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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everyone wants to meet until it’s time to meet then the excuses come out.

What’s the worst excuse you have heard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone wants to meet until it’s time to meet then the excuses come out.

What’s the worst excuse you have heard?"

I'm sorry to have to be the bringer of bad news op but when your chatting to someone your both exploring the possibility of meeting up . when the time came to decide if they wanted to meet you . They changed there mind and to try and spare any drama or hurt to your feeling they came up with a teason why not to meet you .all the excuse was, was a polite way of saying thanks but no thanks .

But hay what do I know they could just have been being mean to you getting your hopes up for the fun of it but somehow I doubt that was the case .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone wants to meet until it’s time to meet then the excuses come out.

What’s the worst excuse you have heard?

I'm sorry to have to be the bringer of bad news op but when your chatting to someone your both exploring the possibility of meeting up . when the time came to decide if they wanted to meet you . They changed there mind and to try and spare any drama or hurt to your feeling they came up with a teason why not to meet you .all the excuse was, was a polite way of saying thanks but no thanks .

But hay what do I know they could just have been being mean to you getting your hopes up for the fun of it but somehow I doubt that was the case ."

Your ll experience more once you have been on here for a few months by then I’m sure you would of come across a number of timewasters

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Best we had was a couple cancelling as we were driving to theirs !. We were in touch with them separately on different platforms and they each gave a completely different excuse for cancelling !? . One said their son had appeared unexpectedly, the other that she wasn't feeling well . They then proceeded to mess us around that weekend so added to our huge block list.

Another, a local couple. Everything looked good, verifications, profile, chat. The meet time approached and still no address . 30 minutes before the meet time I had no choice but to put pressure on and then the answer came..... YOU ARE BACKUP JUST INCASE THE OTHER COUPLE DON'T APPEAR. Block list grew again, Cherry had soent ages getting ready for the bastards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best we had was a couple cancelling as we were driving to theirs !. We were in touch with them separately on different platforms and they each gave a completely different excuse for cancelling !? . One said their son had appeared unexpectedly, the other that she wasn't feeling well . They then proceeded to mess us around that weekend so added to our huge block list.

Another, a local couple. Everything looked good, verifications, profile, chat. The meet time approached and still no address . 30 minutes before the meet time I had no choice but to put pressure on and then the answer came..... YOU ARE BACKUP JUST INCASE THE OTHER COUPLE DON'T APPEAR. Block list grew again, Cherry had soent ages getting ready for the bastards."

How annoying you got ready, was excited and on the way. People like that need to come with a warning

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Best we had was a couple cancelling as we were driving to theirs !. We were in touch with them separately on different platforms and they each gave a completely different excuse for cancelling !? . One said their son had appeared unexpectedly, the other that she wasn't feeling well . They then proceeded to mess us around that weekend so added to our huge block list.

Another, a local couple. Everything looked good, verifications, profile, chat. The meet time approached and still no address . 30 minutes before the meet time I had no choice but to put pressure on and then the answer came..... YOU ARE BACKUP JUST INCASE THE OTHER COUPLE DON'T APPEAR. Block list grew again, Cherry had soent ages getting ready for the bastards.

How annoying you got ready, was excited and on the way. People like that need to come with a warning "

We'd of just turned it into date night, and had a good time by ourselves. Their loss, blocked, and forgotton.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I think the main excuse we get is "still stuck at work". We post meets with a time frame say 12 to 2. Not for everyone, but we have vanillia lives, shifts and school runs, to work around.

Heres a thought, if the meet starts at 12, you should be leaving work by 11am. If you don't normally leave at that time don't accept our offer. 11am gives you time to go home, shower and get to us on time.

Mind you I suppose it's better than ghosting and no contact. Then messaging from another account, asking why they are blocked?

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Or when you get there they txt you saying as if I would meet you loser

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the main excuse we get is "still stuck at work". We post meets with a time frame say 12 to 2. Not for everyone, but we have vanillia lives, shifts and school runs, to work around.

Heres a thought, if the meet starts at 12, you should be leaving work by 11am. If you don't normally leave at that time don't accept our offer. 11am gives you time to go home, shower and get to us on time.

Mind you I suppose it's better than ghosting and no contact. Then messaging from another account, asking why they are blocked? "

Time is limited people need to understand that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or when you get there they txt you saying as if I would meet you loser"

That’s terrible.

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By *heshire-cat74Woman
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

I turned up to the meet on time he text to say that he was running 5 minutes late but would be with me, half an hour passed I was still waiting he text again saying that he had driven over a pot hole and it blew his tyre so would get it fixed and be with me.

Needless to say he never turned up. Now I wait 20 minutes at the very most

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I turned up to the meet on time he text to say that he was running 5 minutes late but would be with me, half an hour passed I was still waiting he text again saying that he had driven over a pot hole and it blew his tyre so would get it fixed and be with me.

Needless to say he never turned up. Now I wait 20 minutes at the very most"

20 minutes is more then enough I do the same.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Thanks for the face pic. The meet is off"

That was the worst...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Thanks for the face pic. The meet is off"

That was the worst..."

Whoa!!

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Best we had was a couple cancelling as we were driving to theirs !. We were in touch with them separately on different platforms and they each gave a completely different excuse for cancelling !? . One said their son had appeared unexpectedly, the other that she wasn't feeling well . They then proceeded to mess us around that weekend so added to our huge block list.

Another, a local couple. Everything looked good, verifications, profile, chat. The meet time approached and still no address . 30 minutes before the meet time I had no choice but to put pressure on and then the answer came..... YOU ARE BACKUP JUST INCASE THE OTHER COUPLE DON'T APPEAR. Block list grew again, Cherry had soent ages getting ready for the bastards.

How annoying you got ready, was excited and on the way. People like that need to come with a warning

We'd of just turned it into date night, and had a good time by ourselves. Their loss, blocked, and forgotton. "

We did block and had a backup plan, Infusions in Blackpool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best we had was a couple cancelling as we were driving to theirs !. We were in touch with them separately on different platforms and they each gave a completely different excuse for cancelling !? . One said their son had appeared unexpectedly, the other that she wasn't feeling well . They then proceeded to mess us around that weekend so added to our huge block list.

Another, a local couple. Everything looked good, verifications, profile, chat. The meet time approached and still no address . 30 minutes before the meet time I had no choice but to put pressure on and then the answer came..... YOU ARE BACKUP JUST INCASE THE OTHER COUPLE DON'T APPEAR. Block list grew again, Cherry had soent ages getting ready for the bastards.

How annoying you got ready, was excited and on the way. People like that need to come with a warning

We'd of just turned it into date night, and had a good time by ourselves. Their loss, blocked, and forgotton.

We did block and had a backup plan, Infusions in Blackpool "

Back up plans are defo needed

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm sorry, I've fallen, can't walk, and am sitting in A&E.

Oh wait, I gave that excuse, sent pictures to prove it, and still have the scar

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Everyone wants to meet until it’s time to meet then the excuses come out.

What’s the worst excuse you have heard?"

Excuses are either genuine, or covering an attack of nerves, so while they are still communicating, all is not lost

It's the no-shows and ghosters who are the real pondlife

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By *wimfit68Man
over a year ago

Wareham/london


"Everyone wants to meet until it’s time to meet then the excuses come out.

What’s the worst excuse you have heard?"

I guess everyone has their agenda. And as this site mirrors real life you get the good with the bad. Personally I would always be truthfull if I couldn't make a meet. Proberly would not agree in the first place if there was a chance I could not make it. Simple morality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Thanks for the face pic. The meet is off"

That was the worst..."

Sounds like a See You Next Tuesday.

But put your face pic on your profile. Anyone who knows you could probably figure out who you are and it is more open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Thanks for the face pic. The meet is off"

That was the worst...

Sounds like a See You Next Tuesday.

But put your face pic on your profile. Anyone who knows you could probably figure out who you are and it is more open."

Not everyone can do that

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


""Thanks for the face pic. The meet is off"

That was the worst...

Sounds like a See You Next Tuesday.

But put your face pic on your profile. Anyone who knows you could probably figure out who you are and it is more open.

Not everyone can do that "

Your better in the flesh

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