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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question.

Do people in your "normal" life know that you're a swinger?

Some guys at the place I "work" just found out and now the entire pub knows.

I mean, it was exactly a secret because my family all know too but I kinda wanted to keep it separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of our friends know but thats because we have told them. We like to keep it private. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some of our friends know but thats because we have told them. We like to keep it private. X"

That's fair enough if it was your choice to tell them. I would t have minded but one guy told everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a really shit thing of that man to do.

I would hate to be found out. Our best friends know but that's it, I think. I am beginning to think that they have told some of their family members though which I'm annoyed about.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Most people do, work does

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By *dventurous fellaMan
over a year ago

where

Mine is secret but mainly because I could lose my job! Also some things are meant to be secret. People shouldn’t know everything about you I don’t think!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No people in our normal life don't know. If they did I hope they'd be mature enough to not blab down the pub like teenagers who've just discovered sex.

I genuinely don't understand people who find other people's sex lives something to gossip about, prurient I think is the word for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s really bad - am sorry it happened to you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Question.

Do people in your "normal" life know that you're a swinger?

Some guys at the place I "work" just found out and now the entire pub knows.

I mean, it was exactly a secret because my family all know too but I kinda wanted to keep it separate."

you can still keep it separate if any of them dare to mention it to you shut them down by telling them to grow up and get a sex life of their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not. If anyone does they’ve never mentioned it.

I’d like to think it would come as a complete shock to the people that know us. Neither of us talk about sex openly and I used to be quite jealous in my younger days so most will assume I still am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a really shit thing of that man to do.

I would hate to be found out. Our best friends know but that's it, I think. I am beginning to think that they have told some of their family members though which I'm annoyed about. "

That's not great! It's not theirs to tell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s really bad - am sorry it happened to you. "

It's okay. I guess it was bound to happen at some point! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question.

Do people in your "normal" life know that you're a swinger?

Some guys at the place I "work" just found out and now the entire pub knows.

I mean, it was exactly a secret because my family all know too but I kinda wanted to keep it separate.

you can still keep it separate if any of them dare to mention it to you shut them down by telling them to grow up and get a sex life of their own"

True! One of them keeps messaging me now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes they do "

Does it bother you? I'm guessing the smiley face means you are okay with it

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

All of our friends know but we hide it from the family not sure they need to know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hope not. If anyone does they’ve never mentioned it.

I’d like to think it would come as a complete shock to the people that know us. Neither of us talk about sex openly and I used to be quite jealous in my younger days so most will assume I still am."

That's not so bad then. Hopefully you manage to keep it under wraps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All of our friends know but we hide it from the family not sure they need to know. "

What about work friends? My family all know. My ex husband told them all about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did the guys in work find out about you being a swinger x in anyway it's bad news that they didn't have the decency to keep your secret to themselves x bad thing that they couldn't wait to tell people x i feel sorry for you especially if you're family know too xx

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