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By *rush strokes21 OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Been on here as a married couple few years with no problems but where given a single profile ago but it seems to be a problem for the women to accept the guy on a single profile even tho Mrs knows about it .is it a big no no on here from the women's view feed back please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s easier to plan meets and have more regularly meets with single men. Plus I only meet men that accommodation, wouldn’t want a wife or girl coming home early, also boundaries or insecurities from couples playing separately I’m not interested in hearing. Obviously not saying this about you but for me I’ll always go for single men to keep it simple.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I wouldn’t meet married guys

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By *rush strokes21 OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Thank you for your point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here as a married couple few years with no problems but where given a single profile ago but it seems to be a problem for the women to accept the guy on a single profile even tho Mrs knows about it .is it a big no no on here from the women's view feed back please "

I won't meet one half of Swinger couples. I don't like my meets discussed by them unless I've met them both together.

Fine if meeting a married person where their partner doesn't know as they won't be telling them anything.

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By *ingly_minx1Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

No problems for me if both partners are aware of the situation.

Absolutely will not meet cheaters because consent is paramount. Disrespect in a marriage is a huge turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ImIt’s not for me to make big boys decisions for them. Genuinely think most guys who say they are single aren’t anyway. However, most guys who are attached have little intention of actually going ahead anyway x

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

As a married man who plays alone I wouldn't judge a married woman playing solo without her husband's knowledge. My OH doesn't want to have sex anymore (not going into details here, it's on my profile), she knows I still want sex so she turns a blind eye as long as I don't talk about it and she doesn't get to know. If that makes me a cheater in some people's eyes then so be it.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"feed back please "

Your profile says you are in the 1% of good guys and both of your verifications say you are one of the good guys. It seems too much of a coincidence that all three say it and makes me wonder if you wrote the verification from your wife yourself.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin


"As a married man who plays alone I wouldn't judge a married woman playing solo without her husband's knowledge. My OH doesn't want to have sex anymore (not going into details here, it's on my profile), she knows I still want sex so she turns a blind eye as long as I don't talk about it and she doesn't get to know. If that makes me a cheater in some people's eyes then so be it.

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Probably what we would do in the same position. We both have free passes which works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in the same boat part of a couple with my wife but play alone too. I probably get passed by for that amongst other things. My wife is away a lot(once a month on average) so it’s handy to have friends to play with. I could lie about it but I don’t see the point.

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

We wouldn’t meet one half of a swinging cpl

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"As a married man who plays alone I wouldn't judge a married woman playing solo without her husband's knowledge. My OH doesn't want to have sex anymore (not going into details here, it's on my profile), she knows I still want sex so she turns a blind eye as long as I don't talk about it and she doesn't get to know. If that makes me a cheater in some people's eyes then so be it.

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Exactly! My wife’s fine with me meeting ladies here when she’s away. Exactly the same situation here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wouldn’t meet one half of a swinging cpl"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also screams drama & none of us want that so it’s single guys only for me

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By *erry2017ukMan
over a year ago

Mazarron Spain

Got the same situation in my marriage to use her words I don't mind but don't sh1t on our doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people lie so no one really knows anything some slip up some dont i no longer ask but i do say to them via messages if you are and it turns up on our door step then we will be honest from our side ...wont meet men who are half of a swinging couple we used too years ago but they always turned out to be full of drama or had other motives

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

For balance I remember at a swinging meet a really hot lady who’d been shagging around all evening and her other half comes in while she’s at the bar and gives her grief! Everyone was stunned! He was so aggressive and obnoxious I wondered if soneone shoukd have called the police! I thought, blimey, with a bloke like you, no wonder she wants other guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn down attached men. I don't want to be discussed with your partner.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

My other half has his own profile and we cross reference it on our couple one.

Some won't meet him because he's attached ,even though he has my full encouragement.

However he has had meets and I've happily spoken to people to confirm it's all above board.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can't get my head around this. I'm married and my husband is on here too and we have a couple profile and our single profile. He's found it really difficult to meet women on here as a lot of women reject married men. I wouldn't interrogate him about his meets. Personally I've had more drama with single guys than with attached/married men playing alone.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I really can't get my head around this. "

How come?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really can't get my head around this. I'm married and my husband is on here too and we have a couple profile and our single profile. He's found it really difficult to meet women on here as a lot of women reject married men. I wouldn't interrogate him about his meets. Personally I've had more drama with single guys than with attached/married men playing alone. "

You can't see that other women have preferences?

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Been on here as a married couple few years with no problems but where given a single profile ago but it seems to be a problem for the women to accept the guy on a single profile even tho Mrs knows about it .is it a big no no on here from the women's view feed back please "

I Tony have had a little fun via my single profile yet it is difficult coming from the angle of a single guy anyway as far too many men here. Better luck via this couple profile but still not that great (a plague of timewasters here compared to the old days). Good to see you link both profiles as we do ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really can't get my head around this. I'm married and my husband is on here too and we have a couple profile and our single profile. He's found it really difficult to meet women on here as a lot of women reject married men. I wouldn't interrogate him about his meets. Personally I've had more drama with single guys than with attached/married men playing alone.

You can't see that other women have preferences?"

It wasn't meant as a nasty comment. From my experience, single guys have tried to complicate things, hoping for more.

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By *rankLippyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I'm in a set of polyamorous relationships. I'm married. My wife has a lover. I have Looloo. There have been times when there was a third woman in my network who was also married (BDSM sub). Everyone knows about everyone else, including the spouses. Given the amount of cheating there is in the "normal" world I do wonder if polyamousness is not more natural.

Having said that, given the amount of lying that goes on (how often does a "couple" turn out to be a single bloke or a single bloke turn out to be married?) I'm not surprised if people are wary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really can't get my head around this. I'm married and my husband is on here too and we have a couple profile and our single profile. He's found it really difficult to meet women on here as a lot of women reject married men. I wouldn't interrogate him about his meets. Personally I've had more drama with single guys than with attached/married men playing alone.

You can't see that other women have preferences?

It wasn't meant as a nasty comment. From my experience, single guys have tried to complicate things, hoping for more."

I didn't think you were being nasty. I think it's a different dynamic with single women vs married women IMO.

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