???? is that sexualisation? Maybe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can say, with a certain amount of confidence... women are worse than men!

What a very peculiar post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see an attractive woman of child bearing age I'm sure there's a part of my brain that lights up and says I need to pass my genetic material on to the next generation.

The rest of the time, no.

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By *izzie and VictorCouple
over a year ago

worcestershire

No, I can appreciate someone is attractive but don’t think in any suggestive way unless there has been some connection/chemistry along those lines

-V

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