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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People keep saying I’m too young, even when their profile is looking for someone my age, I’m mainly looking for older/mature ladies. Do I need to improve my profile? Or just wait a couple years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to his own but at 22 you should be finding yourself in life and going out and meeting people in person not trawling the internet for sex with randoms. No offence meant but go live your life. Your age will go against you on here as you dont have the sexual maturity for this. Not a dig at you its just life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t speak for single women but as the male half of a couple I know what I was like at 22 and I wouldn’t want to meet someone like that as a couple.

There will be people who want younger men though so it’s definitely possible for you to have success on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you guys, any criticism or help is approved

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

As a single woman: you’re the same age as my eldest son… I genuinely couldn’t meet someone that young, and not least because I’d think it was some kind of bet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh gutted, would loved to try some of ya x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youll find there are some that will meet you & some that wont. Just be patient. We have met with someone of your age... I will say he had the best stamia going lol

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Youll find there are some that will meet you & some that wont. Just be patient. We have met with someone of your age... I will say he had the best stamia going lol

Mrs x"
oh nice! Thank you too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youll find there are some that will meet you & some that wont. Just be patient. We have met with someone of your age... I will say he had the best stamia going lol

Mrs x oh nice! Thank you too x"

Depends on who you’re looking for. You’ll find it wanes the older you go for but then suddenly there’s an increase again as a fair few older women specifically like young guys.

Experience is everything, if you have lots of verifications you’ll do well even in your early twenties.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We have kids older

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have kids older "
but im still an adult

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"We have kids older but im still an adult "

Not saying your not just not my thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Youll find there are some that will meet you & some that wont. Just be patient. We have met with someone of your age... I will say he had the best stamia going lol

Mrs x oh nice! Thank you too x

Depends on who you’re looking for. You’ll find it wanes the older you go for but then suddenly there’s an increase again as a fair few older women specifically like young guys.

Experience is everything, if you have lots of verifications you’ll do well even in your early twenties. "
thank you man honestly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have kids older but im still an adult

Not saying your not just not my thing.

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aww I can only wish I guess haha x

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We'd say most people of that age wouldn't have the sexual maturity to handle swinging, we certainly wouldn't have when we were in our early 20's.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Same age as my granddaughter OP. As others have said, get out in the real world and enjoy yourself. Too much reliance on the Internet for dating and sex in my view.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We'd say most people of that age wouldn't have the sexual maturity to handle swinging, we certainly wouldn't have when we were in our early 20's."
I’m more into having a good time that’s all, I know people on here like to do stuff but I’m here to furfil the need for older women that’s all, Ofcourse not straight up just fuck who ever comes my way, we also gotta hve a connection to yano. It’s also to meet friends and new people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same age as my granddaughter OP. As others have said, get out in the real world and enjoy yourself. Too much reliance on the Internet for dating and sex in my view."
tbh your right but I am very into this site and I can’t leave haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not. I meet and love younger men as do many other ladies I know on here..plenty of us in Essex

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You would be for me yes,but you won't be for all.

Many have children your age or older.

When you do a search ,tick the I must meet their requirements too and it should bring up those looking for younger .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You would be for me yes,but you won't be for all.

Many have children your age or older.

When you do a search ,tick the I must meet their requirements too and it should bring up those looking for younger ."
that’s what I have been doing and nothing has really worked

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Youth is bloody wasted on the young! At 22, just enjoy bedding as many hot ladies of your own age as possible! I wish I had! I had strict parents who wouldn’t even allow me to so much as look at a woman until I was well into my 30s. Crying out loud, enjoy yourself while you’re young! You’ll get old and crabby like me soon enough!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"We'd say most people of that age wouldn't have the sexual maturity to handle swinging, we certainly wouldn't have when we were in our early 20's. I’m more into having a good time that’s all, I know people on here like to do stuff but I’m here to furfil the need for older women that’s all, Ofcourse not straight up just fuck who ever comes my way, we also gotta hve a connection to yano. It’s also to meet friends and new people "

To be honest saying you are here to "furfil the need for older women" already shows you aren't ready this yet.

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By *rivextrMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

no age is too young or too old. There will always be people interested in you

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We'd say most people of that age wouldn't have the sexual maturity to handle swinging, we certainly wouldn't have when we were in our early 20's. I’m more into having a good time that’s all, I know people on here like to do stuff but I’m here to furfil the need for older women that’s all, Ofcourse not straight up just fuck who ever comes my way, we also gotta hve a connection to yano. It’s also to meet friends and new people

To be honest saying you are here to "furfil the need for older women" already shows you aren't ready this yet."
tbh I don’t think I am, but I’m willing to try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no age is too young or too old. There will always be people interested in you

Have fun! "
thank you x

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By *asepaul71Man
over a year ago

Buxton

Fecking do what you want, don't hold back, don't be a 50 year wishing/thinking if only I'd tried that. You will make mistakes in life, embrace them, learn and fecking enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fecking do what you want, don't hold back, don't be a 50 year wishing/thinking if only I'd tried that. You will make mistakes in life, embrace them, learn and fecking enjoy"

Exactly

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By *asters_kittenCouple
over a year ago

Luton


"People keep saying I’m too young, even when their profile is looking for someone my age, I’m mainly looking for older/mature ladies. Do I need to improve my profile? Or just wait a couple years "

Maybe try attending some social events in ur area.

Socials are a great way to get urself out there, plus people an verify u as a genuine guy who may be young but knows what he is talking about.

Perseverance hun, there are people for everyone on this site. It peaks and troffs...

Maybe a little about ur experience on ur profile. Xx

Kitten.

Good luck hun, you will find wat u are looking for xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you’re not too young. I first joined fab when I was 24. Been on and off here ever since.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People keep saying I’m too young, even when their profile is looking for someone my age, I’m mainly looking for older/mature ladies. Do I need to improve my profile? Or just wait a couple years

Maybe try attending some social events in ur area.

Socials are a great way to get urself out there, plus people an verify u as a genuine guy who may be young but knows what he is talking about.

Perseverance hun, there are people for everyone on this site. It peaks and troffs...

Maybe a little about ur experience on ur profile. Xx

Kitten.

Good luck hun, you will find wat u are looking for xx

"
thank you so much xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No you’re not too young. I first joined fab when I was 24. Been on and off here ever since. "
it’s the same for you huh, can’t get rid of tbis website lol x

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Wish I'd known about Fab at 22!

Probably wasn't around then actually but best of luck to you young fella and I hope you have a fantastic time

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By *ot Wife BeckyCouple
over a year ago

Near Bergerac

We admit to being surprised at the negative comments.

You're free to do what you want, Becky enjoys playing with young guys and has even had a few teenagers. Don't see a problem with it at all.

As others have said, as long as you also spend time seeking a normal vanilla relationship, then go for it.

Also, we have to agree about your comment on seeking mature women. No lady likes to be referred to as mature, so probably re-phrase it.

Good luck

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

I'm I too young?

Yup, cause your stupid enough to ask that self damning question.

Tell'em your just a young looking grandpa.

In fact, most blokes will tell them anything for a leg over.

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